"The vision of a champion is someone who is bent over, drenched in sweat, at the point of exhaustion when no one else is watching." Book on soccer coaching by former US women's coach Anson Dorrance who also coached the University of North Carolina to 17 National Championships (in 20 years). Excellence is actually mundane - excellence is accomplished through deliberate actions, ordinary in themselves, performed consistently and carefully, made into habits, compounded together, added up over time. What is true of all the soccer superstars I know is that these were their dreams, not their parents' dreams. In my experience, the best soccer parents more or less let their children do their own thing and are completely supportive, win lose or draw. Having a good team basically boils down to a combination of talent, work ethic and leadership. It is critical that the superstar can figure out a way to make the most average player feel important to the team. Certain individuals with tremendous character, integrity and compassion can hold an entire team together. Two basic criteria determine the quality of the coach: (1) whether you are enjoying the game, (2) whther you are getting better."The will to win is overrated in athletics, because everyone wants to win. It's the will to prepare to win that makes the difference" - Bobby Knight. A key basic is long-term preparation - it comes down to progressive, consistent effort, with a view towards a long range goal. Set standards for the team to follow. Take responsibility for yourself. Decide everyday whether you are a positive life force or a whiner, whether you are going to improve that day or coast.