Love and Restoration Are Things We Do—Not Things We Wait For
Can you just be patient and submissive while your husband is cheating on you? Well, good news! You can be a faithful Christian without having to just be patient. God calls us to action in mending relationships and never encourages us to just wait for Him to do it for us.
With this book, you will learn the boundaries and behaviors Christians need to not only prevent affairs, but to end them as well—while promoting their marriage.
Many Christian women are told by clergy that they need to be patient and submissive while their husbands are having an affair. Christian counselors often teach that husbands have affairs because their needs are not met well enough by their wives. This teaching not only blames the wrong person, it leads to the wrong action of trying to please unfaithful husbands. As a result, husbands end up having their cake and eating it, too, and do not give up their affairs.
Secular counselors, on the other hand, overly emphasize assertiveness without any loving connection or rebuilding. The Christian model is to be loving, while also having good boundaries. That is always the winning combination, whether you are single or married, and for all situations.