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Just Fuck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom
"You're the Man... Act Like One!" Look, I know you're not a mind reader, so I'm going to be blunt... The majority of women like to be fucked. And I mean really fucked. Yes, the media has lied to you. Sure, there are some women that want to lay on their backs, look into your eyes, and gently rock back and forth, but most of us want you to channel the power of the Sun through your penis and give us a good, solid pounding. Act like you want it, for God's sake! In this book, I'm going to lay out exactly what the majority of women want and show you exactly how to give it to them. I've got a section just for you and one for your female partner, so you can feel 100% comfortable letting loose on her vagina in the way she's secretly craving. Some of the topics we'll cover... The Alpha Male - It's more than just being an ex-fratboy douchebag, who still thinks he's on the high school football team. I'll clue you in. Dirty Talk - Trust me, she wants it. If she didn't, she'd fuck a mime. Speaking of, did you know Marcel Marceau was divorced three times? Enough said. Role Playing - How she really feels about pretending to be the babysitter, a whore, and a student looking for a little "extra credit." I'll take you through the top 11 Alpha Male fantasies...including one so controversial, I can't even mention it here. The Art of Being Assertive - Sack up and take control! What to do...and what not to do. Sexual Communication - Both you and your partner have needs and good communication, both verbal and non-verbal, is crucial when it comes to getting them on the table. I'll show you how to communicate "Alpha Male Style." You'll learn what to say...and how to say it. Now that I've got you all hyped up and extremely aware of the need to please your woman, let's go about succeeding at it. Let's get down to brass tacks. What are you waiting for? Buy the book already! Eve Kingsley is a feminist writer based in San Francisco. She teaches couples how to push the boundaries of a sexual relationship to create new levels of honesty, intimacy, and trust.
- GenresSexualityNonfiction
124 pages, Paperback
First published December 16, 2008
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July 20, 2010
Just Fuck Me is purportedly a book for men, though I believe it’s a book more likely bought for men by women who have already read it.
The subject is simple: sometimes women don’t want long, drawn out romantic sex, sometimes they just want to be taken. Ravished. Fucked. To keep the review this book compact and on the subject of the actual book, I have to set most of my long and frankly, epic opinions on the subject aside.
I had expected when I bought this that the book would be more about the implications of this hypothesis, but instead, the book is basically an introduction to role playing. Not necessarily role playing with costumes and improv scripts, but just role playing with, shall we say, slightly altered personalities.
By the end of this book, I felt pity for the often maligned American males who will read this book. It encourages them first: Be a man! Take your woman! Be a Viking in the sack! Then it quickly reminds them: Oh, get permission first and find out at what level of manly man she wants you to be. Not that asking ahead of time if your partner wants to rough it up isn’t a good idea! If a man read this without any prompting from their significant other and decided to act on it, it could result in a very ugly evening and possibly legal action.
Bottomline, I could see this is something to give a man to read if you want to spice up the bedroom and aren’t sure how to bring it up. It could serve as a way to open lines of communication. But this is in no way a serious look at the why and wherefore that couples might want to change their sexual habits.
The subject is simple: sometimes women don’t want long, drawn out romantic sex, sometimes they just want to be taken. Ravished. Fucked. To keep the review this book compact and on the subject of the actual book, I have to set most of my long and frankly, epic opinions on the subject aside.
I had expected when I bought this that the book would be more about the implications of this hypothesis, but instead, the book is basically an introduction to role playing. Not necessarily role playing with costumes and improv scripts, but just role playing with, shall we say, slightly altered personalities.
By the end of this book, I felt pity for the often maligned American males who will read this book. It encourages them first: Be a man! Take your woman! Be a Viking in the sack! Then it quickly reminds them: Oh, get permission first and find out at what level of manly man she wants you to be. Not that asking ahead of time if your partner wants to rough it up isn’t a good idea! If a man read this without any prompting from their significant other and decided to act on it, it could result in a very ugly evening and possibly legal action.
