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Seen, Heard & Understood: Parenting & Partnering with Teens for Greater Mental Health
In normal times, adolescence is not easy. Changes in the external world can amplify internal changes and make it more difficult for teens to cope, let alone thrive. During adolescence, parents often struggle to remain connected with their teens. Lainie Liberti helps parents understand their teen's developmental stages and behaviors in an easy to follow format through stories, research, applied psychology and science-backed tools. Prepared with the right tools, parents can support their teens on a journey towards greater mental health.
Throughout this inspirational book, you'll explore a new conceptual framework for parenting which will transform your relationships. Be prepared to do the uncomfortable work required in order to support your teen through some of the biggest mental health challenges our generation has ever experienced.
In addition to providing a set of powerful tools, this book will offer a roadmap to teen mythsHealing traumasPartnership parentingMentorship benefitsTeen brain basics
Are you ready?
"Do you feel there must be a better way to live with your teenager, but don't know how to start? This book could be just what you need. A powerful call to parents to look directly at young people, listen to where they are coming from and support them to find the life they want to lead. Combining personal experience, neuroscientific research and practical tools, Lainie guides you towards a different way of being with your teen, moving from coercion and manipulation to partnership and connection."
~Dr. Naomi Fisher, Clinical Psychologist and Author of Changing Our How Children Can Take Control of their Own Learning
“Finally.. a book that sees and understands the unique needs of teenagers without all the negative stereotypes. This book is a gem.”
~Christiane Northrup, M.D., New York Times best-selling author of Goddesses Never Age, The Wisdom of Menopause, and Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom
"Lainie Liberti provides relief from the fear-based need to control your teen, allowing partnership to replace domination. With a validating voice, she provides tools to heal yourself, such that you don’t have to react to your teen from your pain, but respond from your love."
~Naomi Aldort, Author of Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves; Transforming Parent-Child Relationship from Reaction and Struggle to Freedom, Power and Joy
“As a mom of two teenagers, and a longtime admirer of Lainie Liberti’s work, I value her insights on prioritizing connection over coercion in our parenting approach. Seen, Heard & Understood provides the tools and inspiration to build a powerful, peaceful partnership with our teens.”
~Kerry McDonald, Author of Raising Curious, Well-Educated Children Outside the Conventional Classroom
“This book is a major contribution to unschooling and homeschooling families and to the movement for reimagining education. It names the proverbial elephant in the room. Unless we as parents heal our own intergenerational trauma and face our fears and anxieties, we risk passing these to our children.
Throughout this inspirational book, you'll explore a new conceptual framework for parenting which will transform your relationships. Be prepared to do the uncomfortable work required in order to support your teen through some of the biggest mental health challenges our generation has ever experienced.
In addition to providing a set of powerful tools, this book will offer a roadmap to teen mythsHealing traumasPartnership parentingMentorship benefitsTeen brain basics
Are you ready?
"Do you feel there must be a better way to live with your teenager, but don't know how to start? This book could be just what you need. A powerful call to parents to look directly at young people, listen to where they are coming from and support them to find the life they want to lead. Combining personal experience, neuroscientific research and practical tools, Lainie guides you towards a different way of being with your teen, moving from coercion and manipulation to partnership and connection."
~Dr. Naomi Fisher, Clinical Psychologist and Author of Changing Our How Children Can Take Control of their Own Learning
“Finally.. a book that sees and understands the unique needs of teenagers without all the negative stereotypes. This book is a gem.”
~Christiane Northrup, M.D., New York Times best-selling author of Goddesses Never Age, The Wisdom of Menopause, and Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom
"Lainie Liberti provides relief from the fear-based need to control your teen, allowing partnership to replace domination. With a validating voice, she provides tools to heal yourself, such that you don’t have to react to your teen from your pain, but respond from your love."
~Naomi Aldort, Author of Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves; Transforming Parent-Child Relationship from Reaction and Struggle to Freedom, Power and Joy
“As a mom of two teenagers, and a longtime admirer of Lainie Liberti’s work, I value her insights on prioritizing connection over coercion in our parenting approach. Seen, Heard & Understood provides the tools and inspiration to build a powerful, peaceful partnership with our teens.”
~Kerry McDonald, Author of Raising Curious, Well-Educated Children Outside the Conventional Classroom
“This book is a major contribution to unschooling and homeschooling families and to the movement for reimagining education. It names the proverbial elephant in the room. Unless we as parents heal our own intergenerational trauma and face our fears and anxieties, we risk passing these to our children.
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392 pages, Kindle Edition
Published May 25, 2022
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December 18, 2023
game changer
As an established attachment parent, I’ve not seen a book focused on teens. This is the first book I’ve read in 3 years as I really struggle to get through them. I’ve now had my husband read it too and we are jotting down the exercises and have so much to work with now. It feels like my mentor in book form. I’m incredibly grateful.
As an established attachment parent, I’ve not seen a book focused on teens. This is the first book I’ve read in 3 years as I really struggle to get through them. I’ve now had my husband read it too and we are jotting down the exercises and have so much to work with now. It feels like my mentor in book form. I’m incredibly grateful.
July 23, 2023
This book is "seen, heard, and understood". It is a pretty good book discussing parenting and particularly teens. Chapter 3 "teen myths" was an enlightening chapter. I received a free copy of this book via Booksprout and am voluntarily leaving a review.
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