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Real Me Better We: A guide to finding Authentic Love online
Still searching for your perfect partner?
It’s time to get real.
Stop shopping at the bargain bin of online dating. You’re not ‘unlucky’ at love, ‘too picky’ or ‘unlovable’. Most of us just never learned the basics of relationships let alone how to use digital dating to find lasting love. Until now.
Real Me Better We will change how you date and relate, take your love life to the next level, and guide you from single to success in 10 simple steps.
You will:
* Unlock the attitude and MINDSET you need to welcome love into your life
* Discover how your past PATTERNS and blind spots are holding you back
* Reveal vital essentials to get RELATIONSHIP-READY
* CLARIFY what YOU define as a ‘successful relationship’
* Grow your CONFIDENCE as a dater and effective user of digital tools
* Create an AUTHENTIC profile and presence to use online and when dating
* COMMIT to making love happen and finding a genuine connection
In Real Me Better We, best-selling author Dr Jordan Alexander invites you to ‘get real’, learn to navigate your heart and decode digital dating. Love takes two. It starts with you.
It’s time to get real.
Stop shopping at the bargain bin of online dating. You’re not ‘unlucky’ at love, ‘too picky’ or ‘unlovable’. Most of us just never learned the basics of relationships let alone how to use digital dating to find lasting love. Until now.
Real Me Better We will change how you date and relate, take your love life to the next level, and guide you from single to success in 10 simple steps.
You will:
* Unlock the attitude and MINDSET you need to welcome love into your life
* Discover how your past PATTERNS and blind spots are holding you back
* Reveal vital essentials to get RELATIONSHIP-READY
* CLARIFY what YOU define as a ‘successful relationship’
* Grow your CONFIDENCE as a dater and effective user of digital tools
* Create an AUTHENTIC profile and presence to use online and when dating
* COMMIT to making love happen and finding a genuine connection
In Real Me Better We, best-selling author Dr Jordan Alexander invites you to ‘get real’, learn to navigate your heart and decode digital dating. Love takes two. It starts with you.
312 pages, Paperback
Published February 14, 2022
About the author
Jordan M. Alexander
3 books3 followersJordan Alexander is an international best-selling author, speaker and relationship expert, committed to helping others live and love authentically. Now happily married, her past love life was littered with landmines, including a learner driver dating disaster (I Love You, Send Money, Pangaea Press).
Jordan has been featured in The Sun UK, NZ Business, Woman’s Day and The Daily Mail, Australia. She founded Love Assist Associates to provide courses and coaching for genuine love seekers – her mission is to love assist one million hearts by 2025.
Learn how to have great relationships at work, at home and with yourself @ DrJMAlexander.com
Let's change how humans date and relate, one heart at a time!
Jordan has been featured in The Sun UK, NZ Business, Woman’s Day and The Daily Mail, Australia. She founded Love Assist Associates to provide courses and coaching for genuine love seekers – her mission is to love assist one million hearts by 2025.
Learn how to have great relationships at work, at home and with yourself @ DrJMAlexander.com
Let's change how humans date and relate, one heart at a time!
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July 20, 2026
Real Me Better We is a thoughtful and practical guide that reminds readers the healthiest relationships begin long before the first date.
What I appreciated most is Dr. Jordan Alexander's emphasis on authenticity over performance. Rather than teaching readers how to "win" at online dating, the book encourages them to understand themselves first—examining past patterns, building confidence, and becoming emotionally prepared for a meaningful relationship. That foundation makes the advice feel both realistic and sustainable.
Another strength of the book is its modern relevance. Online dating has become one of the primary ways people meet, yet many struggle because they focus on profiles instead of personal growth. The ten-step framework bridges that gap by combining emotional intelligence with practical dating strategies, helping readers navigate digital platforms without losing sight of who they are.
At its heart, Real Me Better We is about creating relationships that are built on honesty rather than appearance, intention rather than chance, and genuine connection rather than convenience. It reminds us that finding the right partner begins with becoming the most authentic version of ourselves.
An insightful and encouraging read for anyone seeking lasting love, healthier relationships, and greater confidence in the modern dating world.
What I appreciated most is Dr. Jordan Alexander's emphasis on authenticity over performance. Rather than teaching readers how to "win" at online dating, the book encourages them to understand themselves first—examining past patterns, building confidence, and becoming emotionally prepared for a meaningful relationship. That foundation makes the advice feel both realistic and sustainable.
Another strength of the book is its modern relevance. Online dating has become one of the primary ways people meet, yet many struggle because they focus on profiles instead of personal growth. The ten-step framework bridges that gap by combining emotional intelligence with practical dating strategies, helping readers navigate digital platforms without losing sight of who they are.
At its heart, Real Me Better We is about creating relationships that are built on honesty rather than appearance, intention rather than chance, and genuine connection rather than convenience. It reminds us that finding the right partner begins with becoming the most authentic version of ourselves.
An insightful and encouraging read for anyone seeking lasting love, healthier relationships, and greater confidence in the modern dating world.
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