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A Quiet Life
From the author of A Little Hope—a Read with Jenna Bonus Pick—comes another “heartwarming, character-driven” (Booklist) life-affirming novel about three individuals whose lives intersect in unforeseen ways.
Set in a close-knit suburb in the grip of winter, A Quiet Life follows three people grappling with loss and finding a tender wisdom in their grief.
Chuck Ayers used to look forward to nothing so much as his annual trip to Hilton Head with his wife, Cat—that yearly taste of relaxation they’d become accustomed to after a lifetime of working and raising two children. Now, just months after Cat’s death, Chuck finds that he can’t let go of her belongings—her favorite towel, the sketchbooks in her desk drawer—as he struggles to pack for a trip he can’t imagine taking without her.
Ella Burke delivers morning newspapers and works at a bridal shop to fill her days while she anxiously awaits news—any piece of information—about her missing daughter. Ella adjusts to life in a new apartment and answers every call on her phone, hoping her daughter will reach out.
After the sudden death of her father, Kirsten Bonato set aside her veterinary school aspirations, finding comfort in the steady routine of working at an animal shelter. But as time passes, old dreams and new romantic interests begin to surface—and Kirsten finds herself at another crossroads.
In this beautiful and profoundly moving novel, three parallel narratives converge in poignant and unexpected ways, as each character bravely presses onward, trying to recover something they have lost. Emotionally riveting and infused with hope, “the soothing tone and warm worldview of this grown-up bedtime story will be good for what ails you” (Kirkus Reviews).
Set in a close-knit suburb in the grip of winter, A Quiet Life follows three people grappling with loss and finding a tender wisdom in their grief.
Chuck Ayers used to look forward to nothing so much as his annual trip to Hilton Head with his wife, Cat—that yearly taste of relaxation they’d become accustomed to after a lifetime of working and raising two children. Now, just months after Cat’s death, Chuck finds that he can’t let go of her belongings—her favorite towel, the sketchbooks in her desk drawer—as he struggles to pack for a trip he can’t imagine taking without her.
Ella Burke delivers morning newspapers and works at a bridal shop to fill her days while she anxiously awaits news—any piece of information—about her missing daughter. Ella adjusts to life in a new apartment and answers every call on her phone, hoping her daughter will reach out.
After the sudden death of her father, Kirsten Bonato set aside her veterinary school aspirations, finding comfort in the steady routine of working at an animal shelter. But as time passes, old dreams and new romantic interests begin to surface—and Kirsten finds herself at another crossroads.
In this beautiful and profoundly moving novel, three parallel narratives converge in poignant and unexpected ways, as each character bravely presses onward, trying to recover something they have lost. Emotionally riveting and infused with hope, “the soothing tone and warm worldview of this grown-up bedtime story will be good for what ails you” (Kirkus Reviews).
320 pages, Kindle Edition
First published November 29, 2022
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Ethan Joella
10 books813 followersEthan Joella teaches English and psychology at the University of Delaware and specializes in community writing workshops. His work has appeared in River Teeth, The Cimarron Review, The MacGuffin, Delaware Beach Life, and Third Wednesday. He is the author of A Little Hope, which was a Read with Jenna Bonus Selection and A Quiet Life. He lives in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, with his wife and two daughters.
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December 8, 2022
"A Quiet Life" by Ethan Joella is Friendship and Family Fiction at its best!
In a small Pennsylvania town where most everyone knows everyone else, there are three individuals who have suffered a loss and are desperately searching to find their way to the other side of grief.
- Chuck Ayers' wife Cat has recently died and he struggles with letting go. He's especially focused on lingering regrets for a decision that he and Cat never quite resolved.
- Ella Burke continues to await news about the disappearance of her young daughter Riley. She's lonely and empty, and all she can think about is finding her missing child.
- Kirsten Benato has put her dreams on hold after her father was killed. She fills her days with routine but struggles with decisions about her future without him in her life.
I devoured this novel in a few days and I love this author's writing even more now than I did after reading his debut novel, "A Little Hope". His writing style is simple, his stories are about ordinary people living everyday lives in small town America. When their lives become complicated, he digs into their struggles, takes the reader through the depths of their despair and regrets, and bringing exceptional texture to both the story and the characters.
Like his debut novel, this one is character driven and emotional, with strong backstories, and thoughtful storytelling that ties all the characters' lives together, one knot at a time. His stories are the kinds of stories I love to read over and over again!
As long as this author continues to write, I will continue to read his books. I highly recommend this one to readers who enjoy Friendship and Family Fiction and a well-written story! 4.75 stars!
Thank you to NetGalley, Scribner, and Ethan Joella for an ARC of this book. It has been an honor to give my honest and voluntary review.
In a small Pennsylvania town where most everyone knows everyone else, there are three individuals who have suffered a loss and are desperately searching to find their way to the other side of grief.
- Chuck Ayers' wife Cat has recently died and he struggles with letting go. He's especially focused on lingering regrets for a decision that he and Cat never quite resolved.
- Ella Burke continues to await news about the disappearance of her young daughter Riley. She's lonely and empty, and all she can think about is finding her missing child.
- Kirsten Benato has put her dreams on hold after her father was killed. She fills her days with routine but struggles with decisions about her future without him in her life.
I devoured this novel in a few days and I love this author's writing even more now than I did after reading his debut novel, "A Little Hope". His writing style is simple, his stories are about ordinary people living everyday lives in small town America. When their lives become complicated, he digs into their struggles, takes the reader through the depths of their despair and regrets, and bringing exceptional texture to both the story and the characters.
Like his debut novel, this one is character driven and emotional, with strong backstories, and thoughtful storytelling that ties all the characters' lives together, one knot at a time. His stories are the kinds of stories I love to read over and over again!
As long as this author continues to write, I will continue to read his books. I highly recommend this one to readers who enjoy Friendship and Family Fiction and a well-written story! 4.75 stars!
Thank you to NetGalley, Scribner, and Ethan Joella for an ARC of this book. It has been an honor to give my honest and voluntary review.
August 3, 2022
I just loved this story!
Chuck is in his early seventies and has lost his beloved wife to cancer.
Ella’s life is at a standstill as she awaits news of the whereabouts of her young daughter who was taken by the child’s father.
Kirsten is a young lady who works at an animal rescue
and is torn between two coworkers she had feelings for..she lost her father when he was murdered inside a gas station during a robbery.
Three lives in a Pennsylvania town, that come together in beautiful ways and help each other to cope.
Wonderful characters!
Thank you to Scribner and Netgalley for the ARC!
Chuck is in his early seventies and has lost his beloved wife to cancer.
Ella’s life is at a standstill as she awaits news of the whereabouts of her young daughter who was taken by the child’s father.
Kirsten is a young lady who works at an animal rescue
and is torn between two coworkers she had feelings for..she lost her father when he was murdered inside a gas station during a robbery.
Three lives in a Pennsylvania town, that come together in beautiful ways and help each other to cope.
Wonderful characters!
Thank you to Scribner and Netgalley for the ARC!
January 30, 2023
In a Nutshell: A slow but fairly satisfying read. Character-oriented plot, so it won’t work for all. Good if you want to read stories about characters with emotional baggage trying to move beyond the grief that drags them down.
Story Synopsis:
Where the book worked for me:
✔ The three main characters are complex, layered people. Each is guilt-tripping over something in the past because of which they cannot immerse themselves in their present. It’s nice to see characters that feel relatable even if their circumstances may not be what we have experienced ourselves. Their journey to seek closure feels genuine. Also worth remembering is that each main character belongs to a distinct age group, so their situations and emotions are distinct to them.
✔ The link between the characters is well-explained without being too convenient.
✔ As with most character-oriented stories, this one too proceeds at a slow pace. But the progress is steady and you feel like you know the characters better with every turn of the page.
✔ The prose isn’t too jazzy but impressive enough to keep one invested. This book shows how good storytelling doesn’t need a thesaurus to buttress it. (I don’t know what made my brain think of the word ‘buttress’ when I am trying to prove that simple words work better! Yikes!)
Where the book could have worked better for me:
⚠ The story becomes a little repetitive in between, especially in Chuck’s arc.
⚠ It is somewhat predictable. Of course, this is not a genre you read for thrills and twists but for thought-provoking scenes and emotional content. In that sense, the book delivers, I just wish it had been braver about pushing the boundaries.
Overall, this is a story of broken hearts and unresolved issues. With the three main characters stuck in the past, disconnected from the present, and wary about the future, you get to see a variety of human emotions at play. Kirsten’s story was the least impressive for me, but Chuck’s and Ella’s tracks made the book a worthwhile read.
Recommended to those who like character-oriented emotional stories. (Think Hallmark movie without a Christmas theme.)
3.75 stars.
My thanks to Scribner and NetGalley for the DRC of “A Quiet Life”. This review is voluntary and contains my honest opinion about the book.
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Story Synopsis:
Chuck Ayers, who is in his seventies, doesn’t want to go Hilton Head alone without his beloved wife Cat who passed away recently. At the same time, he doesn’t even want to stay alone in the home they shared for so many years.
Ella Burke is working hard at two jobs to keep herself going while she await news about her daughter Riley who has been missing for a few months. All Ella wants is her daughter back.
Kirsten Bonato, who works at an animal shelter, misses her dad who was killed in a convenience store robbery. She feels like her life has changed track after his death, but she doesn’t know how to get it going again.
How these three characters and their stories are interlinked is what you need to read and find out.
The story comes to us in the limited third person perspective of the three main characters.
Where the book worked for me:
✔ The three main characters are complex, layered people. Each is guilt-tripping over something in the past because of which they cannot immerse themselves in their present. It’s nice to see characters that feel relatable even if their circumstances may not be what we have experienced ourselves. Their journey to seek closure feels genuine. Also worth remembering is that each main character belongs to a distinct age group, so their situations and emotions are distinct to them.
