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Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker's Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence
Most people think being good at sex comes naturally. Either you have it, or you don't.
Kenneth Play is proof that great lovers are made, not born.
Kenneth is an Asian immigrant with an average-sized penis who lived most of his early life with crippling sexual insecurity. Determined to overcome this anxiety, he dedicated his life to studying the complexities of academic sex research, exploring the mysteries of Tantra, immersing himself in the forbidden world of BDSM, and even joining the lustful chaos of underground sex parties.
His quest worked. Today, GQ calls Kenneth "the world's greatest sex hacker," Men's Health calls him "the orgy king," and he is now ready to tell you exactly what he has learned.
In Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth shares the sex hacking secrets he's successfully taught millions of men. This book is a cross between Bruce Lee's mixed martial arts approach and Tim Ferriss' 80/20 rule—but for sex. Far from just another "find her clitoris" guide, Beyond Satisfied distills hard science and hands-on experience into techniques that any man can successfully put into practice.
In this book, you'll learn scientific secrets that unlock her hidden orgasmic potential and gain a huge array of skills that will get you results—right now. You will learn how to:
- Overcome performance anxiety like a world-class athlete
- Fulfill her naughtiest fantasies—by understanding her erotic mind
- Curate a ninety-minute orgasmic experience
- F**k like a beast with any size penis
- Help her experience squirting for the first time
With the system in this book, you can transform your sex life beyond what you thought was possible, beyond mind-blowing, beyond connected…beyond satisfied.
Kenneth Play is proof that great lovers are made, not born.
Kenneth is an Asian immigrant with an average-sized penis who lived most of his early life with crippling sexual insecurity. Determined to overcome this anxiety, he dedicated his life to studying the complexities of academic sex research, exploring the mysteries of Tantra, immersing himself in the forbidden world of BDSM, and even joining the lustful chaos of underground sex parties.
His quest worked. Today, GQ calls Kenneth "the world's greatest sex hacker," Men's Health calls him "the orgy king," and he is now ready to tell you exactly what he has learned.
In Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth shares the sex hacking secrets he's successfully taught millions of men. This book is a cross between Bruce Lee's mixed martial arts approach and Tim Ferriss' 80/20 rule—but for sex. Far from just another "find her clitoris" guide, Beyond Satisfied distills hard science and hands-on experience into techniques that any man can successfully put into practice.
In this book, you'll learn scientific secrets that unlock her hidden orgasmic potential and gain a huge array of skills that will get you results—right now. You will learn how to:
- Overcome performance anxiety like a world-class athlete
- Fulfill her naughtiest fantasies—by understanding her erotic mind
- Curate a ninety-minute orgasmic experience
- F**k like a beast with any size penis
- Help her experience squirting for the first time
With the system in this book, you can transform your sex life beyond what you thought was possible, beyond mind-blowing, beyond connected…beyond satisfied.
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381 pages, Kindle Edition
Published February 8, 2022
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August 24, 2023
As a sex educator and coach myself I have read many books on sexuality and relationships. This is by far the most comprehensive and informative ‘guide’ I’ve read to what is literally sex hacking. As women reading these words from a man it makes you set the bar (which was already so low) for what sex is supposed to feel like and how our bodies should be treated at a much much higher standard.
Can’t thank Kenneth enough for this it is an important read for both men and women. I’ve been recommending to every client and friend since I picked up the book and read the first chapter.
12/10
Can’t thank Kenneth enough for this it is an important read for both men and women. I’ve been recommending to every client and friend since I picked up the book and read the first chapter.
12/10
March 27, 2022
Should be required reading for anyone who has sex, especially hetero men.
August 28, 2024
Kenneth Play on ”seksihakkeri”, jonka kirjan kansi lupaa ”loputtomia orgasmeja, tajunnanräjäyttävää yhteyttä ja kestävää itseluottamusta”. Play on seksikouluttaja, jonka näkemys on selkeä: kukaan ei synny hyväksi rakastajaksi ja seksi on taitolaji, jossa voi kehittyä paremmaksi.
Kirjan taustalla on henkilökohtainen kasvutarina. Aasialaistaustainen Play kertoo kärsineensä vuosia itseluottamuksen puutteesta. Miehille tulee helposti käsitys, että peniksen koko on tärkeä asia ja keskikokoinen Play on myös sisäistänyt aasialaismiehiin liittyvät seksuaaliset stereotypiat. Tämä sai Playn torpedoimaan kaikki omat mahdolliset seksisuhteensa ennen seksiin pääsemistä, sillä se on turvallisempaa kuin altistua naisten vähättelylle.
