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The Imperfect Art of Caring
One small act can make a big difference.
Violet Strong is strong by name but not by nature, or so she thinks. She listens but never talks about herself. She’s friendly but doesn’t have many real friends. She’s become good at keeping people at a distance ever since she left home at eighteen and never looked back.
But when Violet is forced to return home to care for her estranged mother Glenys, she quickly finds out that life as a carer isn’t easy. Feeling overwhelmed, she’s forced to turn to the other local carers, including childhood friend Adam, for help. Although returning home still feels like a mistake, maybe it will help Violet right some wrongs. After all, she can’t keep running from her past forever, and in learning to look after others, perhaps Violet can start to finally love herself.
Violet Strong is strong by name but not by nature, or so she thinks. She listens but never talks about herself. She’s friendly but doesn’t have many real friends. She’s become good at keeping people at a distance ever since she left home at eighteen and never looked back.
But when Violet is forced to return home to care for her estranged mother Glenys, she quickly finds out that life as a carer isn’t easy. Feeling overwhelmed, she’s forced to turn to the other local carers, including childhood friend Adam, for help. Although returning home still feels like a mistake, maybe it will help Violet right some wrongs. After all, she can’t keep running from her past forever, and in learning to look after others, perhaps Violet can start to finally love herself.
384 pages, Paperback
Published April 14, 2022
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Jessica Ryn
4 books38 followersJessica Ryn is a former midwife and homeless resettlement worker. She has recently completed her MA in Creative Writing at CCCU, and her stories have been shortlisted for the Kimberly Chambers’ Kickstarter Award, Wordsmag and the Val Wood Prize for Creative Writing. When she’s not scribbling away, Jessica can be found meandering through the woods, reading stories that pull on the feel-strings and eating yoghurt-covered skittles. Jessica lives in Dover with her husband, two children and their high-spirited springer spaniel. The Extraordinary Hope of Dawn Brightside is her debut novel.
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September 9, 2023
Violet Strong has pretty much kept people at a distance since she left home at eighteen, leaving behind her childhood best friend and first love Adam plus her mother Glenys and sister Jodie. But the memories of that dreadful time for which she knows she is responsible never leave her. So when Violet is forced to return home to look after her mother, the plan is to sell Malvern House and use the money to settle Glenys in a retirement home. And then leave as soon as possible. After all, why wouldn’t. she. She is Bad News, her conscience often reminds her.
But Violet wasn’t aware that Malvern House has been remodelled and there are four other people living the flats that have been created. She meets Tammy, one of the renters who has a few issues. Violet tries to help her learn to fend for herself after her mother’s death. While her mother was alive she kept Tammy away from others. Why? How can Violet help her when everything she does only seems to lead to trouble?
The story is told with chapters from Violet and Tammy.
Family relationships , caring for others and the difficulties of being a full time career, guilt, blame, friendship, making amends, and community are all dominant themes. And there is also romance.
Even though they had a part to play in the story, I did get tired of all the Anne of Green Gables references. Maybe because I was never a fan of those books to start with. So others may respond differently to all the Anne references.
Overall though an interesting read with some endearing characters who manage to mess up even when they are trying to help others. Worth reading. Having been in a carer situation some years back, this story resonated with me .
Violet Strong has pretty much kept people at a distance since she left home at eighteen, leaving behind her childhood best friend and first love Adam plus her mother Glenys and sister Jodie. But the memories of that dreadful time for which she knows she is responsible never leave her. So when Violet is forced to return home to look after her mother, the plan is to sell Malvern House and use the money to settle Glenys in a retirement home. And then leave as soon as possible. After all, why wouldn’t. she. She is Bad News, her conscience often reminds her.
But Violet wasn’t aware that Malvern House has been remodelled and there are four other people living the flats that have been created. She meets Tammy, one of the renters who has a few issues. Violet tries to help her learn to fend for herself after her mother’s death. While her mother was alive she kept Tammy away from others. Why? How can Violet help her when everything she does only seems to lead to trouble?
The story is told with chapters from Violet and Tammy.
Family relationships , caring for others and the difficulties of being a full time career, guilt, blame, friendship, making amends, and community are all dominant themes. And there is also romance.
Even though they had a part to play in the story, I did get tired of all the Anne of Green Gables references. Maybe because I was never a fan of those books to start with. So others may respond differently to all the Anne references.
Overall though an interesting read with some endearing characters who manage to mess up even when they are trying to help others. Worth reading. Having been in a carer situation some years back, this story resonated with me .
April 11, 2024
Wow... just, wow.
I saw this recommended on a few book blogs when it was released last year, so when I saw it was available at my library I thought I'd see if it lived up to the hype. Let me just say it did, and then some. I laughed at this book and I cried at this book. I fell in love with Violet, Tammy, Chrissie, Claire, Adam and even Glynis. Shockingly I nearly DNF'd this in the first chapter because it was written in the third person present tense, which felt somewhat jarring at times.
The characters, the situations, and the relationships were all incredibly well written, blending seamlessly together into a tale that captured my heart and soul. I even forgave it using the trope of "the big secret that keeps being hinted at" as it didn't form the entire basis of the plot and the reveal was just so perfectly done - blessedly avoiding any cliched moments! The five stars did lose a little of their shine when the book did resort to a very tired and over-used cliche () but even that wasn't enough to make me reduce the rating.
This wonderful story is perfect for those who love second-chance romances, stories of healing and forgiveness, found family and a community coming together.
I saw this recommended on a few book blogs when it was released last year, so when I saw it was available at my library I thought I'd see if it lived up to the hype. Let me just say it did, and then some. I laughed at this book and I cried at this book. I fell in love with Violet, Tammy, Chrissie, Claire, Adam and even Glynis. Shockingly I nearly DNF'd this in the first chapter because it was written in the third person present tense, which felt somewhat jarring at times.
The characters, the situations, and the relationships were all incredibly well written, blending seamlessly together into a tale that captured my heart and soul. I even forgave it using the trope of "the big secret that keeps being hinted at" as it didn't form the entire basis of the plot and the reveal was just so perfectly done - blessedly avoiding any cliched moments! The five stars did lose a little of their shine when the book did resort to a very tired and over-used cliche () but even that wasn't enough to make me reduce the rating.
This wonderful story is perfect for those who love second-chance romances, stories of healing and forgiveness, found family and a community coming together.
June 17, 2022
Violet Strong is needed back at her childhood home to look after her disabled mother when her sister, who has been their mum’s career for years, emigrates.
Violet and her mother don’t have the greatest relationship and it would seem neither want to be in this situation. Plus, Violet feels she doesn’t know how to be a carer and she hates being back in her childhood home and village after an incident when she was a teenager.
However, with the help of some local carers Violet sets up a carers group and newspaper in the hope of helping all the local carers and their loved ones feel less alone and bringing a sense of community back to the village.
The Imperfect Art of Caring is a very sweet, charming book. I enjoyed every minute of it and Violet is a wonderful character, flawed, stubborn, scared, and yet willing to help others.
I adored that the book was told from two voices, Violets and Tammy, an autistic young woman whose mother has just died and she is all alone. It was beautiful to watch Violet and the others take Tammy under their wings and help her grow.
I can honestly say it was a far more enjoyable and entertaining read than I thought it was going to be. There is a lot of humour within the pages that made me smile and giggle often. Give The Imperfect Art of Caring a try, it is well worth the read.
Violet and her mother don’t have the greatest relationship and it would seem neither want to be in this situation. Plus, Violet feels she doesn’t know how to be a carer and she hates being back in her childhood home and village after an incident when she was a teenager.