✔ The link between the characters is well-explained without being too convenient.
✔ As with most character-oriented stories, this one too proceeds at a slow pace. But the progress is steady and you feel like you know the characters better with every turn of the page.
✔ The prose isn’t too jazzy but impressive enough to keep one invested. This book shows how good storytelling doesn’t need a thesaurus to buttress it. (I don’t know what made my brain think of the word ‘buttress’ when I am trying to prove that simple words work better! Yikes!)
Where the book could have worked better for me:
⚠ The story becomes a little repetitive in between, especially in Chuck’s arc.
⚠ It is somewhat predictable. Of course, this is not a genre you read for thrills and twists but for thought-provoking scenes and emotional content. In that sense, the book delivers, I just wish it had been braver about pushing the boundaries.
Overall, this is a story of broken hearts and unresolved issues. With the three main characters stuck in the past, disconnected from the present, and wary about the future, you get to see a variety of human emotions at play. Kirsten’s story was the least impressive for me, but Chuck’s and Ella’s tracks made the book a worthwhile read.
Recommended to those who like character-oriented emotional stories. (Think Hallmark movie without a Christmas theme.)
3.75 stars.
My thanks to Scribner and NetGalley for the DRC of “A Quiet Life”. This review is voluntary and contains my honest opinion about the book.
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September 27, 2022
UPDATE REVIEW ….under the kite 🪁
Absolutely beautiful!!!!!
I loved this story —
It might be a few days before I write a review - or any others —
I’m in Canada visiting our daughter.
But this was my type of book… I liked it even better than the author’s first book.
LOVED IT!!!! FELT IT!!!!
Greetings to all my friends—
I’ll be back to catch up reading other reviews when more time. 🪁
REVIEW:
“Remember, no man is a failure who has friends”
—It’s a Wonderful Life
Well written introspective books that unleash within it a collision of the universal forces—love, loss, grief, regret, loyalty, desire, family, friendships, and casual heroism, tend to often be my favorite types of novels.
“A Quiet Life” is bracingly intelligent, profoundly humane, written in gorgeous prose. It’s a spellbinding journey dealing with the fragility of life,
We meet Chuck Ayers, who is recently widowed. His wife Cat was his ‘cat-meow’: the most central person-love of his life. Each winter they vacationed in Hilton Head. Everything is paid for the upcoming getaway….but Chuck can’t seem to find a reason to go — the joy was with his wife. They rarely fought ….but they did argue over a young woman named Natasha— a woman Cat met and wanted to help. Chuck felt his wife was getting to involved.
After Cat dies….guilt, on top of grief, has become all-consuming.
We meet Ella Burke, whose ex-husband has kidnapped their daughter. The police aren’t nearly distressing over the unlawful abduction as Ella is.
She delivers the morning newspaper and works part time in a Bridal Store….(not the most satisfying of jobs)….but she is trying to keep a roof over her head — as she is not only struggling emotionally- but financially too.
We meet Kirsten Bonato - a recent college graduate who had dreams of traveling in Europe and attending veterinary school. She ends up putting her plans aside— due to the sudden death of her much loved father. She’s very indecisive of what to do with her life. In the meantime - while deeply missing her father, she works at a animal rescue shelter.
These three characters lives intersect in interesting ways—the stories are heart-wrenching- and heart-endearing.
Chuck, Ella, and Kirsten confront adversities, gain wisdom, increase compassion and empathy, open their hearts to healing and love…..
as the reader….we do the same!
A little tidbit situation to contemplate….
When Chuck’s wife died — he began to think he failed his adult children. He worried that he failed them by not talking with them more — their loss was parallel too.
“If he had died, wouldn’t Cat have been so good at letting them express their pain? Wouldn’t she have shared hers with them? Her instincts we’re right on the money with the kids. She knew went to run in, when to pull back, whose name to say, whose name not to say”.
As a parent myself …..a friend myself…..I also share the common challenge of knowing when to run in, and when to pull back….
Oh…..the dance of life!
Ethan Joelle reminds me that are blessed to be alive! 💃
Absolutely beautiful!!!!!
I loved this story —
It might be a few days before I write a review - or any others —
I’m in Canada visiting our daughter.
But this was my type of book… I liked it even better than the author’s first book.
LOVED IT!!!! FELT IT!!!!
Greetings to all my friends—
I’ll be back to catch up reading other reviews when more time. 🪁
REVIEW:
“Remember, no man is a failure who has friends”
—It’s a Wonderful Life
Well written introspective books that unleash within it a collision of the universal forces—love, loss, grief, regret, loyalty, desire, family, friendships, and casual heroism, tend to often be my favorite types of novels.
“A Quiet Life” is bracingly intelligent, profoundly humane, written in gorgeous prose. It’s a spellbinding journey dealing with the fragility of life,
We meet Chuck Ayers, who is recently widowed. His wife Cat was his ‘cat-meow’: the most central person-love of his life. Each winter they vacationed in Hilton Head. Everything is paid for the upcoming getaway….but Chuck can’t seem to find a reason to go — the joy was with his wife. They rarely fought ….but they did argue over a young woman named Natasha— a woman Cat met and wanted to help. Chuck felt his wife was getting to involved.
After Cat dies….guilt, on top of grief, has become all-consuming.
We meet Ella Burke, whose ex-husband has kidnapped their daughter. The police aren’t nearly distressing over the unlawful abduction as Ella is.
She delivers the morning newspaper and works part time in a Bridal Store….(not the most satisfying of jobs)….but she is trying to keep a roof over her head — as she is not only struggling emotionally- but financially too.
We meet Kirsten Bonato - a recent college graduate who had dreams of traveling in Europe and attending veterinary school. She ends up putting her plans aside— due to the sudden death of her much loved father. She’s very indecisive of what to do with her life. In the meantime - while deeply missing her father, she works at a animal rescue shelter.
These three characters lives intersect in interesting ways—the stories are heart-wrenching- and heart-endearing.
Chuck, Ella, and Kirsten confront adversities, gain wisdom, increase compassion and empathy, open their hearts to healing and love…..
as the reader….we do the same!
A little tidbit situation to contemplate….
When Chuck’s wife died — he began to think he failed his adult children. He worried that he failed them by not talking with them more — their loss was parallel too.
“If he had died, wouldn’t Cat have been so good at letting them express their pain? Wouldn’t she have shared hers with them? Her instincts we’re right on the money with the kids. She knew went to run in, when to pull back, whose name to say, whose name not to say”.
As a parent myself …..a friend myself…..I also share the common challenge of knowing when to run in, and when to pull back….
Oh…..the dance of life!
Ethan Joelle reminds me that are blessed to be alive! 💃
December 18, 2022
Tissue alert!!
This is a story of grief. I was thoroughly moved by the story because, although many scenes feel manufactured, I didn’t care because the story is kind, sweet, and hopeful. It’s a story that will make you sad for the grief the three main characters suffer; yet it’s a story of how everyday people find their way through the emotional fog of grief. One character stated that after a death there are so many regrets. I agree. When a loved one dies, we examine our time with them under a microscope, looking for all the wrongs and slights (generally unintended) that we did. Some, just big mistakes.
Chuck Ayers lost his wife to cancer. His wife was a beloved friend of many; she was artistic and supportive and gregarious. Chuck is a bit more reticent. He has a huge regret that he cannot let go of: his wife wanted to help a struggling artist and he nixed it.
The saddest, at least to me, is Ella Burke. Her husband kidnapped her 8-year-old daughter. She’s alone and obsesses all the time over her little girl. She takes a paper route and a job at a bridal shop to make ends meet (her husband abandoned her with her child). She’s alone and struggling…it was heartbreaking to me.
Kirsten Bonato’s father was murdered during an armed robbery at a gas station. This sudden death left her unmoored. She was intending to go to Veterinary school, but after this shocking event, she’s not sure what to do so she works at an animal shelter.
Through silly and manufactured events, their lives merge. In their own grief, they help each other. It’s a beautiful story of showing how random kindness can make a huge different in a person’s life. It made me feel hopeful for the human race! Manufactured events be damned. I loved being taken for the ride.
I listened to Ethan Joella’s “A Quiet Life” narrated by Stacey Glemboski, Melissa Redmond, and Byron Wagner.
This is a story of grief. I was thoroughly moved by the story because, although many scenes feel manufactured, I didn’t care because the story is kind, sweet, and hopeful. It’s a story that will make you sad for the grief the three main characters suffer; yet it’s a story of how everyday people find their way through the emotional fog of grief. One character stated that after a death there are so many regrets. I agree. When a loved one dies, we examine our time with them under a microscope, looking for all the wrongs and slights (generally unintended) that we did. Some, just big mistakes.
Chuck Ayers lost his wife to cancer. His wife was a beloved friend of many; she was artistic and supportive and gregarious. Chuck is a bit more reticent. He has a huge regret that he cannot let go of: his wife wanted to help a struggling artist and he nixed it.
The saddest, at least to me, is Ella Burke. Her husband kidnapped her 8-year-old daughter. She’s alone and obsesses all the time over her little girl. She takes a paper route and a job at a bridal shop to make ends meet (her husband abandoned her with her child). She’s alone and struggling…it was heartbreaking to me.
Kirsten Bonato’s father was murdered during an armed robbery at a gas station. This sudden death left her unmoored. She was intending to go to Veterinary school, but after this shocking event, she’s not sure what to do so she works at an animal shelter.
Through silly and manufactured events, their lives merge. In their own grief, they help each other. It’s a beautiful story of showing how random kindness can make a huge different in a person’s life. It made me feel hopeful for the human race! Manufactured events be damned. I loved being taken for the ride.
