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NATIONAL BESTSELLER Middle-aged brothers Jason and Tom Prendergast thought they were completely done with each other. Perceived betrayal had burned the bridge between them, tossing them into the icy river of estrangement. But life – and death – has a robust sense of irony, and when they learn that their cruel father has died and made his final request that they travel together across the country to spread his ashes, they have no choice but to spend a long, long car trip in each other's company. It's either that or lose out on the contents of the envelope he's left with his lawyer. The trip will be as gut-wrenching as each expects it to be . . . and revealing in ways neither of them is prepared for.

At turns humorous, biting, poignant, and surprisingly tender, Ashes puts a new spin on family and dysfunction with a story that is at once fresh and timelessly universal. This new edition includes the short story "Lost," set in the world of Ashes.

288 pages, Paperback

Published March 28, 2023

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Steven Manchester

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New England's Storyteller Steven Manchester is the author of the soul-awakening novel, The Menu, as well as the '80s nostalgia-series, Bread Bags & Bullies; Lawn Darts & Lemonade. His other works include #1 bestsellers Twelve Months, The Rockin' Chair, Pressed Pennies and Gooseberry Island; the national bestsellers, Ashes, The Changing Season and Three Shoeboxes; the multi-award winning novels, Dad and Goodnight Brian; and the heartwarming Christmas movie, The Thursday Night Club. His work has appeared on NBC's Today Show and CBS's The Early Show; in Billboard and People Magazines. Three of Steven's short stories were selected "101 Best" for Chicken Soup for the Soul series. He is a multi-produced playwright, as well as the winner of the 2017 Los Angeles Book Festival, 2018 New York Book Festival, 2020 New England Book Festival, and 2021 Paris Book Festival. When not spending time with his beautiful wife, Paula, or their children, this Massachusetts author is promoting his works or writing. Visit: www.StevenManchester.com

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Profile Image for Larry H.
3,084 reviews29.6k followers
October 24, 2016
I'd rate this 3.5 stars.

Brothers Tom and Jason Prendergast have been estranged for years, since each committed an act of betrayal against the other, essentially ending their relationship. The one thing that had always united them was their hatred for their violent, alcoholic, physically and psychologically abusive father, and each left home and any contact with him as quickly as they could.

It's a surprise to both when they get word that their father has succumbed to cancer. But in his ultimate act of asshole-ism, he specifies in his will that both Jason and Tom must drive cross-country to Seattle (he never liked flying) to spread his ashes. Together. If they do, they'll benefit from the contents of a sealed envelope their father left with his lawyer. If they're not willing to make the trip together and perform this final task, they'll get nothing.

While neither has any idea what, if anything, their father could have had that is worth anything, curiosity and need get the best of both of them. Within minutes of beginning the cross-country trip, they're at each other's throats, needling each other with painful memories of their childhood and their father's abuse. They couldn't have taken more different paths in adulthood—Jason is two years away from retirement after years as a prison guard, while Tom is a college professor. Yet as they criticize the other's life choices, habits, and virtually every move, they start realizing they have more in common than they realize, and each could truly benefit from listening to the other.

Their journey takes them through small towns and big cities, and they spend a lot of time rehashing the way their father treated them. And while neither is particularly happy with their lives right now, and they want nothing more than to be rid of their father (and each other) as quickly as possible, they can't help but imagine what is inside the envelope that is their reward at the end of the trip.

Can we ever get over the pain and trauma inflicted on us in childhood, particularly by our parents? Is there a statute of limitations on being angry at your siblings, or are you justified in resenting, even hating them, all your life? How is it that someone who doesn't really know you can diagnose your problems quicker than you can?

In Ashes , Steven Manchester strives to answer those questions, framed against the backdrop of Jason and Tom's tumultuous road trip. Family drama always provides fascinating fodder for novels, and this is no exception. While the story unfolds much as you'd expect it would, Manchester does a great job teasing out the tension, making you wonder what roadblocks might befall the brothers which could hamper their ability to complete their trip and see if there's gold at the end of the, well, envelope.

I had never read anything Manchester has written before, although it appears he's fairly prolific. He's a really strong storyteller. My one criticism of this book is that I wished the characters didn't fall into such complete stereotypes—the prison guard drives a pickup truck, listens to country music, and loves to eat fried, greasy food and smoke cigars; the college professor mostly eats salads and lighter foods, and drinks wine. While it turns out the characters had more depth than it appeared on the surface, it threw me for a loop initially.

This is a good, solid story, full of moments to make you laugh, and a few which might bring a tear to your eye. But in the end, it's a palpable reminder of how we don't often realize how important people are to us until we're missing them.

NetGalley and Story Plant provided me an advance copy of the book in exchange for an unbiased review. Thanks for making this available!

