A moving and incandescent volume from a poet celebrated for her “unfailing mastery of her medium” ( New York Times Book Review ). In poems of graceful lyricism and penetrating observation, award-winning poet Linda Pastan sheds new light on the complexities of ordinary life and the rising tide of mortality. Drawing from Pastan’s five most recent volumes and including over thirty new poems, Almost an Elegy reflects on beauty, old age, and the probability of loss. With signature precision and quiet power, selections from The Last Uncle (2002) and Queen of a Rainy Country (2006) explore childhood, love, landscape, and the many pleasures of the imagination. Poems from Insomnia (2015) and Traveling Light (2011) chime with similar themes of aging, memory, and language. The new poems offer a profound portrait of a poet contemplating her life and the endurance of art, amidst the fleeting beauty of nature and the everyday losses that accompany old age. In “The Collected Poems,” Pastan writes, “For years I wrestled / with syllables, with silence.” Now, after a long and celebrated career, the poet rests “in a hammock of words, waiting / for the sun to rise again / over the horizon of the page.” Whether in a lush evocation of an impressionist painting or a wry and wistful ode to a car key, Pastan finds lucid meaning in the passage of time.
In 1932, Linda Pastan was born to a Jewish family in the Bronx. She graduated from Radcliffe College and received an MA from Brandeis University.
She is the author of Traveling Light (W. W. Norton & Co., 2011); Queen of a Rainy Country (2006); The Last Uncle (2002); Carnival Evening: New and Selected Poems 1968-1998 (1998), which was nominated for the National Book Award; An Early Afterlife (l995); Heroes In Disguise (1991), The Imperfect Paradise (1988), a nominee for the Los Angeles Times Book Prize; PM/AM: New and Selected Poems (l982), which was nominated for the National Book Award; The Five Stages of Grief (l978), and A Perfect Circle of Sun (l971).
About Pastan's The Five Stages of Grief, the poet May Sarton said, "It is about all her integrity that has made Linda Pastan such a rewarding poet. Nothing is here for effect. There is no self-pity, but in this new book she has reached down to a deeper layer and is letting the darkness in. These poems are full of foreboding and acceptance, a wry unsentimental acceptance of hard truth. They are valuable as signposts, and in the end, as arrivals. Pastan's signature is growth."
Among her many awards and honors include a Pushcart Prize, a Dylan Thomas Award, the Di Castagnola Award, the Bess Hokin Prize, the Maurice English Award, the Charity Randall Citation, and the 2003 Ruth Lilly Poetry Prize. She was a recipient of a Radcliffe College Distinguished Alumnae Award.
From 1991 to 1995, she served as the Poet Laureate of Maryland, and was among the staff of the Breadloaf Writers Conference for twenty years. Linda Pastan lives in Potomac, Maryland.
‘Poetry is not a code to be broken but a way of seeing with the eyes shut,’ wrote poet Linda Pastan. I love this view of poetry, as a guide through life existing on emotions and vibes more than some academic puzzle to decode, something that harmonizes with your inner being and allows you to feel the rhythms of ideas and existence. I was saddened to learn that Pastan (1932-2023) had passed this week at the age of 90, but reminded of how lovely her words are and how much they meant to me. Pastan is a poet who manages to capture the anxieties that exist in everyday life—the personal moments that occur ‘behind the news of the day’—and often works in themes on grief (‘ Grief is a circular staircase / I have lost you.’), marriage and death. Or, as Pastan says herself, her poems have ‘ interest in metaphor, in the changing of the seasons, in Eden, in the dangers lurking beneath the surfaces of everyday life, in Death just waiting.’ Nominated twice for the National Book Award, Pastan’s poetry is highly moving with a sweetness of slice-of-life moments, managing to be emotionally complex yet blissfully accessible while the surface of the poem still hints at the mysteries to unpack just beneath. A lovely poet with a long legacy, she will be missed yet I am thankful for the words she leaves behind. Such as Imaginary Conversation, which has long been amongst my favorite poems:
You tell me to live each day as if it were my last. This is in the kitchen where before coffee I complain of the day ahead—that obstacle race of minutes and hours, grocery stores and doctors.
But why the last? I ask. Why not live each day as if it were the first— all raw astonishment, Eve rubbing her eyes awake that first morning, the sun coming up like an ingénue in the east?
You grind the coffee with the small roar of a mind trying to clear itself. I set the table, glance out the window where dew has baptized every living surface.
This collection does what Selected poems do best: select an overview from the poet’s work that best represents them and here you can find some startlingly good poems. I first came across Pastan in an anthology (it was the poem above) and knew right then and there she was a poet I had to explore further. I love finding a poet who’s words you immediately fall in love with, and few poets have ever captured this feeling as well as Pastan’s own poem about that matter:
A New Poet
Finding a new poet is like finding a new wildflower out in the woods. You don't see
its name in the flower books, and nobody you tell believes in its odd color or the way
its leaves grow in splayed rows down the whole length of the page. In fact the very page smells of spilled
red wine and the mustiness of the sea on a foggy day; the odor of truth and of lying.
