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Mama Might Be Better Off Dead: The Failure of Health Care in Urban America

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Mama Might Be Better Off Dead is an unsettling, profound look at the human face of health care. Both disturbing and illuminating, it immerses readers in the lives of four generations of a poor, African-American family beset with the devastating illnesses that are all too common in America's inner-cities.

The story takes place in North Lawndale, a neighborhood that lies in the shadows of Chicago's Loop. Although surrounded by some of the city's finest medical facilities, North Lawndale is one of the sickest, most medically underserved communities in the country. Headed by Jackie Banes, who oversees the care of a diabetic grandmother, a husband on kidney dialysis, an ailing father, and three children, the Banes family contends with countless medical crises. From visits to emergency rooms and dialysis units, to trials with home care, to struggles for Medicaid eligibility, Abraham chronicles their access (or lack of access) to medical care.

Told sympathetically but without sentimentality, their story reveals an inadequate health care system that is further undermined by the direct and indirect effects of poverty. When people are poor, they become sick easily. When people are sick, their families quickly become poorer.

Embedded in the family narrative is a lucid analysis of the gaps, inconsistencies, and inequalities the poor face when they seek health care. This book reveals what health care policies crafted in Washington, D. C. or state capitals look like when they hit the street. It shows how Medicaid and Medicare work and don't work, the Catch-22s of hospital financing in the inner city, the racial politics of organ transplants, the failure of childhood immunization programs, the vexed issues of individual responsibility and institutional paternalism. One observer puts it this way: "Show me the poor woman who finds a way to get everything she's entitled to in the system, and I'll show you a woman who could run General Motors."

Abraham deftly weaves these themes together to make a persuasive case for health care reform while unflinchingly presenting the complexities that will make true reform as difficult as it is necessary. Mama Might Be Better Off Dead is a book with the power to change the way health care is understood in America. For those seeking to learn what our current system of health care promises and what it delivers, it offers a place for the debate to begin.


297 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1993

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1,496 reviews390 followers
December 8, 2025
This book is heartbreaking. It was impossible not to feel for the mother in the family and all she had to sacrifice to just make it so that her family could receive some modicum of care. It's heartbreaking to think of all the people like her who have so much potential that are ruined by dysfunctional and overly complex systems that they have no hope to learn to navigate when even the professionals that should be able to orient them can't see the whole picture. I read the 2019 edition of this book and although this book was originally written more than 30 years ago it still feels surprisingly and sadly current. I cannot beg Canadians who think we would fare better with a privatized healthcare system to read this book enough, this is the kind of reality some of our provincial premiers are setting us up for if we don't get serious about pushing back like yesterday!
Profile Image for Jennifer Richardson.
31 reviews
August 22, 2009
Should be required reading for anyone comparing the Obama health plan to Nazis, but then, they would have to know how to read. . .
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3 reviews7 followers
March 15, 2021
I highly recommend this book. I first read it when i was a new medical Social Worker in the Chicago Metro area. While we'd like to think things have improved greatly in the 30 years since this was written and i first read it, the same struggles remain and the same inequity in available resources also remain. I have recommended this book countless times in my professional gatherings.
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200 reviews3 followers
January 28, 2024
this book was incredibly insightful on the healthcare system in america. it’s so upsetting to see that low-income individuals, who are at or near the poverty line, are not poor enough to qualify for medicaid, causing them to be uninsured. it’s so frustrating to see that so many individuals and families are unable to get access to equal healthcare and so many diseases are left untreated because people can’t afford it. in countries like canada and the united kingdom, where healthcare is universal, they do not face problems with healthcare like we do in america. these countries actually have a lot of positive health outcomes. meanwhile, america is known to have one of the most expensive healthcare systems, with the funds and ability to cure cancer and other diseases, with advanced technologies and new medications. but, we don’t have the ability to immunize children. this book does an incredible job depicting the flaws of the US healthcare system and how a family in an urban area, suffers from these flaws.
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June 15, 2024
This book feels like it was written so polite racists can read it and say, "look how terrible those poor people have it. They've been down so long there's just no helping them anymore." The subjects are given no dignity, and very little space to actually tell their own story- the author's adjectives are given precedence.
93 reviews
May 18, 2020
I can't say that I enjoyed reading this book, but I'm glad that I did. The most depressing part of this pretty depressing book is that it was written in the early 1990's and I can't see that much has improved about our healthcare system in the United States. I started reading the book before the pandemic really hit the U.S. and it was hard to keep going after it hit. But it was leant to me by a respected friend and colleague so I kept going. And, in the end, it helps highlight all the reasons social determinants of care matter. COVID is highlighting that, too. Will we respond in the right way?
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101 reviews
August 9, 2022
reminding myself to recommend this book to anyone practicing healthcare along Ogden Avenue.
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17 reviews3 followers
August 21, 2023
i can honestly say this book changed my life. it’s altered my career path and while it could be written slightly more powerful the content is incredible
Profile Image for Gloria Chen.
209 reviews5 followers
July 19, 2017
This book is a bit dated, but unfortunately, the issues discussed in it do not seem to have improved much in the 20+ years since it was published. I learned a lot reading it, and some of those thoughts are in this essay I wrote for the class it was assigned in:

Profile Image for Anna.
14 reviews6 followers
September 13, 2012
Extremely eye opening book. There are a lot of things in this book that my parents and I just never experienced to this degree, and myself not at all because we had access to military health insurance from my father. This book sheds light on the fact that there are many policies that are failing to adequately cover many American citizens. This book ensures that you hear a little about what their day to day life is like and know about the hard choices that have to be made when you live in poverty. It also discusses those policies.

A bit dated in some aspects because of the publication date, but most certainly not all aspects and it still serves as a reminder of what our system is/was like, where it needs to be improved, what policies simply did not work for those it was might to help, and what groups of people are more likely to fall through the cracks.
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533 reviews12 followers
March 24, 2018
This book is close to 30 years old, but it’s tale still holds true. More people may have insurance, but public insurance and programs are still confusing, care is still expensive, poor people are still sicker than average, poor people have less access to quality care, and black people are disproportionately at risk of falling into this system.

If you think access to quality care is a privilege and not a right, you need to read this book. And then read it again. And again. And again until you understand. It is not “those people” or “other people” it is your neighbors, coworkers, waiter, mechanic, grocery store clerk, housekeeper, kids’ substitute teachers, your fellow citizens, and it could be you someday.
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11 reviews9 followers
November 10, 2008
Fascinating look at the many failures of our health care system seen through the eyes of one Chicago family. I learned a ton about Medicare and Medicaid and all the laws involved. As much as she tells an important story, the tone was both inflammatory and accusatory as if Abraham was confused about her audience. The take home: Stay at home caretakers are incredibly hardworking, resourceful individuals.
30 reviews
March 11, 2010
Single-handedly started the process of me changing my mind on healthcare for those w/o insurance.
362 reviews
January 21, 2016
Even though this book is outdated (1993) it still does a great job in providing empathy to those who struggle in our country. There is still much work to be done.
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524 reviews1 follower
November 21, 2022
An interesting book about the failure of health care in the United States , this book talks about a black family living in Chicago suffering of kidney failures in the 1990s using Medicare .
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40 reviews
December 28, 2024
if you ever just want to bawl your eyes out. this is the one! ive never felt more sick to my stomach and frustrated by profit motives in healthcare. we do not care for our elders even a little bit.
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212 reviews15 followers
July 1, 2022
It’s so sad how so little has changed since this book has been written. The main changes that have been made were made under President Obama…yet we still lack guaranteed access to care for all.

“No one is forced to take responsibility for these inequities. Medical ethicist Larry Churchhill describes well the forces that allow the United States to remain the only industrialized country other than South Africa that does not provide at least basic healthcare to all of its citizens. “Access to healthcare is mostly contingent on having a way to pay for it either out of one’s own resources or with some form of insurance,” he writes. “The essential point is that [this] allocation by price is a rationing scheme——one which we have easily accepted healthcare as an extension of a basic economic philosophy, and one which largely observes any particular person for responsibility for the results. Since no one actually decided to exclude the poor (as it is their lack of money that excludes them, not our actions) no one is responsible and no one is to blame.”

