Wow, this book was a painful slog. I was really quite upset because I felt that I agreed with the central thesis as presented in the subtitle. I suppose I still basically agree with the thesis: that forming philanthropic relationships is important to boost charitable giving overall and more successfully develop individuals into philanthropists on whatever scale. But man. What a waste of a bunch of reading hours otherwise.
So, the main problem is that the entire 236-page book is just clumsily written. It reads like an undergraduate finance major's essay in all of the worst ways. Poor sentence construction, sloppy, trite phrases, and general clunkiness are pervasive. Further, the substance of the book doesn't really support this treatment: it has the feel of a powerpoint presentation that was filled out with anecdotes and fluff to get it to book length, including all the awkwardness and repetition that entails. I could have scratched my eyes out every time the authors made sure to mention Ben & Jerry's and Bombas by name when referencing the case studies they'd written in earlier chapters. Also, this is more of a pet peeve, but it became increasingly obvious that the authors had latched onto their keyphrase 'radical connection' and then overused it into oblivion, including in places where the demonstrated activity was actually more transactional than relational in nature. The word 'radical' got tossed out in a few other contexts as well where it really wasn't warranted.
Throughout the book, the authors unfortunately fail to really support or justify their conclusions. The writing is full of examples like this - when discussing corporate CSR initiatives, they casually mention that employees who support the CSR missions of a company are also the best employees in an objective sense. When discussing legacy philanthropy they suggest a direct line between philanthropic connection in parents and their children (despite providing examples earlier of philanthropically-minded parents who do not foster that characteristic in their kids). All kind of unsupported dubious claims like this. Just... citation needed, my guys.
The focus of the book also wandered around quite a lot, touching on nonprofit management and fundraising, corporate CSR, mission-driven corporations, and personal giving. It was pretty unclear who the target audience was meant to be which was honestly pretty funny considering how much emphasis was given over the course of the text to identifying personalized marketing initiatives.
Anyway, reading this book made me grumpy; I do not recommend it. I'm sure there are better books out there about charitable giving, its decline, and how we might reenvision that landscape. But anyway, this one was very unimpressive.