And the words are so familiar, so strangely new, words you almost wrote yourself, if only
in your dreams there had been a pencil or a pen or even a paintbrush, if only there had been a flower.
This captures Pastan’s style quite well, with figurative language that embodies feelings of coziness—paintbrushes and pencil, gardens, the sea washing on foggy shore, and other elements where one wouldn’t be wrong to refer to her poems as cottagecore—and Pastan tends to bring landscapes alive in imagery of ‘ dreamlike / rivers of color.’ Her poems tend to be short and concise, something I always really appreciate and this aspect made her a frequent go-to for poems that I would leave around town when I did my public poetry projects. ‘My impulse is always to condense,’ she said in an interview with the Paris Review, ‘and the few times I’ve tried writing prose, or even narrative poetry, I keep chipping away at the words until I may end up with no more than a haiku.’ In this way, Pastan is able to say so much in so little, with each poem being like a seed that in planted in your mind where it will later bloom within your thoughts.
Pastan also has a wonderfully constructed structure to most of her poem, often giving it a rather rhythmic flow. Poems like Insomnia: 3am often use the form to embody elements of the poem. The poem begins: Sleep has stepped out for a smoke and may not be back. which is lovely imagery, but the short lines in bursts of three also seem to imitate the ticking of the clock that becomes central to the poem. Pastan captures quiet moments in ways that really bring them to life with a great musicality to them and helps us see the beauty of life all around us.
The Dogwoods
I remember, in the week of the dogwoods, why sometimes we give up everything for beauty, lose our sense and our senses, as we do now for these blossoms, sprinkled like salt through the dark woods.
And like the story of pheasants with salt on their tails to tame them, look how we are made helpless by a brief explosion of petals one week in April.
‘There is an age when you are most yourself,’ Pastan writes in Something About the Trees and I love reading an overview of a poets work as you can often see who they are in the moment of each individual collection. While Pastan doesn’t stray far from her primary themes, it is wonderful to watch her thoughts progress over the years. Later poems start to approach death more often, less as a thief in the night but as someone they are preparing to meet. But it is always managed in such comforting prose, such as this from Musings Before Sleep:
The lines on my face are starting to make me look like photographs of Auden in old age. If the lines of my poems could also be as incandescent as his, would I be will to look as worn and wrinkled?’
Farewell to Linda Pastan, but at least she has left a lovely trail of words to follow her. Sweet, accessible, and always moving, these are marvelous words.
4.5/5
Why Are Your Poems so Dark?
Isn't the moon dark too, most of the time?
And doesn't the white page seem unfinished
without the dark stain of alphabets?
When God demanded light, he didn't banish darkness.
Instead he invented ebony and crows
and that small mole on your left cheekbone.
Or did you mean to ask "Why are you sad so often?"
“We’re signing up for heartbreak We know one day we’ll rue it But oh the way our life lights up The years a dog runs through it.”
I loved the unique intertwining of her reckoning with mortality (the overall theme of this collection) and the innocence of dogs in the final section of this anthology, taken from her book “A Dog Runs Through It” (2018). It really gave me peace, as someone who’s still at times pained by the sudden loss of my family dog even years later, like so many of us who hurt more deeply losing an animal than at the loss of most humans. There’s just something about a lack of closure with them that is harder to reckon with, but these words made me feel grateful for the joy they bring despite their much too-soon departure.
From Wikipedia: “[Linda Pastan] She was known for writing short poems that address topics like family life, domesticity, motherhood, the female experience, aging, death, loss and the fear of loss, as well as the fragility of life and relationships. Her final collection of poetry was Almost an Elegy, published in 2022.”
I found Ms Patan’s poems beautiful and accessible.
My brother attended his 50th high school reunion last year (mine is this year) and this poem perfectly sums up his experiences.
Class Notes
"My high school class of 1950 is disappearing over the edge of the world– a snowless avalanche. Rosalie of the pancake makeup; Alex who outran us even towards death; three Susans, two Davids, and a Roger.
When I see our class representative’s name on an incoming email, I think of how families must have felt during World War II when they saw the Western Union bicycle approaching.
And I remember all of us lining up in gym class as captains chose their teams. The line would dwindle until, on one leg then the other, I was standing almost alone. Maybe whoever is doing the choosing now thinks I would be no good at dying." -------
3.5 stars. This was good, and there were some pretty lines, but it didn't knock my socks off as much as I hoped it would. I did think it was interesting how hard she went on a theme for each different collection (e.g., Eve, dogs, death).
Favorite lines or poems:
Kristallnacht
was the word I heard my parents whisper behind closed doors. And I pictured the world under a sudden enchantment of ice, each tree limb braceleted in crystal, each lamppost, each windshield glazed and electrically gleaming, the very air wincing with light. And the only sound would be a myriad tinkling, as of a thousand thousand miniature wind chimes. The treacherous beauty of words! Crystal night: the stars themselves blazing and frozen in place.
