3 stars.
Eva Gordon has dementia and this story is told from her perspective.
"I've been feeling myself slip away for years, as though I'm a stranger to myself. I live in a world set up like on large safety mechanism-reminder notes hanging from every wall, no mobility, and frustrating, elderly sitting arrangements with strangers. You can't experience all those things without knowing something is changing permanently. It's not normal to walk uninvited into a stranger's house. Or go to a doctor's appointment and make a fool of yourself. I'm moving further and further down a strange road, away from any normal, everyday existence." Page 224.
Eva Gordon is an old woman with a lifetime of regrets. Eva Gordon is not a likable person (at least not at first) but we will see why and we will grow to love her. This story is full of heartbreak, loss, family, friendship, love and forgiveness. Eva weaves the hardships of her past into the everyday events of her life, often with parallel conversations in her head. The author combines the realities of death and the joys of life, offering Eva a chance to make right with those who she has wronged.
Eva Gordon is literally trying to run away. She always has her suitcase packed and is ready to escape. She wants to go back to her own cottage on Cape Cod and schemes to get there while her caregiver granddaughter Breezy is at work. We then meet pesky neighbor Mabel who keeps an eye on Eva and a few other "unlikely" characters: fiance Ian, Uncle George and one of Breezy's strays, Isabella. Eva just wants to be alone and doesn't understand why these people won't stay away. As the story unfolds, Eva begins to be changed by these inconvenient people and grows into the person that she would like to not forget.
Eva Gordon deserves more than a 3 star review but like her, this book has some flaws. I put it down 3 times and really only came back to it because a friend gave it a 5 star review. The first 100 pages had so many descriptive words that it distracted me from being interested in the book. It is not a fast paced read or an exciting read but hang in there as you won't regret meeting Eva Gordon.
I expected The Forgotten Life of Eva Gordon to stir up grief and sad memories over watching my father pass away from dementia, but honestly it did just the opposite. It instead brought me moments of humor, joy, and understanding.