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He Is Not Ashamed: The Staggering Love of Christ for His People
Why a Holy God Delights to Claim Broken People as His Family Christians belong to God’s own family. This promise is difficult for some people to believe, and even for some believers to remember in their day-to-day struggles with shame or regret. But it’s repeated throughout the Bible, reflected in Christ’s genealogy, and true of the church today; God’s family is filled with broken people whose stories are a testament to his staggering love. In He Is Not Ashamed , Erik Raymond takes a close look at the “family portrait” of God―filled with imperfect people throughout Scripture―and shows that God is not repelled by anyone’s shameful past, but delights to redeem and receive those who believe in him. Studying Hebrews 2:11 and other passages in both the Old and New Testaments, Raymond shows that Jesus’s heart is bent toward those who have an embarrassing history, feel far from God, or struggle with sin. By studying God’s abounding love for undeserving people, Christians learn to accept his grace and confidently embrace their place in God’s family portrait.
176 pages, Paperback
Published June 14, 2022
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Erik Raymond
9 books23 followersErik Raymond is the senior pastor at Redeemer Fellowship Church in Metro Boston. He is a frequent contributor to many websites and periodicals, and blogs regularly at Ordinary Pastor, hosted by the Gospel Coalition.
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July 11, 2022
Isaiah 55:9 says, "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." When we think of this verse, we usually see it as a way to explain why some things in the Bible are true even though we cannot understand them. In a way, this fits in perfectly with Erik Raymond's He is Not Ashamed (HINA). HINA takes a look at God's heart for his people and ultimately shows that God's love for us transcends our unworthiness and inability to earn it.
HINA goes through way too many stories of Biblical figures to outline well, but it covers the following themes:
He is not ashamed of those:
- with embarrassing stories
- who opposed him
- who are overlooked
- who were far from God
- who have nothing
- who are weak
- who still sin
and it finishes looking at who God is ashamed of (those who are ashamed of Jesus). Throughout HINA, Raymond continually reemphasizes the truth that God doesn't see us as we see ourselves. One of my favorite quotes to that end is on page 89:
"When you scan the family photo of Jesus, you see a number of people with different stories. But do you know one thing that unites everyone? None had anything to offer God. He didn't need anything from any of them. God doesn't approach salvation like a business recruiter, looking for a particular person with a particular skill set who would be an asset to the company. On the contrary, God saves people despite the fact that they have nothing to give him."
Another favorite aspect of this book is that Raymond often quotes some of my favorite Puritans (Thomas Watson, Thomas Boston, John Flavel, and Richard Sibbes particularly). This makes HINA a great read for those who feel as if they have a weary soul and feel bogged down or discouraged by their inability to meet their standards or that of others. Raymond reminds us that "For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need" (Hebrews 4:15-16).
There is so much to appreciate about this book and I truly think most people would benefit from it. If you're curious about Christianity, this could be a great place for you to start learning. If you need some encouragement, I would also recommend this book for you. It's written in a very accessible way with a pastoral heart.
HINA goes through way too many stories of Biblical figures to outline well, but it covers the following themes:
He is not ashamed of those:
- with embarrassing stories
- who opposed him
- who are overlooked
- who were far from God
- who have nothing
- who are weak
- who still sin
and it finishes looking at who God is ashamed of (those who are ashamed of Jesus). Throughout HINA, Raymond continually reemphasizes the truth that God doesn't see us as we see ourselves. One of my favorite quotes to that end is on page 89:
"When you scan the family photo of Jesus, you see a number of people with different stories. But do you know one thing that unites everyone? None had anything to offer God. He didn't need anything from any of them. God doesn't approach salvation like a business recruiter, looking for a particular person with a particular skill set who would be an asset to the company. On the contrary, God saves people despite the fact that they have nothing to give him."
Another favorite aspect of this book is that Raymond often quotes some of my favorite Puritans (Thomas Watson, Thomas Boston, John Flavel, and Richard Sibbes particularly). This makes HINA a great read for those who feel as if they have a weary soul and feel bogged down or discouraged by their inability to meet their standards or that of others. Raymond reminds us that "For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need" (Hebrews 4:15-16).
There is so much to appreciate about this book and I truly think most people would benefit from it. If you're curious about Christianity, this could be a great place for you to start learning. If you need some encouragement, I would also recommend this book for you. It's written in a very accessible way with a pastoral heart.
May 26, 2022
Have you ever felt ashamed?
If you have, how would you describe it? Perhaps it felt like humiliation after an embarrassing situation or guilt when something went wrong. Yet shame is more than a feeling, it's connected to what we truly believe about who we are and the value we have.
Shame will tell us the mistakes we've made are too great, the people we've hurt are too many, or the sin we struggle with too great a barrier, leading us to believe we are unworthy of love, of belonging. Yet, by the grace of God, there is truth to believe and it's found in Christ.
Just as Christ scorned the shame of the cross in victorious resurrection, the gospel reminds us there is no shame found before him.
In, He Is Not Ashamed: The Staggering Love of Christ For His People by Eric Raymond he takes us through the Jesus' family portrait to remind us that Jesus is not ashamed of our past, our weakness, our struggles with sin nor our lack of social status. He redeemed his creation who opposed him, were far from him and who had nothing to offer.
