Norah, a disabled child of seven, loses her mother and is sent to live in the strangely complicated household of her Aunt Rose. She learns to fight the loneliness and indifference she finds there, and makes a place for herself with the help of the staunch Aunt Poll, and the friendship of Paul, sensitive eldest son, whose difficult relationship with Aunt Rose proves a salient factor in the development of plot.
Nelia Gardner White, one of five children of a Methodist minister, lived in several small towns as she was growing up. Though the family had very little money, the atmosphere of the home was happy; life was filled with "books, friends, and fun." By taking many different sorts of jobs, White was able to attend Syracuse University for two years (1911-13) and the Emma Willard Kindergarten School (1913-15). After several years as a kindergarten teacher, she married a lawyer. The couple had two children.
During World War II, as a guest of the British Ministry of Information, White wrote articles about England. In 1948 she won the $8,000 prize in the Westminster Press Fiction Contest with her novel No Trumpet Before Him. White gives great credit for her start as a writer to Maude Stewart, a teacher in the kindergarten school who helped her toward an understanding of human character and of the various relationships between people. White contributed articles about child care to a kindergarten magazine. She began writing fiction with stories for kindergarten children and four novels for young people and then branched out to adult fiction. The rest of her life is a record of much industry and a great deal of success. Hundreds of her stories appeared in such popular magazines as the American, Ladies' Home Journal, People's Home Journal, Midland, McCall's, Pictorial Review, Forum, and Good Housekeeping. In addition, she wrote 25 novels.
10🌟! I'm writing this now (as I'm crying) because I don't want to forget how much this book has affected me and how beautiful it is—both in writing and in content. The Pink House(which I bought and chose to read for my birthday month because I love the color pink)completely floored me. I had no idea this vintage novel would grab hold of my heart and not let go until the very last page...and maybe not even then.
This story is about the Dickinson family (through several decades), strength of character, honesty, disappointments, searching for self and love...always about love as the basis of life. It surprised me how quickly I became caught up in this novel. I was extremely reluctant to put it down—sometimes, I would read almost 100 pages in one sitting and, other times, only a few pages because I wanted to savor the book slowly and absorb every single word.
My favorite characters (besides the main protagonist of orphan Norah Holme) are Aunt Poll, Unger the cook and Doctor Rob. Nelia Gardner White's description of each of the characters and the pink house itself are burned in my brain forever.
Although the content and writing is not the same, The Pink House has hints of The Eliots of Damerosehay by Elizabeth Goudge and Coming Home by Rosamund Pilcher. This is not a cheerful (or depressing) book, but it has a more serious and earnest tone that I loved.
I don't usually choose books that are like this but, at the time, I honestly thought it was "simply a vintage romance"...and, oh my goodness, it is not. It's so much more. The depth of spirit in this story astounded me in such a way that I feel a little lost at the moment. I will 100% read this novel again and it is now one of my all-time favorites forever.
I picked up the Quite Literally Books copy of this gem because… to be honest I really liked the cover design and I’m a sucker for a book that just feels good in your hand. I’m so so glad I judged the book by its cover on this one.
From the first chapter, I was in. Nelia Gardner White has a way with prose that feels almost musical. It felt like reading one, big love poem dedicated to growing up.
All the characters are rich and full of life, hopes, dreams, disappointments, regrets, passions, and loves. And you really feel all of the emotions being poured out on the pages. I was rooting for every single character (except one which I won’t disclose, and even that gets nuanced).
If you like slow burns, coming-of-age tales, real and raw stories, and want to immerse yourself in a vintage farm setting for a couple days, pick up this one up.
Omg omg omg why isn’t this book more popular. I loved it so much. I thought i would never experience this feeling ever again. This book made feel exactly the way little women, anne of green gables and daddy long legs did. I can’t even put it into words. This should be one of the girly classics.
“He was hollow.And yet how could it be, when he seemed to fill my heart with such richness, such pain, such moments of joy? How could an empty man give so much? Why was he so important to us all, if he was nothing in himself?”
