Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Bible Study Guide plus Streaming Video: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are

by Lysa TerKeurst

Love should draw us together, not tear us apart. Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary? And what does the Bible instruct us to do when a relationship is no longer safe or sustainable? Lysa TerKeurst has asked these hard questions in the midst of her own relational struggles. But after thousands of hours of counseling intensives and theological research, Lysa has discovered that good boundaries pave the road for the truest version of love to emerge within the relationships that make up so much of who we are and what we want the most. Building upon and further unpacking the scriptural concepts in Good Boundaries and Goodbyes , this six-session video Bible study (streaming code included) with Lysa will equip you This study guide has everything you need for a full Bible study experience , Sessions and video run times : Streaming video access code included. Access code subject to expiration after 12/31/2027. Code may be redeemed only by the recipient of this package. Code may not be transferred or sold separately from this package. Internet connection required. Void where prohibited, taxed, or restricted by law. Additional offer details inside.

Genres: Christian, Nonfiction, Audiobook, Faith, Mental Health, Inspirational

192 pages, Paperback

Published November 15, 2022

About the author

Lysa TerKeurst is President and Chief Visionary Officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries. She is also an 8x New York Times’ bestselling author of I Want to Trust You, but I Don't, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, Forgiving What You Can’t Forget, It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way, Uninvited and more. Her devotional Embraced won the ECPA book of the year for 2019. Lysa was also recently awarded the Champions of Faith Author Award and has appeared on the Today Show many times as one of the leading voices in the Christian community.

Each year, Lysa is a featured keynote presenter at events all across North America and online, including the Global Leadership Network. She also tours state-to-state regularly with TPR. She has a passion for equipping women to share their stories for God’s glory through Proverbs 31 Ministries’ annual She Speaks Conference and her writer training program called COMPEL Pro. Connect with Lysa on social media @lysaterkeurst or at lysaterkeurst.com.

Reviews

[Provin Martin · Rating 5 out of 5]

This study guide is a must if you were reading the book. It will help you read about God‘s boundaries throughout the Bible. And listening to Lisa talk and share her stories and experiences with the included videos makes the experience complete. If you’re having trouble setting boundaries in your life then this book and study guide are 100% for you!

[Beth Salas · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’ve read every one of Lyas’s books and this is so well done. It is practical and great examples of appropriate access to give people in your circle.

[Vickie Bowen · Rating 5 out of 5]

Lysa has written from a place of "been there and still walking through it" but she has such great insight to share for those who are beginning or continuing the journey of learning to set appropriate boundaries as well as dealing with hard relationships. This book has practical insight and great wisdom. Jim Cress's part add so much value to each chapter and I appreciate his guidance. I will say that if you are ready to move forward and do the hard work of establishing boundaries and learning when to say goodbye, this book will help guide you in that endeavor. You will not get there if you are not willing to do the hard work yourself. Unfortunately, there is no magic wand or potion, but there is grace for the journey. Lysa's book is part of that grace that can help with the journey.

[Robin · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good study to remind us we need boundaries to protect ourselves and not fall into the wicked worldly ways.

[Kia Stephens · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book wrecked me in the best way. I have a new understanding of boundaries and why I haven't put them into place. I am motivated to change and love myself better because of this book. I love the way the chapters are structured with quotes, scriptures and a note from Lysa's counselor at the end. She gave great illustrations and practical suggestions on how to implement boundaries in your life. I highly recommend this book to anyone that suspects they need to institute boundaries in their life.

[Rachel Blanchard · Rating 5 out of 5]

I was so excited to gain all the tips that I zoomed through this Boundaries study 🤣 and there are great insights in Lysa's relatable teaching! But I was surprised to find that, for me, the best part of searching through the scriptures and journaling out my heart was not necessarily getting all the answers. It was moreso rediscovering critical principles such as the importance of intentionality in relationships, how strong the presence of God is through our trials, and how his goodness is working in us. I kept a sticky note by me to record my favorite verses, truths, and actions I want to take, to make sure I will remember this awesome mental shift!

[Susan Anderson Misey · Rating 5 out of 5]

Put this on your list if you're struggling with a relationship in need of boundaries. Great read with so much Biblical truth packed in. This will give you the why, how, what, where, when, and who of setting boundaries or even going no-contact if you must. Reading this book is like hearing a trusted friend explain it all through her own experiences as well as the meticulous research she's uncovered. Each chapter supported by a therapist's viewpoint, along with Bible passage references, a prayer, and points for further consideration. This is a keeper!

[Briana · Rating 3 out of 5]

I struggled with how to rate this book because it is a good workbook to go with the book, but completely overwhelming to do in only 6 weeks. There are a LOT of questions and it was definitely quickly and sloppily edited (a few verses made no sense). However, the best part was the videos that accompanied the workbook, especially the Q & A with her pastor and her counselor. I would highly recommend, if doing this as a group, take at least two weeks or more for each session. Otherwise it is just rushing through the concepts and not getting a chance to really digest and apply.