God's great love and purpose brought Christ to tread the dust of earth in order to bring salvation and redemption for those who will repent and believe. Understanding the gracious love of Christ for us gives us confidence in who we are - not according to a measure of society, our past or our struggles, but according to his love and mercy.
If you've struggled with your identity in Christ, insecure in your identity, this is an encouraging read to draw you into true love because of what he has done for us.
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# of pages:176
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My Rating: 4 stars
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If you have, how would you describe it? Perhaps it felt like humiliation after an embarrassing situation or guilt when something went wrong. Yet shame is more than a feeling, it's connected to what we truly believe about who we are and the value we have.
Shame will tell us the mistakes we've made are too great, the people we've hurt are too many, or the sin we struggle with too great a barrier, leading us to believe we are unworthy of love, of belonging. Yet, by the grace of God, there is truth to believe and it's found in Christ.
Just as Christ scorned the shame of the cross in victorious resurrection, the gospel reminds us there is no shame found before him.
In, He Is Not Ashamed: The Staggering Love of Christ For His People by Eric Raymond he takes us through the Jesus' family portrait to remind us that Jesus is not ashamed of our past, our weakness, our struggles with sin nor our lack of social status. He redeemed his creation who opposed him, were far from him and who had nothing to offer.
God's great love and purpose brought Christ to tread the dust of earth in order to bring salvation and redemption for those who will repent and believe. Understanding the gracious love of Christ for us gives us confidence in who we are - not according to a measure of society, our past or our struggles, but according to his love and mercy.
If you've struggled with your identity in Christ, insecure in your identity, this is an encouraging read to draw you into true love because of what he has done for us.
Quick Stats
# of pages:176
Level of Difficulty: Easy
My Rating: 4 stars
{First posted here:https://www.amberthiessen.com/post/th...}
*Big thanks to Crossway for the complimentary copy of the book and the opportunity to post an honest review!
June 8, 2023
A great book for reflecting on God's love and sacrifice. Jesus is not ashamed to have you in His family.
August 2, 2023
“He is Not Ashamed” is a gentle and pastoral encouragement from Erik Raymond. Have you ever struggled with how God looks at you? Do you think he is disappointed? Repulsed? Annoyed? Ashamed?
Raymond takes us to Hebrews 2:11 where we are told exactly what Jesus thinks of us, “For he who sanctifies and those who are sanctified all have one source. That is why he is not ashamed to call them brothers.”
What freedom and hope is in that thought!
Raymond’s book is similar to Dane Ortlund’s “Gentle and Lowly.” If you’re like me, you won’t find the duplication of these rich and sweet truths redundant, though. I need to have my understand of God’s heart Re-set time and time again with scripture. I’m grateful for Raymond being a caring shepherd for my soul.
For more reviews see thebeehive.live.
Raymond takes us to Hebrews 2:11 where we are told exactly what Jesus thinks of us, “For he who sanctifies and those who are sanctified all have one source. That is why he is not ashamed to call them brothers.”
What freedom and hope is in that thought!
Raymond’s book is similar to Dane Ortlund’s “Gentle and Lowly.” If you’re like me, you won’t find the duplication of these rich and sweet truths redundant, though. I need to have my understand of God’s heart Re-set time and time again with scripture. I’m grateful for Raymond being a caring shepherd for my soul.
For more reviews see thebeehive.live.
October 31, 2024
Highly recommended ❤️
June 2, 2022
First sentence: Imagine if we gathered together all of the believers throughout history and lined them up for a massive family photo. Whom would we see? What kinds of people would be there?
He Is Not Ashamed is a great book to read devotionally. It is not a devotional book--that's not what I'm saying. But the book is an encouraging, uplifting read. Each chapter--or most chapters--feel like a warm hug from a friend. And NOT at the expense of the truth. Again, not what I am saying. Some books water down the truth and spin so much sugar into what truth remains, that it can be a "feel-good" comfy-cozy read that lacks the power to convince or convict. The book is on the love of Christ for his people. HIS people.
There are seven chapters that illustrate--with PLENTY of Scripture passages and verses--that Christ is NOT ashamed of His people. Each chapter is PACKED with Scriptural evidence, multiple illustrations from Scripture, not just one "isolated" instance.
Here are the titles for those seven chapters:
He Is Not Ashamed of Those With Embarrassing Stories
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Opposed Him
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Are Overlooked
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Were Far From God
He Is Not Ashamed Of Those Who Have Nothing
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Are Weak
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Still Sin
These seven chapters are encouraging, uplifting, and relevant. Who--as a believer--can't identify with at least half (if not all) of these! To be reminded that God loves us even when we feel overlooked, even when we are weak, even when we have nothing, etc. It is a reminder that God loves US. But it is also in a lesser way a reminder that we are called to love others as well. If Christ can love--and abundantly love HIS family--we are to love HIS family as well. No one has to be perfect to be loved.