“I turned and he stood there in the doorway. Always, when I see him, I have had to harden myself, grow strong against giving away my heart in my eyes.”
“What are words, after all, to put against that moment when I Looked up and saw him with everything told in his face?”
I love the back story of how this novel, originally published in 1950 by an author most people would not recognize, came to light all these years later. Two life-long friends have formed a publishing company, Quite Literally Books, dedicated to publishing/reissuing American women authors “who’ve been shelved for far too long.” I also love their just-as-long history with public libraries and their conversations with one another talking about books. So check them out at quiteliterallybooks.com.
From the opening pages, I was taken with the characters. Seven-year-old Norah Holm comes to live with her Uncle John Dickenson at a small country estate, the Grange, when her beloved mother dies. Frail, using crutches due to one leg being shorter than the other, Norah spends her time quietly observing her colorful (and self-possessed, even mean, sometimes) cousins Mary Ellen, Jed, Dosie and Paul, and trying to remain invisible. Add to the mix their mother, Aunt Rose, beautiful but haughty, arrogant, almost oblivious to her family. Aunt Poll, pragmatic, perceptive, focused on remaining independent, becomes Norah’s mentor, taking on her education, exposing her to great minds, constantly challenging her thinking, answering her questions, however difficult.
There is a Charles Dickens quality to the plot with the orphan thread and even a memory of “The Secret Garden;” yet, how Norah evolves in this house filled with secrets is a more complex story. As Norah becomes more astute and confident, her “orphan” status fades, and she is firmly embedded in the Dickenson family. The outlier is Aunt Rose whose cutting behavior toward Paul is mysterious to Norah and accepted as normal by the cousins. I found it interesting to watch Norah develop and the cousins grow while Aunt Rose is diminished.
The novel is also filled with minor characters who play a big role in Norah’s life and are intrinsically connected to the family; these threads are some of my favorite in the book.
The concept of secrets often drives this novel: who harbors secrets? Do they protect, and can the telling hurt or destroy? Does anyone have the right to tell? In “The Pink House,” there are small secrets, harmless enough in life, but also life-changing secrets, which almost hold characters hostage. Loneliness is also inherent within almost every character in the novel; thinking about how oblivious some were to each other’s loneliness, or how dismissive, reminded me how relevant this issue continues to be. Secrets and loneliness…
Another question wrestled with involved love. Norah protects her secret love for Paul and Aunt Poll advocates for “half a loaf is better than no bread.” Marriage without love? Marriage at all? Sacrifice all for love?
Under the grayness of WW II, much changes for Norah and the Dickenson family, their stories often taking surprising turns, epiphanies experienced, new ventures explored. I did not want to leave them or the “Pink House” and hoped life would be kind to them when I closed the book.
I love being a girl, and this was peak girlhood summed up in a book in its own way. Norah is Jane Eyre's little sister in my mind, and it was a pleasure to read about Norah's life, my darling girl <3
There were so many moments that truly touched my heart, and I'm writing this review with a fullness in my soul. I can't remember them all, obviously, but some I can are: when she started to like Aunt Poll (oh dear Aunt Poll and Mrs Unger, thanks for everything you did for her! my favourite type of female characters, strong and independent yet kind in their own unique way); when Aunt Poll painted the house pink (ah, iconic, I just love her); some of her conversations with Paul; Paul's loneliness and this quote:
"I guess everybody knows about loneliness" "Maybe so, Norah. Some more than others, though."