I listened to Ethan Joella’s “A Quiet Life” narrated by Stacey Glemboski, Melissa Redmond, and Byron Wagner.
August 20, 2022
“Heartbreaking loss and grief, burdens from the past, regrets, uncertainties, connections between people…Helping each other cope and heal, helping themselves with yes, a little hope in this beautiful novel…” I said that about Ethan Joella’s debut novel in my review of A Little Hope.
I could say the very same about this, his second book. Joella writes of the sadness of grieving, how lost one feels after losing someone they love, of the confusion and uncertainty of how to move forward. Anyone who has experienced such loss will no doubt be touched as I was . The story of Chuck, a man in his seventies who recently lost his wife gave me pause. Perhaps it’s his age close to mine, and the belief that life goes on until it doesn’t when you lose a spouse. I count my blessings I have my husband, but I did relate to Chuck, and his grief was palatable. Ella’s story is also heartbreaking in a different way, waiting for signs of her missing daughter, but no less full of grief. Kirsten’s loss is a sad one that I personally connected with. She lost her father to violence . I lost a brother. The chapters alternate and I awaited each connection between these characters which made for a lovely read. While there is hope as in the author’s debut novel, be aware there is much grief here to be dealt with and at times it felt pretty heavy. But I’m glad I read it. Wonderfully done.
I received a copy of this book from Simon & Schuster through Edelweiss.
I could say the very same about this, his second book. Joella writes of the sadness of grieving, how lost one feels after losing someone they love, of the confusion and uncertainty of how to move forward. Anyone who has experienced such loss will no doubt be touched as I was . The story of Chuck, a man in his seventies who recently lost his wife gave me pause. Perhaps it’s his age close to mine, and the belief that life goes on until it doesn’t when you lose a spouse. I count my blessings I have my husband, but I did relate to Chuck, and his grief was palatable. Ella’s story is also heartbreaking in a different way, waiting for signs of her missing daughter, but no less full of grief. Kirsten’s loss is a sad one that I personally connected with. She lost her father to violence . I lost a brother. The chapters alternate and I awaited each connection between these characters which made for a lovely read. While there is hope as in the author’s debut novel, be aware there is much grief here to be dealt with and at times it felt pretty heavy. But I’m glad I read it. Wonderfully done.
I received a copy of this book from Simon & Schuster through Edelweiss.
October 3, 2025
“Maybe that is love. Maybe loving someone so deeply means accepting the fact that they occupy a specific, clear place in you. You accept that there will be a hole if you lose them – the same way a painting or photograph will leave its shadow on the wall after it’s gone, the way a tree will leave a crater where the roots and stump were.”
Chuck. Ella. Kirsten. Separately, each of them is feeling extreme grief as they lament the loss of a loved one. Their reasons for grieving are uniquely different – cancer, kidnapping, gun violence – but their emotions about this loss finds a way to connect them to each other.
But before that happens, readers can feel their worlds move slowly, introspectively and painfully as they shuffle through life without that one person who made such a difference to them. Will they be able to move on from their grief?
When all seems lost, there is always someone who comes in to their life and helps to bring closure to that past, and hope for their future. A neighbor. A dog named Cocoa. The 3 mains connecting and finding solace in each other’s company. Will it be enough?
“Your other life awaits.”
This is a heart-felt, poignant, emotionally touching story of extraordinary people who struggle with their loss. And, through time, redemptive circumstances and friendship find a way to live again.
With beautifully memorable characters, readers can’t help but want the best for their journey to Hope. Where finding strength in themselves to move forward with their life, may also lead them to become whole again.
Joella has created a story of quiet lives, coming together. Through love, compassion, connecting the past to the present, and appreciation for living life differently, readers can’t help but feel the characters deeply. And, in so doing, we as readers, long for hope, too.
Chuck. Ella. Kirsten. Separately, each of them is feeling extreme grief as they lament the loss of a loved one. Their reasons for grieving are uniquely different – cancer, kidnapping, gun violence – but their emotions about this loss finds a way to connect them to each other.
But before that happens, readers can feel their worlds move slowly, introspectively and painfully as they shuffle through life without that one person who made such a difference to them. Will they be able to move on from their grief?
When all seems lost, there is always someone who comes in to their life and helps to bring closure to that past, and hope for their future. A neighbor. A dog named Cocoa. The 3 mains connecting and finding solace in each other’s company. Will it be enough?
“Your other life awaits.”
This is a heart-felt, poignant, emotionally touching story of extraordinary people who struggle with their loss. And, through time, redemptive circumstances and friendship find a way to live again.
With beautifully memorable characters, readers can’t help but want the best for their journey to Hope. Where finding strength in themselves to move forward with their life, may also lead them to become whole again.
Joella has created a story of quiet lives, coming together. Through love, compassion, connecting the past to the present, and appreciation for living life differently, readers can’t help but feel the characters deeply. And, in so doing, we as readers, long for hope, too.
April 20, 2023
A well-written novel about grief and loss and the healing powers of love, friendship, and kindness. This was one of the most tender and empathetic books I've read in a long time, and I really loved that about it.
September 22, 2022
4.5 stars rounded to 4 stars
A Quiet Life. What a little gem. This lovely book is a quiet introspective novel about three people who have suffered devastating losses and their quests to comes to terms with their misfortunes. Chuck’s beloved wife has died, and Chuck carries a major regret that has never been resolved. Ella’s precious daughter Riley has disappeared, and she doesn’t know if her little girl is even alive anymore. Kirsten’s dear father was killed. He was a special man who meant everything to her. How these people come to terms with their losses and all their “what ifs” is the crux of this book.
I loved these characters and found all of them to be very realistic. I also appreciated how most of the book played out in their thoughts. There were many more inner thoughts than conversation, something I really liked. These characters came to intersect with each other in remarkable ways. The author makes clear that while you cannot always “cure” or get back your losses, you can figure out how to live with them and move on to a good life. Though I enjoyed all the arcs of the story, I found Chuck’s situation to strike me the deepest.
I must mention the book cover. What a marvelous cover. It perfectly represents what’s inside. I also commend the author for such a well written book. The writing is simple yet stirring, and though the story is very contemplative it moves quickly. I found the ending to be very satisfying. It did not have nor need an epilogue.
This was Mr. Joella’s second of two novels. I have already put his first (A Little Hope) on my on-deck list and will likely read it early next year. I highly recommend A Quiet Life to all readers.
I would like to thank Net Galley, Schriber, and Ethan Joella for an ARC of this book. Opinions are mine alone and are not biased in any way.
A Quiet Life. What a little gem. This lovely book is a quiet introspective novel about three people who have suffered devastating losses and their quests to comes to terms with their misfortunes. Chuck’s beloved wife has died, and Chuck carries a major regret that has never been resolved. Ella’s precious daughter Riley has disappeared, and she doesn’t know if her little girl is even alive anymore. Kirsten’s dear father was killed. He was a special man who meant everything to her. How these people come to terms with their losses and all their “what ifs” is the crux of this book.
I loved these characters and found all of them to be very realistic. I also appreciated how most of the book played out in their thoughts. There were many more inner thoughts than conversation, something I really liked. These characters came to intersect with each other in remarkable ways. The author makes clear that while you cannot always “cure” or get back your losses, you can figure out how to live with them and move on to a good life. Though I enjoyed all the arcs of the story, I found Chuck’s situation to strike me the deepest.
I must mention the book cover. What a marvelous cover. It perfectly represents what’s inside. I also commend the author for such a well written book. The writing is simple yet stirring, and though the story is very contemplative it moves quickly. I found the ending to be very satisfying. It did not have nor need an epilogue.
This was Mr. Joella’s second of two novels. I have already put his first (A Little Hope) on my on-deck list and will likely read it early next year. I highly recommend A Quiet Life to all readers.
I would like to thank Net Galley, Schriber, and Ethan Joella for an ARC of this book. Opinions are mine alone and are not biased in any way.
September 19, 2022
4.5 Stars
It’s not even been a full year since I read Ethan Joella’s debut novel, A Little Hope, one of those debut novels that really surprised me in the best way. So when I saw his latest novel, I knew I wanted to read it.
’A quietly shared, poignant novel of life, love, and hope that kept me turning the pages, and aching for each of these souls and their individual journeys toward hope.’ This is a brief quote I included in my review of A Little Hope, but it also seems so relevant to this story and the main characters whose stories are shared. The heartbreaking stories of these people that have endured so much sorrow, those who are grieving for loss or real-life nightmares that haunt their days, but still, somehow, manage to hold onto a ray of hope. Lives lived quietly because it’s too painful to expose their grief, their pain, too exhausting to share their stories. And yet, there are also moments of gratitude for the moments when a relative stranger reaches out in a moment of seeing beyond the surface and offers a gift that changes a perspective and offers hope. There are people who offer comfort and a listening ear, and more hope.
Regrets, grief, those moments when we say the wrong thing and how those memories haunt us long after are part of this story, but there are also many moments of generosity, friendship, gratitude and love. Friendships born out of those moments that others might not recognize as a gift, as well.
A story of love, memories that haunt, the things we did or said that we wish we could change, as well as regrets about those out of our control and how those influence our lives.
This is a relatively short, 304 page, story, which has many twists and turns including some heartbreaking moments, but there is so much love in this story, even a little romance, but at its heart, this is a story of navigating those unexpected and sometimes devastating detours that life gives us, made easier by the gift of friendship.
Pub Date: 29 Nov 2022
Many thanks for the ARC provided by Scribner
January 4, 2023
A 4.5 shiny stars rating from me!
A friend recommended this book to me and I am so glad that she did! Thank you very much,Cheri, I would have missed a beautiful story!
