How I Came to Read This Book: I have literally zero idea. But I owned a copy!
The Plot: These are incredibly short, short stories. I'd call most of them character studies or vignettes, often no longer than 3-4 pages, told from a HUGE range of points of view. Sometimes you're in a character's head, sometimes they're just speaking (a wedding toast). Sometimes they're being spoken to (a woman connecting, sort of, with colleagues), other times they're seeing their lives flash before their eyes (a man in prison). From the inside, the outside, the past, the present, the stories represent all these wild cross-sections in life and manage to quite often pack a considerable punch, or at least, impression.
The Good & The Bad: I opened this thinking I wasn't really in the mood for short stories but here we are anyway, and you know what? I quite liked this little collection. Only one or two of the stories really overstayed their welcome for me (there was one about a table in particular that was a bit meh) and most of them I would have maybe liked to read a little bit more of.
What I mostly marvelled at though, was the ability to help sketch out quite a few details in someone's life in such a short passage of writing. No words are wasted here, and it had the incredible effect of allowing you, as the reader, to easily fill in the blanks about things that aren't said outside of the brief moments we get to share with these characters. I often find myself going 'Oh yes, *that* type of person.'
The ones about parents and children in particular hit well - an adoptive mother reflecting on her son being 'taken away' with nary a thought by the woman he's marrying. Or a proud mum who is afraid to acknowledge the direction her daughter's heart might be pointed, but does an admirable job of trying to in a time that may not have been the most gentle in which to do so.
I will note that the stories not only hop around in perspective, but timeline, with a good many of them set in the 80s, by design. What's interesting is many of the stories have a certain timelessness to them, but I'd recommend spending a moment to really absorb that time period that a story is set to help better frame the outside forces - the off-screen elements of a story - that are impacting what de Waal is choosing to show and say and why.
Overall, a solid collection. I don't think it's the most memorable thing I've ever read, but it was a refreshing change of pace for short stories.
The Bottom Line: Impressively crafted supremely short story sketches that are worth the squeeze if you're willing to really invest as a reader.
Anything Memorable?: Not really.
2023 Book Challenge?: Book #43 in 2023