I listened to this short Audible Originals audiobook while doing some much needed spring weeding on a sunny Sunday afternoon. I had previously ear-read one of her other books, and like her friendly Australian delivery and simple pragmatic advice, but as with that one, didn’t feel this brought anything new - in fact if I had read that review beforehand, I might not have bothered - this is very much more of the same.
Divided into eight 20-30 minute chapters, this describes the mindset changes needed to overhaul your life. I did like the concept that you don’t have to wait for New Year to begin anew - you can start anytime - obvious really but we’re so conditioned to think in terms of all or nothing résolutions that it’s not surprising most people fail. Making a distinction between dreams and fantasies, in terms of what you want from life, is another simple but under-acknowledged suggestion.
Like most personal development books, this suggests working out your priorities then tackling the common obstacles to meaningful change - the internet & social media are one of the biggest. Be kind to yourself, but accept that failure is part of life, so get it over with quicker. Be firm but honest with people making demands on your time, but prioritise time with the people that matter.
I had a light-bulb moment when I realised that I don’t need to change my life - I needed books like this about ten years ago, then perhaps it wouldn’t have taken so long to get to my big career change seven years ago. It doesn’t hurt to have reminders though for when times aren’t as good as they are currently.
This one didn’t have so many personal anecdotes, which was a plus as I’m not a fan of all the smug “I did it so you can too” exhortations common to this genre -she’s a little more self-deprecating in this one. This was free with my subscription so nothing was wasted - and our BBQ area now looks great 😎 but I would still recommend this mostly to those who haven’t read or listened to this sort of thing before.