The eighth and final chapter takes a turn, and I think it offers a needed balance. That chapter is "Whom Is Jesus Ashamed Of?" This chapter is a reminder that not ALL belong to Christ. That Jesus is THE way, THE truth, THE life. Jesus loves HIS own, but for those who do reject Christ, these promises do not apply. That's not always a popular message these days. That's why I think it is a necessary balance. If you reject Christ, then judgment awaits. Not warm and fuzzies. Not a pat on the back. But eternal, everlasting judgment. Everyone is called to repent, to turn away from sin and turn towards Christ.
Quote:
God wants us to know that Jesus loved us before the cross, on the cross, and after the cross. I do hope you see the value of looking through Christ's eyes and sensing his love for you. He's not ashamed of his people.
He Is Not Ashamed is a great book to read devotionally. It is not a devotional book--that's not what I'm saying. But the book is an encouraging, uplifting read. Each chapter--or most chapters--feel like a warm hug from a friend. And NOT at the expense of the truth. Again, not what I am saying. Some books water down the truth and spin so much sugar into what truth remains, that it can be a "feel-good" comfy-cozy read that lacks the power to convince or convict. The book is on the love of Christ for his people. HIS people.
There are seven chapters that illustrate--with PLENTY of Scripture passages and verses--that Christ is NOT ashamed of His people. Each chapter is PACKED with Scriptural evidence, multiple illustrations from Scripture, not just one "isolated" instance.
Here are the titles for those seven chapters:
He Is Not Ashamed of Those With Embarrassing Stories
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Opposed Him
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Are Overlooked
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Were Far From God
He Is Not Ashamed Of Those Who Have Nothing
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Are Weak
He Is Not Ashamed of Those Who Still Sin
These seven chapters are encouraging, uplifting, and relevant. Who--as a believer--can't identify with at least half (if not all) of these! To be reminded that God loves us even when we feel overlooked, even when we are weak, even when we have nothing, etc. It is a reminder that God loves US. But it is also in a lesser way a reminder that we are called to love others as well. If Christ can love--and abundantly love HIS family--we are to love HIS family as well. No one has to be perfect to be loved.
The eighth and final chapter takes a turn, and I think it offers a needed balance. That chapter is "Whom Is Jesus Ashamed Of?" This chapter is a reminder that not ALL belong to Christ. That Jesus is THE way, THE truth, THE life. Jesus loves HIS own, but for those who do reject Christ, these promises do not apply. That's not always a popular message these days. That's why I think it is a necessary balance. If you reject Christ, then judgment awaits. Not warm and fuzzies. Not a pat on the back. But eternal, everlasting judgment. Everyone is called to repent, to turn away from sin and turn towards Christ.
Quote:
God wants us to know that Jesus loved us before the cross, on the cross, and after the cross. I do hope you see the value of looking through Christ's eyes and sensing his love for you. He's not ashamed of his people.
May 23, 2022
He is Not Ashamed is a concise survey through Scripture of how God is not ashamed of His people. The marginalized, the sinner, the shamed-filled individual -- none of these people are beneath the love of God and inclusion into His family.
Raymond uses a metaphor that will stick with me forever to describe the family of God with the continual use of "when you look at Jesus' family photo..."
The book reinforces chapter after chapter how Christ does not turn His back to His people no matter how low and sinful they feel. But in the last chapter, Raymond makes it clear that there is one who Christ is ashamed of.
Overall, this book was an encouragement to me, reminding me of the power of the Gospel, God's mechanism of using His Son to remind us of the love that He has for us.
If feelings of shame in your approach to God are present in your life, read this book. It is a reminder of the love that He has for you even when you do not feel it.
Raymond uses a metaphor that will stick with me forever to describe the family of God with the continual use of "when you look at Jesus' family photo..."
The book reinforces chapter after chapter how Christ does not turn His back to His people no matter how low and sinful they feel. But in the last chapter, Raymond makes it clear that there is one who Christ is ashamed of.
Overall, this book was an encouragement to me, reminding me of the power of the Gospel, God's mechanism of using His Son to remind us of the love that He has for us.
If feelings of shame in your approach to God are present in your life, read this book. It is a reminder of the love that He has for you even when you do not feel it.
September 6, 2025
‘Imagine if we gathered together all of the believers throughout history and lined them up for a massive family photo. Whom would you see? What kind of people would be there? We may be surprised.”
We would find people with unflattering stories: the sinful woman at the well who had been through many husbands, the thief on the cross, prominent prostitutes, adulterers, murderers, just to name a few! There would be people like me, messy and sinful, in desperate need of a Savior!
But, if we zoom in closer, Jesus, the perfect Son of God is right there in the middle, wedged shoulder to shoulder with the rest of us, who are outcasts marked by our own depravity.
But He is not ashamed to be in this family photo with us, He calls us family!
He turns enemies into ambassadors. Scripture tells us that he is drawn to sinners and showcases His mercy in our redeeming our lives.
Erik Raymond reminds us of these and other staggering realities with beauty and simplicity.
We would find people with unflattering stories: the sinful woman at the well who had been through many husbands, the thief on the cross, prominent prostitutes, adulterers, murderers, just to name a few! There would be people like me, messy and sinful, in desperate need of a Savior!
But, if we zoom in closer, Jesus, the perfect Son of God is right there in the middle, wedged shoulder to shoulder with the rest of us, who are outcasts marked by our own depravity.
