The first thing I noted about this book when Carol requested an advance review was the language. It can only be described as beautiful: clear, not an unnecessary word, yet evocative, powerful, lyrical. Also, in the initial sample I read, I was surprised at the close correspondence between her philosophy of life and the universe, and mine.
So, I agreed to review the book, and I am glad I did. We have lived immensely different lives, and yet, time and again I found parallels, as if we were walking side by side up the same mountain path. She got the same joys and insights in an American desert as I gained in an Australian forest. The setting, the life are different; the steps of growth and inspiration are the same.
She has experienced lucid dreams since childhood, and lives within a vivid inner world. In contrast, I have never had a dream in any way related to anything, but got the same support from Spirit (to use Carol’s terminology), the same glimpses of Reality through meditation, self-hypnosis and activities like distance running.
Qualifying “unique” is frowned upon. All the same, this book is the account of an immensely unique life. Nevertheless, as I have shown, Carol on her unique path can lead you on your very different one, to the same place of inner strength, spiritual growth, meaning, purpose.
Without doing a spoiler, I need to mention a very clever thing: the sequence of how Carol’s childhood details are revealed. Given my knowledge of psychology, I noted the multiplicity of symptoms of extreme anxiety, fear of people, dissociative episodes, later OCD, on and on. If I were given such a list about a new client I would suspect very severe childhood trauma. And yet, although she describes her childhood in considerable detail, this trauma is only obliquely alluded to.
The first hint of something much worse comes halfway through the book. Interestingly, this parallels the time course of the recall of repressed memories by many survivors of childhood trauma.
The second half of the book consists of chapters with a single theme, like “Memories,” ‘Dreams,” “Words,” and each ends in a brief lesson on how to progress.
So, this is how Carol has converted a “sample of one” into a teaching tool.
Most people will find this book as inspiring as I have.