Bottomline, I could see this is something to give a man to read if you want to spice up the bedroom and aren’t sure how to bring it up. It could serve as a way to open lines of communication. But this is in no way a serious look at the why and wherefore that couples might want to change their sexual habits.
October 10, 2012
Just fuck me is basically a couples guide to help women teach their partner that it is OK to be aggressive in the bedroom. In our culture we have become too PC in the bedroom to the detriment of great sex. The book gives several suggested scenarios which may or help. Great book, got it to help me write love scenes.
November 14, 2021
Tricky topic with a weird target audience, somewhere between vanilla and kink.
Mostly felt like a personal experience book and not a deep research book, read with that in mind it's interesting and depending on your experience level will give some food for thought. Just don't take it as gospel, but then again, you shouldn't do that for any book.
For me the main takeaway is, talking about what you want in the bedroom is hard. It's about showing someone your true self even when you might not know who that true self is because of limitations that got imprinted on you when growing up or society as a whole.
Mostly felt like a personal experience book and not a deep research book, read with that in mind it's interesting and depending on your experience level will give some food for thought. Just don't take it as gospel, but then again, you shouldn't do that for any book.
For me the main takeaway is, talking about what you want in the bedroom is hard. It's about showing someone your true self even when you might not know who that true self is because of limitations that got imprinted on you when growing up or society as a whole.
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August 22, 2010life fucks
February 8, 2018
I did not like it.
A lot of the explanations were too simplified or plain out wrong, seemingly coming only from personal experience and not from actual research.
Some statements were too harsh and generalized without considering the variables of the situation.
Saying things like "if she has an ounce of love in her heart for you" can be quite damaging to an inexperienced man/typical beta male, for whom this book seems to be mainly written.
But there definitely were some good points that the inexperienced might benefit from learning and the less inexperienced might benefit being reminded of.
But on this subject there is a lot of material you are better off reading.
A lot of the explanations were too simplified or plain out wrong, seemingly coming only from personal experience and not from actual research.
Some statements were too harsh and generalized without considering the variables of the situation.
Saying things like "if she has an ounce of love in her heart for you" can be quite damaging to an inexperienced man/typical beta male, for whom this book seems to be mainly written.
But there definitely were some good points that the inexperienced might benefit from learning and the less inexperienced might benefit being reminded of.
But on this subject there is a lot of material you are better off reading.
March 5, 2018
Was not a bad read, just a good reminder to take what is yours.
June 13, 2010
Unless you are a super-beginner in the world of masculine domination, this book isn't worth your time. Which is a shame, as I feel in our current culture the male role model is very passive and femme. It would be nice to see masculine role play make a comeback.
There are so many great titles available for women to learn how to be dominant seductresses using women from history as role models....Why not one for men? From Marc Antony to Casanova to Ray Charles (a total flirt), these men knew how to woo--and wow!--their women. Find me a book that teaches men how to properly seduce--and pleasure--women like these men did, and that book will have my 5-star review.
There are so many great titles available for women to learn how to be dominant seductresses using women from history as role models....Why not one for men? From Marc Antony to Casanova to Ray Charles (a total flirt), these men knew how to woo--and wow!--their women. Find me a book that teaches men how to properly seduce--and pleasure--women like these men did, and that book will have my 5-star review.
February 14, 2010
I liked this book. It was a short, straightforward instruction manual on how a woman can ask for what she wants and how a man can better understand why she might want him to be more aggressive in the bedroom. I know I've had issues with being able to make guys understand that just because I am a nice woman in every other area in my life, I like some intensity in the bedroom. I hope couples get something out of this book like I did.
September 23, 2009
It's not a great work of literature, but it does serve its purpose and it is humorous. There is a need for more men and women to pluck books like this one off the shelves of bookstore retailers. The title is too over the top, however, and I wish she'd toned that down a bit.
November 13, 2015
would give this one a 3 and a half star but I'll be generous.. there are some handy (pardon the pun) hints in the book although some more diagrams & step by step would be good to go with the narrative..
well worth a read as its quite short
well worth a read as its quite short
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January 31, 2013it 's good
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