But He is not ashamed to be in this family photo with us, He calls us family!
He turns enemies into ambassadors. Scripture tells us that he is drawn to sinners and showcases His mercy in our redeeming our lives.
Erik Raymond reminds us of these and other staggering realities with beauty and simplicity.
March 1, 2024
If you have ever struggled with thinking God doesn’t love you or is ashamed of you because of your sin (especially after becoming His child), this is a great book that shows afresh God’s compassion & forgiveness for His kids. No need for shame. Just grace upon grace upon grace upon grace.
June 25, 2024
A good reminder on the heart of Christ toward the unworthy of various stripes. Similar to other books of the same category (Gentle and Lowly, for instance)…final 3 chapters bumped review up to 4 star, really good ending to the book.
June 22, 2022
I love this book. The author is eloquent with his writing and explains his points along with the gospel splendidly. I enjoyed reading each word. It was realistic and true, especially about the actuality of all being sinners and completely imperfect compared to Christ Jesus. I love this book, and everyone should read it.
January 10, 2025
Great book for unbelievers who feel the weight of the Law’s demands. Better book to give to stumbling saints.
June 13, 2022
Loved It
In approaching Raymonds newest book I knew I needed to set my feet to withstand soul stirring gospel bombs but even I was staggered by this one. It’s essentially expositions of some of the most fascinating narratives and characters in the Bible illucidated by seasoned Biblical Theology, Puritan quotes, hymns, and what Erik’s well known for: Watsonesque word pictures.
That alone makes it an enjoyable read but that all serves a much more glorious end: a robust argument for, and glorious picture of, the love of God in Christ for sinners. It’s essentially someone asking Erik, can you give me a Biblical definition of grace and him saying “if you’ve got a couple hours let me show you.” Refreshing, stirring, one to return to for sure. I felt like my flesh stepped into the ring with Tyson and lasted 15 seconds into the first round. The eight chapter combination put me to the mat. I saw semblance of myself in each chapter as one ashamed of my past, a former enemy, “feels’ insignificant, nothing to offer God, weak, wrestles with sin, and one who constantly needs redirection, the very ingredients of sinful humanity that drew Jesus love and willingness to die and save.
His exposition of the story of Mephibosheth and connection with the gospel was beautiful. His chapter on weakness was particularly encouraging to me who would consider himself an acutely “ordinary” pastor (to steal Erik’s blog name). I was continually reminded I was lost, far from God, have nothing to offer, am not self sufficient, and weak which might sound discouraging unless it’s the basis for God magnifying his glory in power, grace and mercy. I emerged from this book with a reinvigorated sense that I am an unworthy recipient of Christs love: reborn, rejoiced in, redirected, and recommissioned to serve The King of Glory!
One subjective observation: this book has some similar themes as Gentle and Lowly but has a slightly different tone. He isn't claiming to fix Evangelicalisms view of Jesus. In other words, it’s not as polemical. It was mere proclamation with the aim of reminding us of and going deeper into the subject of Christs love for sinners. This kept me from always having to have a critical eye towards everything or feeling the need to look into things further just in case the pendulum is swinging too far. Don’t get me wrong I enjoyed Gentle and Lowly but with He is Not Ashamed I was able to let my guard down a bit more and enjoy the ride.
In approaching Raymonds newest book I knew I needed to set my feet to withstand soul stirring gospel bombs but even I was staggered by this one. It’s essentially expositions of some of the most fascinating narratives and characters in the Bible illucidated by seasoned Biblical Theology, Puritan quotes, hymns, and what Erik’s well known for: Watsonesque word pictures.
That alone makes it an enjoyable read but that all serves a much more glorious end: a robust argument for, and glorious picture of, the love of God in Christ for sinners. It’s essentially someone asking Erik, can you give me a Biblical definition of grace and him saying “if you’ve got a couple hours let me show you.” Refreshing, stirring, one to return to for sure. I felt like my flesh stepped into the ring with Tyson and lasted 15 seconds into the first round. The eight chapter combination put me to the mat. I saw semblance of myself in each chapter as one ashamed of my past, a former enemy, “feels’ insignificant, nothing to offer God, weak, wrestles with sin, and one who constantly needs redirection, the very ingredients of sinful humanity that drew Jesus love and willingness to die and save.
His exposition of the story of Mephibosheth and connection with the gospel was beautiful. His chapter on weakness was particularly encouraging to me who would consider himself an acutely “ordinary” pastor (to steal Erik’s blog name). I was continually reminded I was lost, far from God, have nothing to offer, am not self sufficient, and weak which might sound discouraging unless it’s the basis for God magnifying his glory in power, grace and mercy. I emerged from this book with a reinvigorated sense that I am an unworthy recipient of Christs love: reborn, rejoiced in, redirected, and recommissioned to serve The King of Glory!
One subjective observation: this book has some similar themes as Gentle and Lowly but has a slightly different tone. He isn't claiming to fix Evangelicalisms view of Jesus. In other words, it’s not as polemical. It was mere proclamation with the aim of reminding us of and going deeper into the subject of Christs love for sinners. This kept me from always having to have a critical eye towards everything or feeling the need to look into things further just in case the pendulum is swinging too far. Don’t get me wrong I enjoyed Gentle and Lowly but with He is Not Ashamed I was able to let my guard down a bit more and enjoy the ride.
