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Don't Be Too Polite, Girls
Educator, activist, agent of change - the life and career of one of Australia's most influential women.
Australia prior to feminism was a very different place. Wendy McCarthy was born in 1941, the beginning of the decade historian Geoffrey Blainey called the 'Decade of the Century'. The Australia her family lived in in the forties was a place where a university degree was as uncommon as a refrigerator and a family holiday spent more than a hundred kilometres away was exotic and required elaborate and lengthy preparation.
Wendy's story is one of a determined country girl who was first in family to university. A girl who was raised to be polite rather than bold. Polite girls did not challenge the status quo or answer back, and they waited to be asked to dance.
It is the story of how her generation of women changed Australia. They fought to have their voices heard and imagined a different Australia. An Australia where girls had the opportunity to complete secondary education. Where women who had missed out on education had a second chance. Where there was a rate for the job or equal pay. Where there was universal access to safe contraception and abortion. Where child care and early learning was accessible and affordable. Where a mantra of political action for women was "A woman's place is in the House and in the Senate".
Don't Be Too Polite, Girls is a personal, political memoir about life, love, family and politics - as experienced by educator and activist Wendy McCarthy over the course of nearly eighty years.
Australia prior to feminism was a very different place. Wendy McCarthy was born in 1941, the beginning of the decade historian Geoffrey Blainey called the 'Decade of the Century'. The Australia her family lived in in the forties was a place where a university degree was as uncommon as a refrigerator and a family holiday spent more than a hundred kilometres away was exotic and required elaborate and lengthy preparation.
Wendy's story is one of a determined country girl who was first in family to university. A girl who was raised to be polite rather than bold. Polite girls did not challenge the status quo or answer back, and they waited to be asked to dance.
It is the story of how her generation of women changed Australia. They fought to have their voices heard and imagined a different Australia. An Australia where girls had the opportunity to complete secondary education. Where women who had missed out on education had a second chance. Where there was a rate for the job or equal pay. Where there was universal access to safe contraception and abortion. Where child care and early learning was accessible and affordable. Where a mantra of political action for women was "A woman's place is in the House and in the Senate".
Don't Be Too Polite, Girls is a personal, political memoir about life, love, family and politics - as experienced by educator and activist Wendy McCarthy over the course of nearly eighty years.
488 pages, Paperback
Published July 1, 2022
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June 23, 2022
I can’t seem to get enough of memoirs recently. This is a good one and very engaging. Wendy McCarthy as written a very readable memoir that clicks along at a good pace. Her life opportunities have been varied and she has grabbed them and thrown herself into them with all her might. All through her book she values education and teaching.
A very good read.
A very good read.
August 27, 2022
A perfectly engaging, well written, awe inspiring memoir from one of modern Australia’s first and favourite outspoken feminists. Wendy McCarthy inspires from every page of her memoir. An absolute must-read
December 20, 2023
5 stars for Wendy's amazing life and career, 3 stars for the actual book. A memoir written at 80 is bound to be long and this is very long. She wrote one at 60, but I don't know how much is the same or new. A chronological approach is the obvious way to structure such a long life, but there was a lot of back and forth, and the final sections about particular friends seemed very odd and tacked on. A bit more editing may have helped strengthen key messages. Plenty for women to reflect on about life, careers and saying yes to opportunities. Looking forward to Wendy's updated memoir at 100!
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