[Sherri · Rating 4 out of 5]

4 stars only because this book/message/heart story seems to relate to those younger than 70. Yet, this issue can be a life long dilemma. Lysa's words of wisdom, written from her heart and Gods word, are so comforting and spot on. There are no "if only's" or "it's too late"...Gods purpose for our lives is not on what we think is his time table. Read this book, share this book, and be strong.

[Michelle · Rating 5 out of 5]

I appreciate Lysa’s authenticity as she’s walking this road herself and choosing to honor the Lord in her own story; while Sharing encouraging and helpful insights for those of us also walking or needing to walk this road of Goodbye’s and/or setting boundaries. Highly recommend the audio Bible Study series to go with her book!

[Katie Garrison · Rating 3 out of 5]

DNF Ironically, I had to draw a boundary and say goodbye to this book because it did not personally apply to my situation and was triggering me. I always finish books so this was hard for me.
She’s great and I appreciate her writing and what she was wanting to accomplish. It just wasn’t right for my situation.

[Linda · Rating 5 out of 5]

Well done, thorough study of God's Word on relationships as they pertain to people problems in those relationships. Sometimes we don't what to do. This study clearly describes whether to keep the relationship, make changes to your boundaries, or say goodbye.

[Sarah]

Life got in the way of my getting through more than one lesson in this study. It wasn't bad, but the ways TerKeurst focused on seeing godly boundaries are not the specific areas I struggle, so good lesson, but I'm not the target audience for it.

[Iris · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great resource to help you with establishing your boundaries.

[Amber · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.8 stars. Some very helpful insights. And the author’s narration is so heartfelt, kind and dynamic. I really liked the therapist’s contribution.

[Ruth Stitt · Rating 5 out of 5]

The first book I’ve read of Lysa’s but won’t be the last. A lot of it related exactly to things in my life. Powerful book with good truth.

[Amy · Rating 2 out of 5]

2.5 stars on the study book. I read the actual book and thought it was better than this study. Some references seem to be misapplied and misinterpreted. Not a fan of the fill in the blank parts.

[Kelly · Rating 5 out of 5]

Perfect companion to the book by the same name to help you really contemplate and apply the truths found within.

[Angela Bleazard · Rating 5 out of 5]

Really enjoyed this along with the companion book. Did as a big group bible study.

[Nan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Very helpful to read/watch along with the book

[Carrie Kneisley · Rating 5 out of 5]

Teaching me a lot

This book is helping me re evaluate some boundaries after walking through some very painful relational circumstances. Ver thankful for Lisa’s story!

[Nicole L Dalakas · Rating 3 out of 5]

DNF. It was ok but realized most didn’t pertain to me and I have so many other books I would rather be reading.

[Kendra Rogers · Rating 5 out of 5]

Video 1 - Great Reminder

We are a child of the Most High: we have to set boundaries for ourselves; we problem I have; scared they will walk away from us because we do.

[Gerry-Ann Bates · Rating 5 out of 5]

Couldn’t put this one down. It was full of helpful knowledge and graceful ways to hold boundaries

[Shannon Ferguson · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was such a blessing to me. I have never highlighted anything so thoroughly. It took me a good month to read because I needed to diligently process it’s truths in light of some less-than-godly behavior patterns I have embraced. This was clarifying and refining. I know I will continue to reference it over and over.

[Krisie W. · Rating 3 out of 5]

It was alright. I found it pretty repetitive. Though I did get some good take aways from it! I read with a highlighter at hand and there was some good quotes. Solid three stars.

[LaQuetta Glaze · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think that Audible may be listening to my conversations. 😂 As soon as I got off the phone talking about boundaries being biblical too, this book popped up as a suggestion. So, I accepted the "suggestion" and I am glad that I did. Level setting our boundaries is something that we will be dealing with for a lifetime, so no matter where you are on your emotional health journey, revisiting this subject every so often is a good idea. Lysa made some excellent points about creating boundaries and not erecting walls. She also emphasized the fact that God first built boundaries and walked us through God's boundaries in the bible. This was a great read and boundary revisitation. Highly recommend.

[Jennifer · Rating 5 out of 5]

Lysa TerKeurst never fails to deliver a well researched book in a conversational style that speaks right to my heart. If you have ever struggled with boundaries with people, you need this book!

[Jennifer · Rating 3 out of 5]

Not what I expected or wanted, but some interesting parts. I just wanted to learn how to stop doing everything for my family! Should have read a more thorough description before buying it. Because it’s Not the book for that.

It’s really for people whose spouse has crossed boundaries they shouldn’t have and violated trust. It Was no doubt therapeutic for the author to write and can surely help people in a similar situation.

[Kimberly · Rating 5 out of 5]

I believe this book to be so helpful during the season I am in & will re-read again sometime for reinforcement.