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4,010 reviews12k followers
December 30, 2016
Family relationships are in my space this last week of 2016....
In "Never Let You Go"... we look at a mother/daughter relationship
In "The Twelve Lives of Samuel Hawley", we look at a father/daughter relationship.
In "Gem and Dixie", we look at two sisters relationships.
AND....now in "Ashes", we look at two brothers relationships.

Two brothers, Jason and Tom Prendergast are on a cross country trek to scatter their father's ashes. Their father was one hell of a lousy papa. "Pop"....was a 'son-of-bitch'. He could get the dysfunctional award of America... in life & death!
Even in his death - he was manipulating - and controlling. Can you imagine cutting a deal - in death - with your children? I KNOW PEOPLE WHO DO THIS!!!!
It STINKS!!!!
When I die - when my husband dies - anything we have of value - we will divide equally to our children. NO STRINGS ATTACHED! No favoritism. No rules as to 'our wishes' after we're dead! When we leave our children our money - and our house - we give freely. It's THEIR life. They will never need to drive across country together to claim their goods BECAUSE of our fantasy they spend time together and or resolve their issues. They will never need to worry that we will leave more to one child than the other. Our children never owe us anything. We gave birth to them. To control - even in death -isn't an inspiring mitzvah by any means.

THIS FATHER wasn't a picnic. If his sons wanted to see what they received , ( grown men who were handling their own financial needs), tucked away in a Manila envelope, they must FOLLOW HIS ORDERS -- or no go! The father, Stuart, had a final wish... that they bring his final remains and spread his ashes in Seattle, Washington. THEY MUST TRAVEL TOGETHER! The surprise was in the Manila Envelope!

Jason and Tom were kicking and screaming about going at first -
However, curiosity got the best of them. They wanted to see what their father left them........
EVEN THOUGH.......the two of them had been living completely separate lives....had not been in communication with each other for years for fifteen years.

The brothers are middle-age coming to grips with their own mortality. The last person on earth they wanted to take a road trip with is with each other!!!
They each have memories from years past from their barbarous-violent-alcoholic father.... ( which we learn more about while on their car trip).
Tom is two years younger then Jason.
Tom thinks his older brother, Jason, a prison guard working for the Massachusetts Department of correction, is still an animal asshole!!! Jason is divorced. His two passions in life are his daughter, Miranda, and he enjoys eating - - gourmand....not a gourmet.
Jason - thinks Tom, a professor, is an arrogant righteous know-it-all. Tom has his own problems, too. His marriage is in need of serious repair and they have two small children.
A car ride begins.....

This is the first novel I've read by Steve Manchester. I REALLY ENJOYED THIS SHORT NOVEL....and want to read him again!!!

Things I liked:
.....I LOVED THE DIALOGUE and THE STORYTELLING. Don't laugh at me -- but I found the swearing extremely satisfying in this book! IT FIT! I wanted to swear with them!
.....The brothers were on -the- edge 'FUNNY&PATHETIC'....in a friggin enjoyable reading way......THEY ALSO STOLE MY HEART.....my tender heart!!!
.....I wanted to know what was in the envelope......but most I started to care about these guys - and their families - 'their lives' very much.
.....I laughed, smiled, had little tears.

Siblings hurt each other. Parents and kids hurt each other.... but like BEACHCOMBING....if you participate in each other's lives 'at all '.....it's possible to fill your bucket with valuable treasures!

A treasure of a novel

Thank You "The Story Plant", Netgalley, and Steven Manchester




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1,781 reviews1,059 followers
August 3, 2018
1.5★
I saw this book had some good reviews, so I figured it sounded okay. I'm guessing the author has a loyal fan base.

But there were too many lessons and messages for me to enjoy the story. The road trip taken by two estranged brothers has been described by others, so I'll just admit that I skimmed the book enough to get a sense of the story line and give it a chance to appeal to me.

But it never did. The prison warden brother preaches to youth about the dangers of ending up in a life of crime - for page after page - and the professor brother gives history lessons about the places they pass through as a sideline to the story. They alternate between philosophising about "issues" (letting kids grow up, homophobia, The Poor) and swapping vulgarities about pissing and farting.

And there seem to be curvaceous temptations at every diner. Not really - it just seemed that way to me. Kind of a boys-might-like-to-be-boys story.

On the road trip, they have digs at each other, and at one point, Tom (professor) is driving and Jason (prison guard) is asleep and Tom decides to wake him up, so to speak, as payback for something.

He hits the brakes hard.

"The seatbelt did its job and body slammed Jason back into the seat. He gasped for air. 'What the hell?' he said, his eyes as big as whoopie pies.

Although it begged to be freed, Tom concealed his smile."


Their dad was abusive, mother gone, and they seem like a pair of teen-aged boys, footloose and awkward.