Kirjassa käydään läpi yksityiskohtaisesti (ja kevyesti kerskaillen) Playn matka tästä epävarmuudesta seksijumalaksi. Hän jaksaa mainita, miten kertomukset seksiseikkailuista on tarkoitettu vastapainoksi epävarmuudelle, mutta ainakin suomalaislukijalle jutuissa on rehentelyn makua.
Leveät puheet voi kuitenkin antaa anteeksi, sillä Beyond Satisfied on niiden takana aidosti hyvä seksiopas miehille. Puheet seksihakkeroinnista voivat antaa vähän teknisen kuvan ja toki, onhan tässä tekniikoistakin kyse, mutta myös pehmeämmistä taidoista. Ensimmäisenä aloitetaan esimerkiksi suostumuksesta, kommunikoinnista ja neuvottelemisesta. Turvallisuus mahdollistaa keskittymisen nautintoon ja suostumus on keskeinen osa turvallisuutta. Miten näitä neuvotteluja käydään, on sitten vähän mieltymyskysymyskin.
Tekniikkapuolella tulee sitten tuhti annos perusheteroseksin tekniikkaa ja naisille nautinnon tuottamisen menetelmiä. Play käy läpi esileikit, sormien käyttämisen, suuseksin, yhdynnän, anaaliseksin ja johdatuksen kinkyseksiin. Ohjeet ovat käytännönläheisiä ja kaavakuvin varustettuja. Niissäkin naisen nautinto on keskeisenä osana. Moni nainen saattaa esimerkiksi arvostaa Playn näkökulmaa yhdyntään:
Uskallan luvata, että Beyond Satisfiedin lukeminen auttaa heteromiehen seksielämää tavalla tai toisella: kirjasta oppii varmasti jotain uutta ja hyödyllistä. Tällaista käytännönläheistä ja naisten nautintoon tähtäävää seksikasvatusta miehille näkisi mieluusti enemmänkin. Seksitaitojen kehittämistä ei kannata kuitata perinteisellä ”kyllä luonto tikanpojan puuhun ajaa”-sanonnalle: sellaisesta ei tule kuin miehiin pettyneitä naisia. “Not only is PIV [penis in vagina] sex not the only thing, but when it’s your only thing, it usually doesn’t lead to pleasure or orgasm, and is boring AF.” Sen sijaan mies, joka suhtautuu avoimesti uuden oppimiseen ja on kiinnostunut naisen nautinnosta, ei ole sängyssä tylsä ja epätyydyttävä. Tämä kirja on helposti lähestyttävä ja perinpohjainen ja siksi heteromiehille vankasti suositeltavaa luettavaa.
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Kenneth Play’s book, Beyond Satisfied, is a practical guide for men aiming to improve their sexual skills. Play, a sex educator, asserts that good lovers aren't born but made, with sex being a skill that can be honed. His book, rooted in his personal journey from insecurity to confidence, offers a mix of technical advice and softer skills, starting with the importance of consent, communication, and safety.
Though some of Play’s anecdotes may come across as boastful, the book provides valuable, practical tips on various aspects of heterosexual sex, including foreplay, oral sex, penetration, and even an introduction to kink. Women’s pleasure is emphasised throughout, making the book particularly beneficial for heterosexual men who want to enhance their sexual relationships.
In short, Beyond Satisfied is a comprehensive and approachable guide that could significantly benefit any man’s sex life, offering new and useful insights aimed at improving women’s pleasure.
Kirjan taustalla on henkilökohtainen kasvutarina. Aasialaistaustainen Play kertoo kärsineensä vuosia itseluottamuksen puutteesta. Miehille tulee helposti käsitys, että peniksen koko on tärkeä asia ja keskikokoinen Play on myös sisäistänyt aasialaismiehiin liittyvät seksuaaliset stereotypiat. Tämä sai Playn torpedoimaan kaikki omat mahdolliset seksisuhteensa ennen seksiin pääsemistä, sillä se on turvallisempaa kuin altistua naisten vähättelylle.
Kirjassa käydään läpi yksityiskohtaisesti (ja kevyesti kerskaillen) Playn matka tästä epävarmuudesta seksijumalaksi. Hän jaksaa mainita, miten kertomukset seksiseikkailuista on tarkoitettu vastapainoksi epävarmuudelle, mutta ainakin suomalaislukijalle jutuissa on rehentelyn makua.
Leveät puheet voi kuitenkin antaa anteeksi, sillä Beyond Satisfied on niiden takana aidosti hyvä seksiopas miehille. Puheet seksihakkeroinnista voivat antaa vähän teknisen kuvan ja toki, onhan tässä tekniikoistakin kyse, mutta myös pehmeämmistä taidoista. Ensimmäisenä aloitetaan esimerkiksi suostumuksesta, kommunikoinnista ja neuvottelemisesta. Turvallisuus mahdollistaa keskittymisen nautintoon ja suostumus on keskeinen osa turvallisuutta. Miten näitä neuvotteluja käydään, on sitten vähän mieltymyskysymyskin.
