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The Catch No One Wants
The “CATCH” No One Wants —is the story of Veronica Dawson a PK (pastor’s kid), who frantically searches for potential husbands in all the wrong places—a 32-year-old successful millennial, who is obsessed with getting married because she has already missed her original goal… to be a wife by thirty. Her father Greyson watches her wrong choices and sees the men mistreat his daughter; frustrated, he seeks God’s direction. Greyson’s answered prayers prompt him to use what he knows as an expert fisher.
He invites Veronica on a two-day fishing trip for a one-on-one intervention. She does not know that her dad is on a mission to rescue her through their Christian faith teaching about dating with an intent to marry.
As a seasoned fisher, Greyson sees the behavioral similarities between men and fish. For the intervention, he creates five metaphorical stories he shares with his daughter on their trip. Four stories represent the men she has the Catfish, who loves garbage, the Salmon who avoids getting caught, the Sturgeon who likes to nibble, & the Pufferfish who is beautiful until agitated —all highlighting the dating mistakes Veronica continues making even now. The fifth story—the Goldfish—represents the man God has chosen just for her. He is the CATCH No One Wants , and the husband she deserves was standing right in front of her the entire time.
He invites Veronica on a two-day fishing trip for a one-on-one intervention. She does not know that her dad is on a mission to rescue her through their Christian faith teaching about dating with an intent to marry.
As a seasoned fisher, Greyson sees the behavioral similarities between men and fish. For the intervention, he creates five metaphorical stories he shares with his daughter on their trip. Four stories represent the men she has the Catfish, who loves garbage, the Salmon who avoids getting caught, the Sturgeon who likes to nibble, & the Pufferfish who is beautiful until agitated —all highlighting the dating mistakes Veronica continues making even now. The fifth story—the Goldfish—represents the man God has chosen just for her. He is the CATCH No One Wants , and the husband she deserves was standing right in front of her the entire time.
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190 pages, Paperback
Published April 22, 2022
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About the author
Velma Bagby
15 books19 followersDr. Velma Bagby
An Award-Winning Author /Certified Dating/Relationship Coach / Minister (ThD) / Speaker
Dr. Velma Bagby loves the Lord with all her heart. God is at the forefront of everything she does in life, ministry, writing and in service to others.
She became an Author of Christian Fiction/Nonfiction after retiring from her 38 years with State Government working as a Deputy Administrator. Tired of watching the pattern of today’s dating culture and encouraged by her daughters to help other Christian single women, she wrote her first Christian nonfiction relationship-focused book based on their conversations. The book Your Adam Is Asleep Until God Opens His Eyes, became a call to action for single Christian women to date with intent. As a Christian Coach and a member of the AACC (American Association of Christian Counselors, Dr. Velma has coached/counseled over 30+ years, providing pastoral/pre-marital/marriage counseling.
Dr. Velma continued her writing on love and relationships with her short Kindle story, My 70s Love Story, & found in the Back in the Day Anthology. She shares dating from the 70s perspective, when dating was for fun, and guys treated girls more respectful. She jokes about her “husband to-be prayer list” and how God changed some of the details in the man he sent her. Dr. Velma uses her inspiration from her own blessed marriage of 48+ years to her high school sweetheart and does not hesitate to be transparent when she shares her personal journey, which is rich with tips for women prior to saying “I do”.
Her 2020 release is a Christian fiction book entitled A Place Called Down-Why Christians Suffer. She deviates from a relationship-focus topic to bring us into her own testimony of tests, trials, and tribulations, to offer insight into a place of suffering common to us all. She shares why God allows it and how He is in control the entire time. She is a member of the American Christian Fiction Writers (ACFW).
She returns to her love of writing about mate-seeking, dating-relationships with her upcoming book entitled, The CATCH No One Wants-Discover the husband you deserve through intentional dating, releasing in 2022.
I would love to connect:
Website: https://drvelma.com
FB page: facebook.com/DrVelmaB
instagram.com/drvelmabagby_author
Twitter: twitter.com/BagbyVelma
An Award-Winning Author /Certified Dating/Relationship Coach / Minister (ThD) / Speaker
Dr. Velma Bagby loves the Lord with all her heart. God is at the forefront of everything she does in life, ministry, writing and in service to others.
She became an Author of Christian Fiction/Nonfiction after retiring from her 38 years with State Government working as a Deputy Administrator. Tired of watching the pattern of today’s dating culture and encouraged by her daughters to help other Christian single women, she wrote her first Christian nonfiction relationship-focused book based on their conversations. The book Your Adam Is Asleep Until God Opens His Eyes, became a call to action for single Christian women to date with intent. As a Christian Coach and a member of the AACC (American Association of Christian Counselors, Dr. Velma has coached/counseled over 30+ years, providing pastoral/pre-marital/marriage counseling.
Dr. Velma continued her writing on love and relationships with her short Kindle story, My 70s Love Story, & found in the Back in the Day Anthology. She shares dating from the 70s perspective, when dating was for fun, and guys treated girls more respectful. She jokes about her “husband to-be prayer list” and how God changed some of the details in the man he sent her. Dr. Velma uses her inspiration from her own blessed marriage of 48+ years to her high school sweetheart and does not hesitate to be transparent when she shares her personal journey, which is rich with tips for women prior to saying “I do”.
