Thanks so much to the publisher and Net Galley for a chance to read this book in exchange for an honest review.
I selected this book because being adopted myself, I was interested in the perspective of a birth mother. I also thought that a woman in midlife juggling health concerns, a teenager, aging parents and running a business would provide a dramatic, if familiar, set of circumstances.
The main character Natalie is struggling to keep all the plates spinning- she is kind, considerate and generally a good person, who I would want to be friends with. One day her teen daughter Mac, befriends a co-worker at her new summer job- 18 year old Bella, who Natalie thinks bears a striking resemblance to Mac. With her impending hysterectomy, sealing the end of reproductive years, Natalie has been thinking a lot about the baby she gave up for adoption 18 years ago. Natalie begins to obsess about Bella, against the advice of her sister and “too perfect” husband. Cracks in Bella’s story begin to appear as we wonder how much is true and how much she is manipulating Natalie, and to what end.
I had a couple of issues with the story- #1- there really wasn’t any peril, or sense of urgency, lots of things seemed to be building but then fizzled out in to nothing much.
#2 As a society women are undervalued in general, and especially when they get older. Im really disappointed to see female writers who perpetrate these stereotypes. The somewhat obsessive thoughts of Natalie was described as “ crazy” and “nuts” in several places by herself, her sister, her husband and her daughter. She did nothing other than contact the agency, and register as a birth mother. She was processing her feelings, and got no support from her family. Even more offensive -There were a few comments that reeked of ageism for example: Natalie’s ruminating about her need for a hysterectomy due to fibroids-“She was only thirty-eight. Only old women had hysterectomies, old, shriveled-up women who no longer enjoyed sex. She wasn’t old. Not yet.”
No honey, lots of women have hysterectomies who are not old, and old women are not shriveled up, and many still enjoy sex.
For the reasons above A fairly bland book dropped from 3 to 2 stars.