This story takes place in a small Pennsylvania town where everyone knows of each other. The three main characters Chuck, Ella and Kirsten all suffer unimaginable losses of someone they have loved and can't imagine living without. 💔 Life is full of beauty, love, happiness,joys, sorrow, regrets, friendships, hardships and loss. All of us can relate to these experiences. This is what life consists of. We can't experience one emotion without the other. These people all experience different kinds of loss and they struggle to try to move forward, to fill, not replace, the emptiness in their hearts. They have a connection to each other and this story shows in a beautiful and moving way how they lean on each other and help each other. It's a sweet tender story that I feel richer having read!
I have a habit of trying to figure out what the title of a book means. I love the cover and the title. For me,a quiet life is a place we all must get to after the loss of someone close to us. We are so used to having a particular loved one around all the time. When the quiet settles in, we must find a new way of life and learn to cherish our, pictures, memories and times together and learn to live without them. A life well lived and well loved lives forever in our hearts 💕!!
I really enjoyed this beautiful book and highly recommend it!! Happy Reading, everyone! 😊📖🍀💫✨🕊️
A friend recommended this book to me and I am so glad that she did! Thank you very much,Cheri, I would have missed a beautiful story!
This story takes place in a small Pennsylvania town where everyone knows of each other. The three main characters Chuck, Ella and Kirsten all suffer unimaginable losses of someone they have loved and can't imagine living without. 💔 Life is full of beauty, love, happiness,joys, sorrow, regrets, friendships, hardships and loss. All of us can relate to these experiences. This is what life consists of. We can't experience one emotion without the other. These people all experience different kinds of loss and they struggle to try to move forward, to fill, not replace, the emptiness in their hearts. They have a connection to each other and this story shows in a beautiful and moving way how they lean on each other and help each other. It's a sweet tender story that I feel richer having read!
I have a habit of trying to figure out what the title of a book means. I love the cover and the title. For me,a quiet life is a place we all must get to after the loss of someone close to us. We are so used to having a particular loved one around all the time. When the quiet settles in, we must find a new way of life and learn to cherish our, pictures, memories and times together and learn to live without them. A life well lived and well loved lives forever in our hearts 💕!!
I really enjoyed this beautiful book and highly recommend it!! Happy Reading, everyone! 😊📖🍀💫✨🕊️
January 9, 2023
“While we have a strong inborn capacity to form bonds, there is nothing in our biology that helps us deal with bonds that get broken, and that means that mourning is something we have to learn from experience.”
Sue Stuart-Smith, author of ‘The Well-Gardened Mind’
This story takes place in a Pennsylvania suburb and begins during the dark days at the end of December. Winter is an appropriate setting for a story about grief and loss, and author, Ethan Joella makes me feel the cold chill of mourning as Chuck Ayers, grieves the death of his wife, Cat. Along with Chuck, there is busy Ella Burke, delivering newspapers seven days a week, followed by an eight-hour shift at ‘Bridal Today.’ If she keeps busy enough, she thinks it may help her to get through the days and minutes and hours she’s had no news about her missing daughter. The last character to round out what seems like a chorus in a Greek tragedy is Kirsten Bonato. Kirsten’s father was killed while waiting in line at a gas station. If you think this story sounds too sad to read, I can only tell you that it is stunningly beautiful, and felt like a balm of good medicine to me.
What makes it so? The characters for one and two and three. Each one represents a different kind of loss, as well as a different age group. Chuck, in his seventies, represents the loss we all must eventually face, that of the end of life. Ella, in her forties, represents the worst fears any parent can have, and Kirsten, in her early twenties, shows that no age is safe from the harbinger of bad news, even death.
I come to know and love all these characters and equally so, the people they mourn. Cat is as fully realized as any character in the story. Chuck remembers that she was the glue that held the family together, the ringleader of any occasion, and a lover of things, ornaments, a special towel. An art teacher, Cat told her students that the cardinal was the bird who stuck around during the winter, giving hope. The book cover picture shows a cardinal sitting on an icy branch just outside the window. I love this, that bright, startling red lighting up a dismal winter’s day. How vibrant, warm, and loving Cat seemed to be. I can feel Chuck’s loneliness as he tries to navigate each day without his partner of so many years by his side.
Ethan Joella creates fully formed characters in Alberto, Kirsten’s father, and Riley, Ella’s daughter as well. In this way, I come to understand something of what Kirsten and Ella are suffering as they grieve the loss of their loved ones. What they are missing. Alberto's brilliant storytelling, Riley setting up doll furniture with her mother, so many things. Chuck, Ella, and Kirsten have regrets regarding things they wish they had done. Chuck labors under a particularly heavy load of guilt and it’s interesting to see how the author shapes this part of the story.
The author teaches English and psychology at the University of Delaware. He obviously (to me, at least) understands the grief process and has a lot of insight into human nature and relationships. The book is structured with fairly short chapters that travel between the three main characters. The writing is very good and fluid. He ends the chapters with little cliffhangers, not big dramatic ones that are unrealistic, but ones that keep me interested, wanting to know what happens next. Besides the major themes of loss and grief, Ethan Joella works in the lovely theme of ‘being someone’s cardinal,’ that bright spot on a dark winter’s day.
"It is when the world within us is destroyed, when it is dead and loveless, when our loved ones are in fragments, and we ourselves in helpless despair--it is then that we must recreate our world anew, reassemble the pieces, infuse life into dead fragments, recreate life."
Hanna Segal, psychoanalyst
Sue Stuart-Smith, author of ‘The Well-Gardened Mind’
This story takes place in a Pennsylvania suburb and begins during the dark days at the end of December. Winter is an appropriate setting for a story about grief and loss, and author, Ethan Joella makes me feel the cold chill of mourning as Chuck Ayers, grieves the death of his wife, Cat. Along with Chuck, there is busy Ella Burke, delivering newspapers seven days a week, followed by an eight-hour shift at ‘Bridal Today.’ If she keeps busy enough, she thinks it may help her to get through the days and minutes and hours she’s had no news about her missing daughter. The last character to round out what seems like a chorus in a Greek tragedy is Kirsten Bonato. Kirsten’s father was killed while waiting in line at a gas station. If you think this story sounds too sad to read, I can only tell you that it is stunningly beautiful, and felt like a balm of good medicine to me.
What makes it so? The characters for one and two and three. Each one represents a different kind of loss, as well as a different age group. Chuck, in his seventies, represents the loss we all must eventually face, that of the end of life. Ella, in her forties, represents the worst fears any parent can have, and Kirsten, in her early twenties, shows that no age is safe from the harbinger of bad news, even death.
I come to know and love all these characters and equally so, the people they mourn. Cat is as fully realized as any character in the story. Chuck remembers that she was the glue that held the family together, the ringleader of any occasion, and a lover of things, ornaments, a special towel. An art teacher, Cat told her students that the cardinal was the bird who stuck around during the winter, giving hope. The book cover picture shows a cardinal sitting on an icy branch just outside the window. I love this, that bright, startling red lighting up a dismal winter’s day. How vibrant, warm, and loving Cat seemed to be. I can feel Chuck’s loneliness as he tries to navigate each day without his partner of so many years by his side.
Ethan Joella creates fully formed characters in Alberto, Kirsten’s father, and Riley, Ella’s daughter as well. In this way, I come to understand something of what Kirsten and Ella are suffering as they grieve the loss of their loved ones. What they are missing. Alberto's brilliant storytelling, Riley setting up doll furniture with her mother, so many things. Chuck, Ella, and Kirsten have regrets regarding things they wish they had done. Chuck labors under a particularly heavy load of guilt and it’s interesting to see how the author shapes this part of the story.
The author teaches English and psychology at the University of Delaware. He obviously (to me, at least) understands the grief process and has a lot of insight into human nature and relationships. The book is structured with fairly short chapters that travel between the three main characters. The writing is very good and fluid. He ends the chapters with little cliffhangers, not big dramatic ones that are unrealistic, but ones that keep me interested, wanting to know what happens next. Besides the major themes of loss and grief, Ethan Joella works in the lovely theme of ‘being someone’s cardinal,’ that bright spot on a dark winter’s day.
"It is when the world within us is destroyed, when it is dead and loveless, when our loved ones are in fragments, and we ourselves in helpless despair--it is then that we must recreate our world anew, reassemble the pieces, infuse life into dead fragments, recreate life."
Hanna Segal, psychoanalyst
November 27, 2022
the setup…
Chuck Ayers, Ella Burke and Kirsten Bonato all have one thing in common. They are coping with loss, though their circumstances and methods of dealing with it differ. Chuck’s beloved wife Cat recently died from cancer and he’s not ready to let her go, wondering if he should continue in paths of routine they developed together. Ella’s estranged husband Kyle has disappeared with their daughter Riley to parts unknown, draining their bank accounts in the meantime. She now works part time in a bridal shop and delivers newspapers to occupy her mind as she suffers the unbearable pain of the separation from her child and wonder about her well being. Kirsten’s beloved father was murdered during a convenience store robbery, gone in an instant. He was a larger-than-life presence not only in her life but to everyone he encountered. She’s now emotionally paralyzed, unable to proceed with her own plans for the future, including veterinary school, as she continues working at an animal rescue shelter.
the heart of the story…
What I found remarkable about Chuck, Ella and Kirsten was how they all found ways and methods to keep going in the midst of incredible pain. Chuck is 70-years old and while he has two grown children, the loss of a partner of many years can leave you rudderless but he figured out how to get up every morning. His fixation on keeping their annual trip to Hilton Head was symbolic at feeling some sense of normalcy, even though Cat wouldn’t be there. Kirsten was just trying to “feel” again and found herself reaching out to two colleagues for relationship and it anchored her in a strange way. Ella’s situation was the one that almost broke my heart because her pain was the most palpable and unimaginable. Her inner thoughts powerfully portrayed her tragedy, so much so that sometimes it was difficult to listen to in those moments but she kept engaging to maintain her sanity. All three were wonderful illustrations of the human condition and how loss effects us.
the narration…
I enjoyed all three narrators and found their performances significant in that they didn’t succumb to drama in representing their characters, even Ella’s story, though I heard her fragility. While the story would be profound in any format, listening to them made it even more poignant.
the bottom line…
This is such a tender story, told quietly through three admirable characters who were determined to survive their pain and losses. Though they weren’t sure of the paths to take to do that, they weren’t afraid to risk trying. I especially loved the ways in which they intersected and rooted for them to triumph. I took a risk with a new-to-me author on a topic that could be treacherous ground for me and came out of it feeling emotionally uplifted. Definitely checking out the author’s backlist. 4.5 stars
Posted on Blue Mood Café
(Thanks to Simon & Schuster Audio for my complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.)