January 16, 2025
This is an absolutely amazing book, in every sense of the word. Here are all of the quotes that stood out the most to me and spoke to me in some way, shape, or form (in no specific order):
"In this family photo, Jesus may seem out of place, but in reality, He's exactly where He belongs. Even more, He's right where He wants to be. Instead of being ashamed of them, He calls them family."
"Don't forget this vital truth: Jesus not only comes from sinful people, but He also comes for them. He's not ashamed of people like you and me (Hebrews 2:11)." (This one really really spoke to me at my core.)
"Nobody has a story that can make Jesus blush. Our sin doesn't repel such a compassionate Savior. It attracts Him." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"' 'No unworthiness in them, no misery upon them, shall ever hinder the LORD Christ from owning them and openly avowing them to be His bretheren.' No matter what we've done or what we're going through, He'll never love us any less. This should give believers unspeakable joy!" (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Hebrews also shows us that Christ's solidarity with His people is a chief reason for why He's not ashamed of them. 'For He who sanctifies and those who are sanctified all have one source. That is why He is not ashamed to call them brothers. (Heb. 2:11)." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Jesus is not ashamed of His people because they are the ones on whom God has set His love before the foundation of the world. (Eph. 1:4-5). God's people are Christ's people (John 17:6). We are the children that God has given Him (Heb. 2:13). Jesus is not ashamed of His family photo because He loves every single one of us. He is well aware of our baggage. And He loves us anyway. He treats us like family. He always has and always will. Nothing we think or do could ever overturn such divine love to His children." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Far from Jesus being ashamed of His people, the fact that He became a man showcases His love for us." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Jesus didn't back into the cross. His suffering and death for us was intentional and motivated by His eternal love. He willingly chose to come, live, and die for us and our salvation. His face was set like a flint to go and suffer (Isa. 50:7; Luke 9:51). He loved His own, even to the end (John 13:1). This love continued even on the cross, where Jesus prayed for those who opposed Him and proclaimed the gospel to those who mocked Him (Luke 23:34-43)." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"He endured such shame and suffering because He loves His people. It would be a great insult to question the love of one who went to such depths to display it." (Honestly, this quote really challenged and convicted me.)
"When sitting under a shadow of depression, discouragement, or guilt that seems like it will never budge, remember this in that very moment: our Lord Christ is not ashamed to claim you as part of His family. He proved His love to you on the cross (Rom. 8:32). His sufferings console us. And remember, Christ's heart in heaven is the same toward us as it was when He was on this earth. 'He loved us then; He'll love us now.' " (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Nobody has a story that can make Jesus blush. He doesn't Photoshop anyone out of the picture." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"And He's seen everything (literally), so you can't make Him blush. What's more, He is so powerful and so good that He's not only able to give us a second chance but also use our stories for good." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)"
"God blesses the undeserving with abundance."
"Whether Perez, Tamar, Judah, or you and me -none of us deserve God's blessings but receive them wholly by His grace and kindness. When Matthew includes Tamar, Judah, and their children's names in Jesus's genealogy, he means to make a point: Jesus comes from a line of people with messy, embarrassing, and shameful stories. And not only does He come from messy people, but He also comes for them... Jesus isn't ashamed of you or your story. With Jesus, it's okay not to be okay. He has sufficient compassion and power to deal with you and me." (This one really really really spoke to me at my core.)
"...He knows our shame, and He still loves us. In fact, it was His loving response to our guilt, sin, and shame that compelled Him to come for us (John 3:16)."
"His whole point in coming was to identify with us and deal with our shame. He's not ashamed to call people like us His family."
"No matter how shameful, embarrassing, or painful your experiences feel to you or appear to others, remember that nothing can extinguish Christ's redemptive love for His people." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because it was also something that I needed to hear in all of my current circumstances.)
"This is why it's good to see through the eyes of Christ and understand how He looks at those who opposed Him. He's not ashamed of them. Instead, He loves them. He delights in conquering them with His grace and in welcoming them to His feast."
"Everything Christ does, He does for the glory of God."
"Jesus is not ashamed to identify with us because our dark circumstances prior to conversion do not dim but rather brighten our perception of His glory."
"Not only is Jesus not ashamed of you, dear Christian disciple, but He loves you. He accepts and appreciates your service to Him. He draws near to you, even when others fail to notice you. You are not unimportant in His eyes." (This one also really really really really spoke to me and was what I needed to hear.)
"He stops for those in need. He's not ashamed of the one who cries for mercy, whatever their station in life." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core and was absolutely what I needed to hear in my present circumstances.)
"He welcomes the prodigals, the sinners, and the unclean." (This one reminds me of the lyrics from one of my favorite Shane & Shane songs, called "His Mercy is More": "He welcomes the weakest, the vilest, the poor. Our sins, they are many, His Mercy is More...")
"On the contrary, God saves people despite the fact that they have nothing to give Him."
"Instead, we need to remember this humbling and encouraging truth: If you are a Christian, then God loves you in spite of the fact that you have nothing to give Him. Christ is not ashamed of the poor beggars who come to Him for food, drink, and clothing."