However, with the help of some local carers Violet sets up a carers group and newspaper in the hope of helping all the local carers and their loved ones feel less alone and bringing a sense of community back to the village.
The Imperfect Art of Caring is a very sweet, charming book. I enjoyed every minute of it and Violet is a wonderful character, flawed, stubborn, scared, and yet willing to help others.
I adored that the book was told from two voices, Violets and Tammy, an autistic young woman whose mother has just died and she is all alone. It was beautiful to watch Violet and the others take Tammy under their wings and help her grow.
I can honestly say it was a far more enjoyable and entertaining read than I thought it was going to be. There is a lot of humour within the pages that made me smile and giggle often. Give The Imperfect Art of Caring a try, it is well worth the read.
May 12, 2023
I thoroughly enjoyed the Imperfect Art of Caring. When Violet returns home to care for her mother and sell the house its the last place she wants to be. Her mother hates her and the village blames her for a fire when she was 14. But then she meets her neighbours and things seem brighter.
A well paced gripping tale of new beginnings and lessons learned. Along with a strong underlying message about caring for our neighbours and being supportive.
The characters are all very different and well written, making them believable.
Another highly recommended read.
A well paced gripping tale of new beginnings and lessons learned. Along with a strong underlying message about caring for our neighbours and being supportive.
The characters are all very different and well written, making them believable.
Another highly recommended read.
November 9, 2021
Thanks to Netgalley and HQ stories for the ARC
Jessica has done it again.
This is such a heart-warming story.
Filled with loveable, quirky characters, The Imperfect Art of Caring is a tale that really makes you feel and care!
If you haven't read Jess's previous novel then you must and if you have then you will definitely enjoy this one.
Family, friends and frustrations arise and as truths are spoken, lives change for the better.
A novel to make you think, to make you want to help someone, anyone.
100% recommended.
Jessica has done it again.
This is such a heart-warming story.
Filled with loveable, quirky characters, The Imperfect Art of Caring is a tale that really makes you feel and care!
If you haven't read Jess's previous novel then you must and if you have then you will definitely enjoy this one.
Family, friends and frustrations arise and as truths are spoken, lives change for the better.
A novel to make you think, to make you want to help someone, anyone.
100% recommended.
April 16, 2024
4.5/5
You know this warm feeling spreading through your chest and filling you with hope? That’s what the book does. It’s a great comforting novel.
The writing style is great, the characters are a bit cheesy but you come to believe in them. I had a great time reading it :)
You know this warm feeling spreading through your chest and filling you with hope? That’s what the book does. It’s a great comforting novel.
The writing style is great, the characters are a bit cheesy but you come to believe in them. I had a great time reading it :)
March 12, 2024
Really good book about a woman caring for her difficult mother, something I’m all too familiar with. Just a good story about how maybe we’re not as much of a screwup as we think we are.
November 26, 2021
"Not everyone's burdens are visible, lots are inside. Trapped. Unseen."
Sometimes you pick up a book and it is exactly what you need. That was the case when I decided to read this book on a whim at the weekend. Uplifting, heartwarming and tender, this book warmed me from the inside like a bowl of porridge on a cold day.
This is a story of friendship, community and forgiveness. A story about loving yourself and how there is joy to be found in helping those around us. The protagonist, Violet, is forced to move back home to care for the mother she’s not spoken to for 14 years, bringing her face to face with the people and place that she has been running from all that time. The terrible mistake she made haunts her every minute of the day and has left her feeling that she is Bad News and better off alone. Forced to face her demons, can Violet learn to forgive and love herself?
I was a big fan of Jessica Ryn’s debut novel so I was highly anticipating this one. She has a talent for enveloping important life lessons and social commentary in a heartwarming tale, executing it to perfection once more with this novel. Exquisitely written, it draws you into Violet’s world with descriptive, vivid imagery that makes the story leap from the page. I was mesmerised. Ms. Ryn has solidified her place on my list of auto-buy authors with this book for sure.
There is a compelling cast of characters who I loved; each one richly drawn and memorable. I loved Violet and was thrilled that the author made her a book blogger as it immediately gave me a connection to her. I enjoyed the many literary references throughout the book and how she finds solace in the pages of what she reads, something I’m sure we can all relate to. She is a wonderful character and I was desperate to know what she could have possibly done that was worth such self-recrimination. I also had a real soft spot for Tammy and enjoyed watching her blossom as the story went on.
Charming, warm and affecting, this is a hug in book form that will give you all the feels. The perfect read to snuggle under a blanket with this winter.
Sometimes you pick up a book and it is exactly what you need. That was the case when I decided to read this book on a whim at the weekend. Uplifting, heartwarming and tender, this book warmed me from the inside like a bowl of porridge on a cold day.
This is a story of friendship, community and forgiveness. A story about loving yourself and how there is joy to be found in helping those around us. The protagonist, Violet, is forced to move back home to care for the mother she’s not spoken to for 14 years, bringing her face to face with the people and place that she has been running from all that time. The terrible mistake she made haunts her every minute of the day and has left her feeling that she is Bad News and better off alone. Forced to face her demons, can Violet learn to forgive and love herself?
I was a big fan of Jessica Ryn’s debut novel so I was highly anticipating this one. She has a talent for enveloping important life lessons and social commentary in a heartwarming tale, executing it to perfection once more with this novel. Exquisitely written, it draws you into Violet’s world with descriptive, vivid imagery that makes the story leap from the page. I was mesmerised. Ms. Ryn has solidified her place on my list of auto-buy authors with this book for sure.
There is a compelling cast of characters who I loved; each one richly drawn and memorable. I loved Violet and was thrilled that the author made her a book blogger as it immediately gave me a connection to her. I enjoyed the many literary references throughout the book and how she finds solace in the pages of what she reads, something I’m sure we can all relate to. She is a wonderful character and I was desperate to know what she could have possibly done that was worth such self-recrimination. I also had a real soft spot for Tammy and enjoyed watching her blossom as the story went on.
Charming, warm and affecting, this is a hug in book form that will give you all the feels. The perfect read to snuggle under a blanket with this winter.
September 23, 2021
What a wonderful gift author Jessica Ryn has, for creating those wonderful, hapless characters, who you can't help but fall in love with. Dawn Brightside was a highlight of my year last year, and I was extremely excited to be able to read her newest offering, The Imperfect Art of Caring.
Within these pages, we are, again, introduced to a main character who has a lot going on, in her mind.
Violet Strong is a woman who has learned to keep everyone at a distance from her - for good reason, She is Bad News. Ever since she can remember, bad things happen, and they always come back to her.
Estranging herself from her family and friends, she ends up near Manchester, with a cleaning job, and a wonderful blog where she reviews books.
Things are fine until her sister drops a bombshell on her: She's leaving the country, and Violet has to come back home, to help look after her mother, and facilitate a house sale, so her mother can be put into care.
My heart went out to Violet, especially as I got to know her, and realised exactly how wrong her own opinion of herself was. She only wants to help, and sheer coincidence meant that so many awful things happened in her life, that really had nothing to do with her, yet, she had carried the burden of guilt on her own shoulders.
The cast of characters introduced through the story are wonderful, including Tammy, one of the residents in the flats her mother's house have been turned into, who has a learning disability, but no one to help her learn how to live independently, to Mrs R, the grumpy resident, who is, in fact, a rather lonely woman. To top it off, there is Adam, Violet's childhood best friend, and first love, who makes up half of the occupants in the third flat, alongside his father, Bill.
The book looks at the often lonely job of carers. What is expected of them, what they have to deal with on a regular basis, as well as the lives of those being cared for.
I was truly touched when reading this beautiful book.
