Thanks so much to the publisher and Net Galley for a chance to read this book in exchange for an honest review. First of all, confession here- I don’t like “Self Help” books because they stress me out or bore me- I always feel like i “ should be “ doing something with the advice- digesting, absorbing, and taking it. Otherwise- whats the point? It’s usually given in a sort of vague way that I can’t recall 10 pages later. Often, the author gets preachy about how they figured it all out, and I quit reading.
When I started this book, I was at a point in my life where I feel like crap. Most of the time- tired, grumpy, sad, lonely and a bit depressed. It is written by a doctor, who run a bougie clinic. I figured why not get the same advice as her clients. Low expectations but worth a try.
At the beginning, She outlines how our medical system is set up to treat symptoms, not the whole person-example many people are on anxiety and depression meds for years, and are not feeling better . Many are seeing therapists for years, and not feeling better. Most doctors aren’t running the proper tests or digging into their symptoms to actually figure out the why.
As I began reading, she explained how my symptoms were caused by my behaviors- the same behaviors MANY of us in the modern world have- too much sugar, look little exercise, too much screen time, too little sleep. The book then goes into detail on how each of us can do some simple things to change them, and feel better, I was ready to try.
Most of the advice is pretty common sense- e.g. we spend too much time on screens, but the hearing the science behind WHY its bad, resonated with me. She also encourages us to start small- change one small thing, whatever is easiest for us, and see how we feel. For me, it was trying to get more sleep. I spend hours scrolling news, insta, FB before going to bed. Often staying up really late doing it. I averaged 5-6 hours of poor quality sleep a night.
There is self health test where you rate your symptoms every 2 weeks - everything from heartburn, to depression. I took the test and first scored a 43 .( above 23 may indicate a chronic issue) Three weeks in Im averaging 7.5 hours of sleep, I have added new good behaviors, and my symptoms are down - This a.m. I scored a 14. I feel so much better. Im planning to add more things ( reduce more sugar, add daily meditation ) to feel even better.
She provides the proper level of caution that those with conditions like diabetes , eating disorders , depression they must work with their doctors before undertaking changes to medications or diets etc. Advice is also given on what to look for in supplements, tests your doctor should be running every year as well as how to find a functional doctor.
Bottom line, for a non-self help reader- this book has actually made a difference to me, and my health.
Highly Recommend