"We must remember the truth that Jesus is not ashamed of any of His followers." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core and it was what I needed to hear, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that He is good above all other people.)
"He knows what you're going through, and He's not ashamed of you." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that last part about Him not being ashamed of me and it was absolutely what I needed to hear.)
"The angel singled out Peter because the risen Christ is not ashamed of His people, even those who still sin." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe this one as well and was something that I absolutely needed to hear).
"Mark it down: Jesus knows our worst days and still loves us. He loves us in and through them." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that last sentence and it was absolutely what I needed to hear.)
"Friend, your sins didn't prevent God from loving you before, and they won't prevent Him from loving you now. Sins shall never sever God from His people."
"Peter denied Christ that night, but Christ didn't deny Peter. He's not ashamed to have you." (That last part really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that as well.)
All in all, this book was ABSOLUTELY AMAZING, in every sense of the word, so thank you for writing it, Erik Raymond. It has helped me grasp how much Jesus really DOES love me and I can't recommend it enough to other people.
"In this family photo, Jesus may seem out of place, but in reality, He's exactly where He belongs. Even more, He's right where He wants to be. Instead of being ashamed of them, He calls them family."
"Don't forget this vital truth: Jesus not only comes from sinful people, but He also comes for them. He's not ashamed of people like you and me (Hebrews 2:11)." (This one really really spoke to me at my core.)
"Nobody has a story that can make Jesus blush. Our sin doesn't repel such a compassionate Savior. It attracts Him." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"' 'No unworthiness in them, no misery upon them, shall ever hinder the LORD Christ from owning them and openly avowing them to be His bretheren.' No matter what we've done or what we're going through, He'll never love us any less. This should give believers unspeakable joy!" (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Hebrews also shows us that Christ's solidarity with His people is a chief reason for why He's not ashamed of them. 'For He who sanctifies and those who are sanctified all have one source. That is why He is not ashamed to call them brothers. (Heb. 2:11)." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Jesus is not ashamed of His people because they are the ones on whom God has set His love before the foundation of the world. (Eph. 1:4-5). God's people are Christ's people (John 17:6). We are the children that God has given Him (Heb. 2:13). Jesus is not ashamed of His family photo because He loves every single one of us. He is well aware of our baggage. And He loves us anyway. He treats us like family. He always has and always will. Nothing we think or do could ever overturn such divine love to His children." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Far from Jesus being ashamed of His people, the fact that He became a man showcases His love for us." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Jesus didn't back into the cross. His suffering and death for us was intentional and motivated by His eternal love. He willingly chose to come, live, and die for us and our salvation. His face was set like a flint to go and suffer (Isa. 50:7; Luke 9:51). He loved His own, even to the end (John 13:1). This love continued even on the cross, where Jesus prayed for those who opposed Him and proclaimed the gospel to those who mocked Him (Luke 23:34-43)." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"He endured such shame and suffering because He loves His people. It would be a great insult to question the love of one who went to such depths to display it." (Honestly, this quote really challenged and convicted me.)
"When sitting under a shadow of depression, discouragement, or guilt that seems like it will never budge, remember this in that very moment: our Lord Christ is not ashamed to claim you as part of His family. He proved His love to you on the cross (Rom. 8:32). His sufferings console us. And remember, Christ's heart in heaven is the same toward us as it was when He was on this earth. 'He loved us then; He'll love us now.' " (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"Nobody has a story that can make Jesus blush. He doesn't Photoshop anyone out of the picture." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)
"And He's seen everything (literally), so you can't make Him blush. What's more, He is so powerful and so good that He's not only able to give us a second chance but also use our stories for good." (This one also really spoke to me at my core.)"
"God blesses the undeserving with abundance."
"Whether Perez, Tamar, Judah, or you and me -none of us deserve God's blessings but receive them wholly by His grace and kindness. When Matthew includes Tamar, Judah, and their children's names in Jesus's genealogy, he means to make a point: Jesus comes from a line of people with messy, embarrassing, and shameful stories. And not only does He come from messy people, but He also comes for them... Jesus isn't ashamed of you or your story. With Jesus, it's okay not to be okay. He has sufficient compassion and power to deal with you and me." (This one really really really spoke to me at my core.)
"...He knows our shame, and He still loves us. In fact, it was His loving response to our guilt, sin, and shame that compelled Him to come for us (John 3:16)."
"His whole point in coming was to identify with us and deal with our shame. He's not ashamed to call people like us His family."
"No matter how shameful, embarrassing, or painful your experiences feel to you or appear to others, remember that nothing can extinguish Christ's redemptive love for His people." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because it was also something that I needed to hear in all of my current circumstances.)
"This is why it's good to see through the eyes of Christ and understand how He looks at those who opposed Him. He's not ashamed of them. Instead, He loves them. He delights in conquering them with His grace and in welcoming them to His feast."
"Everything Christ does, He does for the glory of God."
"Jesus is not ashamed to identify with us because our dark circumstances prior to conversion do not dim but rather brighten our perception of His glory."