Many thanks to NetGalley and HQ for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Within these pages, we are, again, introduced to a main character who has a lot going on, in her mind.
Violet Strong is a woman who has learned to keep everyone at a distance from her - for good reason, She is Bad News. Ever since she can remember, bad things happen, and they always come back to her.
Estranging herself from her family and friends, she ends up near Manchester, with a cleaning job, and a wonderful blog where she reviews books.
Things are fine until her sister drops a bombshell on her: She's leaving the country, and Violet has to come back home, to help look after her mother, and facilitate a house sale, so her mother can be put into care.
My heart went out to Violet, especially as I got to know her, and realised exactly how wrong her own opinion of herself was. She only wants to help, and sheer coincidence meant that so many awful things happened in her life, that really had nothing to do with her, yet, she had carried the burden of guilt on her own shoulders.
The cast of characters introduced through the story are wonderful, including Tammy, one of the residents in the flats her mother's house have been turned into, who has a learning disability, but no one to help her learn how to live independently, to Mrs R, the grumpy resident, who is, in fact, a rather lonely woman. To top it off, there is Adam, Violet's childhood best friend, and first love, who makes up half of the occupants in the third flat, alongside his father, Bill.
The book looks at the often lonely job of carers. What is expected of them, what they have to deal with on a regular basis, as well as the lives of those being cared for.
I was truly touched when reading this beautiful book.
Many thanks to NetGalley and HQ for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
August 3, 2021
This was a very endearing story on the struggles one faces as a carer, I found it moving and I quickly grew to sympathise with the characters. I like how we are not only given the perspective of the carer, but also the view from the people being cared. Very moving and thought provoking.
However, the story sometimes dragged. I feel this was due to the extensive and sometimes unnecessary descriptions, which I suppose is reflecting the characters’ thoughts, but makes for a boring read.
Overall, a great story with great potential that wasn’t quite met.
ARC from Netgalley
However, the story sometimes dragged. I feel this was due to the extensive and sometimes unnecessary descriptions, which I suppose is reflecting the characters’ thoughts, but makes for a boring read.
Overall, a great story with great potential that wasn’t quite met.
ARC from Netgalley
November 26, 2021
Oh wow. What a book. See my full thoughts on Books and Bargains youtube :)
February 24, 2022
I can't believe all the 4 and 5 star reviews. This is predictable, tedious garbage.
February 4, 2024
4⭐️
This was a really sweet and eye opening book 👵🏻
This was a really sweet and eye opening book 👵🏻
March 1, 2022
After leaving home at 18, Violet has learned to keep everyone at a distance, believing herself to be 'Bad News' to whomever gets close to her. When she's forced to return home to look after her estranged mother, she finds that being a carer isn't easy. She's finally forced to turn to others for help and learns that perhaps running from her past isn't the answer.
I absolutely adored this book and will be buying a physical copy as soon as the paperback is available so I can reread it as often as possible. Violet is a compelling and sympathetic main character from page one. Plaugued by her past and believing she isn't worthy of anything, I found myself relating very heavily to her internal struggles. She carries a lot of guilt, not all of it necessary, and opts to run and hide from it rather than face it. When she is called home to care for her mother, she finds Glenys to be rather hostile, partly due to her condition and mental illness but also due to Violet having disappeared for over a decade. The relationship between mother and daughter is facsinating and the way they slowly come back together after so many years is beautiful.
An aspect I wasn't expecting was Tammy. I didn't realise this would be a duel perspective book but I was pleasantly surpised. Tammy has learning difficulties and has been sheltered by her mother for her whole life, having never learned the basics of looking after herself. Her mother recently passed away leaving Tammy utterly alone in the world and I think this is what draws her and Violet together. They are both lost souls desperate to connect to someone. Violet brings Tammy under her wing and teaches her the way of the world while also learning herself that true friendship is worth fighting for. Tammy and the other side characters show Violet that a problem shared is a problem halved and she starts to accept that no matter her burdens and her past, being kind and supportive reaps its own reward.
I think, perhaps, there were some elements that were unnecessary such as Tammy's father and the romance with Adam but none of these things took away from the message of the importance of connection. This book showed me the hardships of being a carer and teaches us that we are not alone. In a world where people are more lonely than ever, The Imperfect Art of Caring shows us that the help is always there, we just have to let ourselves ask for it and this lesson is applicable to so many situations and people, not just carers.
I honestly couldn't recommend this book more. It's a beautiful story that touched me very deeply.
I absolutely adored this book and will be buying a physical copy as soon as the paperback is available so I can reread it as often as possible. Violet is a compelling and sympathetic main character from page one. Plaugued by her past and believing she isn't worthy of anything, I found myself relating very heavily to her internal struggles. She carries a lot of guilt, not all of it necessary, and opts to run and hide from it rather than face it. When she is called home to care for her mother, she finds Glenys to be rather hostile, partly due to her condition and mental illness but also due to Violet having disappeared for over a decade. The relationship between mother and daughter is facsinating and the way they slowly come back together after so many years is beautiful.
An aspect I wasn't expecting was Tammy. I didn't realise this would be a duel perspective book but I was pleasantly surpised. Tammy has learning difficulties and has been sheltered by her mother for her whole life, having never learned the basics of looking after herself. Her mother recently passed away leaving Tammy utterly alone in the world and I think this is what draws her and Violet together. They are both lost souls desperate to connect to someone. Violet brings Tammy under her wing and teaches her the way of the world while also learning herself that true friendship is worth fighting for. Tammy and the other side characters show Violet that a problem shared is a problem halved and she starts to accept that no matter her burdens and her past, being kind and supportive reaps its own reward.
I think, perhaps, there were some elements that were unnecessary such as Tammy's father and the romance with Adam but none of these things took away from the message of the importance of connection. This book showed me the hardships of being a carer and teaches us that we are not alone. In a world where people are more lonely than ever, The Imperfect Art of Caring shows us that the help is always there, we just have to let ourselves ask for it and this lesson is applicable to so many situations and people, not just carers.
I honestly couldn't recommend this book more. It's a beautiful story that touched me very deeply.
November 24, 2021
I’d like to thank NetGalley and Harper Collins UK for approving me for an ARC of this book. I was really excited start this one especially after hearing a lot of good things about her debut last year.
I loved Violet Strong! She was a very humbling character and I often felt that I wanted to swoop in and give her a massive cuddle. Violet didn’t have a very high opinion of herself and and I couldn’t help but be a little annoyed at her sister for leaving her so quickly. Whilst Violet hadn’t been around for so long there as obviously a very good reason for it. I didn’t think it would of hurt her sister to stay a week or so to show her the ropes.
At the start things were very tense with Violet and Glenys. I felt so much sympathy for both of them because, whilst Glenys was horrid, I could imagine it was very humiliating having your daughter care for you so closely. I was proud of Violet for sticking with it and trying to make the best of an awkward situation.
It was clear from the start that Violet didn’t want to return to her home town and I was very curious to find out why. She clearly blamed herself for a lot and I couldn’t understand why she thought so little of herself. As the story progressed it was great to see her settle into her life with her mum and get more involved in the community. Once the secrets were revealed my heart broke for Violet. It felt like everything she had achieved was starting to crumble and I really hoped things would work out for her.
Whilst Violet was a brilliant main character I also loved a lot of the others. Tammy was an angel in disguise! Whilst she would say that Violet helped her and cared for her a lot I don’t think she really understood what she did for Violet. She was another very humbling character who just needed a helping hand. In all honesty the whole cast of characters were all loveable and each one was a hidden gem.
Jessica Ryn has written another incredible story that will leave it’s readers with a smile on their face. One minute I was filled with so much joy, the next I was reaching for the tissues. I am very excited about what she writes next!