“As I write this, it is not clear what changes await the US healthcare system. Some kind of reform seems imminent, but then again, national health insurance was just around the corner in the early 1970s. My background is a healthcare reporter does not equip me to lay out a detailed design for change, but after three years spent chronicling the lives of a sick, poor family and the institutions that served or failed to serve them, there is some a essential reforms that I think are necessary.
First, a basic level of healthcare —“basic” being defined by some sort of societal consensus— should be guaranteed all American doesn’t matter of course, as is the case in all industrialized nations other than South Africa. Only in America does it seem vaguely radical to declare that healthcare is not a luxury item like fancy cars or fur coats. It is inhumane to treat it as if it is. It also can be expensive. In the end, we cannot bear to let the poor die on the streets, so we care for them when they’re “damn near death,” as Tommy Markham would say, when it costs so much more. It also costs us in other ways, when Jackie and other poor mothers get job opportunities, they must weigh whether they can afford to leave welfare and lose the automatic Medicaid coverage for themselves and their children. Even the expansions in Medicaid leave out many of the children of working poor and near-poor parents, to say nothing of the parents themselves. As things stand now, we say to working for mothers and fathers: Medicaid may cover your youngest children, as long as your family doesn’t creep a dollar over the federal poverty level. You, however, the people who nurture them, you’re on your own.”
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66 reviews2 followers
October 31, 2023
That the US health system is dysfunctional in the extreme is well known and well discussed. It stands alone amongst wealthy nations in its cruelty and inequality, giving some of the world's best healthcare to, or even overtreating, the wealthy while denying basic necessities to those with less money and minorities (not to mention the female half of the population). What this book does well is show some of the human challenges and heartaches of those at the receiving end of this cruelty.

However, the book focuses almost exclusively on healthcare at the expense of many other structural issues which cause health problems and health inequalities. Tangential mention is made of housing, racism, access to healthy food, politics, gender inequality etc but passed over so briefly that it often appears that the problem is down to one problematic administrator, incompetent doctor or thoughtless piece of legislation. At best, the solution is seen to be more medicine - which is of course an important part of the solution but still a narrow part.

Despite the importance of the book lying in the personal experience of the Banes family as they navigate an uncaring system of medicine and social security, the best written chapter describes the dilemmas, failings and compromises of a devout and deeply caring Jewish doctor. Showing how somebody with the best of intentions and immense privilege struggles to provide for basic needs helps to show how the whole system is at fault.

It is a worthwhile read giving some really important parts of personal stories, but it's just a thin sliver of the story.
Profile Image for Lori.
382 reviews
March 8, 2025
Heavy On Statistical Data

I thought from the description that I would enjoy this book as it described several generations the Banes' family as they navigate their various health issues while living below the poverty line and trying to survive. Jackie Banes lives in a modest apartment along with her husband, their 3 children and her grandmother who is in poor health. The family members survive mostly off of welfare including Medicaid when they qualify for it, Medicare and social security as well as whatever money they may get from a poorly paid job.
Much of the book, as I indicated in my title focuses on the various statistics highlighting the inequities in healthcare between blacks and whites, private insurance vs Medicaid and Medicare and even the differences between hospitals in the Chicago area. It is clear that in North Lawndale, a very poor area where the Banese's family lives, nothing comes easy. They must pay 70.00 to get the grandmother transportation to her doctors appointments in a car equipped for her medical needs. The grandmother is a diabetic, an amputee, wheelchair bound and suffers from depression and bedsores. Jackie takes care of her as best as she can along with her husband and children but she is overwhelmed and herself at times.
I think the book seems well researched if dated. But I also found it to be quite dry and slow moving at times. I personally wouldn't recommend.
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1,381 reviews32 followers
March 7, 2021
I can’t remember when I have read a book that is so insightful but also so heartbreaking and grindingly depressing. As a woman living below the poverty level, I can attest to the truth of much of what is in this book, though it focuses on the plight of black and Hispanic people rather than on poor whites and Asians. However, 90% of what I read here is true for people with physical or intellectual disabilities as well, regardless of race. Though this book is said in Chicago, most of it could have been set in another large city like Atlanta, Philadelphia, or New York City. Though this book was written before the affordable healthcare act, much of what it describes is still true. Beyond that, there are new limitations and difficulties that people living in poverty are facing now that much of the gains of the affordable care act have been lost.
Profile Image for Karen Koppy.
455 reviews7 followers
August 13, 2023
The author's research and writing style were excellent. The fact that this family represented the various medical inequities that still are present in our country is incredible - from elderly care, dialysis, preventative child and adult care, pharmaceuticals, rehabilitation, home medical assistance,
medical ethical decisions, to lack of understanding of varying racial attitudes toward the medical community. It captures exactly what was going on during the early 90's. All these problems still exist. While some improvements have been made, some problems have gotten even worse.
I wish someone would write an updated version of this book, with the same thoroughness that this author performed.
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64 reviews5 followers
June 27, 2019
I liked it!