Thanks to NetGalley and The Story Plant for the copy for review. Sorry it's not my taste, but fans of the author will no doubt enjoy it. For a sample of his work, you can see an excerpt on his Goodreads profile. https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog...
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6,817 reviews633 followers
January 13, 2017
What started as a strained cross-country trek to fulfill their father’s last wishes became a second chance at brotherly love, dreams come true and secrets unveiled. Steven Manchester has done it again, creating a story of pain and sorrow and turning it into a magically journey of discovery and a re-birth of a family. ASHES will tickle your funny bone, twist a warped sense of humor even tighter and bring two middle-aged and estranged brothers together, not only in the confines of a vehicle, but from the deepest parts of their very souls!

Jason and Tom were raised by a vicious and abusive father. They learned to stick together as children, but as time went on, one would destroy that bond in a second with one act of cowardice that would change their futures and love for each other. But all is not doom and gloom, sure there were miles of animosity, miles of revelations and miles of memories to share, both good and bad, but there were also moments of quirky fun, howling laughter and that bond that brothers share. It was at the end of their journey they realized they had been given a precious gift from the man who hated them, the gift of family, imperfect but real.

If you have ever thought your family could be the poster children for dysfunctional families everywhere, you will relate to this tale of two siblings as different as night and day. Jason will keep you in awe and stitches as the gruff prison guard plays the perfect example of a rough guy with a heart of gold and a wicked sense of humor! Tom is the quiet one, the upscale man with the manicured lawn at his proper address who looks down on Jason’s earthy ways.

Hop in, buckle up and get ready to share a journey of a lifetime with Steven Manchester, Jason and Tom. Feel their pain, their laughter and their joys told only as Steven Manchester can do! I laughed, I remembered my childhood and the things kids can get up to! I cried at times and I laughed when they talked about and to their father’s ashes, because once I too, traveled with my Dad’s ashes and asked him if he wanted to ride shotgun or sit in the back. He didn’t have a preference.

I received an ARC edition from Steven Manchester in exchange for my honest review.
Read it! You'll love it!

Publisher: Fiction Studio Books (February 1, 2017)
Publication Date: February 1, 2017
Genre: Literary Fiction
Print Length: 272 pages
Available from: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
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761 reviews232 followers
November 28, 2016
Brothers Jason and Tom Prendergast haven't spoken to each other in years. Once close allies during an incredibly abusive childhood, now they practically hate each other. After their father dies, however, they are forced to interact again. In his will, their father asks them to make a cross-country trip together--from Massachusetts to Washington--to scatter his ashes near their old home in Seattle. And if they complete the task, they will get to open a mysterious envelope he's left them, contents unknown.

Initially, neither brother wants to make the trip, but eventually their curiosity gets the best of them and they agree to make the journey. As you might expect, the beginning of the trip is rough. Both brothers are rude and defensive with each other. But over time, they talk, reminisce, and get to know each other again. They find they have more in common than not, and this eventually helps them process their past and come to a healthier place in their relationship.

The premise of the book is intriguing to me. I like that both Jason and Tom (but especially Jason) have such interesting and unique backstories. (Tom is a somewhat prissy professor, and Jason is a prison guard.) I enjoyed reading about Jason's experiences working with prisoners and at-risk kids. I also like that the brothers talk about so many substantial topics during their long drive: childhood memories of abuse, health issues, relationships, divorce, kids, parenting, job satisfaction, and even social issues like poverty, crime, and the death penalty. The variety helps keep things moving.

But I didn't love this book. Mostly because the writing is just so annoyingly overwrought. Author Steven Manchester says things like "She faded back into the shadows just as quickly as her tormented smile." And "Tom awakened." (i.e., Tom woke up?). It's cheesy. And it's on every page. His over-the-top descriptions and contrived plot points (don't even get me started on the ending...) made me groan. Audibly. Many, many times. There's simply no subtlety or nuance in this book. I never stopped feeling like Manchester was beating me over the head with each sentence: Do you see how descriptive my words are?! Are you noticing my gritty characters?! Are you feeling the heartbreak of my heartbreaking story?! Ugh, it's just too much.

So, yes, the premise of this book grabbed my attention, but the execution fell way short. I'm not sure how this book already has so many advanced glowing reviews, but this is a big ol' NOPE in my book.

ARC provided through Net Galley.

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1,343 reviews266 followers
April 17, 2017
I’m a huge fan of Steven Manchester’s work, so I jumped at the chance to review his latest book, Ashes. The premise intrigued me even though it’s not a genre I typically read.

As I started the book, I wasn’t quite sure I would like it or even finish it. I didn’t particularly like the main characters. Each brother seemed to be nasty and not very sympathetic, but as I kept reading, my feelings had a complete turnaround. As I the story continued, I began to truly care about each character and saw what shaped their lives.

I, also, had a preconceived notion of how this was going to turn out. I was sure it would have a predictable ending, but it didn’t. I was totally taken by surprise in the direction the author went. Readers kept learning new things about Jason and Tom with each chapter. Each character has their faults but also some good things. They are flawed people, which makes them real.