I loved Violet Strong! She was a very humbling character and I often felt that I wanted to swoop in and give her a massive cuddle. Violet didn’t have a very high opinion of herself and and I couldn’t help but be a little annoyed at her sister for leaving her so quickly. Whilst Violet hadn’t been around for so long there as obviously a very good reason for it. I didn’t think it would of hurt her sister to stay a week or so to show her the ropes.
At the start things were very tense with Violet and Glenys. I felt so much sympathy for both of them because, whilst Glenys was horrid, I could imagine it was very humiliating having your daughter care for you so closely. I was proud of Violet for sticking with it and trying to make the best of an awkward situation.
It was clear from the start that Violet didn’t want to return to her home town and I was very curious to find out why. She clearly blamed herself for a lot and I couldn’t understand why she thought so little of herself. As the story progressed it was great to see her settle into her life with her mum and get more involved in the community. Once the secrets were revealed my heart broke for Violet. It felt like everything she had achieved was starting to crumble and I really hoped things would work out for her.
Whilst Violet was a brilliant main character I also loved a lot of the others. Tammy was an angel in disguise! Whilst she would say that Violet helped her and cared for her a lot I don’t think she really understood what she did for Violet. She was another very humbling character who just needed a helping hand. In all honesty the whole cast of characters were all loveable and each one was a hidden gem.
Jessica Ryn has written another incredible story that will leave it’s readers with a smile on their face. One minute I was filled with so much joy, the next I was reaching for the tissues. I am very excited about what she writes next!
November 24, 2021
This is an emotive, moving story of family, grief and guilt
Of reconnecting and friendships, old and new, being rebuilt.
Fourteen years after escaping her family and home
The time has come for Violet Strong no more to roam.
Her sister is starting a new life abroad and their Mum needs care.
How will Violet cope and their Mum fare?
It is a story about how fears and guilt from the past,
Can colour our thinking and leave beliefs that last.
Sometimes it takes neighbours and friends
Getting to know each other and with time spend.
To change perception about one another
New relationships and possibilities then to discover.
This is a story of folks who care for others,
Their children, fathers, siblings and mothers.
How isolated and tiring their role can be
But it needs someone special like Violet to see
How helping each other can help them all
Giving them each support and help to call.
Carers don't just care for the old and infirm
Sometimes it may be for folks who struggle to learn
Or those with anxiety or who are mentally ill
The all need support and carers care for them still.
But who cares for the carers and who can assist
What opportunities just should not be missed?
What a lovely read this proved to be
So many aspects just appealed to me.
It is a story of a community which again will grow
As more about each other they start to know.
There's also a heartwarming, chance
Of rekindling a long left behind romance!
For my complementary copy of this book, I say thank you,
I throughly enjoyed reading it and this is my honest review.
Of reconnecting and friendships, old and new, being rebuilt.
Fourteen years after escaping her family and home
The time has come for Violet Strong no more to roam.
Her sister is starting a new life abroad and their Mum needs care.
How will Violet cope and their Mum fare?
It is a story about how fears and guilt from the past,
Can colour our thinking and leave beliefs that last.
Sometimes it takes neighbours and friends
Getting to know each other and with time spend.
To change perception about one another
New relationships and possibilities then to discover.
This is a story of folks who care for others,
Their children, fathers, siblings and mothers.
How isolated and tiring their role can be
But it needs someone special like Violet to see
How helping each other can help them all
Giving them each support and help to call.
Carers don't just care for the old and infirm
Sometimes it may be for folks who struggle to learn
Or those with anxiety or who are mentally ill
The all need support and carers care for them still.
But who cares for the carers and who can assist
What opportunities just should not be missed?
What a lovely read this proved to be
So many aspects just appealed to me.
It is a story of a community which again will grow
As more about each other they start to know.
There's also a heartwarming, chance
Of rekindling a long left behind romance!
For my complementary copy of this book, I say thank you,
I throughly enjoyed reading it and this is my honest review.
January 10, 2022
The story jumps right in to provide a complete picture of our leading lady's life. Violet is functionally doing okay; she has a job and a hobby, both of which keep her busy. Then her estranged sister drops by to drop a bomb on her. She needs her to play a role in taking care of their mother. Their mother has several issues, all put together means that she needs someone on hand to keep an eye on her and help her out.
Violet is forced out of her cozy bubble, back to a place that marked her and still troubles her. She does not think she can undo any of the mistakes she has made or contribute fruitfully to the community at large. There is a slow and believable progression between an unsure Violet, bent on sticking with the original plan and the one that emerges from that shell.
I must admit that the Anne(of Green Gables) references got a little much beyond a point(Something I never thought I'd say). It was fun and relatable when it happened the first few times, but it happened once too often on audio, pulling the focus away from the story at hand. Some of those occasions did not need a diversion to Anne in the first place!
That said, if I had read the book instead of watching all the eccentric people band together to form a found family, I might not have had the same emotional reaction as I did as I listened to the heart-rending turmoil in each and every character's life. The plot construction was a little loose, but as I listened to some great and appropriate narration, I was not as concerned by any small loopholes that I might have otherwise obsessed about. The story's primary focus (apart from Violet's growth) is on the idea of people who need caregivers and the lives and complications of those caregivers.
I would recommend it to readers who look for found families and families who repair their fractured relationships over the course of the entire book.
I received an ARC thanks to NetGalley and the publishers but the review is entirely based on my own listening experience of the book.
April 28, 2022
An easy quick read which addresses the lives of some unsung heroes, full time unpaid carers for their family and friends. This book has satisfying character arcs all over the place and it has been a pleasure to read how they all change and grow over the course of the narrative. I wish the romance element wasn't so dominant but that's just a personal preference.
Some of the twists where a little predictable and not that original but others where completely unexpected so a good balance. It's not perfect but I would recommend it.
Some of the twists where a little predictable and not that original but others where completely unexpected so a good balance. It's not perfect but I would recommend it.
February 10, 2024
I loved this book made me feel warm inside and that life is not a rehearsal live in the moment and love like tomorrow isn’t promised.
I am a hopeless romantic and love reading books that take me away and wrap me up in the story and leave me wanting more.
I am a hopeless romantic and love reading books that take me away and wrap me up in the story and leave me wanting more.
February 1, 2022
A great book about second chances and the realistic dictation of being a carer and dealing with someone under the mental health. Loved it.
November 15, 2023
It's all a bit twee, but it's addictive. I actually found myself waking up at 3am to read a couple more chapters; that's something I almost never do.
You'll love this book!
You'll love this book!
November 18, 2023
Warmed my ❤️❤️
March 21, 2023
In this book we join Violet who lives on her own and although she's not living her best - she's okay. She then gets asked by her sister to move home and care for her mum whilst arranging a residential home for the mum to move into.
Violet is concerned moving back to where she grew up due to past events, past love, etc. She has a lot to deal with emotionally, as well as trying to build a relationship with her mum and to provide care and support in a way she hasn't before.
I think this is actually quite a realistic portrayal of caring for a loved one. The book raises issues such as finance payments and having to handle multiple concerns whilst looking after someone. It's an honest account I feel of the struggles caring for a loved one can bring.
I liked the character development of several characters. The story line was sweet. The relationships between characters were well written. Would definitely recommend this book.
Violet is concerned moving back to where she grew up due to past events, past love, etc. She has a lot to deal with emotionally, as well as trying to build a relationship with her mum and to provide care and support in a way she hasn't before.
I think this is actually quite a realistic portrayal of caring for a loved one. The book raises issues such as finance payments and having to handle multiple concerns whilst looking after someone. It's an honest account I feel of the struggles caring for a loved one can bring.