Chuck Ayers, Ella Burke and Kirsten Bonato all have one thing in common. They are coping with loss, though their circumstances and methods of dealing with it differ. Chuck’s beloved wife Cat recently died from cancer and he’s not ready to let her go, wondering if he should continue in paths of routine they developed together. Ella’s estranged husband Kyle has disappeared with their daughter Riley to parts unknown, draining their bank accounts in the meantime. She now works part time in a bridal shop and delivers newspapers to occupy her mind as she suffers the unbearable pain of the separation from her child and wonder about her well being. Kirsten’s beloved father was murdered during a convenience store robbery, gone in an instant. He was a larger-than-life presence not only in her life but to everyone he encountered. She’s now emotionally paralyzed, unable to proceed with her own plans for the future, including veterinary school, as she continues working at an animal rescue shelter.
the heart of the story…
What I found remarkable about Chuck, Ella and Kirsten was how they all found ways and methods to keep going in the midst of incredible pain. Chuck is 70-years old and while he has two grown children, the loss of a partner of many years can leave you rudderless but he figured out how to get up every morning. His fixation on keeping their annual trip to Hilton Head was symbolic at feeling some sense of normalcy, even though Cat wouldn’t be there. Kirsten was just trying to “feel” again and found herself reaching out to two colleagues for relationship and it anchored her in a strange way. Ella’s situation was the one that almost broke my heart because her pain was the most palpable and unimaginable. Her inner thoughts powerfully portrayed her tragedy, so much so that sometimes it was difficult to listen to in those moments but she kept engaging to maintain her sanity. All three were wonderful illustrations of the human condition and how loss effects us.
the narration…
I enjoyed all three narrators and found their performances significant in that they didn’t succumb to drama in representing their characters, even Ella’s story, though I heard her fragility. While the story would be profound in any format, listening to them made it even more poignant.
the bottom line…
This is such a tender story, told quietly through three admirable characters who were determined to survive their pain and losses. Though they weren’t sure of the paths to take to do that, they weren’t afraid to risk trying. I especially loved the ways in which they intersected and rooted for them to triumph. I took a risk with a new-to-me author on a topic that could be treacherous ground for me and came out of it feeling emotionally uplifted. Definitely checking out the author’s backlist. 4.5 stars
Posted on Blue Mood Café
(Thanks to Simon & Schuster Audio for my complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.)
February 16, 2023
In a world that seems to offer nothing but pain and misfortune, there are times when the next step offers peace and consolation.
A very quiet book that offers a way to look at the life one has left after tragedy.
A very quiet book that offers a way to look at the life one has left after tragedy.
February 18, 2023
I haven't been doing well lately with contemporary novels, they tend to bore me quickly, but every once in a while I get caught. I sign up for these books at the library so there's no financial loss if I set it aside unread. But as soon as I opened this novel, I was drawn into the lives of these characters.
Chuck is in his mid-seventies and just lost his wife to cancer. Kirsten is a young woman whose adored father was murdered in a gas station robbery. Ella is a divorced young mother whose ex-husband has kidnapped their six year old daughter and disappeared. All three of them are trapped in their grief and unable to move ahead, their lives on hold. They don't know each other, but there are tenuous threads connecting them which becomes clear later. Until one awful day, a real clusterf**k, as Kirsten says, everything changes.
Without telling you more, we find out that small kindnesses matter more than you think. They reverberate and cascade and explode. The loss of people you love doesn't mean they're gone completely, just in another place. This isn't a ghost story, but Chuck's wife and Kirsten's father become well known and well loved to us readers as well, because of small kindness and actions before their deaths. This is also not a mystery or suspense or action thriller, but I stayed up late last night to finish this book, because I needed to know that these people were going to be okay.
This one gets high praise from me.
Chuck is in his mid-seventies and just lost his wife to cancer. Kirsten is a young woman whose adored father was murdered in a gas station robbery. Ella is a divorced young mother whose ex-husband has kidnapped their six year old daughter and disappeared. All three of them are trapped in their grief and unable to move ahead, their lives on hold. They don't know each other, but there are tenuous threads connecting them which becomes clear later. Until one awful day, a real clusterf**k, as Kirsten says, everything changes.
Without telling you more, we find out that small kindnesses matter more than you think. They reverberate and cascade and explode. The loss of people you love doesn't mean they're gone completely, just in another place. This isn't a ghost story, but Chuck's wife and Kirsten's father become well known and well loved to us readers as well, because of small kindness and actions before their deaths. This is also not a mystery or suspense or action thriller, but I stayed up late last night to finish this book, because I needed to know that these people were going to be okay.
This one gets high praise from me.
January 7, 2023
A Quiet Life is an excellent story about three people in a Pennsylvania town each trying to move forward after experiencing major loss.
Chuck isn’t sure if he should, or even wants to, go on the annual trip to Hilton Head now that his wife Cat has died. He can’t stop feeling awful about one of their fights years ago, despite him and Cat making up and having many good memories after that. After her dad dies unexpectedly, Kirsten shelves her dreams of veterinary school, continuing her work at the animal shelter and finds herself in a romantic predicament. Ella fills her long days by working two jobs, a paper route and at a bridal shop, as she anxiously awaits any news about her young missing daughter.
Often in books with more than one main character, I find myself preferring one story over the other(s) but that wasn’t the case here — I liked and was rooting for all three MCs, whose lives connect through work, location, and circumstance. I felt for each of them and the difficult experiences they were enduring. While loss is a theme in A Quiet Life, hope is also present in the story. Through Chuck, Kirsten, and Ella, we are reminded that people can be kind and that even on our dark days, we’re not alone in our feelings.
Chuck isn’t sure if he should, or even wants to, go on the annual trip to Hilton Head now that his wife Cat has died. He can’t stop feeling awful about one of their fights years ago, despite him and Cat making up and having many good memories after that. After her dad dies unexpectedly, Kirsten shelves her dreams of veterinary school, continuing her work at the animal shelter and finds herself in a romantic predicament. Ella fills her long days by working two jobs, a paper route and at a bridal shop, as she anxiously awaits any news about her young missing daughter.
Often in books with more than one main character, I find myself preferring one story over the other(s) but that wasn’t the case here — I liked and was rooting for all three MCs, whose lives connect through work, location, and circumstance. I felt for each of them and the difficult experiences they were enduring. While loss is a theme in A Quiet Life, hope is also present in the story. Through Chuck, Kirsten, and Ella, we are reminded that people can be kind and that even on our dark days, we’re not alone in our feelings.
October 26, 2022
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️✨
That's right, I give this book 5.5 stars. My morals won't let me give it 5 stars.
Nothing else I've ever read has come close to it.
This is for you if you love:
💕Love Actually
💕Magnolia (the movie)
💕A Little Hope
💕The Family Stone (the movie)
💕Art that feels like it has an old soul
💕If you’ve lived through grief, loss, heartbreak, and want something that will remind you how beautiful and joyful the world can be
𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳, 𝗯𝘂𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸. 𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀, 𝗯𝘂𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸.
✍️When I picked up A Quiet Life, I had high expectations. I had read Joella’s previous novel ‘’A Little Hope’’ and was absolutely blown away. But not even A Little Hope prepared me for this. It left me completely wrecked in a hopeful manner. I’m heartbroken that I’ve finished this book.
Set in a close-knit Pennsylvania suburb in the grip of winter, A Quiet Life follows three people grappling with loss and finding a tender wisdom in their grief.
Chuck Ayers used to look forward to nothing so much as his annual trip to Hilton Head with his wife, Cat—that yearly taste of relaxation they’d become accustomed to in retirement, after a lifetime of working and raising two children. But when Cat dies suddenly, Chuck is left completely alone in the world. Ella Burke delivers morning newspapers and works at a bridal shop to fill her days while she anxiously awaits news—any piece of information—about her kidnapped daughter. Kirsten Bonato set aside her veterinary school aspirations, finding comfort in the steady routine of working at an animal shelter after her father was shot at a gas station.
💕💕Rarely will I ever love and relate to all main characters of a novel, but I did in this one.
💕💕A Quiet Life is a book form of the hyperlink cinema, where we have intersecting stories that come together to create a greater whole. Each character is dealing with their own pain, but they all find ways to support one another at the end in a realistic way. The bond that these characters form is truly beautiful to witness.
💕💕A Quiet Life is more than just a story about grief and loss. It's a story about healing and hope. Joella does an amazing job of showing us that there is always light at the end of the tunnel, even when things seem darkest. These characters are broken but they are also resilient; they are fighting tooth and nail to hold on to life and to find happiness again. And I relate to that.
