Oh, this one is a gem! This is precisely the kind of book that I adore and love: slow, thoughtful, and yet gripping prose where the story unfolds piece by piece like a puzzle. And even though you know from the very beginning what the picture is, you still keep uncovering every single puzzle, because what is essential is the process of putting them all together.
The beginning of the book is a bit misleading because we jump into the story right next morning after a party and it feels like this is going to be another melancholic romance. Well, wrong and thank god for that.
The oldest member of the family is about to celebrate her hundredth birthday and that is why the family gathers together on the small island. Each chapter is told by some of the characters of the story and quickly it becomes obvious that nobody in this family is happy, they would very much like to be, they all have tried in the past, but still, they don´t know how to be happy. Every now and again someone says that feel incomplete and inside them, they feel that something is weighing them down and they have no idea what to do about it. Also, there is this theory, mentioned a few times in the book, about genetic trauma. Basically, it´s down to the fact that a person who suffered a traumatic experience does carry its burden to future generations. Personally, I totally agree.
So why is this family so unhappy? We can see four generations deeply wounded, how arent able to form a healthy bond with people around, and there seems to be no answer as to why is that so.
MAYBE A SPOILER BUT IMPORTANT
If you know a bit of history it´s easy to figure out right away the source of trauma. Shirin Saka is a hundred years old now and a Turk. A hundred years ago the Turks committed genocide, in order to establish Islam in a newly independent Turkey they decided to get rid of all Christians, of whom the majority were greek-catholic Pontians. Many people have died, many hid underground, some were forced to convert to Islam, and some people were lucky enough to escape into Greece or Russia. The Turks destroyed almost all religious places of worship and artifacts. They have never apologized for it, you won´t read about it in Turkish school books and they keep their effort to wipe out Christianity off their territory, they even turned the Hagia Sophia into a mosque recently despite international protests.
Did you know that a little over a hundred years ago there was quite a big Christian community around the Middle East from Iraq, Iran, mostly in Syria up to Turkey? Almost none are left now. Almost all have been murdered and the world keeps silent. So here is a big thank you to the author for bringing up such an important topic to light. This is the first book I have ever come across about this matter in western literature. There have been few published non-fiction documentaries in Poland within the last two decades about the Pontian genocide, but that´s all I know about.
So please read and enjoy this incredible book, because it´s not only excellent but also tells you about what the president of today's Turkey, Mr. Erdogan does not want you to know.