Love & Consent Don't Always Look the Same to Everyone
Picasso: What the fuck did you do to her? She left without a mark on her, and now she’s covered in welts and scratches, you sick son of a bitch.
Cameron Black: You’ll keep your voice down, take a deep breath, and talk to me about this like an adult. If any of you would like to ask me questions that don’t involve trying to murder me or accusing me of abusing my wife, then be my guest.
Void: Did you respect her boundaries and ask for consent?
Picasso: That’s what you want to fucking ask him? Have you gone fucking mad?
Void: Mad, no. The difference is I understand that what he did wasn’t abuse or violence inflicted upon our wife. What those two did was enter into an agreement of two consenting adults who laid out the rules and respected them. Nothing was done to Dax she didn’t allow or have the ability to stop at any time.
Weston Price: Is this something you plan on bringing into the mix regularly? Actually, I suppose my real question is are you going to be doing it at home with all of us around?
Cameron Black: For me, personally, I believe in respecting everyone’s boundaries. Dax made it clear to me that none of you would be comfortable with my unconventional way of enjoying sex. No, this isn’t something I’m looking to include in our everyday sex life, but to be fair, Wes, you seem to rather enjoy erotic asphyxiation play. In no way am I pointing fingers. I’m just trying to demonstrate that not all situations are as involved as what we did tonight.
Weston Price:You’re right. A few of us have certain kinks we’ve included in our sexual encounters together and never checked with each other. Tonight you brought Dax to an established play club where it was safe for you to do what you wanted. While I’d prefer not to have a dungeon or something like it put in the house, I’m not the only one who lives there.
Cognac: Look, you know loba isn’t going to do something she doesn’t want to. I also know Cam would cut off his own dick if he thought he really hurt her. While I have my own preferences to spice things up when I want to, I also don’t intend on forcing anyone else to be a part of it. So if Cam wants to have a love nest where they go off and enjoy themselves, it’s fine with me. All I want is for her to be safe, happy, and fucking boneless like she is now. I haven’t seen her that relaxed in a long fucking time.
Picasso: Why am I the only one who’s having a hard time with this?
Cameron Black: What bothers you more? The fact that I did that to her or that she let me? I won’t rush you on that answer because I really think you need to process that question. Whenever you have an answer, tell me, but I’ll warn you right now that answer will tell me more about you. How we perceive abuse, violence, and harm to those we love is a direct connection to our personal history.
Could that be true? Did I view what they’d done through a skewed way of thinking? Is that why I was the only one who was upset about this whole thing? Cam was right, I wouldn’t have an answer for him right away. It was going to take me some time.
Picasso: Look, I’m sorry I lashed out like that. It’s obvious to me I overreacted, and that’s my bad, but what I’d really like to do now is cuddle up with our wife and get some sleep.
Cameron Black: I’ll never be upset for you protecting her, just try to remember next time that I’m not the enemy. Go. You know she secretly hates sleeping alone now that she’s gotten used to all of us being there.