This book discusses homemaking and home-sharing for Christian women under seven headings of hospitality, relationships, well-being, atmosphere, comfort, contentment, rest, and home for the homeless, looking at each category with reference to the Garden of Eden and the life of Jesus, as well as the Danish practice of hygge.
I really appreciated Erickson’s notes on how we image God when we create our homes, as He (as Father and Creator) is responsible for creating both a temporal and eternal home for us (“in my Father’s house there are many rooms, and I go to prepare a place for you”). I also appreciated the emphasis on the life of Jesus and the reminder that for Christians, our sanctuary and place of rest is not a place but a Person, and this should change the way we live and host to be centered not around the aesthetics of our home but relationships which hopefully image and honor our most important Relationship. The practical takes, such as laying out and furnishing your rooms to maximize interaction, were thought-provoking to me as well. The emphasis on contentment, gratitude, comfort, generosity, and Sabbath rest as elements of home-making were also convicting, that my perspectives and how I conduct my relationships are the real scaffolding against which my home is built. Lastly, I appreciated the reminder that EVERYONE is “homeless” in some sense on earth, and this places an obligation on those with the greatest sense of home-ness (the church).
A few notes: there were some parts in the beginning of the book where I felt like Erickson’s connections were tenuous, and she was trying to “fit” aspects of the life of Jesus into a cultural practice (looking at you, chapter that talked about having candles in your home and Jesus being the light of the world). Also, there was a section on self care that made me feel a bit dubious, probably because I think the cultural pendulum has swung to the point that I feel like the need is now to encourage self-denial and generosity rather than boundaries and self care. These things made me feel like it was a bit “lighter” than Butterfield’s The Gospel Comes with a House Key (similar topic), but I still appreciated a lot of the insights!!
“Hygge can help you name things differently too. For instance, the mound of dishes that greets you at the end of each evening-that's daily evidence that you have people in your life who eat at your table. The clean laundry pile that threatens to landslide all over your living room floor each time you pass is not an eyesore but a blessed reminder that you have clothes on your back. Your outdated living room couch is not so much a blemish on your decor as a memorial of the countless movie nights you've enjoyed with friends or Sunday afternoon naps you've savored.”
“Every person who enters your door has a divine appointment.”