Her 2020 release is a Christian fiction book entitled A Place Called Down-Why Christians Suffer. She deviates from a relationship-focus topic to bring us into her own testimony of tests, trials, and tribulations, to offer insight into a place of suffering common to us all. She shares why God allows it and how He is in control the entire time. She is a member of the American Christian Fiction Writers (ACFW).
She returns to her love of writing about mate-seeking, dating-relationships with her upcoming book entitled, The CATCH No One Wants-Discover the husband you deserve through intentional dating, releasing in 2022.
I would love to connect:
Website: https://drvelma.com
FB page: facebook.com/DrVelmaB
instagram.com/drvelmabagby_author
Twitter: twitter.com/BagbyVelma
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May 13, 2022
Dr. Velma Bagby’s book The Catch No one Wants , is a great tool for wives in waiting and those in waiting to date intentionally , this book depicts where we are in our societal scheme of dating especially those who want to hold on to their faith. The metaphor of the five fish gives an overview of past dating to observe and to identify the type of men that our being caught, you will learn so much more about yourself and how to date internationally. This is a must read and a more stable realistic view of what healthy dating looks like. You will see a father daughter relationship on the art of dating from a fathers perspective while using the metaphor of fishing.
Bravo! A 5 star read!
Bravo! A 5 star read!
April 26, 2022
This story is about a preacher’s daughter Veronica who is desperately searching for her husband in all the wrong places. She is supposed to get married by the age of 30 and she is now 32. Her father Greyson watches his daughter go through making wrong decisions on men. Greyson decides to seek God’s word for what to do or say to his daughter about her situation. God answers his prayers by using what he knows best - being a fisherman. In the story, Greyson discusses the analogy of men to fish to get Veronica in the mindset that SHE IS THE PRIZE!!!!! Greyson explains the similarities of fish to men. During their fishing trip with his daughter he tells her 4 stories related to the men she has been dealing with.
The four fish are the catfish, salmon, sturgeon, and the pufferfish. The author explains who they are and the characteristics. I love the analogy Greyson gives his daughter. He does it from a place of love.
The pacing in the story is over a three day period. I love how the author was very descriptive and the story flowed smoothly. The story was explained very well and very engaging.
The setting in the story was very detailed. In some of the scenes the story was believable and it felt like I was right there with the characters. I like how the authors put different locations in California in the book. I would love to dine at the Dead Fish.
The characters were relatable and some were likable. I understood and comprehended some of the stories. Some Of the stories I could relate to. I love how the author incorporated some wise counsel in the stories. My favorite character would have to be Cousin Odessa, She was helpful and didn’t criticize her cousin at all. She listens without judgment and helps her through her mess. She was a great asset to the story.
The dialogue between Veronica and Greyson was genuine, polite, and understanding. I love the dialogue of most of the characters because they were honest, upfront, and didn’t hold back. I understood the dialogue and could relate. The dialogue made the story more entertaining and flowed smoothly.
The themes of the book were love, family dynamics, forgiveness, domestic violence, homosexaulity, church drama, self worth and self esteem issues.
The book cover is beautiful. The cover does dictate the theme of the book. The cover is brightm, colorful, and detailed.
I recommend this book to single Christian women on the dating journey and beyond. I give this book 5 stars.
I received an advanced reader copy with no obligation for a review.
The four fish are the catfish, salmon, sturgeon, and the pufferfish. The author explains who they are and the characteristics. I love the analogy Greyson gives his daughter. He does it from a place of love.
The pacing in the story is over a three day period. I love how the author was very descriptive and the story flowed smoothly. The story was explained very well and very engaging.
The setting in the story was very detailed. In some of the scenes the story was believable and it felt like I was right there with the characters. I like how the authors put different locations in California in the book. I would love to dine at the Dead Fish.
The characters were relatable and some were likable. I understood and comprehended some of the stories. Some Of the stories I could relate to. I love how the author incorporated some wise counsel in the stories. My favorite character would have to be Cousin Odessa, She was helpful and didn’t criticize her cousin at all. She listens without judgment and helps her through her mess. She was a great asset to the story.
The dialogue between Veronica and Greyson was genuine, polite, and understanding. I love the dialogue of most of the characters because they were honest, upfront, and didn’t hold back. I understood the dialogue and could relate. The dialogue made the story more entertaining and flowed smoothly.
The themes of the book were love, family dynamics, forgiveness, domestic violence, homosexaulity, church drama, self worth and self esteem issues.
The book cover is beautiful. The cover does dictate the theme of the book. The cover is brightm, colorful, and detailed.
I recommend this book to single Christian women on the dating journey and beyond. I give this book 5 stars.
I received an advanced reader copy with no obligation for a review.