💕💕A Quiet Life is one of the most beautifully written books I have ever read. The prose is multilayered and evocative with just the right amount of details; it truly sucks you into the story and immerses you in the characters' lives. Joella has a gift for crafting unforgettable characters and powerful stories that stay with you long after you finish reading them. If you're looking for a moving, poignant read, then I highly recommend picking up A Quiet Life. You won't regret it.
Also, please tell me this is being turned to a movie???
That's right, I give this book 5.5 stars. My morals won't let me give it 5 stars.
Nothing else I've ever read has come close to it.
This is for you if you love:
💕Love Actually
💕Magnolia (the movie)
💕A Little Hope
💕The Family Stone (the movie)
💕Art that feels like it has an old soul
💕If you’ve lived through grief, loss, heartbreak, and want something that will remind you how beautiful and joyful the world can be
𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳, 𝗯𝘂𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸. 𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀, 𝗯𝘂𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸.
✍️When I picked up A Quiet Life, I had high expectations. I had read Joella’s previous novel ‘’A Little Hope’’ and was absolutely blown away. But not even A Little Hope prepared me for this. It left me completely wrecked in a hopeful manner. I’m heartbroken that I’ve finished this book.
Set in a close-knit Pennsylvania suburb in the grip of winter, A Quiet Life follows three people grappling with loss and finding a tender wisdom in their grief.
Chuck Ayers used to look forward to nothing so much as his annual trip to Hilton Head with his wife, Cat—that yearly taste of relaxation they’d become accustomed to in retirement, after a lifetime of working and raising two children. But when Cat dies suddenly, Chuck is left completely alone in the world. Ella Burke delivers morning newspapers and works at a bridal shop to fill her days while she anxiously awaits news—any piece of information—about her kidnapped daughter. Kirsten Bonato set aside her veterinary school aspirations, finding comfort in the steady routine of working at an animal shelter after her father was shot at a gas station.
💕💕Rarely will I ever love and relate to all main characters of a novel, but I did in this one.
💕💕A Quiet Life is a book form of the hyperlink cinema, where we have intersecting stories that come together to create a greater whole. Each character is dealing with their own pain, but they all find ways to support one another at the end in a realistic way. The bond that these characters form is truly beautiful to witness.
💕💕A Quiet Life is more than just a story about grief and loss. It's a story about healing and hope. Joella does an amazing job of showing us that there is always light at the end of the tunnel, even when things seem darkest. These characters are broken but they are also resilient; they are fighting tooth and nail to hold on to life and to find happiness again. And I relate to that.
💕💕A Quiet Life is one of the most beautifully written books I have ever read. The prose is multilayered and evocative with just the right amount of details; it truly sucks you into the story and immerses you in the characters' lives. Joella has a gift for crafting unforgettable characters and powerful stories that stay with you long after you finish reading them. If you're looking for a moving, poignant read, then I highly recommend picking up A Quiet Life. You won't regret it.
Also, please tell me this is being turned to a movie???
November 10, 2022
A Quiet Life
is one of those books that grabs your heart and doesn’t let go.
A Little Hope , the debut novel by Ethan Joella, was one of my absolute favorite books last year. I received an advance copy and knew nothing about it, and still can’t get it out of my mind. So when Ethan offered me an advance copy of his upcoming novel, you bet I said yes—but I’ve been holding on to it since it doesn’t come out until November.
This is another of those books that sneaks up on you and hooks you completely. But, like the title says, it’s a quiet story, about love, about overcoming grief and taking tentative steps toward something new, and about our desperate need for connection, especially in times of trouble.
“Maybe loving someone so deeply means accepting the fact that they occupy a specific, clear place in you. You accept that there will be a hole if you lose them—the same way a painting or photograph will leave its shadow on the wall after it’s gone, the way a tree will leave a crater where the roots and stump were.”
The book follows the lives of three characters—Chuck, a widower still coming to terms with grief and guilt after his wife’s death, as he tries to will himself to make their annual sojourn to Hilton Head without her; Ella, a young mother struggling to hold on after her daughter goes missing; and Kirsten, whose father’s unexpected death has left her in a kind of emotional limbo. The three will interact in ways that will change them profoundly.
Joella’s storytelling, the emotions he imbues his story with, and the characters he has created, are so exceptional. It’s powerful without being flashy, and it touches you without being maudlin.
Thanks so much to Ethan and Scribner Books for the advance copy in exchange for an unbiased review!! The book will publish 11/29.
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A Little Hope , the debut novel by Ethan Joella, was one of my absolute favorite books last year. I received an advance copy and knew nothing about it, and still can’t get it out of my mind. So when Ethan offered me an advance copy of his upcoming novel, you bet I said yes—but I’ve been holding on to it since it doesn’t come out until November.
This is another of those books that sneaks up on you and hooks you completely. But, like the title says, it’s a quiet story, about love, about overcoming grief and taking tentative steps toward something new, and about our desperate need for connection, especially in times of trouble.
“Maybe loving someone so deeply means accepting the fact that they occupy a specific, clear place in you. You accept that there will be a hole if you lose them—the same way a painting or photograph will leave its shadow on the wall after it’s gone, the way a tree will leave a crater where the roots and stump were.”
The book follows the lives of three characters—Chuck, a widower still coming to terms with grief and guilt after his wife’s death, as he tries to will himself to make their annual sojourn to Hilton Head without her; Ella, a young mother struggling to hold on after her daughter goes missing; and Kirsten, whose father’s unexpected death has left her in a kind of emotional limbo. The three will interact in ways that will change them profoundly.
Joella’s storytelling, the emotions he imbues his story with, and the characters he has created, are so exceptional. It’s powerful without being flashy, and it touches you without being maudlin.
Thanks so much to Ethan and Scribner Books for the advance copy in exchange for an unbiased review!! The book will publish 11/29.
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April 19, 2025
A Quiet Life tells the story of 3 people dealing with loss, and what happens when they meet.
Chuck’s wife Cat died. They had many happy years together, and he is dealing with loss and regret. Ella lives each day, hoping to hear from her daughter. And Kirsten’s life feels stuck after her father’s death. Sound like a fun book?! Well, the beginning is dealing with a lot of grief and loss.
The three cross paths in unexpected ways. At first just peripherally, and then with more intention. They come to realize the pain within each other, support each other, and through that and other people in their lives, healing begins.
It’s a gently paced sweet book. It’s a reminder to let others into our lives, and that we can move forward, while keeping loved ones in our heart.
Chuck’s wife Cat died. They had many happy years together, and he is dealing with loss and regret. Ella lives each day, hoping to hear from her daughter. And Kirsten’s life feels stuck after her father’s death. Sound like a fun book?! Well, the beginning is dealing with a lot of grief and loss.
The three cross paths in unexpected ways. At first just peripherally, and then with more intention. They come to realize the pain within each other, support each other, and through that and other people in their lives, healing begins.
It’s a gently paced sweet book. It’s a reminder to let others into our lives, and that we can move forward, while keeping loved ones in our heart.
November 14, 2022
This was a really good read. I haven't read the author's first book, A LITTLE HOPE yet, but after enjoying this one, I'll definitely have to check that one out as well. This book deals with grief and loss. At times, it can be very heavy, but you still feel hope for these characters.
It alternates between the three characters. Kirsten, a college grad, whose father was murdered at a gas station. She's put her plans of going to veterinary school on hold while she deals with this huge loss. She continues to work at a pet rescue.
Chuck is in his 70s and has lost his wife to cancer. They would travel every winter to Hilton Head, and this year it's prepaid , but he can't imagine going there without her. He is so consumed by grief.
Then, there's Ella. Her ex-husband has taken their daughter and she has no clue where to. The police don't seem as worried about it as she is. She's just working to pay the bills, and constantly waiting for a call to hear about her daughter, and she is struggling.
As these characters deal with their pain, their lives connect with one another in ways that will help them change , and grow. Such a powerful book. I really felt connected to these characters as I understood their grief. I especially felt a connection with Kirsten. I lost my dad to cancer and will never forget that pain. This story will stick with me for a long time!!
Thank you to the publisher and author for the gifted copy. All opinions are my own!
It alternates between the three characters. Kirsten, a college grad, whose father was murdered at a gas station. She's put her plans of going to veterinary school on hold while she deals with this huge loss. She continues to work at a pet rescue.
Chuck is in his 70s and has lost his wife to cancer. They would travel every winter to Hilton Head, and this year it's prepaid , but he can't imagine going there without her. He is so consumed by grief.
Then, there's Ella. Her ex-husband has taken their daughter and she has no clue where to. The police don't seem as worried about it as she is. She's just working to pay the bills, and constantly waiting for a call to hear about her daughter, and she is struggling.
As these characters deal with their pain, their lives connect with one another in ways that will help them change , and grow. Such a powerful book. I really felt connected to these characters as I understood their grief. I especially felt a connection with Kirsten. I lost my dad to cancer and will never forget that pain. This story will stick with me for a long time!!
Thank you to the publisher and author for the gifted copy. All opinions are my own!
November 3, 2022
Actual rating 4.5 stars.
Just like A Little Hope, Ethan Joella’s debut novel, his sophomore book, A Quiet Life, is about grief and loss. The story centers on a septuagenarian who lost his wife to cancer, a mom whose daughter has been kidnapped by her ex-husband, and a twenty-something whose dad has been killed.
What I like most about Ethan Joella’s writing is the quietness and how he interweaves the lives of different grieving people who seemingly have no connection with each other. He did this in A Little Hope, and he does it again in A Quiet Life. His writing style reminds me a bit of Fredrik Backman’s, third person/present tense, a little distant and so personal simultaneously. The story starts with Chuck wearing a towel around his neck. The towel Cat, his wife, used for years. Because of this, the story immediately felt so incredibly intimate. Nothing much happens, and at the same time, Ethan pulled me into the story, and I couldn’t let go because the grief of Chuck, Ella, and Kirsten seeped through the pages and was so tangible. The story is not only about grief, though. It’s also about finding those small rays of sunlight in your life again.