(I actually didn’t finish. There are like 30 pages left, but I got everything I needed from it. I don’t have time to finish. Med school apps!!!!)

I think it’s a great read for someone looking to begin to understand just how confusing the medical system and insurance system are. This book has helped me hone exactly what I want my medical career to be, which is pretty cool. I want to educate people who need the education the most but that aren’t getting it. I am pretty sure that I want to serve underserved populations in medicine after reading this book.

Sigh, I guess this book is pretty important to me. I should probably finish it. Ok.

Thanks!
Bye.
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160 reviews3 followers
March 22, 2019
Frustrating. Very frustrating for the family how doctors, nurses, social workers, the whole medical system failed them. I feel it is a good example of what healthcare once was. But I don’t feel like it’s completely true anymore. Yes things are still bad and disparities most definitely still exist and still torment poor minorities. But a lot has changed and gotten better with ACA.

I think we still have a long way to go tho.

Ps I had to read this baby for school. I was forced. But ima count it.
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688 reviews10 followers
February 1, 2019
A devastating longitudinal look at the failures of the health-care system for a family on Chicago’s Southwest Side. Caveats: was written in 1993, so some of the specific policies may no longer apply. Also, I found the tone quite condescending in some places. It made me wonder how the Banes felt about this portrayal of their most painful moments, and how a book like this might read from a reporter that shared some of the same demographic identity.
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253 reviews17 followers
May 5, 2022
a very very sad but very real look at the shortcomings of the american healthcare system and how the poor and sick fall through the cracks. the book itself is a little bit outdated in its discussion of insurance policy, but nevertheless many of the themes and struggles surrounding access are still prevalent.

overall, the book itself was very well organized and i felt that it was a fantastic, if depressing, look into the ways that healthcare failed the banes family on multiple levels.
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589 reviews
September 23, 2022
I think it was in the epilogue, but hearing how "nationalized healthcare was just around in the corner in the 1970s" was a kill of a kicker to a book written almost 30 years ago.

I think we might be getting closer, though. How anyone can read anything like this one book and not realize that's something that's been overdue in this goddamn country for far too long is beyond me.
8 reviews
July 12, 2017
Even 25+ years later, the issues framed here hold true. The stats and specific policies may have changed slightly but the barriers and experiences of those navigating our uncoordinated system have not.
2 reviews
August 17, 2017
I originally was assigned this book for a social work in healthcare class but read another book instead. I picked it up a few years later-topic is wry interesting but writing is a bit dry. I would still recommend it
Profile Image for LaDonna McGohan.
4 reviews1 follower
December 13, 2020
Great information in the book, but just not well written. It’s like the author didn’t know how to filter out information, so just put everything in there. I was considering this for a health care policy class I teach, but the book is too dense with details and you can miss the overall goal.
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547 reviews
May 10, 2021
3.5/4

Originally written in 1993 but it's impressive how much things haven't actually changed in the past 30 years and how some things (dialysis chains, etc.) seem to be even muckier now than then
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