"Not only is Jesus not ashamed of you, dear Christian disciple, but He loves you. He accepts and appreciates your service to Him. He draws near to you, even when others fail to notice you. You are not unimportant in His eyes." (This one also really really really really spoke to me and was what I needed to hear.)
"He stops for those in need. He's not ashamed of the one who cries for mercy, whatever their station in life." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core and was absolutely what I needed to hear in my present circumstances.)
"He welcomes the prodigals, the sinners, and the unclean." (This one reminds me of the lyrics from one of my favorite Shane & Shane songs, called "His Mercy is More": "He welcomes the weakest, the vilest, the poor. Our sins, they are many, His Mercy is More...")
"On the contrary, God saves people despite the fact that they have nothing to give Him."
"Instead, we need to remember this humbling and encouraging truth: If you are a Christian, then God loves you in spite of the fact that you have nothing to give Him. Christ is not ashamed of the poor beggars who come to Him for food, drink, and clothing."
"We must remember the truth that Jesus is not ashamed of any of His followers." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core and it was what I needed to hear, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that He is good above all other people.)
"He knows what you're going through, and He's not ashamed of you." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that last part about Him not being ashamed of me and it was absolutely what I needed to hear.)
"The angel singled out Peter because the risen Christ is not ashamed of His people, even those who still sin." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe this one as well and was something that I absolutely needed to hear).
"Mark it down: Jesus knows our worst days and still loves us. He loves us in and through them." (This one also really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that last sentence and it was absolutely what I needed to hear.)
"Friend, your sins didn't prevent God from loving you before, and they won't prevent Him from loving you now. Sins shall never sever God from His people."
"Peter denied Christ that night, but Christ didn't deny Peter. He's not ashamed to have you." (That last part really really really really spoke to me at my core, because sometimes, I struggle to believe that as well.)
All in all, this book was ABSOLUTELY AMAZING, in every sense of the word, so thank you for writing it, Erik Raymond. It has helped me grasp how much Jesus really DOES love me and I can't recommend it enough to other people.
August 23, 2025
Jesus is not ashamed of his people. We find this truth in Hebrews 2:11 (a profoundly meaningful verse in my life) and Raymond has expanded it into a deeper exploration of Christ’s heart toward us.
The book flows at a crisp, easy-to-read pace, but readers will likely encounter many places where they will be compelled to stop and think about the deep love of Jesus.
Though I occasionally found the prose a bit clunky, this was an edifying read. For any struggling with a sense of personal shame or disappointment, Raymond’s book is a helpful examination of why Jesus is not ashamed of his adoptive brothers.
It remains a much-needed source of great comfort and amazement to realize that the One who loves us and gave himself for us is proud to call us his own.
The book flows at a crisp, easy-to-read pace, but readers will likely encounter many places where they will be compelled to stop and think about the deep love of Jesus.
Though I occasionally found the prose a bit clunky, this was an edifying read. For any struggling with a sense of personal shame or disappointment, Raymond’s book is a helpful examination of why Jesus is not ashamed of his adoptive brothers.
It remains a much-needed source of great comfort and amazement to realize that the One who loves us and gave himself for us is proud to call us his own.
April 12, 2024
I wish I could give this book more than 5 stars. Not just because it is well written, but because it plunges the depths of the gospel and gives you a deeper and fuller love for Christ. I was so impressed with how this book was able to engage with the unbeliever, in calling them to repentance in light of God’s Lordship, worthiness, & mercy; and with the believer, by lifting their eyes away from their weakness and to the omnibenevolence of God.
This is a perfect book for a mature Christian, new believer, or unbeliever.
This is a perfect book for a mature Christian, new believer, or unbeliever.
December 27, 2024
I read this one earlier in the year, as well as heard Erik teach in person on the same subject matter therein. I'll simply say how can you not be encouraged to know that Jesus's family history is filled with misfits, rebels, and weak sinners; and yet it's those whom he came to display his compassion and to redeem. This is a quick and easy read, but you'll be left in awe for days to come at the wonder of God's grace.
August 17, 2025
A book that’s very easy to recommend. Raymond offers the hope of the Gospel to those who, for one reason or another, feel that Jesus is ashamed to call them His own. This could be an encouraging read for any who are quite positive that they are simply tolerated by Christ rather deeply loved by Him. Read it with a pen or pencil in hand so that you can underline all that you need to be reminded of.
February 8, 2023
One of the best books on the gospel and the covenantal love the Father has for his children in Christ. It is staggering, mind-blowing, and almost unbelievable but it is true! I don’t say this lightly, but every Christian should read this book!
July 17, 2025
A delightful concept that warms the soul - Jesus has no shame for his own. This is a great book to read when you are feeling unworthy of God’s love. This is the proper motivation for not being ashamed of him.
April 5, 2024
An excellent look at the heart of Christ. So often the enemy uses shame to keep us downcast. This book shows that conviction speaks a better word than condemnation.
December 27, 2024
Enjoyed the latter half of the book the most.
March 11, 2025
What a comforting book- it portrays the heart of Christ for his people so beautifully and in such easy form. He is not ashamed of us friends!