A Quiet Life is beautifully written, and I highly recommend it to anyone who loves to read stilled stories about grief and healing.
I received an ARC from Simon and Schuster (Scribner) and Edelweiss in exchange for an honest review.
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Just like A Little Hope, Ethan Joella’s debut novel, his sophomore book, A Quiet Life, is about grief and loss. The story centers on a septuagenarian who lost his wife to cancer, a mom whose daughter has been kidnapped by her ex-husband, and a twenty-something whose dad has been killed.
What I like most about Ethan Joella’s writing is the quietness and how he interweaves the lives of different grieving people who seemingly have no connection with each other. He did this in A Little Hope, and he does it again in A Quiet Life. His writing style reminds me a bit of Fredrik Backman’s, third person/present tense, a little distant and so personal simultaneously. The story starts with Chuck wearing a towel around his neck. The towel Cat, his wife, used for years. Because of this, the story immediately felt so incredibly intimate. Nothing much happens, and at the same time, Ethan pulled me into the story, and I couldn’t let go because the grief of Chuck, Ella, and Kirsten seeped through the pages and was so tangible. The story is not only about grief, though. It’s also about finding those small rays of sunlight in your life again.
A Quiet Life is beautifully written, and I highly recommend it to anyone who loves to read stilled stories about grief and healing.
I received an ARC from Simon and Schuster (Scribner) and Edelweiss in exchange for an honest review.
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August 6, 2022
2.5/5
There's really nothing actively bad about this novel, and I can appreciate its intersecting depictions of grief and loss, but almost everything about it feels pedestrian and lacks color. The characters often feel like light sketches rather than people, and it's not just for lack of space to fully develop them, as a lot of time is spent reiterating their struggles rather than expanding upon them (or the characters as a whole), which can feel particularly repetitive with the interlaced structure. I tend to like quiet books and books that don't have much of a plot, but there isn't anything special in the language or prose here that would provide the intrigue and momentum that the story itself can't provide. Then once you get to the final third or so of the novel it cranks the plot up considerably and then it feels like that's all there is. Intriguing and gets the pages turning, sure, but it's abrupt and feels like it pushes the characters along too quickly. I don't feel it does anything especially interesting with the concept of an intersecting tapestry of characters beyond what you might expect - conveniences and we're all connected and all that. Conclusions and realizations that occur in the final chapters feel relatively unearned because of how minimal the characters are, and it all comes to a typically broadly satisfying end, which just doesn't tend to be what resonates with me personally.
I liked aspects of the story and there was some poignancy at times that feels relatively genuine, but virtually everything about this book is middle-of-the-road. A fairly light and enjoyable read, but likely easily forgotten.
Thank you to Netgalley and Scribner for the eARC.
There's really nothing actively bad about this novel, and I can appreciate its intersecting depictions of grief and loss, but almost everything about it feels pedestrian and lacks color. The characters often feel like light sketches rather than people, and it's not just for lack of space to fully develop them, as a lot of time is spent reiterating their struggles rather than expanding upon them (or the characters as a whole), which can feel particularly repetitive with the interlaced structure. I tend to like quiet books and books that don't have much of a plot, but there isn't anything special in the language or prose here that would provide the intrigue and momentum that the story itself can't provide. Then once you get to the final third or so of the novel it cranks the plot up considerably and then it feels like that's all there is. Intriguing and gets the pages turning, sure, but it's abrupt and feels like it pushes the characters along too quickly. I don't feel it does anything especially interesting with the concept of an intersecting tapestry of characters beyond what you might expect - conveniences and we're all connected and all that. Conclusions and realizations that occur in the final chapters feel relatively unearned because of how minimal the characters are, and it all comes to a typically broadly satisfying end, which just doesn't tend to be what resonates with me personally.
I liked aspects of the story and there was some poignancy at times that feels relatively genuine, but virtually everything about this book is middle-of-the-road. A fairly light and enjoyable read, but likely easily forgotten.
Thank you to Netgalley and Scribner for the eARC.
July 1, 2024
Master storyteller Ethan Joella returns following A Little Hope with his latest novel—A QUIET LIFE, where three unlikely characters connect in unforeseen ways in this heartwarming story of regret, love, loss, and second chances.
Set in the winter of Bethlehem, PA, we meet three characters —Chuck, Kirsten, and Ella. Each of them has suffered a terrible loss.
Chuck Ayers is a recent widower in his 70s whose grief after the death of his wife, Cat, is overwhelming. How can he go on without her?
Every year they rent a place in Hilton Head, SC. The lease agreement stares at him, and the rental is paid in full. However, how can he go without her?
He needs to ease his guilt. He tends to obsess about an argument with his wife over a young artist named Natasha she wanted to help that worked as a waitress at the diner. He disagreed. This woman haunts him. He must find her to see how she turned out and to let her know his wife has passed.
Kirsten Bonato is a recent college graduate who dreamed of traveling around Europe and attending veterinary school. The 20-something whose father was murdered as an innocent bystander during a gas station robbery. She is wracked with grief, even going so far as to abandon her plans to apply to veterinary school, still working at an animal shelter.
Ella Burke, a young mother whose ex-husband kidnapped their daughter, 8-yr-old Riley, early from school three months ago and ultimately disappeared. She is struggling financially and emotionally. Will she ever see her daughter again?
Ella's life is falling apart. She has lost her house (and even goes to the new owners to inform them of her daughter, that may show up one day, and to call her immediately). She now works two jobs to pay her rent.
She delivers papers in the early mornings (Chuck is on her route) and sees this man sitting and looking out the window. He looks lonely. She also works at a bridal store. She never gives up hope of finding her daughter.
How will these three parallel narratives converge?
Filled with stunning metaphors and symbols, such as the cardinal, "The most special birds because they kept us company in winter when the other birds leave."
A QUIET LIFE is charming and heartwarming. Readers will find friendship, community, and kindness on full display.
With beautiful storytelling and lyrical prose, an uplifting novel about friendship, grief, surprising revelations, and hope. When "family" doesn't always have to be defined in the traditional sense. Home isn't always where we expect it to be, and the love of friends is all we need.
For fans of authors Elizabeth Berg, Catherine Ryan Hyde, Elizabeth Strout, and Fredrik Backman.
Joella deftly weaves stories of roads taken and not taken, choices made and missed opportunities, and the possibilities of second chances.
Thank you to #NetGalley and #Scribner for an e-ARC to read, review, and enjoy!
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My Rating: 4.5 Stars rounded to 5 🌟STARS
Pub Date: Nov 29, 2022
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Set in the winter of Bethlehem, PA, we meet three characters —Chuck, Kirsten, and Ella. Each of them has suffered a terrible loss.
Chuck Ayers is a recent widower in his 70s whose grief after the death of his wife, Cat, is overwhelming. How can he go on without her?
Every year they rent a place in Hilton Head, SC. The lease agreement stares at him, and the rental is paid in full. However, how can he go without her?
He needs to ease his guilt. He tends to obsess about an argument with his wife over a young artist named Natasha she wanted to help that worked as a waitress at the diner. He disagreed. This woman haunts him. He must find her to see how she turned out and to let her know his wife has passed.
Kirsten Bonato is a recent college graduate who dreamed of traveling around Europe and attending veterinary school. The 20-something whose father was murdered as an innocent bystander during a gas station robbery. She is wracked with grief, even going so far as to abandon her plans to apply to veterinary school, still working at an animal shelter.
Ella Burke, a young mother whose ex-husband kidnapped their daughter, 8-yr-old Riley, early from school three months ago and ultimately disappeared. She is struggling financially and emotionally. Will she ever see her daughter again?
Ella's life is falling apart. She has lost her house (and even goes to the new owners to inform them of her daughter, that may show up one day, and to call her immediately). She now works two jobs to pay her rent.
She delivers papers in the early mornings (Chuck is on her route) and sees this man sitting and looking out the window. He looks lonely. She also works at a bridal store. She never gives up hope of finding her daughter.
How will these three parallel narratives converge?
Filled with stunning metaphors and symbols, such as the cardinal, "The most special birds because they kept us company in winter when the other birds leave."
A QUIET LIFE is charming and heartwarming. Readers will find friendship, community, and kindness on full display.
With beautiful storytelling and lyrical prose, an uplifting novel about friendship, grief, surprising revelations, and hope. When "family" doesn't always have to be defined in the traditional sense. Home isn't always where we expect it to be, and the love of friends is all we need.
For fans of authors Elizabeth Berg, Catherine Ryan Hyde, Elizabeth Strout, and Fredrik Backman.
Joella deftly weaves stories of roads taken and not taken, choices made and missed opportunities, and the possibilities of second chances.
Thank you to #NetGalley and #Scribner for an e-ARC to read, review, and enjoy!
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My Rating: 4.5 Stars rounded to 5 🌟STARS
Pub Date: Nov 29, 2022
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January 14, 2024
Audiobook: Really liked it!
Three narrators and three stories that intertwine. The ending was very satisfying. Recommend!
Three narrators and three stories that intertwine. The ending was very satisfying. Recommend!
