Let me start with some context. Growing up, I was a heavy internet user. I still remember getting my first iPhone in 2010, followed by an iPad soon after. Over the years, I began consuming more and more products and services on my phone, tablet, PlayStation, TV, and other devices—primarily playing games and watching content. Social media hit especially hard. I used to be a very social person, changing schools multiple times within the same city and easily connecting with many people.
However, when social media entered the picture, I now realize it took the “social” out of me. I started indulging in a lot of content created by others, and more often than not, my engagement became one-sided.
By 2019, I started noticing early signs of a significant problem with my technology usage. This realization marked the beginning of my journey to curate my relationship with technology. I wanted to use it to enhance my thinking, learning, and productivity. But by then, the tech industry and its architecture had evolved to keep users perpetually engaged.
This led me to a simple but profound question: What do we use technology for, and what do we expect from it?
I never seriously considered this question until I read a book by Nandan Nilekani. I initially discovered him through his other book, Rebooting India, which left me deeply impressed by his contributions to the country. Naturally, I sought out more of his work, leading me to this book.
It was a surprising read, offering a clear perspective on our relationship with technology—both individually and collectively. What surprised me even more were the practical recommendations it provided for addressing these issues. I found myself adopting many of its suggestions.
As a knowledge worker, I’ve often struggled to distinguish between work-related communication, creation, and consumption. The book introduced a simple framework for managing these: divide your time into Create (deep work), Curate (focused reading), and Communicate (messaging and email).
On a broader scale, the book also delved into issues like privacy and the immense power organizations wield in shaping the internet—and by extension, our behavior. The solution presented was the “India Stack.”
I had been aware of India Stack for some time and wanted to explore its roots and future implications. As I understand it now, India Stack is an incredible achievement—a suite of products and organizations working together harmoniously. It’s remarkable to see something so complex implemented at such scale, and it fills me with pride and faith in our country.
This book was an unintentional discovery that ended up among my top five reads of all time.