I love the Twig and Turtle series for the gentle way in which it teaches young readers socio-emotional skills. In Make New Friends, But Keep the Old, Twig has to deal with competition for her best friend Angela, when Effie, Angela's bestie who left for Denver a year ago returns to Happy Trails. The big skill she has to learn here is how to be brave and speak up for herself and trust that the person she is speaking to cares about her feelings.
The series teaches kids how to read social cues and to unpack their emotions. Like when Twig is upset that her best friend Angela wants to include Effie, her bff before she met Twig, in the Harvest Party Planning Committee:
"Here's what happens when you wish you were brave enough to share your thoughts but you're not:
- Your throat feels like you've just swallowed a rock
- One part of your brain practices what to say, 'It wouldn't be fair to the other kids who put their name in the hat.' The other part tells you all the reasons that you should stay quiet: Don't be mean. Don't make Angela mad. Don't make Effie an enemy.
- Talking feels as scary and embarrassing as coming to school in your pyjamas."
Or when Twig and Turtle have to tell their Grandma that they donated all the books she had bought them when they downsized into their tiny house:
"Here's how you can tell that you haven't convinced someone:
- Their eyelids droop a little, making their eyes harder to read
- They pull their mouths over to one side
- Their face slowly turns red"
Inspiring idea for parents: Giving the kids an Inspiration Journal and recording things that they've never noticed before while on a walk.