August 16, 2023
A Quiet Life by Ethan Joella
Synopsis /
An unforgettable novel that will break your heart and put it back together again piece by piece' Clare Reynolds. From the author of the critically acclaimed debut, A Little Hope comes an enormously powerful and life-affirming novel about three individuals whose lives intersect in unforeseen ways. Set in a close-knit Pennsylvania suburb in the grip of winter, A Quiet Life follows three people grappling with loss and finding a tender wisdom in their grief. Chuck Ayers used to look forward to nothing so much as his annual trip to Hilton Head with his wife, Cat. Now, just months after Cat's death, Chuck finds that he can't let go of her things, as he struggles to pack for a trip he can't imagine taking without her. Ella Burke delivers morning newspapers and works at a bridal shop to fill her days while she anxiously awaits news—any piece of information—about her missing daughter. Ella adjusts to life in a new apartment and answers every call on her phone, hoping her daughter will reach out one day. After the sudden death of her father, Kirsten Bonato set aside her veterinary school aspirations, finding comfort in the steady routine of working at an animal shelter. But as time passes, old dreams and new romantic interests begin to surface—and Kirsten finds herself at another crossroads. In this beautifully crafted and profoundly moving novel, three parallel narratives converge in poignant and unexpected ways, as each character bravely presses onward, trying to recover something they have lost. Emotionally riveting and infused with hope, A Quiet Life celebrates humanity in the midst of uncertainty.
My Thoughts /
A Quiet Life is a purely character driven plot. It's a slow read and at times, emotionally challenging - as grief is a main theme. While I did enjoy this book overall, I can see that it might not be the best reading choice for some, and am certainly looking for something light, humorous, and uplifting to read next.
Joella introduces us to three main characters. All three characters are residents of a tight knit suburb in Pennsylvania, and all three are grieving; trying to process an individual moment in time where a tragic event has occurred which has shattered their lives.
Widower, Chuck Ayers is grieving, he lost his wife to cancer. He feels like a ship adrift without his beloved, Cat.
Ella Burke's marriage is irretrievably broken. Ella Burke has moved out of the marital home, her marriage to husband Kyle is irretrievably broken. Ella now works two jobs to make ends meet and shares custody of their young daughter, Riley with her ex-husband. When Kyle is a 'no show' to drop Riley off for a scheduled visit, Ella discovers that Kyle has done a 'runner' with her daughter. When we come into Ella's story, Kyle and Riley have been missing for some months already. Ella is beside herself with worry and wants nothing more than for Riley to be found safe and well.
Kirsten Bonato's father was shot and killed during an armed robbery at the petrol station where he worked. Kirsten is finding it difficult to come to terms with the fact that her father won't be coming home, she's now just treading water with her life - questioning all her life choices and putting her dreams on hold.
What Joella serves the reader at the start of the novel are three seemingly separate stories; but the further you read; Joella has all three characters' lives converging in a most unexpected way. Joella has not only written a terrific story but written it beautifully. From way the stories intertwine and intersect, the subtle reveals along the way, there is not one wasted word. Joella's writing brings you into the story. It's almost like you are reading a memoir, not a fiction novel. Joella explores with such sensitivity and compassion just how hard life can be. But for all its hardness, here are three people who are striving to be better. So very inspirational.
Synopsis /
An unforgettable novel that will break your heart and put it back together again piece by piece' Clare Reynolds. From the author of the critically acclaimed debut, A Little Hope comes an enormously powerful and life-affirming novel about three individuals whose lives intersect in unforeseen ways. Set in a close-knit Pennsylvania suburb in the grip of winter, A Quiet Life follows three people grappling with loss and finding a tender wisdom in their grief. Chuck Ayers used to look forward to nothing so much as his annual trip to Hilton Head with his wife, Cat. Now, just months after Cat's death, Chuck finds that he can't let go of her things, as he struggles to pack for a trip he can't imagine taking without her. Ella Burke delivers morning newspapers and works at a bridal shop to fill her days while she anxiously awaits news—any piece of information—about her missing daughter. Ella adjusts to life in a new apartment and answers every call on her phone, hoping her daughter will reach out one day. After the sudden death of her father, Kirsten Bonato set aside her veterinary school aspirations, finding comfort in the steady routine of working at an animal shelter. But as time passes, old dreams and new romantic interests begin to surface—and Kirsten finds herself at another crossroads. In this beautifully crafted and profoundly moving novel, three parallel narratives converge in poignant and unexpected ways, as each character bravely presses onward, trying to recover something they have lost. Emotionally riveting and infused with hope, A Quiet Life celebrates humanity in the midst of uncertainty.
My Thoughts /
A Quiet Life is a purely character driven plot. It's a slow read and at times, emotionally challenging - as grief is a main theme. While I did enjoy this book overall, I can see that it might not be the best reading choice for some, and am certainly looking for something light, humorous, and uplifting to read next.
Joella introduces us to three main characters. All three characters are residents of a tight knit suburb in Pennsylvania, and all three are grieving; trying to process an individual moment in time where a tragic event has occurred which has shattered their lives.
Widower, Chuck Ayers is grieving, he lost his wife to cancer. He feels like a ship adrift without his beloved, Cat.
Ella Burke's marriage is irretrievably broken. Ella Burke has moved out of the marital home, her marriage to husband Kyle is irretrievably broken. Ella now works two jobs to make ends meet and shares custody of their young daughter, Riley with her ex-husband. When Kyle is a 'no show' to drop Riley off for a scheduled visit, Ella discovers that Kyle has done a 'runner' with her daughter. When we come into Ella's story, Kyle and Riley have been missing for some months already. Ella is beside herself with worry and wants nothing more than for Riley to be found safe and well.
Kirsten Bonato's father was shot and killed during an armed robbery at the petrol station where he worked. Kirsten is finding it difficult to come to terms with the fact that her father won't be coming home, she's now just treading water with her life - questioning all her life choices and putting her dreams on hold.
What Joella serves the reader at the start of the novel are three seemingly separate stories; but the further you read; Joella has all three characters' lives converging in a most unexpected way. Joella has not only written a terrific story but written it beautifully. From way the stories intertwine and intersect, the subtle reveals along the way, there is not one wasted word. Joella's writing brings you into the story. It's almost like you are reading a memoir, not a fiction novel. Joella explores with such sensitivity and compassion just how hard life can be. But for all its hardness, here are three people who are striving to be better. So very inspirational.
July 28, 2022
Beautifully written examination of grief and healing. Ethan Joella's background as a professor is evident in making each and every character live. This kind of quiet, nonconfrontational novel was just perfect for these turbulent times, a story that lives up to its description and title and with a lovely cover that conveys its meaning in, yes, a quiet image.
July 21, 2023
As humans we all suffer loss and grief. How we express it, deal with it & learn to live with it is a personal journey; but we can ask for help or give it. There is grief yet there is hope, and love even in a Quiet Life.
November 29, 2022
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ A QUIET LIFE was such an incredibly beautiful book. I’m not going to lie, I was truly drawn to this one because of the gorgeous cover. I haven’t read Joella’s debut (but I’ve since ordered it!) and knew nothing about the premise of his newest book, I just knew I needed it.
This is a story about loss and connection. There were so many acts of kindness that brought tears to my eyes. You never know the pain a person is carrying, but I think we can all recognize how impactful even the smallest bit of generosity can be, especially when we’re hurting.
If you are in a place where you’re grieving and that grief is pretty fresh, I might suggest holding off on this. That being said, I lost someone a few years ago and I am so glad I read this book. The writing was so compelling and I really felt like I could connect with each character in different ways. We all experience and process loss in different ways and Joella examines that in such a raw and profound way. I loved the connections between the characters and how they helped each other cope and heal.
A QUIET LIFE will stick with me for a very long time.
This is a story about loss and connection. There were so many acts of kindness that brought tears to my eyes. You never know the pain a person is carrying, but I think we can all recognize how impactful even the smallest bit of generosity can be, especially when we’re hurting.
If you are in a place where you’re grieving and that grief is pretty fresh, I might suggest holding off on this. That being said, I lost someone a few years ago and I am so glad I read this book. The writing was so compelling and I really felt like I could connect with each character in different ways. We all experience and process loss in different ways and Joella examines that in such a raw and profound way. I loved the connections between the characters and how they helped each other cope and heal.
A QUIET LIFE will stick with me for a very long time.
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August 26, 2022Beautifully written look at what people's lives look like on the inside.
December 30, 2022
What a wonderful, memorable, and poignant novel! I loved every single page, and wished I could meet the characters in real life.
I loved how the author referenced one of my favourite short stories in the novel, "The Last Leaf" by O. Henry.
Another aspect of this novel which I appreciated was how the author had three separate characters and connected them through fate, and the recognition of each other's pain.
The story explores how we tend to keep ourselves to ourselves when we are in pain. How doing the opposite of this - letting others into our lives - can bring about such succour.
This is ostensibly a novel about loss and regret, yet it is permeated with hope. It delves into some serious, heart-wrenching issues like the death of a spouse, death of a parent, and parental kidnapping, but does it with such empathy that the reader feels better just for having read it. "A Quiet Life" is about people trying to live their lives when horrible things happen. These particular people though, do it with grace, kindness, and dignity.
A wonderful, poignant read which I highly recommend. All in all, a fabulous novel which is sure to be one of my lifelong favorites.
I loved how the author referenced one of my favourite short stories in the novel, "The Last Leaf" by O. Henry.
Another aspect of this novel which I appreciated was how the author had three separate characters and connected them through fate, and the recognition of each other's pain.
The story explores how we tend to keep ourselves to ourselves when we are in pain. How doing the opposite of this - letting others into our lives - can bring about such succour.
This is ostensibly a novel about loss and regret, yet it is permeated with hope. It delves into some serious, heart-wrenching issues like the death of a spouse, death of a parent, and parental kidnapping, but does it with such empathy that the reader feels better just for having read it. "A Quiet Life" is about people trying to live their lives when horrible things happen. These particular people though, do it with grace, kindness, and dignity.
A wonderful, poignant read which I highly recommend. All in all, a fabulous novel which is sure to be one of my lifelong favorites.
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