This was a collection where I took no notes, not because nothing moved me, but because all of it did, the entire thing at once. And it is all so personal to the author, a sort of memory in poetic form, that it felt false to pick out lines or even poems that I identified with or felt some type of way about. It was all their life, and it was made up of so many elements, so far removed from me — immigration after immigration, gulag, legacies of war and ethnic cleansing, parents locked in their grief, estrangement after estrangement.
Even the theme here, Everything Thaws, is less a cause for hope than for another kind of grieving — that which you thought was permanent will also melt away.
I could not put this down. It felt important to bear witness to, and to think about the harms we pass down generations when we don't have the space, tools, or sometimes the inclination to unlearn them. In the end there is not so much joy as there is a new, chosen community, the determination to do better when they can.
And to not be silent.