I discovered Stephanie "Tanqueray" Johnson through the Humans of New York (HONY) Instagram page. Although I am always drawn to the various stories provide by the account's creator Brandon Stanton, I was most intrigued by the story of now 70 year old Stephanie Johnson aka Tanqueray who was once one of the best known burlesque dancers in New York.
Stephanie first appeared on the HONY Instagram account on November 18-20, 2019. Stephanie’s stories of her days as the burlesque dancer Tanqueray were so entertaining, Stanton provided her with an opportunity to share her full story on September 21, 2020, via the HONY Instagram feed. Over the course of 33 photos and seven days, the world got to read and see the story of Stephanie Johnson's transformation from a childhood of abuse and privilege to becoming a burlesque dancer.
The memoir begins with a foreword by Brandon Stanton, creator of Humans of New York photo blog, Facebook, and Instagram account who provides the story of how first met Stephanie on a cold November day many years ago. As he was walking home from the gym, he walked past her and said hi which lead to her telling him about past New York, her childhood in Albany, and her experience with the mob. Through many years not only does Stanton and Stephanie become friends, Stanton is able to share her story on social media and raise almost 2.7 million dollars to cover Stephanie’s her living expenses and healthcare costs as well as achieve Stephanie’s dream on telling her full story in a book.
Stephanie tells the story of a childhood in Albany, growing up in an interracial neighborhood and having no friends except dolls. As a child, her parents divorced and when she gets to high school, she gets bullied for being better dressed and better spoken than the other students at the school. Eventually, Stephanie gets tired of being bullied and retaliates against her bully.
After becoming pregnant, her and her mother have a falling out and in a bold move, when given a choice, Stephanie chooses to give up her baby for adoption and go to jail rather than return to Albany and live with her mother. After doing prison time, Stephanie goes to New York to start a brand new life.
She arrives in New York on Valentine’s Day in the 1960s and learns about black music, soul food, and racism/colorism. The longer she’s in New York, the more she learns how to fit as well as finding a job and befriending pimps. Although she wants to become a go go dancer, she realizes she won’t get hired because she had stretch marks, tattoos, and isn’t white.
By befriending mobsters, she starts doing side jobs selling stolen mink coats. Eventually gains fame as only black girl go go dancer in New York city but is angry she’s not sent downtown where the big money is because she’s Black.
Although Stephanie is a talented seamstress, she quickly realizes that people will trick her into performing sexual favors to get her outfits shown she she returns to dancing instead.
Stephanie talks about the important men she's met throughout her life including Oscar, a auto mechanic who treated Stephanie with respect and was the closest things Stephanie had to a father figure and Carmine, the love of her life.
The memior is informative in defining what burlesque dancing is as well as different type of burlesque dancers.It was also interesting to read stories about Stephanie's friends including a dancer who was a nurse by day and dancer by night and the publisher of “High Society” adult magazine.
Tanquery eventually finds success as a writer of x-rated stories in “High Society” magazine as well as through dancing. Although she enjoyed the fame from the magazine and dancing, she feels a loss of her real self and becomes depressed. Stephanie made sure to separate her real self from her stage persona Tanquery.
As the years pass, Stephanie reinvents herself many times over and has jobs as a brothel manager, cross dresser makeup artist, and creator of adult baby clothes.
While reading this book, you can’t but admire Stephanie’s hustle spirit and ability to have two things going at once in case a plan falls through. I personally viewed hustle spirit as an result of Stephanie's lack of trust in her parents as a child. Although this book is not for the faint of heart due to some of the graphic sexual acts described, this memoir provides a quick, enjoyable, and insightful journey to the bygone days of New York burlesque dancers.