This is such a difficult book to rate. I'm going to explain myself the best I can, because I'm still not sure how I feel about it. (Both a good and a bad sign.)
1:
For the first half, this reminded me of His Fair Assassin series, which is a good thing. Then it reminded me of a Marie-Louise Jensen book, totally different, but still a good thing. A combo of the two is gold.
2:
This is so very gritty in the beginning that I nearly stopped reading. Just the first few chapters where there are illusions to graphic survival methods, where no one blinks at murder, etc., it was rough, yet it wasn't explicitly explained, so I kept going.
3:
There was a massive drop in plot/progression once the 'journey' started (Trying not to spoil it...). MASSIVE. Lots of hanging out, grumbling under her breath or in her head and lots of hearing people's thoughts which got a little longwinded. Who am I kidding, a LOT longwinded.
4:
I liked the so called 'solution' at the end of the book, but...I didn't love it. That's a lot of 'what-if' for the future, a lot of bad stuff still waiting to affect them, and yet....it works? Sort of? Meh.
5:
No, no, no on the love story.
We have a man who seems broken and broody (of course we do), which, let's be honest, becomes are harder and harder sell as you get his backstory and see his personality open up. At no point did it feel like they were actually falling in love. It felt like they were tolerating each other. Even learning how to be friends, but that's it. In fact I thought she matched up better with a different character. (Total side thought: her harsh intense personality needs someone a little softer to balance that out.) Also, sometimes, the MMC was a total baby.
6:
This didn't feel dystopian. If you like that, you'll have to remind yourself because it doesn't feel that way, it feels very old world.
7:
Bottom line: I think I would give this a pass. The ideas are good, even great, but the story lags about a third of the way through and never picks back up, the romance is flat and I feel no need to read the others in the series.
Parental Guide: Lots of grit, violence, references to rape, murder, stealing, name it, it probably has that in it.... Slightly open door, but nothing explicit, some swearing, though how the F-word made it to a dystopian society that has been totaled and nothing new was made as a word, is beyond me.