April 27, 2022
Omg this is a must have i couldn't wait til the release date i pre-order my as soon as i found out i could presell it i wanted to be one of this first to digest this great read i'm Ok with Ebooks but i prefer my copy in hand its just something bout flipping pages in a good book.. Man i'm telling you the suspense in these chapters are amazing jaw dropping and wanting to read more to find out whats going to happen next that Veronica and Her Dad Grayson will take you on one the most amazing and educational fishing trips ever kinda better than hearing about the birds and the bees if you know what i mean lol, But dont count on my review go ahead and grab your own copy today trust me you wouldn't want to miss it ....Now let me get back to reading just took a quick break to let you all know this book is FIRE!!!!!
May 1, 2022
Dr. Bagby’s writing pulls you into the story, but reminds you that she isn’t just writing, she’s ministering. This book should be a gift for your single daughters, they will be blessed and prepared for marriage. Grab your copy today.
April 30, 2022
This book is a must read for singles with the hopes of finding the spouse God has for them.
April 22, 2022
This book is an absolute masterpiece! I could NOT stop turning the page. The way this book, the characters, and narrative came to life is nothing short of brilliant. The fact that we have all been Veronica at one point or another makes you drift into her shoes and see yourself. Grayson is the epitome of what a man and father is supposed to be. The love, wisdom, encouragement, and knowledge that he places in Veronica is truly unmatched. I loved every minute and look forward to more!
"This review is based on an advanced copy. I am under no obligation to post this review."
"This review is based on an advanced copy. I am under no obligation to post this review."
April 19, 2022
This review is based on an advanced copy. I am under no obligation to post this review. The Catch is a book for everyone on the dating scene. The wisdom that Veronica gets from her dad Greyson is priceless. The 5 different types of fish/men is something to behold.
April 20, 2022
I think this will be a favorite among book club readers. It is instructive, relatable and informative.
I’m looking forward to gifting a copy of this book to several young ladies that I know.
This review is based on an advanced copy. I am under no obligation to post this review.
I’m looking forward to gifting a copy of this book to several young ladies that I know.
This review is based on an advanced copy. I am under no obligation to post this review.
September 26, 2022
A must read for singles
If you think for a millisecond that you may want to get married, read this book. Dr. Bagby's fish analogies will definitely give you wisdom if you're struggling in your singleness/dating life. All I can say, is be patient, live by God's principles, and wait for your golsfish. 😊
If you think for a millisecond that you may want to get married, read this book. Dr. Bagby's fish analogies will definitely give you wisdom if you're struggling in your singleness/dating life. All I can say, is be patient, live by God's principles, and wait for your golsfish. 😊
January 15, 2023
An Engaging Read! Now here’s a story that pulled me in from start to finish. This book is for anyone hoping to find the spouse that God desires for them. As you read you will learn not just how to date intentionally, but you will discover things about yourself. The story was well-written and the characters engaging. Highly recommended!
February 3, 2022
This Book is going to be Amazing I’m telling you all I cannot wait to get my copy just from a brief Reading that was shared by the Author it was mind blowing and it has left me in suspense I need more I need to find out if Veronica found a Man
November 16, 2022
‘The CATCH No One Wants’ is a powerful ‘eye opener’. It makes you stop, think and listen to what God is telling you. I recommend it to all my single family and friends. It is a MUST READ!
"This review is based on an advanced copy. I am under no obligation to post this review."
"This review is based on an advanced copy. I am under no obligation to post this review."
April 3, 2023
Ask God for him
WOW is all I can say. I wish this book had been written when I was younger, I wouldn't have married a catfish. Every young woman should read this book when seeking a husband.
WOW is all I can say. I wish this book had been written when I was younger, I wouldn't have married a catfish. Every young woman should read this book when seeking a husband.
February 15, 2022
This is a MUST READ!
April 12, 2023
My wife and I love this book! We recommend everyone single or not use this as a tool to get and KEEP THE RIGHT CATCH
November 22, 2023
Great Story
This was a beautiful story of a fathers love for his daughter but more so the Father’s love for us. Well told.
This was a beautiful story of a fathers love for his daughter but more so the Father’s love for us. Well told.
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March 31, 2024I know now that that 40 years ago I didn't wait for my goldfish and didn't pray long enough or didn't hear what God was telling me. But I do know it was God who got me out of that mess. Great read!
March 26, 2023
From beginning to end I was hooked!!!! No one could tell me I haven’t ran into every fish in this book at some point in my life! This book helped me realize that my husband now is a blessing from the Lord and I have worked so hard into becoming the woman God needs me to be so he blessed me with a help mate and a BOAZ. Dr Velma this book changed my perception of marriage, relationships and will help me teach my boys what fish they shouldn’t be and will also help me teach my daughters which ones to avoid!
April 22, 2022
This was my first time reading a book by this author. I enjoyed this book. I loved the analogies of the fish used in this story. This is a book that I would recommend to everyone. It was a great page turner. I look forward to reading more books by this author.
May 3, 2022
This book stole my whole heart. First the relationship between Veronica and her father is as God intended. This author touches on the very essence of what I call relationship wasting and living with the word of God as your road map. Comparing different relationships to types of fish is genius. This is a must read and a book to be discussed and shared. Dr Velma thank you.
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