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How to Become a Successful Findom: The Definitive Guide
Discover how to make bank as a findomme with our comprehensive guidebook. Co-authored by experienced findomme M. Clarke and finsub J. Ross, each with backgrounds in business and digital marketing as well as the world of kink, How to Become a Successful The Definitive Guide will give you the crucial information you need to delve into the world of financial domination online and reach new heights of success, generating fabulous amounts of income through creative and devious power play.
We cover the what, why, how, when and where of findom, leaving no stone left unturned. This guide offers a truly unique perspective and is essential reading for anyone who aspires to make a living by demanding money from submissive men. The book will pay for itself.
What's The basics - all your questions answered, and common misconceptions dispelledThe psychology of a finsub - what makes them tick, and why do they get off on giving you money?An exploration of the many related kinks and fetishes a finsub may haveHow to create and market your findomme personaA guide to the many different channels and platforms available, and how to use them effectively to generate leads and incomeTips, tricks, tactics and techniquesEthical considerations and personal safety adviceAnd plenty more...
We cover the what, why, how, when and where of findom, leaving no stone left unturned. This guide offers a truly unique perspective and is essential reading for anyone who aspires to make a living by demanding money from submissive men. The book will pay for itself.
What's The basics - all your questions answered, and common misconceptions dispelledThe psychology of a finsub - what makes them tick, and why do they get off on giving you money?An exploration of the many related kinks and fetishes a finsub may haveHow to create and market your findomme personaA guide to the many different channels and platforms available, and how to use them effectively to generate leads and incomeTips, tricks, tactics and techniquesEthical considerations and personal safety adviceAnd plenty more...
91 pages, Kindle Edition
Published March 17, 2022
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August 2, 2023
I needed this!
I am just getting started in this niche and was making a few common mistakes. This book helped me a lot, I never used my highlighter feature before on my kindle and this book looks like a pride flag! Such excellent information, extremely helpful!
I am just getting started in this niche and was making a few common mistakes. This book helped me a lot, I never used my highlighter feature before on my kindle and this book looks like a pride flag! Such excellent information, extremely helpful!
December 18, 2022
Loved it
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December 8, 2023
This is the second (and probably last) book on the subject of Financial Domination I’m likely to read. I’m not judging, but I’m starting to think the old Marxist critique of how capitalism warps all human relations applies especially to the economic aspects. What two consenting adults do (or more than two, I guess) is their business, even if it’s necessary for the fantasy to involve the kayfabe of non-consensualness. Still, when I think about rich people hemorrhaging obscene amounts of money—on the casino baize or elsewhere—while others die after being refused some medical procedure for a lack of insurance, the sickness of our system becomes a little too egregious to ignore.
The flipside of that is of course it’s not for me to decide what sort of system we live under, and a certain level of injustice/hierarchical organization is probably inherent in each one. Even among communists, there were those higherup politburo types and mandarins who had more power, which, any way you cut it, is capital. And if I were a woman in the sex trades, I’d rather be screwing for hard cash than for foreign goods like blue jeans and tinned sardines, or even weekends at some apparatchik’s dacha.
How To Become a Successful Findom, while shorter than the other kindle book I read on the same subject, offers a much completer overview of the kink. It talks about setting limits, the various subcultures within the already very niche fetish, as well as what behaviors and what kinds of customers to avoid.
From the outside looking in, it seems quite easy, certainly less involved and demanding than full contact sex work. Definitely easier and less demeaning than flipping burgers or finagling a plumber’s snake into a stopped-up toilet. Reading about the difference between the wannabes and established Findommes, though, it becomes clear that the game is as much art as science. It requires a lot of effort, a lot of insight into the male psyche, and a sort of horse whisperer’s knack for knowing when to apply bridle, bit, or currycomb. You don’t just open up for business, put out your virtual shingle and start fleecing the marks. Much like pimping, it demands a strange set of character traits which very few genuinely possess. And like pimping, it ain’t easy. I guess, in a way, that it is pimping, albeit with the female calling the shots rather than the male.
For those ladies curious about how to earn a living in the field though—and those among us endlessly perplexed and fascinated by fringe sexuality—it’s an illuminating read. And definitely the better of the two books I’ve read on the topic.
The flipside of that is of course it’s not for me to decide what sort of system we live under, and a certain level of injustice/hierarchical organization is probably inherent in each one. Even among communists, there were those higherup politburo types and mandarins who had more power, which, any way you cut it, is capital. And if I were a woman in the sex trades, I’d rather be screwing for hard cash than for foreign goods like blue jeans and tinned sardines, or even weekends at some apparatchik’s dacha.
How To Become a Successful Findom, while shorter than the other kindle book I read on the same subject, offers a much completer overview of the kink. It talks about setting limits, the various subcultures within the already very niche fetish, as well as what behaviors and what kinds of customers to avoid.
From the outside looking in, it seems quite easy, certainly less involved and demanding than full contact sex work. Definitely easier and less demeaning than flipping burgers or finagling a plumber’s snake into a stopped-up toilet. Reading about the difference between the wannabes and established Findommes, though, it becomes clear that the game is as much art as science. It requires a lot of effort, a lot of insight into the male psyche, and a sort of horse whisperer’s knack for knowing when to apply bridle, bit, or currycomb. You don’t just open up for business, put out your virtual shingle and start fleecing the marks. Much like pimping, it demands a strange set of character traits which very few genuinely possess. And like pimping, it ain’t easy. I guess, in a way, that it is pimping, albeit with the female calling the shots rather than the male.
For those ladies curious about how to earn a living in the field though—and those among us endlessly perplexed and fascinated by fringe sexuality—it’s an illuminating read. And definitely the better of the two books I’ve read on the topic.
August 19, 2023
Lots of Information
This book gives a lot of marketing ideas for not just findom, but also other businesses and kinks. The only problem I have is that it never seems to be a closer. Maybe I’m just used to the findom manuals written in first person from those in the business who can be verified, so this one reads more like a textbook. There are no concrete examples saying this worked this way and that didn’t work so I had to change.
Book is well written and easy to read.
This book gives a lot of marketing ideas for not just findom, but also other businesses and kinks. The only problem I have is that it never seems to be a closer. Maybe I’m just used to the findom manuals written in first person from those in the business who can be verified, so this one reads more like a textbook. There are no concrete examples saying this worked this way and that didn’t work so I had to change.
Book is well written and easy to read.
March 3, 2023
Good Intro for Beginners or Those Wanting A Refresher
A quick, yet great read for all of those that are curious about this profession or want to enter in to it.
A quick, yet great read for all of those that are curious about this profession or want to enter in to it.
March 24, 2023
good stuff
Great advice. Real world advice. Not generic. This person was obviously a findom previously. The book is definitely worth reading
Great advice. Real world advice. Not generic. This person was obviously a findom previously. The book is definitely worth reading
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