I liked the character development of several characters. The story line was sweet. The relationships between characters were well written. Would definitely recommend this book.
September 18, 2022
I’m going to start by saying I absolutely loved this book! It was just beautifully written perfection!! I really liked Violet the main character and how from being dropped in at the deep end she changed so many lives for the better. My favourite character was Tammy though a young adult with a mild learning disability who had never been allowed the opportunity to do anything for herself. This book really made me think about unpaid carers and the job they do every single day. I really enjoyed reading the snippets from Violets book blog and all the Anne of green gables references throughout especially as I’m a fellow Anne lover 😍 A wonderfully heartwarming read ❤️ 100% recommend!
November 13, 2021
One of the many wonderful things about being a voracious reader is the opportunity to ‘meet’ a wealth of different characters from across all walks of life. I’m more than happy to spend time in the company of (fictional!) serial killers, unreliable narrators, amateur sleuths, historical figures, romantic heroes and heroines but one of my favourite type of characters is the the misfit, the oddball or the eccentric, the sort of individual who prefers to keep themselves hidden away, afraid (for whatever reason) to engage with society and their fellow human beings. These characters fascinate and intrigue me, mostly because I’ve always considered myself to be an outsider looking in so their presence is a comfort and a joy, a reminder that I’m not alone in how I feel and view the world at large. I immediately want to know what has caused these characters to withdraw into their shells and relish the opportunity to discover who and what will entice them back into the land of the living. Don’t we all champion the underdog, willing them to succeed where previously they’ve failed? Well I do and invariably I lose my heart to these souls, and Violet Strong, the main character in Jessica Ryn’s second novel definitely falls into this category. Having delighted readers with her debut novel featuring the vibrant,hopeful and cheery Dawn Brightside the author has excelled again with a protagonist who is equally endearing.
I always find these kind of storylines to be real pick me up tonics, nourishing the soul and restoring your faith in humanity. The Imperfect Art of Caring gives you the perfect excuse to stay in bed or curl up on the sofa so put the kettle on, grab some blankets and have the ‘do not disturb’ sign at the ready. Now the daylight hours are short and the dark evenings long this is just the book to banish the winter blues. If I could hibernate from November through to March with a stack of books similar to this one I’d feel as if I’d won the lottery!! Focusing on friendship and good old fashioned community spirit Jessica Ryn offers you a slice of sunshine with characters who embody kindness, generosity, forgiveness and hope.
Let me introduce you to Violet Strong whose sanctuary is her bedsit at 17b Harper’s Court. Violet is a cleaner at the Salford and Manchester Times offices but she’s also a book blogger and a keen writer, secretly harbouring a desire to become a journalist and she’s a long way from home. Home is the village of Lowerstone Sussex, a place she hasn’t visited for fourteen years. All that is about to change with the unexpected appearance of Violet’s sister Jodie who is set to embark on a new life in New Zealand with her husband Violet has never met. Jodie needs Violet to return to Malvern House to care for their mother Glenys until the property sells and she can take up residence in a local care home. Reluctantly Violet packs up her life, pootling back to Sussex in her beloved Fiat 500 named Pat, having no choice but to confront her past and the memories that she’s been running from for so long. This is when Violet’s story truly begins because Violet Strong is really Violet Wrong and she’s Bad News. But as one door closes another one opens and Violet just needs the courage to walk through that open door.
Jessica Ryn effortlessly draws you into Violet’s world that’s really rather empty, leaving you wondering why this woman has such a guilty conscience and why she still feels her presence in the village will be entirely unwelcome, even after such a long absence. Fearful of bumping into the locals who most certainly won’t have forgotten or forgiven her for her crimes, a strained relationship with a mother who seemingly despises her is just one problem to endure in a return that is full of surprises, some that are more pleasant than others! However in a storyline whose emphasis in on righting the wrongs of the past Violet’s return to Malvern House yields far more than positive outcomes than she could possibly have hoped for. The butterfly effect is in full swing here, with one good deed leading to another and another until it dawns on Violet that this is very much a community she wishes to remain part of. Giving something back to the community, letting go, moving on and being thankful for second chances are themes Jessica Ryn happily embraces. There may even be the chance to rekindle an old friendship if Violet plays her cards right!
Violet’s transformation couldn’t happen without the love, friendship and support of the rest of this marvellous cast. You don’t have to look far to see that underneath her hardened exterior beats a big heart. She’s funny, she’s kind and she’s smart and the sooner she realises she’s Good News rather than Bad News the better! The community spirit shines through like a flaming torch in the dark and in the end it’s irrelevant and impossible to tell who is helping who because they all come together as one. Tammy is a character who for me on numerous occasions overshadows (in a good way!) Violet and it’s their pairing which is the most heartwarming, uplifting aspect of the whole novel. Jessica Ryn has hit the jackpot with these two! They both elicit a smile, a laugh and a tear or two along the way ably assisted by the likes of Violet’s former best friend and first love Adam, Chrissie her old English teacher, new friends Claire and Abbas and the grumpy Mrs Robson who lives in hope someone will turn up to her weekly neighbourhood watch meetings! All in all these characters are simply the best.
The Imperfect Art Of Caring is a smashing novel which honours the sheer hard work, dedication, devotion, love and kindness that goes hand in hand with being a carer. It recognises the fact we all need a helping hand from time to time but none more so than these unsung heroes. By exploring issues of mental illness and learning disabilities Jessica Ryn acknowledges the difficulties associated with caring for someone suffering long term depression and the amount of effort required to enable people like Tammy to live full and independent lives. I’m not a carer but it reinforced my appreciation for the brilliant job my own mother does caring for my father with dementia, day in day out, with no complaint. Stories like these are humbling; they make you feel grateful for the live you have and prove how little acts of kindness can go a long way in improving or brightening someone’s day. Ultimately this is the kind of story that puts a smile on your face, joy in your heart and a spring in your step. Even though they only exist as figments of the author’s imagination by the end I felt incredibly proud of Violet and Tammy who’ve both come a long way. I hope that doesn’t make me sound too pathetic!!
I’ve enjoyed and loved both of Jessica Ryn’s novels and highly recommend them to anyone searching for an uplifting, joyous read. Bring on book number three!
My thanks as always to the publisher HQ and Netgalley for giving me the opportunity to read in exchange for an honest review.
I always find these kind of storylines to be real pick me up tonics, nourishing the soul and restoring your faith in humanity. The Imperfect Art of Caring gives you the perfect excuse to stay in bed or curl up on the sofa so put the kettle on, grab some blankets and have the ‘do not disturb’ sign at the ready. Now the daylight hours are short and the dark evenings long this is just the book to banish the winter blues. If I could hibernate from November through to March with a stack of books similar to this one I’d feel as if I’d won the lottery!! Focusing on friendship and good old fashioned community spirit Jessica Ryn offers you a slice of sunshine with characters who embody kindness, generosity, forgiveness and hope.
Let me introduce you to Violet Strong whose sanctuary is her bedsit at 17b Harper’s Court. Violet is a cleaner at the Salford and Manchester Times offices but she’s also a book blogger and a keen writer, secretly harbouring a desire to become a journalist and she’s a long way from home. Home is the village of Lowerstone Sussex, a place she hasn’t visited for fourteen years. All that is about to change with the unexpected appearance of Violet’s sister Jodie who is set to embark on a new life in New Zealand with her husband Violet has never met. Jodie needs Violet to return to Malvern House to care for their mother Glenys until the property sells and she can take up residence in a local care home. Reluctantly Violet packs up her life, pootling back to Sussex in her beloved Fiat 500 named Pat, having no choice but to confront her past and the memories that she’s been running from for so long. This is when Violet’s story truly begins because Violet Strong is really Violet Wrong and she’s Bad News. But as one door closes another one opens and Violet just needs the courage to walk through that open door.
