The Third Floor A True Story of Secrets, Survival and Hope, describes the author's struggle with the long term effects of childhood sexual abuse and her discovery of God's healing love.
Incest and sexual abuse are not issues anyone likes to think or read about. However, Colleen Spiro has tackled a difficult and heart-wrenching topic, one that leaves the reader with hope. The author, whose own abuse began at a very young age, takes the reader on a difficult journey.
“The Third Floor Window,” aptly named because her childhood bedroom was on the third story, features a beautifully designed cover with a young girl looking out a window.
In the introduction, the author says “What had started out as a story of what it is like to be a survivor of child sex abuse turned into more than that. It turned into a story of living with hope. A story of death leading to new life.”
The book’s description says: “Feeling driven to help other survivors, Colleen decided to share her own story. So she set out to teach the world about the long term effects of child sexual abuse. What she found along the way was healing and hope. And the discovery that, while she has not always known God, God has always known her. And has been with her through it all.”
Her faith in God and her hope-filled message came through clearly in this book. In one inspiring section, she questions where God has been through all the years of abuse and she has a flashback of being in the room while the abuse was happening and Jesus sitting in a chair in the corner and crying.
Not surprisingly, this is a difficult book to read, but it is an inspiring memoir that would benefit sexual abuse survivors and their families because of the author’s hope-filled message.
The Third Floor Window is the author's memoir of a lost childhood and a stolen innocence caused by many years of sexual abuse. From an early age, both the author and her sister were sexually abused by their father. The story is well written and brings hope to others who are struggling with similar situations.
The book is divided in different topics. On each section, Ms. Spiro opens the door of her memories and tells the story of a child who lived in fear and to this date is still searching for that fatherly love she never had. The book is written as a personal journal and in it she shares her adult's insecurities, victories, and constant determination to fully heal those open wounds and scars of her soul.
The book cover shows a picture of a faceless child looking outside a window with a white dove flying above her head. That faceless child represents all the children who are still victims of this horrific crime today. The dove represents the Holy Spirit bringing comfort and hope to those children looking for a way out and don't know where to go or who to trust.
I recommend this book to victims, survivors, counselors, families and friends, and religious leaders helping with the healing and self-worthiness process of these injured souls, whether they are still children or an adult.
The author's book was profound and inspiring. A book about healing and overcoming the shame and the silence of childhood abuse. The book led me to learn things about God that I had never thought before. It answered so many questions I had and led me to learn things that God had been trying to teach me for a long time now. Definitely a valuable read and one book I will plan to re-read many times over. Inspiring and educational at the same time. It showed me God is there and will always be there. The themes highlighted were true and real and things I could easily apply in my life. A must read for those who are looking for hope in recovering from abuse in the past.
This was not an easy book to read. However, it is a story of hope. Ms Spiro is a trur survivor and credits her faith in God for finally brimging her to a place of healing. This book gets three stars because the author jumps around ftom presenyt to past events often.