I recieved an eARC of this book. Thank you for the opportunity to read it.
One of the best things about recent MG books is that, more and more, there are TGNC characters who just are, where they are accepted by peers and are part of the class project, marching band, or robotics team. Such representation is vital and imporant. And, I admit, having read young adult books involving coming out stories, I was a little nervous about the fact that Skating on Mars is a coming out story, and one involving a young athlete who is trying to find their place in a gendered sport, because it could so easily have gone to either extreme, of either being too easy, where everyone is supportive, or being just plain too miserable. Both are better than no representation at all, but aren't ideal.
Skating on Mars manages to thread the needle extremely well. Mars is a 7th grade, 12 yr old figure skater. They've skated for years, love it, but are more and more uncomfortable skating as a girl. They're also nervous about coming out to their family, their coach, at school, everyone but their best friend, Libby, who gave them the name Mars. When Libby's pairs partner challenges Mars to compete against him, as a boy, Mars takes him up on it.
This book shines in how much it shows Mars's internal struggles, where things like which locker room, or which division to compete in, have no good answers. While some in Mars's life are supportive, some are not, and some of the obstacles Mars faces are set by others, but some are completely internal.
The necessary triumph, the happy ending common to both middle grade and sports books manages to both be a victory and to be realistic. It's a feel good ending, but not one that is "happily ever after".
I believe a lot of kids, whether they're male, female, or non-binary, will find that Mars's efforts to be themself-and to figure out who they are-will be relatable and ring true. For those who are gender non-conforming, and who love sports that don't seem to have a place for them, Mars's struggles will be even more relatable.
I wish every adult who has proposed a bill that bans trans kids from playing sports as themselves, who wants to restrict kids using their pronouns and names at schools, who wants to force kids to be outed before they choose would read this book and realize that what Mars...and many other kids are asking for...is simply to be able to be themselves. This is a beautiful book. I hope it gets the chance it deserves.