Jessica Ryn effortlessly draws you into Violet’s world that’s really rather empty, leaving you wondering why this woman has such a guilty conscience and why she still feels her presence in the village will be entirely unwelcome, even after such a long absence. Fearful of bumping into the locals who most certainly won’t have forgotten or forgiven her for her crimes, a strained relationship with a mother who seemingly despises her is just one problem to endure in a return that is full of surprises, some that are more pleasant than others! However in a storyline whose emphasis in on righting the wrongs of the past Violet’s return to Malvern House yields far more than positive outcomes than she could possibly have hoped for. The butterfly effect is in full swing here, with one good deed leading to another and another until it dawns on Violet that this is very much a community she wishes to remain part of. Giving something back to the community, letting go, moving on and being thankful for second chances are themes Jessica Ryn happily embraces. There may even be the chance to rekindle an old friendship if Violet plays her cards right!
Violet’s transformation couldn’t happen without the love, friendship and support of the rest of this marvellous cast. You don’t have to look far to see that underneath her hardened exterior beats a big heart. She’s funny, she’s kind and she’s smart and the sooner she realises she’s Good News rather than Bad News the better! The community spirit shines through like a flaming torch in the dark and in the end it’s irrelevant and impossible to tell who is helping who because they all come together as one. Tammy is a character who for me on numerous occasions overshadows (in a good way!) Violet and it’s their pairing which is the most heartwarming, uplifting aspect of the whole novel. Jessica Ryn has hit the jackpot with these two! They both elicit a smile, a laugh and a tear or two along the way ably assisted by the likes of Violet’s former best friend and first love Adam, Chrissie her old English teacher, new friends Claire and Abbas and the grumpy Mrs Robson who lives in hope someone will turn up to her weekly neighbourhood watch meetings! All in all these characters are simply the best.
The Imperfect Art Of Caring is a smashing novel which honours the sheer hard work, dedication, devotion, love and kindness that goes hand in hand with being a carer. It recognises the fact we all need a helping hand from time to time but none more so than these unsung heroes. By exploring issues of mental illness and learning disabilities Jessica Ryn acknowledges the difficulties associated with caring for someone suffering long term depression and the amount of effort required to enable people like Tammy to live full and independent lives. I’m not a carer but it reinforced my appreciation for the brilliant job my own mother does caring for my father with dementia, day in day out, with no complaint. Stories like these are humbling; they make you feel grateful for the live you have and prove how little acts of kindness can go a long way in improving or brightening someone’s day. Ultimately this is the kind of story that puts a smile on your face, joy in your heart and a spring in your step. Even though they only exist as figments of the author’s imagination by the end I felt incredibly proud of Violet and Tammy who’ve both come a long way. I hope that doesn’t make me sound too pathetic!!
I’ve enjoyed and loved both of Jessica Ryn’s novels and highly recommend them to anyone searching for an uplifting, joyous read. Bring on book number three!
My thanks as always to the publisher HQ and Netgalley for giving me the opportunity to read in exchange for an honest review.
September 18, 2021
This book really is here for unrepresented world of carers. The concept of a support group I hope people will see as a good idea and make this a reality. Tammy is a truly lovely character and I love how she develops. She's thoughtful, and doesn't always get it right which makes her all the more endearing. Again, great to see a learning disabilities character thrive as this is rarely portrayed. Violet's story is an interesting one and as the past unravels, even more so. The sense of community beaming out this book is uplifting, and heart warming at a time where it feels like its needed most. Adorable, emotional and I'm jealous I can't have a cuppa with these gorgeous characters.
December 2, 2021
This is Jessica Ryn's second novel, her first being The Extraordinary Hope of Dawn Brightside and Wow! The Imperfect Art of Caring is an outstanding novel. The main character is Violet Strong.
There is absolutely no doubt that Violet Strong is a character that is going to stay with me for a long time. Violet is one of my favourite fictional characters - there is no doubt there are many many Violet's in this world, caring for their loved ones and doing such a magnificent job.
At the start of the story the relationship between Violet and her mother Glenys was so very strained. You felt Violet's pain, you felt the tension, you could feel the atmosphere. She was trying to look after her Mum and be a daughter but also a carer at the same time which is such a difficult balance. I wanted to say to Violet to stay strong, you are doing your very best and however things turn out (whether or not your Mum moves into care or not) you are doing everything you can for her right now and you are trying so very hard. The resistance from Glenys was heart-breaking to read because despite all Violet's efforts in helping care for her Mum, in Glenys eyes, she could not do anything right. I did not trust her sister Jodie from the start - despite caring for her Mother up until Violet came, I thought Jodie was doing everything she could to make Violet's life hard and to ensure she would make mistakes. In my eyes, Jodie should have stayed longer, helped Violet settle in and be truthful about the situation with their home - Glenys was her Mum too and despite the fact that Violet had not been home for so long, she did come back to help.
We learn so much about Violet's background, why she struggled so hard to come back to her hometown and why the relationship with her mother was so broken. But then, we see Violet settle in, meet her neighbours, start going out and helping others in her community. Violet loves helping others, it is who she is and she has a heart of gold. Violet was absolutely incredible and so very kind and helpful with her neighbours and the town has missed a gem while she has been away. She is the heart of the community and now she is back, the community will continue to thrive - as will Violet! I wanted to go and meet Violet and say Well Done! I have no doubt that Violet will go from strength to strength, as will those around her, with her love and support. Violet should be known as Violet Right not Violet Wrong as everything she is doing is to make things right for her family, friends and community.
I was hooked on The Imperfect Art of Caring from the first page. All the characters were brilliant. Tammy was helped so much by Violet but by needing the help, she did also helped Violet too. I loved the relationship between Adam and Violet - I loved how it built up and then turned into such a beautiful relationship.
Such a heart-warming and touching book - full of emotion, that will make you tear up and smile. Carers are amazing, they do so much and their work is very often unrecognised. I know they do not want recognition but they work tirelessly to look after their loved ones and those in the community too and they are incredible. There is so much detail which carers and those being cared for will relate to as well and many sensitive issues are covered too.
The Imperfect Art of Caring will make you think, will encourage you to help those in need, even if it is just a smile or a Hello - that may be the only smile or Hello that person sees or hears that day. I highly recommend this book and give it 5 huge stars!
Thank you very much for my advanced copy. This review is based on a NetGalley ARC provided in exchange for an honest, unbiased opinion.
There is absolutely no doubt that Violet Strong is a character that is going to stay with me for a long time. Violet is one of my favourite fictional characters - there is no doubt there are many many Violet's in this world, caring for their loved ones and doing such a magnificent job.
At the start of the story the relationship between Violet and her mother Glenys was so very strained. You felt Violet's pain, you felt the tension, you could feel the atmosphere. She was trying to look after her Mum and be a daughter but also a carer at the same time which is such a difficult balance. I wanted to say to Violet to stay strong, you are doing your very best and however things turn out (whether or not your Mum moves into care or not) you are doing everything you can for her right now and you are trying so very hard. The resistance from Glenys was heart-breaking to read because despite all Violet's efforts in helping care for her Mum, in Glenys eyes, she could not do anything right. I did not trust her sister Jodie from the start - despite caring for her Mother up until Violet came, I thought Jodie was doing everything she could to make Violet's life hard and to ensure she would make mistakes. In my eyes, Jodie should have stayed longer, helped Violet settle in and be truthful about the situation with their home - Glenys was her Mum too and despite the fact that Violet had not been home for so long, she did come back to help.