I ended up not able to put this heart wrenching, emotional, realistic book down. This is a huge slice of life with characters you can truly care about. Steven Manchester did not let me down with this one.



FTC Disclosure: I voluntarily reviewed an Advance Reader Copy of this book. I was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are my own.
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1,848 reviews21 followers
October 27, 2016
Steven Manchester was taking a big chance when he wrote Ashes! I have read most of his books and this is the first time that he has used raw language and heaping spoonfuls of humor! I must say that I thought that a road trip was a clever vehicle to push two ornery men o change.

Two very different brothers receive news of their father's death. This father was the epitome of abuse, alcoholic, and constantly trying to pit the two against each other.

Jason Penergast is a prison guard at a very violent correctional center. He favors country music, fried food, heavily laden with cheese. Jason is street smart. I could use some more education from him on who to trust.

Tom Pendergast is college professor by day and stock trader by night. He loves the opera, history and craves company. He tends to be more careful about his health. The two together are given the quest by the deceased's attorney to drive to Seattle and sprinkle his ashes there. Of course, they cannot take separate cars, even though they have cut off communication between each for fifteen years.

Steven Manchester handled the gritty dialogue masterly and also inches the two brothers towards major change in their lives. This book would not have been the same if the language was groomed and the characters may have not changed too. Steven Manchester has a great understanding of family. I think he is quite ready to teach a college course on it. I also think it would not be dull.

The author, Steven Manchester requested a fair review. Because of a problem with my eyes, I have trouble reading e-books so Mr. Manchester sent me an Advance Reading Copy .I greatly appreciated that and what I thought of his book was not influenced by that. My thoughts and feelings in this review are my own. I have reviewed his other books in the past. My last statement below still holds true.

Every time I read a new one, I feel this one is the best!

I highly recommend this book for people interested in family relationships.
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3,481 reviews1 follower
October 22, 2016

Title: Ashes
Author: Steven Manchester
Publisher: Story Plant
Reviewed By: Arlena Dean
Rating: Five
Review:

"Ashes" by Steven Manchester

My Thoughts...

'Ashes' was quite some story about two brother Tom and Jason Prendergast. These two brothers
hadn't been together for many years [15]mainly due to their hateful abusive father and now he was dead and had requested them to make a drive together to Seattle in order to take and spread his ashes. Now, they had to do this in order to get the 'contents of a sealed envelope their father had lift with his lawyer.' At this point I wondered why it was so important to get this envelope especially since the way their father had mistreated them so horribly while growing up. What in the world would this man be leaving them that was worth this trip? What turns out to be a trip from hell also turns out to be so much more as these two brothers travel together to Seattle. What these two brothers find out during this trip will truly have you shaking your head and saying how more crueler could this father have been! Wow! I don't want to spoil it for you the reader other than saying this is one well written story to pick up and read. I enjoyed how this author was able to give the reader a little humor and even some tears in the midst of what all was going on in this read. In the end will these two brothers be able to get over the abuse they both suffered during their dysfunctional childhood and now they were both parents how has this affected their present life? I liked how this author puts the storyline together with answering all the questions....to how will this trip end? Along the trip who all did they come in contact with? Was this trip with getting that 'envelope' left from their father? What happens in Tom and Jason's 'brotherly relationship' after this trip? All of these questions and so much more will be answered fully in this excellent read.

So, be ready for a very tensed, emotional journey, sentimental, a travel across country, little mystery and even some humor as "Ashes" will bring it all to you front and center all the way to the very end. Would I recommend? YES!

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Author 23 books158 followers
February 21, 2017
Brothers Tom and Jason Prendergast have been summoned to their late father’s lawyer’s office to be told that, unless they fulfil his wishes and scatter his ashes in Seattle, they may not inherit the contents of an envelope he’s left for them. The men, both in their fifties, have been at loggerheads for years. This looks like being the most uncomfortable road trip ever. The story moves between the present day and their constant bickering, back to their childhood, and scenes of the monstrous bullying their father subjected them to. They had each other, though, until things fell apart.

The relationship between the brothers, whose lives had taken such different paths, was initially very prickly and filled with animosity. As the story progressed, they reminisced and their relationship evolved. Their father’s final instruction brought them to the place of his choosing. At this point, they found something he’d kept from them since they were small. They found it almost too late.

The story had a lot of dark humour in it, which I enjoyed. I also loved the growing sense of trust between the warring brothers. The whole book had a kind of roundness to it, a fitness and a satisfying ending. Steven Manchester’s writing style suits this story which I enjoyed very much. Be aware that the story finishes at 81% of the book and you won’t be taken by surprise, as I was, by the end arriving when it did.

