On first impressions, "Ghosted" may appear to be a book about the modern dating concept of ignoring someone into non-existence. While the author does touch on that idea being the origin of the title, her book subverts it, taking it to new extremes. In the age of internet dating, words such as ‘orbiting’ and ‘ghosting’ have fast become a part of the collective vocabulary.
Ghosted is told from the perspective of Laurie, who, one ordinary morning, finds that her husband Mark has vanished, leaving behind his phone and wallet. For weeks she continues as normal, telling no one of Mark’s disappearance, going to work as a cleaner at the local university and visiting her father, who is suffering from dementia. She spends most of her time alone in her tower block flat, drinking and trying to rationalise what has happened. Eventually, Laurie comes clean and reports Mark’s disappearance to the police. Naturally, they are suspicious of Laurie’s actions and wonder why she took so long to come forward.
Laurie decides that in order to establish why her husband has disappeared from the present, she must revisit the past and retrace the steps of their relationship. One of the most enjoyable aspects of Ashworth’s novel is the way she captures the complexity of love and the way we interact with others. In Ghosted, marriage is ordinary in moments, exceptional in others; dull at times and warm in glimpses. There is no black and white with Ashworth’s characters — every person and the relationships they’re entangled in are laced with excitement, intrigue and complexity.
Not content with one mystery, Laurie appears to distract herself from the disappearance of her husband by following her suspicions about the relationship between her father and his carer Olena. Laurie’s reaction is to project sinister motivations onto Olena, who seems to have a far better understanding of Laurie’s father and his needs. Here, Ashworth explores the shifting nature of relationships and absence. We fight to control these narratives, not only the way that we see other people, but how they view us in return. In reality, we have little influence over the way that we are perceived.
"Ghosted" is a novel about uncertainty and absence, indeed. While we may believe that our lives, our relationships and our family history – the things that shape our identity – are a certain way, that they’re set in stone, something can come along and cause us to question everything.
There may not be any actual ghosts in Jenn Ashworth's novel “Ghosted” but there are many different kinds of ghosting. The story begins when Laurie's husband Mark vanishes and she fears that he might have simply walked out of their relationship or “ghosted” her. But, alongside the complexity of this fading marriage, the narrative explores in many different ways the tension between presence and absence. There's the question of lineage, the condition of dementia of her father (so the "ghosting" of the mind), the loss of a child, the textures and patterns physically left in a house from previous inhabitants, the people who perform labour for us that we never see, an awareness of a looming environmental disaster. The author meaningfully explores the lines between what's known and what's imagined and what we project into reality in order to make sense of or embellish it.
In "Ghosted", those who once appeared solid and who we might consider to be a part of the mundane fabric of our everyday (fathers, spouses, colleagues), hide, or begin to reveal, parts of themselves that we didn’t know existed and act in a way that we had never considered them capable of. It keeps asking the secular question: how well do we – and can we – really know other people?