We learn so much about Violet's background, why she struggled so hard to come back to her hometown and why the relationship with her mother was so broken. But then, we see Violet settle in, meet her neighbours, start going out and helping others in her community. Violet loves helping others, it is who she is and she has a heart of gold. Violet was absolutely incredible and so very kind and helpful with her neighbours and the town has missed a gem while she has been away. She is the heart of the community and now she is back, the community will continue to thrive - as will Violet! I wanted to go and meet Violet and say Well Done! I have no doubt that Violet will go from strength to strength, as will those around her, with her love and support. Violet should be known as Violet Right not Violet Wrong as everything she is doing is to make things right for her family, friends and community.
I was hooked on The Imperfect Art of Caring from the first page. All the characters were brilliant. Tammy was helped so much by Violet but by needing the help, she did also helped Violet too. I loved the relationship between Adam and Violet - I loved how it built up and then turned into such a beautiful relationship.
Such a heart-warming and touching book - full of emotion, that will make you tear up and smile. Carers are amazing, they do so much and their work is very often unrecognised. I know they do not want recognition but they work tirelessly to look after their loved ones and those in the community too and they are incredible. There is so much detail which carers and those being cared for will relate to as well and many sensitive issues are covered too.
The Imperfect Art of Caring will make you think, will encourage you to help those in need, even if it is just a smile or a Hello - that may be the only smile or Hello that person sees or hears that day. I highly recommend this book and give it 5 huge stars!
Thank you very much for my advanced copy. This review is based on a NetGalley ARC provided in exchange for an honest, unbiased opinion.
January 9, 2022
Thank you to @Jessryn1 and @HQstories for this advanced audio copy of The Imperfect Art of Caring in return for an honest review.
Description 🔖
Violet Strong (or Violet Wrong as the kids at school used to call her) moved away from home in her late teens and hasn’t stepped foot back into the village she grew up in since. She’s learnt to be bright and friendly whilst maintaining a safe emotional distance from anyone in her life.
Until life throws her a curveball. She’s forced to move back home temporarily to care for her estranged mother, Gladys. She quickly learns that being a carer is hard work and she turns to other carers in the community to lend a helping hand and provide guidance. One carer in particular starts to make Violet think that moving back home may not be such a bad thing after all. Violet is given the chance to address some of the mistakes made in her past and she finds that there is hope that she could love herself as much as she is able to love others.
General Thoughts 🤔
I had a suspicion that this book was going to be one to give me all the feels and fill me with warmth and snuggly thoughts and it did not disappoint. This was such a heart warming, fulfilling and in many ways, reassuring book. There is so much negativity in the world, it is sometimes easy to forget that for the majority, communities are full of caring, loving everyday people. The kind of people that were in this book.
Characters 👫👬👭
The characters were truly what made this book so lovely in my opinion. It’s hard to pick a favourite out of them all, but if forced, it would have to be Tammy. This lovely woman made me smile and laugh and also brought me so close to tears. The system didn’t have the capacity to support Tammy with her learning disability but her neighbours and what would become friends did. Tammy was deeply appreciative of this and her own kindness and good hearted nature was enough to make any reader fall in love with her.
Another character I really loved was Chrissie; Violets old English teacher. She wasn’t a carer herself and didn’t need a carer, but she did strike me as being lonely and in need of a friend. Instead of shrinking into herself, Chrissie gave up her time to help others in the village. I thought that she was one of the most selfless and kind characters in the book and anyone would be lucky to have a neighbour like Chrissie.
Writing Style ✍️
I haven’t read Jessica Ryn’s debut novel (yet!) so this was my first experience of her writing and I’m so happy that I got the chance to read her work. The pacing of the story was perfection and drew me in without overwhelming me with detail. I was able to just fall into step with the different characters, get to know them and get to learn their individual stories. She was able to brilliantly combine humour with some heart wrenching moments which pulled out all kinds of emotions in me.
I listened to the audio book of The Imperfect Art of Caring and have to give a mention to the narrator @BexthurstCooper. Her voice was so soothing and fit perfectly with the tone of the book. I could have listened to her read to me for many many more hours.
Conclusion & Scoring 🎖️
I challenge anyone to read this book and not immediately feel like they want to do something good for someone else. It definitely did that for me and I have vowed to pay more attention to the people in my own village, even if it’s just asking “how are you?” rather than a hi and bye in the street. I have to apologise for being so late in reading and posting my review for this ARC but I’m also kind of glad. This was a fantastic book to kick off a new year with.
Description 🔖
Violet Strong (or Violet Wrong as the kids at school used to call her) moved away from home in her late teens and hasn’t stepped foot back into the village she grew up in since. She’s learnt to be bright and friendly whilst maintaining a safe emotional distance from anyone in her life.
Until life throws her a curveball. She’s forced to move back home temporarily to care for her estranged mother, Gladys. She quickly learns that being a carer is hard work and she turns to other carers in the community to lend a helping hand and provide guidance. One carer in particular starts to make Violet think that moving back home may not be such a bad thing after all. Violet is given the chance to address some of the mistakes made in her past and she finds that there is hope that she could love herself as much as she is able to love others.
General Thoughts 🤔
I had a suspicion that this book was going to be one to give me all the feels and fill me with warmth and snuggly thoughts and it did not disappoint. This was such a heart warming, fulfilling and in many ways, reassuring book. There is so much negativity in the world, it is sometimes easy to forget that for the majority, communities are full of caring, loving everyday people. The kind of people that were in this book.
Characters 👫👬👭
The characters were truly what made this book so lovely in my opinion. It’s hard to pick a favourite out of them all, but if forced, it would have to be Tammy. This lovely woman made me smile and laugh and also brought me so close to tears. The system didn’t have the capacity to support Tammy with her learning disability but her neighbours and what would become friends did. Tammy was deeply appreciative of this and her own kindness and good hearted nature was enough to make any reader fall in love with her.
Another character I really loved was Chrissie; Violets old English teacher. She wasn’t a carer herself and didn’t need a carer, but she did strike me as being lonely and in need of a friend. Instead of shrinking into herself, Chrissie gave up her time to help others in the village. I thought that she was one of the most selfless and kind characters in the book and anyone would be lucky to have a neighbour like Chrissie.
Writing Style ✍️
I haven’t read Jessica Ryn’s debut novel (yet!) so this was my first experience of her writing and I’m so happy that I got the chance to read her work. The pacing of the story was perfection and drew me in without overwhelming me with detail. I was able to just fall into step with the different characters, get to know them and get to learn their individual stories. She was able to brilliantly combine humour with some heart wrenching moments which pulled out all kinds of emotions in me.
I listened to the audio book of The Imperfect Art of Caring and have to give a mention to the narrator @BexthurstCooper. Her voice was so soothing and fit perfectly with the tone of the book. I could have listened to her read to me for many many more hours.
Conclusion & Scoring 🎖️
I challenge anyone to read this book and not immediately feel like they want to do something good for someone else. It definitely did that for me and I have vowed to pay more attention to the people in my own village, even if it’s just asking “how are you?” rather than a hi and bye in the street. I have to apologise for being so late in reading and posting my review for this ARC but I’m also kind of glad. This was a fantastic book to kick off a new year with.
February 11, 2024
Realistic, identifiable and heartwarming. The Imperfect Art of Caring shows so much in its character's lives. Find the full review below the blurb. Thanks first to HQ Stories for gifting me the book and for having me on the blog tour.