I received an advance review copy of Ashes.
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649 reviews54 followers
January 3, 2017
With all the stopping to think about things, in a good way, this title took a while for me to read. I really enjoyed the interaction between the brothers. They reminded me, a bit, of the guys from the sitcom Yes Dear and a little bit of The Odd Couple. As for the ending and what the mystery of their journey was, I was totally off on where I thought things were going. I highly recommend this book and look forward to more Manchester reads.
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581 reviews66 followers
March 17, 2017
College professor Tom Prendergast, and his estranged brother, Jason, a prison officer, go on a cross-country road trip to Seattle to scatter the ashes of their sadistic father. Neither of them wants to do it, but they are both curious to discover the contents of their father's letter, which will only be read once they have completed their mission and return to Massachusetts.

The brothers haven't seen each other in fifteen years, for reasons which are eventually revealed. Alternating chapters give us each brother's point-of-view and allow us to see how their opinions of each other change throughout the course of the book. During their trip, they recall the happy times in their childhood, but they also remember the cruelty and humiliation endured at the hands of their monster of a father. It was a time when the brothers formed a united front and relied on each other for protection. This is a realization they will come back to, even while they now find themselves bickering, like the kids they were, over such topics as radio stations, gambling, sex, the death penalty, helping strangers, and religion. There is a bit too much toilet humor for my liking, but I guess that's how two brothers would talk to each other.

We discover that Jason, who initially appears to be a boorish oaf, is, in fact, a caring, compassionate, and honorable man, while the educated and sophisticated Tom is actually a spineless coward. We watch both brothers grow as the trip progresses, and we get to see how their lives change after this momentous road trip. Suffice it to say, their father helps bring his sons back together, and he gives them a very special surprise I did not see coming. Full of drama, tragedy, and humor, this story will stay with you for a long time.

I received this book in return for an honest review.

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6,598 reviews240 followers
February 6, 2017
It has been a while since I have read a book from this author. This book made me remember why I first fell in love with Mr. Manchester's writing. He writes with such passion. All of his stories and characters come alive. It was like I was back with family. Which is fitting as this book is about two brothers, Jason and Tom.

Jason and Tom were likable and relatable guys. However, this could have not ended up being the case. They could have both been jerks. The journey that Jason and Tom took was life changing. I really felt like I grew closer to them both as the story went on. The brothers may have thought that their father was playing one of his twisted games with them but in the end I kind of think that even he was asking for forgiveness with where the end of their road trip took them. Ashes will have you thankful for family either by blood or close friends. Ashes is a memorable read!
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4,365 reviews128 followers
February 22, 2017
Through flashbacks, memories, and story telling while on their journey, we find out the kind of childhood the brothers had. Their mother had died when they were very young and their father was a mean man. He often pushed the boys to fight against each other. He called them horrible names. Even as adults, they realize their father has a great deal of influence over them.

It was interesting to see how the brothers changed as they traveled together. They had hated each other and had had no contact for fifteen years. Being in a car together for days forced them to confront misunderstandings, wrong opinions, etc. They find they share some of the same struggles. They realize some of the misconceptions that had kept them apart. Both men grew as a result of the transforming road experience.

Manchester has created a story that is definitely for male readers. This female reader had a hard time with the crude and vulgar language. I found the coarse sex talk disturbing and offensive. There is “man humor” that I didn't think was very funny. Perhaps men would appreciate it. The vulgar language certainly painted a good picture of what the brothers are like as they begin their journey.

That being said, there are tender times in the novel I really appreciated. Manchester sometimes has a way with words too. For example, when the brothers sit down in a restaurant, “a smiling skeleton wrapped in tan skin” brings them their water.

I recommend this novel to men who would like to read an adult coming of age story. The character transformation in the men is rewarding. If the coarse and vulgar talk would not be bothersome to potential readers, there is a good, heartwarming story contained within the book's pages.