June 30, 2022
Jesus spent his time in the company of misfits and sinners, and his best friends failed him when the chips were down, but he kept loving and forgiving them. Nothing new there, but Eric Raymond puts a fresh spin on the family tree that led to Jesus in "He Is Not Ashamed: The Staggering Love of Christ for His People." Who was Tamar? Who was Rahab? Raymond pulls back the curtain and shows us the sad, sordid story of one sinner after another--embarrassments to their families, disappointments to their community--yet forgiven and loved. I like his image of a family portrait with Jesus in the midst of all these "losers" and black sheep and social outcasts. In this book we meet or get reacquainted with people we'd never expect to see in the company of The Holy of the Holies.
Chapter 3 is my favorite - "Let the children come to me" - and "There were some women." Jesus was revolutionary in the way he paid attention to those everyone else would ignore.
The last chapter is the kicker. Is Jesus 100% forgiving, or does he look away in shame from some of us? Who among us may miss out on His unconditional love and forgiveness?
Be not afraid, and be not ashamed to say you believe in the Bible and all the promises therein, or you may not have a place in that family portrait, after all.
I'm not gonna "go there" with the idea of eternal damnation (separation from God) or hellfire (everlasting torments for failing to believe in and serve God). Instead, I'll leave you with the closing lines:
"Consider again his worth; instead of devaluing his glory, make much of it. Think on his authority; instead of rejecting his lordship, submit to it. Notice again his heart: instead of neglecting his salvation, receive it. He's not ashamed of people like you and me. He's willing to have you.
"That is, if he's not beneath you."
DISCLAIMER: For all my willingness to believe, I remain a skeptic. The Jesus of the New Testament may be a highly fictionalized version of the Jesus who walked a small region of the earth, teaching us to love one another. Five hundred years earlier, a 29-year-old visionary known as The Buddha wrote stuff down. In judging the merits of this book, I try not to let my own beliefs cloud the message the author delivers.
Chapter 3 is my favorite - "Let the children come to me" - and "There were some women." Jesus was revolutionary in the way he paid attention to those everyone else would ignore.
The last chapter is the kicker. Is Jesus 100% forgiving, or does he look away in shame from some of us? Who among us may miss out on His unconditional love and forgiveness?
Be not afraid, and be not ashamed to say you believe in the Bible and all the promises therein, or you may not have a place in that family portrait, after all.
I'm not gonna "go there" with the idea of eternal damnation (separation from God) or hellfire (everlasting torments for failing to believe in and serve God). Instead, I'll leave you with the closing lines:
"Consider again his worth; instead of devaluing his glory, make much of it. Think on his authority; instead of rejecting his lordship, submit to it. Notice again his heart: instead of neglecting his salvation, receive it. He's not ashamed of people like you and me. He's willing to have you.
"That is, if he's not beneath you."
DISCLAIMER: For all my willingness to believe, I remain a skeptic. The Jesus of the New Testament may be a highly fictionalized version of the Jesus who walked a small region of the earth, teaching us to love one another. Five hundred years earlier, a 29-year-old visionary known as The Buddha wrote stuff down. In judging the merits of this book, I try not to let my own beliefs cloud the message the author delivers.
August 1, 2022
"He Is Not Ashamed" dug into the Bible on the topic of God's amazing love for sinful people. Much of each chapter looked at accounts in the Bible where a sinful person was embraced by God, like the sinful women who are mentioned in Jesus' own genealogy. The author summarized what happened to each person and how God showed redeeming love toward them. The author also spent some time exploring the theology of Jesus' love and His not being ashamed. He took verses from both the Old and New Testaments to show what is taught in the Bible.
The author looked people who have a sinful past, who opposed Jesus (like Paul), who are little valued or are social or religious outcasts, those who are weak or have nothing to give, and those who struggle with sin (like pride). I felt like the author made excellent points and did a good job of illustrating (with the Bible) the theology taught in the Bible about these topics. The theology parts weren't dry or difficult to follow. Overall, I'd recommend this book.
I received a review copy of this book from the publisher through Amazon Vine.
The author looked people who have a sinful past, who opposed Jesus (like Paul), who are little valued or are social or religious outcasts, those who are weak or have nothing to give, and those who struggle with sin (like pride). I felt like the author made excellent points and did a good job of illustrating (with the Bible) the theology taught in the Bible about these topics. The theology parts weren't dry or difficult to follow. Overall, I'd recommend this book.
I received a review copy of this book from the publisher through Amazon Vine.
October 23, 2022
I always welcome reminders of our Christs love; this one from the angle of his thoughts for you as you are in his family; and how he’s not ashamed despite the baggage and shameful places we come from. Full of scripture throughout.
I loved his example right from the jump of a family photo of EVERYONE in heaven with Jesus smiling in the middle.
I loved his example right from the jump of a family photo of EVERYONE in heaven with Jesus smiling in the middle.
August 7, 2022
Refreshing and Christ-centered book which teaches us on how much He loves us despite our failures. He is not ashamed of us and calls us back to be part of His family portrait. Must read for all believers who struggle to understand with how much God loves us.
September 9, 2022
Beautiful little book. The author gives great examples from the Bible to show that Christ loves people and is not ashamed to call us his own. It is similar to Gentle and Lowly, but he has a slightly different take on God's love for us.
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December 8, 2022This is One of my favorite books of the year.
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