Когато родителите се разделят

by Françoise Dolto, Франсоаз Долто, Радостин Желев (Translator)

Франсоаз Долто (1908-1988) е една от най-големите фигури на френската и на световната психоаналитична наука. Последователка на Фройд, съратничка и приятелка на Жак Лакан, една от основателките на Парижката психоаналитична школа, Долто винаги е поставяла в центъра на своите интереси и на клиничната си работа детето и неговите проблеми, неговото развитие, неговото бъдеще.

В разговорите си със социалната асистентка Инес Анжелино, събрани в книгата „Когато родителите се разделят“, тя подлага на задълбочен анализ трудностите, изживявани от децата на разведени родители, и възможностите за по-безболезненото им преодоляване.

Тази книга не е есе по психоанализа и не съдържа описания на клинични случаи, но всичко споделено от мен е основано на клиничния ми опит. Това е по-скоро книга на гражданка, психоаналитичка по професия, която се интересува от несъзнаваните страдания на децата, страдания, които винаги се дължат на неизреченото или на лъжата, изречена „за тяхно добро“.

Genres: Psychology, Parenting

192 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1990

About the author

Françoise Dolto was a French pediatrician and psychoanalyst, famous for her research on babies and childhood. Dolto revolutionized the field of psycho-therapeutic work with babies (notably in their early experience and usage of language through their body), with the mother-baby dyad, and with a more positive observation and understanding of the means of communication used by children with learning or social disabilities.

She worked with Jacques Lacan, and said that children have a language before the language (with the body). She has contributed to the question of the unconscious body image, and influenced among others the work of Maud Mannoni.

As a recognized feminist, she also worked on reconciling women with their sexuality; she also analyzed the attitude of children when their parents are separating or divorcing.

Françoise Dolto was the mother of Carlos (1943–2008), a singer; and the sister of Jacques Marette, a minister.

From Wikipedia:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fran%C3%...

Reviews

[Violeta · Rating 4 out of 5]

A very nice read. The vocabulary was an accessible one and was full of very interesting information from which you can start researching and reading more.
Eventhough on some of the topics it might seem a little outdated (originally published in 1988) it is amazing how some of the topics can still apply to the today society.
This book relieves guilt and advises without judging, it is easy to read and, taking the form of a long interview with F. Dolto, it is not that easy to let go once started.

[Monserrat · Rating 5 out of 5]

Me encanta todo lo que he leído de Dolto y este libro no es la excepción, tenía mucha curiosidad por el tema y realmente es muy bueno, Dolto tiene facilidad para transmitir en palabras sencillas términos psicoanalíticos y este libro esclarece mucho de lo que pasa en la vida emocional de los niños cuyos padres se separan. Un libro muy valioso y enriquecedor.

[Ovidiu · Rating 2 out of 5]

Outdated information, inflexible way of thinking. Not entirely useless, but this book should not be your only source of information if you want to communicate this difficult decision to your kids.

[sofia · Rating 3 out of 5]

livro de base psicanalítica, leitura de apoio para o meu caso de atendimento no psicodiagnóstico infantil desse ano. auxiliou bastante no entendimento entre as relações criança-escola-casa-família e a percepção do divórcio em todos esses âmbitos.

[Петя Младенова · Rating 4 out of 5]

Полезна информация, поднесена по достъпен начин, така че четивото да е подходящо дори за хора, които не се занимават с психоанализа.

[Ludmila Ramos Carvalho · Rating 1 out of 5]

Um horror!
Antiquado e ultrapassado. Defende ideias homofóbicas e a culpabilização da mulher pela violência e alcoolismo do marido.

[Konstadina · Rating 3 out of 5]

⭐️3.5

[Abraham Tsoukalidis · Rating 4 out of 5]

Ένα καταπληκτικό βιβλίο http://www.biblionet.gr/author/2475/Φ... οδηγός για την αποφυγή δυσκολιών που οφείλονται στις "ασυνείδητες οδύνες των παιδιών" από τον χωρισμό.
"Οι διαφωνίες ενός ζευγαριού προέρχονται από δυσκολίες και των δύο πλευρών σχετικά με την προσωπική ανάπτυξη του καθενός. Και το μόνο άδικο είναι ότι ο καθένας γελάστηκε και για τον εαυτό του και για τον άλλον οταν αποφάσισαν να ζήσουν μαζί. Δεν πρέπει λοιπόν να στάζει δηλητήριο στην καρδιά του παιδιού κατηγορώντας ο ένας γονέας τον άλλον."
"Ο πατέρας έχει πάντα μια θέση ξεχωριστή για το παιδί. Όμως πολλές μητέρες φοράνε στολίδι το παιδί τους και δεν κάνουν τίποτα για να φέρουν τον πατέρα σε επικοινωνία μαζί του, παγιδευμένες στη μονοπώληση του παιδιού τους."
"Το ανθρώπινο όν που διάλεξε μια οικογένεια για να γεννηθεί, υποφέρει όταν η ασυμφωνία δεν του εξηγείται ως μια κατάσταση ναι μεν αποτυχίας, αλλά δυστυχώς αναπόφευκτη. Για την αξιοπρέπεια του παιδιού και των γονέων είναι ανάγκη να του πουν αυτό που κάνουν και να κάνουν αυτό που λένε."

[Fed · Rating 4 out of 5]

Un libro che puo' aiutare i figli dei genitori che si separano

[Eleonora · Rating 5 out of 5]

excelente libro, muy detallado y muy sensible y cálido.