Geography
While I remain quietly here in my anonymous woods where the steam beyond the kitchen window is so small it is only visible when it creams to ice, when even in spring, resurgent with rain, all it can do is empty itself into another stream, also small, also nameless.
3 - Memory of a Bird * 6 - For Miriam, Who Hears Voices 8 - I Hold My Breath * 9 - Truce 14 - The Tourist 17 - Plunder: To A Young Friend * 19 - Cataracts 20 - Apartment Life * 22 - The Quarry, Pontoise * 23 - Interior, Woman at the Window * 26 - Crimes 27 - How Far Would You Trust Your Art? * 28 - Mirage * 29 - The Collected Poems 35 - The Future 40 - Practicing * 49 - Ghiaccio * 56 - I Married You 59 - Rereading Frost * 61 - Geography 63 - Death Is Intended * 65 - Why Are Your Poems So Dark? * 66 - A Rainy Country 78 - On Seeing An Old Photograph 80 - Silence * 85 - Flight 89 - Insomnia: 3AM * 90 - Consider The Space Between Stars * 106 - Musings Before Sleep * 114 - In The Walled Garden * 115 - I Am Learning To Abandon The World * 122 - Envoi
As a book, it was done beautifully. The dust-jacket and hardback are definitely one of my favourite ones I’ve collected.
As for the poems, for me, the ratio of hit-and-miss would roughly be around 30-70. The second-half of “New Poems” didn’t really landed on me, while “The Last Uncle”, “Insomnia”, and “A Dog Runs Through It” also gave the same energy of the former.
Pastan’s strongest—in this collection—I say would be “Queen of the Rainy Country”.
That said, the theme (i.e. grief, elegy) is consistent throughout the whole book. If there were more bangers, it would easily be a five star for me.
Anyways, here are the banger poems that I love in Almost an Elegy:
- Tulips in a Glass Vase - Cataracts - The Clouds - Why are your poems so dark? - Years After the Garden - Last Rites
An astonishing collection of musings, largely about aging and death
You tell me to live each day as if it were my last. This is in the kitchen where before coffee I complain of the day ahead—that obstacle race of minutes and hours, grocery stores and doctors.
But why the last? I ask. Why not live each day as if it were the first— all raw astonishment, Eve rubbing her eyes awake that first morning, the sun coming up like an ingénue in the East?
You grind the coffee, with the small roar of a mind trying to clear itself. I set the table, glance out the window where dew has baptized every living surface.
4/5: (Read 75%) Through beautiful poems about death and grief, Linda Pastan creates an atmosphere that is both euphoric and melodramatic. Linda's poems about her father and his grief for his wife were quite beautiful and valuable, while the poems on her soon to be death seemed so calm. All of these emotions and tales were beautifully conveyed, even if some poems seemed to repeat the same subjects multiple ideas - one of the reasons I didn't finish, sadly. Still, I respect Linda and her craftsmanship towards her poems. Would recommend it if you're looking for some fall poetry. -Constant Reader
I have been following Linda Pastan when I first started studying poetry in 1992. She remains one of my favorites. I think this last book, "Almost an Elegy" is so appropriately named since it came out in 2022 and she died this year. Seems as though she has been thinking about death for sometime. Her poems offer her thoughts about an never ending topic of interest for poets and writers in general and people in general. Yes! Five stars from me to a master! I will read this again and again.
The last book to be published before the Author passed away an year later. Linda Pastan's Almost an Elegy is a moving collection of poems that explores the complexities of ordinary life and the rising tide of mortality. The collection includes over thirty new poems, focusing on themes of nature, beauty, old age, and loss. The poems offer a profound portrait of a poet contemplating her life and the endurance of art. Love every bit of this collection.
In equal parts poignant, even gloomy, and also uplifting, especially when a dog runs through the poems. Growing old, marriage, family, the calm but sobering lessons of the natural world, mortality, this book has it all, and more. What a life, and Pastan’s death is as devastating to me as a long-time reader as this book by the end.
A great poet but not her best poems. These from the twilight of her life are seeped in melancholy. Some are moving , evocative and greasy . . Too many are about writing poetry or particular paintings .
A collection of new and selected poems that reflect life and observations.
from A Different Kind of April: for Joan: "Heat like a hand presses down / on the heart. // No spring at all this year, / only a memory of green emerging, // of crocuses and forsythia. Of you / alive"
from Truce: "This is for my surgeon father at last / whom I've desecrated in poem after poem / for punishing me with silence, for caring too much / about the exact degree of love and respect / my adolescent self let trickle down to him"
from Almost an Elegy: for Tony Hoagland: "Your poems make me want / to write my poems, // which is a kind of plagiarism / of the spirit."