I received a complimentary egalley of this book through Providence Book Promotions. My comments are an independent and honest review.
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177 reviews11 followers
March 27, 2017
Steven Manchester has done it again. I've read all of his books and reviewed most of them but this one showed me yet another dimension to this author. As he works his way into the story of two estranged brothers who must drive their recently deceased father's ashes cross country in order to receive the contents of a mysterious envelope left by the father, he shocked me. Not only did he set up circumstances unlike any in his other books, but he used raw and sometimes gutter language to establish one of the brother's identity. I actually looked back to be sure this was the book he had asked me to read. That being established I continued on through the all too believable but constantly surprising story of the brothers' trip together with "Pop's" ashes. A college professor and a prison corrections officer in a car together for a week after a rift of many years pull us into their lives with humor as well as pathos but always with hope that they can work through their messed up lives. Steven is a man of faith and even in, perhaps especially in, the most emotionally charged moments in this book, you feel that faith without being slapped in the face with it. I have a new favorite Steven Manchester book and this is it! Thank you, Steven, for allowing me this experience.
566 reviews4 followers
February 17, 2017
This is really 4.5 ⭐️️. This book made me laugh, cry and think about some of what the brothers were discussing. It was totally different than what I thought it would be. The brothers were Jason and Tom. Their father died when both were grown and living on their own. They both have grown children. As typical brothers, they can not even agree on a radio station that they both liked. Jason was the oldest brother and often liked to share his philosophy with Tom. Sometimes this philosophy made a lot of sense. He told Tom ...." when someone tries to cause you misery, the best retaliation is to be happy...". Yes, it's a good book. Thank you to NetGalley and Fiction Studio Books for allowing me to read an advance copy for my honest review.
12 reviews
February 7, 2017
I loved Ashes so much, that I read it twice, which helped me to understand the estrangement of the brothers and why the father seems like an unfeeling tyrant humiliating his sons whenever he could. He did whatever he could so that his sons would grow to be good and respectable men. Though it may not have looked like it, this was true love for his sons.
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Author 4 books8 followers
November 7, 2016
I totally got into this book. A great story about two middle aged brothers who despise each other who have to take a cross country road trip together. Over the trip they have to confront their messed up childhood with their abusive father. Can they possibly forgive each other for all those past betrayals? Manchester did an amazing job with this one.
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867 reviews49 followers
March 27, 2017
This is a fascinating view of family issues and, more importantly, life choices.

Jason and Tom Prendergast are brothers who don’t see that they have much in common except an abusive father whom they both consider an SOB. Their father, who raised the boys, has died and left a letter for them that they can only claim if they join together to take his ashes across country. They must provide picture proof to the attorney to be entitled to open the letter. Both men are reluctant as they are middle aged men who have been estranged for years – once by a childhood betrayal which was compounded by an adult betrayal. Yet their curiosity compels them to proceed.

Jason is a tough prison guard who takes no guff from anyone. Tom is a college professor who appears to have a meek, passive-aggressive nature. Although neither brother is initially very likeable, the author uses the road trip to reveal the depths of the characters, their emotional barriers and vulnerabilities; their dreams and disappointments in life. The men have matured through different career paths but they discover that each has strengths the other doesn’t have and they have a common tie in their love and caring for their children.

Family drama is not my usual book selection. (As a former divorce attorney, I have seen my fair share of dysfunctional families.) I selected this story for review because I was curious to see how the author dealt with the theme. Kudos to Steven Manchester as he made this drama engaging and relatable.

I was impressed how Mr. Manchester slowly showed the brothers their common core and their unique strengths. I was fascinated by the many issues that were subtly addressed through the journey: police profiling, truckers, child custody, volunteering to help others, relational religion versus liturgical religion, the meaning of honor in life and the most important legacies of life.

There is a good bit of gritty language and a few crude scenes – both not my favorite reading. On the other hand, there is wonderful phrasing and an excellent portrayal of lives that may hit close to home for many. I’m not sure if it is too much of a spoiler but I feel compelled to share one lesson that I loved that was expressed in this story. The brothers discover, as they share their memories and current situations, that we make the choices how to live our lives despite our parents, spouses or careers. We can choose to do right or wrong and we can choose to be angry and bitter or move on and find our own happiness.

I like that the characters surprised me at times. The end of the journey and its aftermath have an emotional surprise and impact. I recommend this to readers who do enjoy family drama and especially to readers who might have estranged family members. This story provides a perspective that is worth reading.

I received this from the author and Providence Book Promotions. My rating 4.25.
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529 reviews62 followers
February 20, 2017
I received an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Estranged brothers, Tom and Jason Prendergast have one thing in common. An abhorrence towards their alcoholic and abusive father. The man left years of scars that no one can see. Scars that no one understands, but them. It’s been years since they have seen each other. It’s not until their father’s death that they are forced to face each other again. Tension is high. Neither brother willing to let go of the deception of the other. Even in death, their father haunts them. He’s made a demand for them to drive across the country to scatter his ashes. It’s a stipulation that neither brother wants to participate in, but because of circumstances, they both decide to do so. And it will forever change the trajectory of their lives.

This book is so much more than a journey. It’s an experience. Tom and Jason relive a lot of the pain caused by their father as they embark on this long drive together. Their pain is deep and full of layers that neither knew existed. They realize just how much their past currently affects them. There is also anger and resentment. The betrayal is something that these brothers can’t simply put behind them. It’s at the forefront of everything. Their resentment and their inability to move on. I don’t want to talk too much about the plot. But the author is definitely talented in his ability to truly allow the reader to feel the depth of emotions and connections of these characters.

I’d like to admit something. I am usually a contemporary romance kind of reader. And this has no romance at all. But when I read the blurb, something spoke to me. I felt like this was a story that I needed to read. And I am so glad I did. The writing is absolutely magnetic with it’s refined prose and compelling storyline. The author is definitely a master in his craft of storytelling as he allows the reader to completely resonate with his characters’ story. You feel their pain and sorrow, but also their joy and laughter. These men are older than the characters I’m used to reading about, yet I found myself completely enthralled by what these two have been through and what was to come. The way this book was executed and written, allowed me to emotionally connect with the character regardless of our differences.