Her 'friendship' with Mary Ellen (the beach trip, and when she was about to start college); the way she got a little taste of what childhood might've felt like when she was spending time with Butch; when she got proposed to by Captain Jones (not the proposal itself though, I got a bit teary when I read Uncle John's reaction and what he said to her); omg this reminds me of when she got THE letter when she was just starting to "really" think about marrying him, oh, poor boy (don't judge me, but I cried as hard as I cried when she found out her mom was dead; omg, the cat comparison really got me sobbing... the dead mom theme is a touchy subject, I might cry again now); Jed becoming the most normal member of the family was a shock to be honest; when Mary Ellen came back and complimented Norah, and when she agreed to be her bridesmaid without even thinking about her cane; and finally yes, the ending where Paul came home and she said "you're not hollow anymore," and then her last paragraph talking to Aunt Poll.
This is one of those books that will always stay with me.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
Started slow and ominous, but by the end the wisdom on the page was CHEF'S KISS. Watching Norah learn to reach out, care about others, observe, become someone who others can confide in... it was lovely and brought a tear to my eyes. Some unexpectedly deep coming-of-age learnings here — like the opposite of a sheltered mind is a curious one.
PS: The Quite Literally Books edition is gorgeous — nice paper, font, cover, heft in hand.
i am weak in the knees anytime anyone compares anything to a tree grows in brooklyn. this is everything i like in my litfic slice of life with sharp observations and clear intentions despite murky situations. simple yet elegant tied with a pretty pink bow.
Wow. Just...wow. This book is a gift...one to savor.
Our understanding of every single character--even seemingly or actually unlikeable ones--deepens along with that of the narrator as she grows up, observing and embracing knowledge, experience, people, and the natural world. I was enthralled by her journey to enlarge her heart and mind.
All the deities' blessings upon Quite Literally Books for finding and reissuing this beautiful story.
it has been so long since I’ve felt this way about a book… my heart is so incredibly full from how pure and wholehearted this story is, how brave Norah had been navigating the years, and how realistic the novel was about the ebbs and flows of life. this is definitely in my top 3 favourite books of all time 🩷🌷
Similar to literary classic Jane Eyre, The Pink House is a dark family saga written by prolific but forgotten 20th century woman author Nelia Gardner White. It was an easy read and very enjoyable. I recommend it! I loved reading the new edition put out by Quite Literally Books.
this was a sweet book about a woman’s life and all the people and relationships ships in it. i wish the ending had a longer resolution about her and paul. but it was nicely written and made me feel content.
I thoroughly enjoyed my visits to “The Pink House.” The novel centers around Norah Holme, who at seven is sent to live with a houseful of cousins after her mother dies. While the cousins hold her at arm’s length, she’s taken under the wing of the practical and indomitable Aunt Poll.
The story follows the family as the children grow up, secrets are revealed, and relationships change. It’s a story about longing, making a place for yourself, and learning lessons from the people around you. “The Pink House” had me charmed, though I would’ve preferred it ended three pages earlier (perhaps that’s just me).
It was the perfect book to read during the (hopefully) last snowstorm of the season, with the opening paragraph including these lines: “I have ever had the feeling that the home of a true writer is in the center of a still snowfall, where all his world is hidden, so that he may discover it out of his own vision.” It ends with the hope of spring.
I would definitely recommend if you’re looking for something cozy, nostalgic, and bittersweet.
I picked this book on a whim and I flew through it. It is a wonderful novel with a fully realized and fascinating main character at the center of it. Every single part of the story from the people surrounding the protagonist to the pink house itself manage to have a distinct personality. This was also right up my alley with its themes of loneliness, forming of one’s identity and the seeking of a meaning and purpose. I also love stories where we get to follow the main character’s personal journey throughout the years, when done well you end up feeling as if you grew alongside them. And that’s why i loved reading about Norah and the many events in her life, her world might seem too contained but the story doesn’t dwell on that aspect, the house specifically comes to life because of Norah’s vivid descriptions of it. And just as she cherishes and cares for it, you come to understand how the house and all its inhabitants are an essential and significant part of the story and Norah’s journey.
This story has heart, and some characters do eventually feel fleshed out, but I couldn't get past the style of writing. While it could be that this is intended for a younger audience---our coming-of-age narrative told through the perspective of a young woman---but even with that frame of mind it felt more of a chore to read than with ease.