Tekniikkapuolella tulee sitten tuhti annos perusheteroseksin tekniikkaa ja naisille nautinnon tuottamisen menetelmiä. Play käy läpi esileikit, sormien käyttämisen, suuseksin, yhdynnän, anaaliseksin ja johdatuksen kinkyseksiin. Ohjeet ovat käytännönläheisiä ja kaavakuvin varustettuja. Niissäkin naisen nautinto on keskeisenä osana. Moni nainen saattaa esimerkiksi arvostaa Playn näkökulmaa yhdyntään:
I recently hopped on as a guest to a coaching call for women, led by a fellow sex coach, Alexa Martinez. The women wanted to know how they could enjoy penetrative sex more. I mentioned offhand that it helps to have a few warm-up orgasms, and midway through my mansplaining, I realized many of the women’s jaws had dropped.
Uskallan luvata, että Beyond Satisfiedin lukeminen auttaa heteromiehen seksielämää tavalla tai toisella: kirjasta oppii varmasti jotain uutta ja hyödyllistä. Tällaista käytännönläheistä ja naisten nautintoon tähtäävää seksikasvatusta miehille näkisi mieluusti enemmänkin. Seksitaitojen kehittämistä ei kannata kuitata perinteisellä ”kyllä luonto tikanpojan puuhun ajaa”-sanonnalle: sellaisesta ei tule kuin miehiin pettyneitä naisia. “Not only is PIV [penis in vagina] sex not the only thing, but when it’s your only thing, it usually doesn’t lead to pleasure or orgasm, and is boring AF.” Sen sijaan mies, joka suhtautuu avoimesti uuden oppimiseen ja on kiinnostunut naisen nautinnosta, ei ole sängyssä tylsä ja epätyydyttävä. Tämä kirja on helposti lähestyttävä ja perinpohjainen ja siksi heteromiehille vankasti suositeltavaa luettavaa.
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Kenneth Play’s book, Beyond Satisfied, is a practical guide for men aiming to improve their sexual skills. Play, a sex educator, asserts that good lovers aren't born but made, with sex being a skill that can be honed. His book, rooted in his personal journey from insecurity to confidence, offers a mix of technical advice and softer skills, starting with the importance of consent, communication, and safety.
Though some of Play’s anecdotes may come across as boastful, the book provides valuable, practical tips on various aspects of heterosexual sex, including foreplay, oral sex, penetration, and even an introduction to kink. Women’s pleasure is emphasised throughout, making the book particularly beneficial for heterosexual men who want to enhance their sexual relationships.
In short, Beyond Satisfied is a comprehensive and approachable guide that could significantly benefit any man’s sex life, offering new and useful insights aimed at improving women’s pleasure.
October 14, 2022
I bought the book early on. I also recommended it to a special friend of mine and - oh my god - has it transformed our sex!
I mean, it was good before but this is a whole new level of pleasure for the both of us.
I want to thank Kenneth for the tremendous amount of work he must have put in writing beyond satisfied.
I hope he - or someone close to him - will write a version on guys ;)
I mean, it was good before but this is a whole new level of pleasure for the both of us.
I want to thank Kenneth for the tremendous amount of work he must have put in writing beyond satisfied.
I hope he - or someone close to him - will write a version on guys ;)
May 14, 2022
I received a copy of this book free in exchange for my honest review. I could not get into this. Maybe it's because I am a woman but yeah just couldn't do it. I tried honestly I did but this was just not for me.
June 22, 2022
Nice book
October 17, 2022
I received this book for an honest review. This book was an interesting read. I gave it three stars because I felt like I couldn't really conntect to it. Perhaps it is more geared towards men.
March 30, 2025
good read, written but who is definitely a sex hacker
February 16, 2025
This is a beautiful book. It's sincere and intelligent, choc full of profound ideas on the 'soft skills' of sex and brimming with masterful techniques. I believe that anyone who's a sexual person could get immense value out of it but particularly if you're someone who has sex with women, then this will revolutionize your sex life.
December 25, 2024
Hands down, the most comprehensive intermediate-advanced level book. A partner who is a gynaecologist even reacted with “wow”.
This took my understanding and application of anatomy to an entirely new realm.
The sections on communication are valuable on their own.
This took my understanding and application of anatomy to an entirely new realm.
The sections on communication are valuable on their own.
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