Ashes was a poignant and thought provoking read for me. The story is so much deeper than any review could ever describe. The author tactfully covers so many relevant and sensitive topics. And he does so with a decorum that I found to be admirable. This was my first read by this author and definitely not my last.
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Author 1 book19 followers
March 20, 2017
Two engaging characters with different personalities because of the way they responded to their abusive upbringing. Yet they have a sibling’s bond. Although life misunderstandings drove them apart for over a decade, they were forced together to complete a cross country road trip in hopes of gaining an inheritance.

If these two brothers really hated each other, why did they stop to eat at sit-in diners, stop to sleep, and stop to sight see? With two people, it seems like they could have switched off with driving - day and night - and made the trip a lot faster. Truckers drive crazy hours so why couldn't they? Guess they really didn't hate each other that much.

They were constantly stopping for dine-in food. I have to say, reading this book made me really hungry. The food did sound delicious.

I wasn't at all surprised at the ending. I actually hoped that would be the conclusion. Considering the type of man their father was, it came as no surprise to me. I'm actually surprised that they were so curious about an envelope that they would go through with the trip. It does show that they really don't hate each other - just estranged for a while.

My favorite character was Jason's daughter. She seems like a really nice person. A bit spoiled if she was letting her mom convince her to spend a ridiculous amount of money on ridiculous additions to the wedding, but I love her relationship with her dad and kindness to her uncle. Second favorite character was Jason. I loved the type of person he was. The only thing I struggled with was the fact of his weight. If he was a tough guy always getting involved to stop the prison fights and standing up to prisoners to keep order, then how could he be overweight? I have seen the stereotype of prison guards as fat and lazy - but that is because they only sit and stair at monitors, not actually get into the action. Just because he enjoyed eating, my mind didn’t want to accept his description.

I like how quickly they remembered old times and began to make amends. It was a strong brothers relationship that they had growing up. It's sad to think how many children have to live through similar situations. It would make it even worse if they didn't have a sibling supporting them.
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1,379 reviews130 followers
March 6, 2017
Ashes is a story about the animosity and estrangement of two middle-aged brothers, Jason and Tom Prendergast. Jason is a correction's officer at a prison and Tom is a Professor. They have not seen each other in 15 years but are brought together, albeit reluctantly, by the death of their father. The letter they receive from the lawyer is that their father has already been cremated but their task is to travel across country to Seatle to spread the ashes. In order to find out what is in the letter that was left for them with the instructions, they need to follow their father's request. Thus starts the week long cross country trek to do what is required of them.

What follows is a testy trip, and we learn about what transpired and caused the estrangement between the brothers. Jason is divorced and is in the process of his daughter's wedding plans. Tom is unhappy in his marriage after he found that his wife cheated on him. We learn that Tom and Jason's father was extremely cruel to the boys and we get a glimpse into each brother's version of their young lives.

As with all of Mr.Manchester's books that I have read, you get pulled into the story rather quickly. With humor and a lot of bickering back and forth, anger on both parts as to what happened years ago. Is there a happy ever after? Well go get your own copy! I highly recommend this book if you are a fan of Steven Manchester, and even if you haven't read anything by him, you can't go wrong!

668 reviews3 followers
March 19, 2017
I'd give this story more than 5 stars if I could!!!!

Words aren't enough to describe the feelings you'll get from reading this story. It's sad, enlightening, heart-warming and real! As these two brothers embark on a roadtrip that would finally give them the closure, they needed, from their father, they will find that there's more to the trip as they look back on their childhood and take stock of their present.

This may not be the romance story I usually read, but it's undisputable that this story is full of love. Jason and Tom's journey is heart-warming and an eye-opener. This is the kind of story that will definitely stay with you for a long time.

I was provided a copy for review purposes.
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1,642 reviews20 followers
March 15, 2017
Ashes is a story about two estranged brothers in their early fifties. Their abusive father that they have not seen in years has passed away and he sends them on a cross country road trip to spread his ashes. A long the way they face their pasts, each other and their futures. This is a story of coming to terms with your own mortality. It was a journey that had surprises. At its core it was a very touching story.
I found this book to be very enlightening. It made me think of my own life as I am their age. I loved this book because it was a thought provoking book.
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252 reviews16 followers
February 21, 2017
Jason and Tom Prendergast may be brothers but they haven't had anything to do with each other for years. Raised by an abusive single father, the boys went their separate ways and never looked back. But when their father dies, his last impact on their lives is to push them together into a road trip across the country to spread his ashes and receive some sort of mysterious reward. Neither brother wants to take the trip, but they can't resist the potential inheritance that may be waiting for them at the end.