Caring, it's a position so many people find themselves in and there are the challenging conversations to have with family for what to do for best. This is the situation sisters Violet and Jodie find themselves in, when it comes to the time to chat about what to do with their mum, Glenys. Then there's also the added complexity that Violet hasn't seen Jodie for years and what to do with her mum's house, thinking of residential care and also caring for her in the interim period, whilst they decide what to do for best and sort out necessary arrangements. There's also the assessments, when Violet, ends up looking into care homes and the way that Glenys is feels true to life.
There is some humour and some lovely descriptions and book series titles, blogs, life to be lived, which gives it a 3 dimensional feel, because when you're dealing with caring there are other things going on too and the world doesn't just stop. This book is heartwarming and shows kindness within its characters.
The book moves onto Tammy, who is also needing care. There's only her and her mum and Tammy, who has a disability is trying to live independently, something that her mum finds a bit hard to get her head around at times. The descriptions of how silence is, is intense.
Their stories converge as they end up being neighbours. There are thoughtful, poignant moments throughout and some wise advice from a guy called Adam Croft.
It's interesting seeing Tammy trying to get on with her life, but also bearing in mind all that her mum has told her. Violet also helps a bit and gives some sound advice. There's also a search for Tammy's father, but also a bit of doubt kicks in as to whether it is a good idea or not. In the meantime, it is interesting and positive seeing Tammy progress in life.
For both Violet's and Tammy's stories of how life is playing out for them, there is strength of character through the emotions and the getting through life the best they can. There is also a bit of potential romance in the offering.
There's the highs and lows of caring that are within the book and whether you're caring for someone or not, even though this is a fictional book, there's lots both sets of people can take away with them. For carers, it is that it is an "Imperfect Art of Caring" that people try their best to muddle through, and also gives ideas of how to find some support.
For the cared for, there is the drive and determination running through life as well as support.
For those who don't care for anyone in the sense that this book is talking about, it gives a pretty good picture of the situations faced, at least from a point of view, but without being too heavy.
There's also the care shown for libraries and a campaign to support them, which is pleasing as so many are lost. It also demonstrates that they are places to ask people for help in. It's short, but really stands out.
The book is realistic and shows that caring is indeed an "Imperfect Art", which, anyone who is caring for someone in any situation will know and will have experienced some of what is in the book to a certain extent, depending on situations, including juggling their own life. I see the book as pretty realistic as I am an unpaid carer, writing a blog and juggling other life things as well as caring.
Caring, it's a position so many people find themselves in and there are the challenging conversations to have with family for what to do for best. This is the situation sisters Violet and Jodie find themselves in, when it comes to the time to chat about what to do with their mum, Glenys. Then there's also the added complexity that Violet hasn't seen Jodie for years and what to do with her mum's house, thinking of residential care and also caring for her in the interim period, whilst they decide what to do for best and sort out necessary arrangements. There's also the assessments, when Violet, ends up looking into care homes and the way that Glenys is feels true to life.
There is some humour and some lovely descriptions and book series titles, blogs, life to be lived, which gives it a 3 dimensional feel, because when you're dealing with caring there are other things going on too and the world doesn't just stop. This book is heartwarming and shows kindness within its characters.
The book moves onto Tammy, who is also needing care. There's only her and her mum and Tammy, who has a disability is trying to live independently, something that her mum finds a bit hard to get her head around at times. The descriptions of how silence is, is intense.
Their stories converge as they end up being neighbours. There are thoughtful, poignant moments throughout and some wise advice from a guy called Adam Croft.
It's interesting seeing Tammy trying to get on with her life, but also bearing in mind all that her mum has told her. Violet also helps a bit and gives some sound advice. There's also a search for Tammy's father, but also a bit of doubt kicks in as to whether it is a good idea or not. In the meantime, it is interesting and positive seeing Tammy progress in life.
For both Violet's and Tammy's stories of how life is playing out for them, there is strength of character through the emotions and the getting through life the best they can. There is also a bit of potential romance in the offering.
There's the highs and lows of caring that are within the book and whether you're caring for someone or not, even though this is a fictional book, there's lots both sets of people can take away with them. For carers, it is that it is an "Imperfect Art of Caring" that people try their best to muddle through, and also gives ideas of how to find some support.
For the cared for, there is the drive and determination running through life as well as support.
For those who don't care for anyone in the sense that this book is talking about, it gives a pretty good picture of the situations faced, at least from a point of view, but without being too heavy.
There's also the care shown for libraries and a campaign to support them, which is pleasing as so many are lost. It also demonstrates that they are places to ask people for help in. It's short, but really stands out.
The book is realistic and shows that caring is indeed an "Imperfect Art", which, anyone who is caring for someone in any situation will know and will have experienced some of what is in the book to a certain extent, depending on situations, including juggling their own life. I see the book as pretty realistic as I am an unpaid carer, writing a blog and juggling other life things as well as caring.
April 14, 2022
Jessica Ryn's second book, The Imperfect Art of Caring, is as warm-hearted and joyful as her first, The Extraordinary Hope of Dawn Brightside. Focusing on loneliness, and in particular the kind that comes with being a carer, I found it both moving and uplifting.
Violet Strong thinks she isn't as strong as her name suggests. After hiding herself away for the last fourteen years following a difficult time in her teens, she returns reluctantly to her home village to act as carer for her mum. Planning to only stay for a while, she finds herself slowly putting down roots again, meeting old friends and new, and becoming part of a community.
I love a book where I feel like I want to dive in and be a part of it. Violet and other carers that she meets have a demanding and challenging role to play, but they're all so lovely that I wished they were my friends. Violet is kind and thoughtful and as she reaches out, asks for help and meets other people in the same boat, she grows as a person. Whilst most of the story is from Violet's perspective, there are also chapters about Tammy, a young woman who lives in the same flats as Violet's mum, Glenys. She goes through the biggest transformation of all and I loved her for it.
The village near Brighton where Glenys lives sounds like many villages: once thriving, it only took one bad thing to happen to put it into a decline. Despite that, I thought it sounded like a delightful place to live. I'd use the word delightful to describe this whole book, in fact. I became immersed in this story of people coming together, dispelling loneliness and promoting kindness and friendship, and I enjoyed every single minute I spent reading it. Jessica Ryn has become an author whose books I would pick up without knowing anything about them. She's a writer who is adept at getting to the heart of human emotions, producing gentle and emotive stories that make me feel all warm and cosy.
Violet Strong thinks she isn't as strong as her name suggests. After hiding herself away for the last fourteen years following a difficult time in her teens, she returns reluctantly to her home village to act as carer for her mum. Planning to only stay for a while, she finds herself slowly putting down roots again, meeting old friends and new, and becoming part of a community.
I love a book where I feel like I want to dive in and be a part of it. Violet and other carers that she meets have a demanding and challenging role to play, but they're all so lovely that I wished they were my friends. Violet is kind and thoughtful and as she reaches out, asks for help and meets other people in the same boat, she grows as a person. Whilst most of the story is from Violet's perspective, there are also chapters about Tammy, a young woman who lives in the same flats as Violet's mum, Glenys. She goes through the biggest transformation of all and I loved her for it.
The village near Brighton where Glenys lives sounds like many villages: once thriving, it only took one bad thing to happen to put it into a decline. Despite that, I thought it sounded like a delightful place to live. I'd use the word delightful to describe this whole book, in fact. I became immersed in this story of people coming together, dispelling loneliness and promoting kindness and friendship, and I enjoyed every single minute I spent reading it. Jessica Ryn has become an author whose books I would pick up without knowing anything about them. She's a writer who is adept at getting to the heart of human emotions, producing gentle and emotive stories that make me feel all warm and cosy.
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