My other main issue was how scenes were written---possibly intended to feel like vignettes---but were often short, jolty, and staccatoeque, like they were tripping on their feet to get to the next scene because something exciting would certainly happen then, only for it to be just another monotonous, tedious, slice-of-life one. Which White *loved* elaborating on. Not that there isn't merit in slice-of-life stories, but for me there was an imbalance.
The strongest part of the story for me was the final 40 or so pages, when Norah is reflecting on her life, the people that have shaped her, and how she chooses to move forward through life.
This is an amazing book - I think if it hadn't gone out of print this would be as popular and sit on the same shelf as books like Jane Eyre and Rebecca. It is now easily available at the publisher: Quite Literally Books - check them out!
This is a coming-of-age gothic novel that was relatable and created vivid imagery of all the characters and the Pink House that they resided in. It was endearing, I felt a lot for not just the main character- but all the residents. I really hope more people will read this and will gain attention, so Nelia Gardner White's other works will be published again!
What a lovely read. The introduction describes this book as a cozy read meant to be enjoyed with tea and cookies, a book that prioritizes meaningful, everyday conversations and relationships. White accomplished that quite well here. I felt deeply emotionally attached to Norah and her family, empathizing with her tragedies and joys. Though the pacing was a smidge uneven, I'd happily recommend this book to others looking for a bildungsroman with an optimistic (but never overly sentimental) ending.
I don’t typically write reviews on here, but this book is something special. I cannot stop crying! This is an incredible coming of age story (classic Bildungsroman) with fully realized characters that you want to know more about, even after the book has ended. What a magical gift that Nelia Gardner White created and that Quite Literally Books has given back to us after all these years. A beautiful classic that should be on everyone’s shelf.
This book is carried by its female characters. Also, if you're looking for romance, this book is not it. Like sorry, I just did not gaf about her obsession with Paul (girl, stand up!!) However, there's a lot of great and interesting female characters. Personally, my favorite was Mary Ellen—especially the way her relationship with Norah develops through the story—and, of course, Aunt Poll and Unger, who are the heart of the pink house.
I was quite surprised to see how underrated this book is! This is such a special book, I loved every bit of it. Norah’s journey from a lost, tiny child thrown into a cold household - to making her own warm life will stay with me forever.
Reading this at a time when I need to work on my courage and confidence really helped clear my perspective. Norah and Paul survived the heavy darkness, remained kind, and came to the other side as complete people.
Such a heart warming and tender book. Made me emotional. Aunt Poll was my favorite character she was what made this novel so charming. The writing is so beautiful and the whole atmosphere is quaint and warm, has the same feeling as a Ghibli movie. Nothing grand or mind blowing, just a simple endearing tale about life.
The confession from Paul kinda came out of nowhere . Maybe I fell that way because I also didn't care much for their relationship , Norah had a more interesting dynamic with Mary Ellen . I also think that Aunt Rose was put on a bus way too early , I wanted to know more about her and Uncle John's relationship . Overall it was a nice book but I just wanted more from the characters
I feel like I'm constantly chasing the feeling of reading my favorite cozy childhood classics for the first time again, and this is the book. Think Anne of Green Gables, A Little Princess, Heidi, The Secret Garden, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, etc. I had to stop myself from flying through it all at once because I just loved these characters so much and didn't want it to end.
🥲🥲🥲 This book was so good. What a hidden gem. I love Norah and I’m really happy with the ending. This book and the author Nelia Gardner White deserve so much more attention. A moving picture of family, loneliness, belonging, and love.
I loved everything about this book!! The writing is really great and it had so many profound insights on life, also the atmosphere from the very first page was warm and nostalgic, I'm so in love with these characters😭 Please go read this gem!!
there are many great illustrations in the book but i especially like that the very last sentence loops with the first. i appreciated the writing and sentiment more than the actual story (especially regarding the pacing).