To say I am obsessed with Mary Katherine Backstrom would be the understatement of the century. I stumbled across her first book, Holy Hot Mess, earlier this summer and devoured it within 48 hours. I was beyond excited to receive early access to Crazy Joy and have been soaking this one up bc I didn’t want it to end! Reading a MKB book is like having your best friend tell you it’s going to be ok, and you’re not alone in your crazy, on repeat.
My biggest take away from this book is that life doesn’t have to be perfect to achieve joy. I used to think that my anxiety, my fears, my mess, my frustrations with my children not listening to me, were all keeping me from achieving joy. If it wasn’t pretty and perfect, how could I be joyful? But what I’ve found throughout my time with this book is that those things ARE the joy. I can take anti-anxiety meds, get a little too cross with my kids bc I’m exhausted (bc I stayed up reading this book lol), and there is still joy to be found in our perfectly imperfect lives. I especially loved the pop culture references such as Steel Magnolias and Stranger Things, which further makes me feel like I’m just talking to my bestie.
Us moms have a lot of pressures put on us every single day. We are trying to find our people, take care of our people, and love Jesus in the meantime. Our worlds can be pulled in so many different directions. But this book brought me a little more centered and helped me remember … the joy are the beautiful things God has given me. My husband, my child, my life. Things might turn upside down sometimes bc, as MKB says, trauma doesn’t discriminate, but with the help of anxiety meds, our village, the joy we find in every day mundane things, we can do the hard things.