The Positivity Effect: Simple CBT Skills to Transform Anxiety and Negativity into Optimism and Hope

by Dan Tomasulo, Lisa Miller (Foreword)

Harness the power of positivity to overcome anxiety— and thrive! If you suffer from anxiety, you may feel stuck in a vicious cycle of rumination, worry, and avoidance—and ultimately miss out on all life has to offer. But what if you could shift your thinking and start living with more expansiveness, hope, and happiness? What if you could transform stress and anxiety, and find lasting balance, peace, and joy? This book can show you how. Based in proven-effective cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) and positive psychology, psychologist Dan Tomasulo—author of Learned Hopefulness —offers powerful skills to help you overcome negative thinking and harness the power of positivity to reduce stress, boost confidence, and find instant calm and sustainable happiness. With this uplifting guide, you’ll learn how   Not being anxious is not the same as thriving. Nor does worrying less mean that you are at peace. With this inspiring guide, you’ll learn to do more than just stop worrying—you’ll learn to completely transform your outlook for long lasting serenity and joy.

Genres: Self Help, Nonfiction, Psychology

200 pages, Paperback

Published June 1, 2023

Reviews

[Corrica · Rating 3 out of 5]

Thank you to the author and publisher for giving me an advance copy of this book. The book is well written and ways to follow. However, positivity is a privilege. This is not properly discussed. Nor is the harm of toxic positivity. This book is fine and helpful for someone who has the privilege and resources to choose to live a positive life, but for many it is not a reality or a possibility.

[Kimberly Barnes · Rating 5 out of 5]

Repetition is the key to success in your transformation of thinking. Dan Tomasulo, a psychologist that specializes in acquiring happiness and hopefulness, has written a guide to teach individuals how to improve thinking in order to be happier and hopeful. This book provides instructions, and action steps to improve your positivity. It is backed by research and includes evidence based practices. The following states of mind are addressed: hope, empowerment, resilience, and optimism. While the science of thinking is explored and explained, the words and verbiage utilized is understandable to all readers. Dr. Tomasulo does a great job of presenting the information in an easy to read format, which also allows the reader to implement provided strategies. If you struggle with negative thinking and/or anxiety, this book is a must read to transform your thinking, and your life. I highly recommend this book. Thank you the publisher and NetGalley for the advance review copy in exchange for my honest review.

[Tamiya Bates · Rating 1 out of 5]

I won this book on a Goodreads giveaway. I am glad I did because this book was like reading a textbook and I would never have wanted to pay for it. I could not get past page 25. I am not looking for reference quotes throughout a self help book. I am looking for a candid conversation.

[Jerónimo Riera · Rating 1 out of 5]

You can easily can get lost in long explanations, not fluid at all, an author that speaks too much and says very little...

[B Poulain · Rating 1 out of 5]

CBT keeps being pushed on us - why?

CBT is a tiny tool in the toolbox. It may help many clients manage *symptoms* of anxiety, depression, and trauma, BUT it does not deal with the *root cause*. Only psychotherapy can offer measurable, lasting effects.

In practice, many patients don't feel seen when their complex histories are reduced to thought distortions or behavioural targets. CBT tends to emphasise short-term results and overlooks the slower, messier work of real emotional healing. A skilled clinician may appreciate CBT's strengths — but also knows it's often not enough.

[Kiss Viktória · Rating 5 out of 5]

Nagyon hasznos volt számomra ez a könyv. Elérte nálam,hogy akarjak pozitívan gondolkodni,nem mondom hogy máris sikerült de elindultam a fejlődés után. Szuper könyv volt,az írói remek példákat hoztak amivel sikerült megértenem miért is fontos az optimizmus. Voltak benne gyakorlatok amiknek nem teljesen értettem a miértjét de idővel biztos ez is kitisztul. Ha egy kis pozitivitásra lesz szükségem biztosan újra fellapozom a könyvet!

[Elizabeth Espinoza · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book goes into great depth in explaining what anxiety is. I feel like I have a deeper understanding about anxiety. I have learned different ways to cope with it and will be using these techniques in my everyday life. If you or someone close to you struggles with anxiety, this book will help give you a better understanding and strategies to work through it.

[Roger Tribble · Rating 5 out of 5]

Finally an outstanding book on how to effectively improve our lives WITHOUT THE FLUFF

It's difficult to define this book. Is it self-help? Yes, but unlike the myriad books and programs I've read and diligently applied. This actually helps. Just give it a look-see. So darn difficult to find any source that will persistently work.