Since this book has received some heat as of late, I thought I’d post my review I wrote last year but never published.
Simply put: God is not male. God is called Father because God begot Jesus. God is not called Mother because Jesus had a mother. But God is not male because God did not impregnate Mary as a man would. To affirm that God is not male is to reaffirm that both males and females equally image God.
Jesus is male, but he is male like no other because of his virginal conception. Jesus had to be male because only through a woman giving birth to a man could God partner with God’s image bearers fully (male and female) through the incarnation.
God being born of Mary bestows dignity upon women as full image bearers of God. God being born as a man bestows dignity upon men as full image bearers of God.
So, if God is not male, why does scripture use masculine pronouns to describe “Him?” And if God is not male, why does Scripture instruct us to call God “Father?”
To begin with, any human language we use to describe the first member of the Trinity is anthropomorphic. God is spirit. Thus, God is neither male nor female. To say “Him” or “He” is to ascribe personhood to God, not gender. God is no more “masculine” than God is “feminine” nor is God more male than female. Femininity and masculinity are culturally defined and maleness and femaleness are biologically defined. Thus, because God does not change like culture, nor is God embodied like humans, it is inaccurate to place masculinity/femininity or maleness/femaleness over God. Whatever distinctions do exist between male and female -whether biological or spiritual - must equally find their fullness in Godself. There is no bit of God that is more male than female or vice versa as scripture is clear that males and females are both made in the image of God—equally.
This is not novel. Scripture and church history affirm this repeatedly as Dr. Peeler so thoroughly shows. But if that is so, why have 2,000 years of Christian history also formed us to subconsciously think of God as male?
Firstly, the prevalence of patriarchy. Regardless of if you think women can pastor or not, the fact that most people in church history have believed only men can serve God as pastor/priest/elder subconsciously (or consciously) supposes men more fully image God.
Secondly, while scripture does use feminine/motherly imagery to describe God (and it is beautiful and should be thoroughly explored in this conversation), scripture never calls God a woman or a mother. Why? Again, God is not a woman nor a man and when scripture uses masculine or feminine language, it only does so anthropomorphically. On top of this, scripture does not call God mother because Jesus had a mother and she was not God.
This leads to point three. Thirdly, scripture calls God “Father” and we assume that means male. This may be the hardest point to capture, but scripture repeatedly denies that God is male. So, whatever scripture means by “Father,” it cannot mean a man with a penis. Rather, Scripture uses “Father” for three reasons:
1. To show the familial relationship we can have with God and to rightly orient ourselves in that relationship - as the dependents.
2. To show that God like a man (not as a man) initiates to bring forth creation and humanity into existence.
3. Jesus calls God Father because Jesus had a mother. Without a human father involved in Jesus’ conception, God exists as Jesus’ eternal “Father.” But again, this does not mean male. Initiator, source of life, or Parent would be a more accurate (yet potentially distracting or less-personal) depiction.
Fourthly, Christian theology has routinely denied the maleness of God while Christian art has routinely depicted God as male. In the rightful quest to image God in art (and language) as personal, we have fallen into a gendered-trap by depicting God as male (and often white, but that’s another topic). Because we see God the Father as male in our churches, we assume the gender of God must be male. But again, God is not gendered. God is spirit.
So what does all this mean?
Firstly, if God is not male, then any claim that God prefers men to women or is more like men than women is disproven. God does not show favoritism.
Secondly, regardless of where you fall on the women in church leadership discussion, your reason cannot be based on the illusion that men more truly portray God than women so only men can lead. There are biblically-sound reasons to believe in male-headship in church. This not one. This is a theological heresy.
Thirdly, while it is not wrong to say “He” or “Him” for God the Father, it can be misleading and continue the faulty assumption that God is male. Thus, while it is right and good to use masculine pronouns for Jesus, it can confuse to use them for God the Father or God the Holy Spirit.
Fourthly, to call God “She,” “Her” or “Mother” may make sense as if we should simply “balance” what we call God. But it only perpetuates the problem in the opposition direction because God, likewise, is not a woman. Thus, if gendered language must be used, masculine should be our default because historically and culturally the masculine is 1. what scripture uses and 2. is the most gender-inclusive term.
Fifthly, while it is not wrong to say “He” or “Him” for God the Father, it can be beneficial to avoid gendered pronouns for the first or third member of the Trinity. One can simply say God or Godself. It does take some mental retraining (as you will quickly find just how often you call God “He/Him”), but I personally find this wise and good. But again, this is not a moral issue as scripture repeatedly depicts God this way. So, those of us who adopt this linguistic change must not look down our nose at those who don’t.
Some other approaches I’ve seen to the default of using masculine-language to depict God:
1. To put “He” or “Him” in quotes to highlight the anthropomorphic language in your words. I’ve seen Walter Brueggemann do this in his books.
2. To say “It” or “Itself.” This removes the gender issue all together, but personally, I find it both distracting and difficult to retain a personal view of God with an impersonal pronoun like this. You can find this example in popular-level Christian books like Scot Erickson’s Honest Advent.
3. To use female pronouns in addition to male pronouns. While I don’t personally support this option, some Christians have opted to use both male and female pronouns interchangeably to try and correct the lie that God is male.
This book has given me a more robust theological imagination for who God is, who we are as human image bearers of God - male and female - and answered astutely from scripture and church history how God and God’s people esteem women. We have not done it perfectly, only God has. And for much of church history, we have cloaked doctrine of God in masculine ideas to the detriment of women. And for that, we must repent and reconcile our view of women with how God sees them - as equals.
May this book continue the important conversation and specifically help women who feel disenfranchised see how valued they are to God - co-heirs with Christ, equals with men.