This is a beautiful story that illustrates the relationship with loss that children who have lost a parent feel throughout their childhood. The author, Theule, expresses the feelings of losing a loved one by describing seeing and feeling them in everyday activities in sad but touching ways. The main character, Faye, feels her mother in the wind, sees her in the chair her mother sat in, and one night takes a boat ride out to find her mother in the lake where they used to boat together.
This book compassionately brings out the emotions that may be felt when we grieve the loss of loved ones. Theule's descriptions of feelings that Faye felt in just ordinary activities, such as, when she missed her mother and almost could see her sitting in her chair at home, or feel her in the wind, are simply but profoundly described. At times the reader may feel afraid and then feel encouraged by Faye's brave trek to boat out on her own to find a connection with her mother. The reassurance of Faye's father's embrace when he finds her safe is a touching end to the story. The illustrations are filled with warmth because of the choice of deep, yet sometimes dark, colors. There is also motion captured in the illustrations that connect the reader to the journey as though the reader is also moving along with Faye. This book is recommended as a great way to encourage discussion about loss with children who are experiencing it or will in the future.