Ashes by Steven Manchester takes us along for the ride while Jason and Tom are forced to spend an entire week in a car together, unwillingly revisiting their past because of the one man that they both can agree to hate. The frustrations of hearing them speak but not listen to each other, and the humorous antics they adopt to annoy one another, make the ride rather bumpy but entertaining for the reader. Their dysfunctional childhood is brought to life as they reminisce about the way their father simultaneously brought them together and drove them apart.

I enjoyed these two brothers who drove me crazy at times. There's a lot more to the story than just the past. We get a glimpse into their current lives in which they both face challenges and changes. Both men grow throughout the ride, not just in their relationship with each other but also as individuals. It's definitely a character-driven novel that takes them both through important life changes.

If you enjoy humorous family stories, and the adventure of a road trip, I recommend you pick up Ashes by Steven Manchester, which will be released tomorrow.
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1,179 reviews53 followers
February 21, 2017
This is the first Steven Manchester book I've read. Typically I read LGBTQ books and this is not in that category but I feel like it's a book that sort of folds into all the genres. I didn't know quite what to expect from this author or the story. My first thought upon reading the synopsis was, emotional. I wasn't wrong with my initial thought. There are all sorts of emotions that come out to play in this.

There was a constant twinge of familiarity when reading this book. I myself am estranged from my sister so I really fell into the brothers, Jason and Tom. No, I'm nowhere near reconciliation but there were times I found myself nodding or internally arguing with Tom or Jason. I understood far too much.

On the other side of all this was their father. They hold the ashes of a man who was truly cruel. Mentally and physically abusive. He had more love for the bottle than he did for either of his sons. There's a whispering "good riddance" that echoes throughout this book that this man, a tormentor, is gone.

Meeting Tom and Jason, they're opposites and it's very evident. Jason, an almost retired prison guard who drives a truck, smokes, and is gritty. Tom is a salad eating, prim & proper college professor. They clash over everything!

This is a book about a journey two brothers take and end up reconnecting. Of course that was never their intention to do so. Originally, it's the morbid curiosity to see what's in the envelope their father left them. Of course they get nothing unless they travel together to scatter his ashes.

I loved the writing. There's such depth and emotion in this story and in the characters. These brothers rediscover each other and realize different isn't always bad. You'll laugh, cry, you'll rage and get frustrated. But in the end you won't be sorry.
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November 16, 2016
An Attorneys letter to estranged brothers, Jason and Tom Prendergast, tells them their father has died and summons them to the reading of his last will. It is a frosty reunion for the brothers at the lawyer's office as they have had no contact in over 15 years and their dislike of each other is apparent immediately. Bad memories, too, of their sadistic father, do nothing to relieve their tensions and they just want to get this over and get back to their lives. As his last wish, Sam Prendergast has requested that his sons transport and spread his ashes to an address in Seattle, Washington. As he never liked to fly, he insists the men take his remains to its final resting place via automobile. When that is done, the sons will return to the Attorney's office and be entitled to
read what is in the sealed envelope. Jason and Tom refuse at once. However, it is with a lot of curiosity that they both agree to do it. Seattle here we come!

Jason is a prison guard working for the Massachusetts Department of Correction, counting the days until he can retire from a job that he hates. His mantra is "just two more years to go." Divorced, the love of his life is his daughter, Miranda, and food, lots of food. This is not a good time for him to take a trip especially with his obnoxious brother. Never would be the best time. He has vacation time so he prepares to leave but with lots of misgivings.

Tom works as a Professor. At night he dabbles in stocks and bonds.. He is in a marriage that is broken with two children who are too busy to return his calls or texts. His brother is a bully and the last thing he wants to do is be with him in a car for an extended period of time. They might come to blows again. What else is new? He packs and prepares to fulfill his father's last request.

ASHES is a compassionate, often funny story, of family dysfunction. I cheered at the hopeful ending. I enjoyed both Jason and Tom in this heartwarming story of their amazing journey together. It is a book, that I was unable to put down, turning the pages, while laughing out loud at their interactions. I give it 5 stars and recommend it highly to everyone looking for a read that transports you along for the ride, and shows the importance of forgiving our loved ones Steve Manchester writes a poignant tale while describing the brothers begrudging cross-country trek.. What bittersweet memories of their youth, the cruel treatment from their father, the longing for their mother, and the rememberings of their shared history. I loved it. Bravo, Steve Manchester.




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309 reviews2 followers
February 18, 2017
“Tom and Jason, brothers who grew up rough, pitted against each other by a father who was harsh, cruel and unforgiving. Now Adults, they do just fine apart, thank you very much! Then their father dies and when his will is read, they get a shock. They have to travel cross country, to scatter his ashes then return to find out the contents of an envelope. Two very different men, each scarred in his own way, drive each other crazy as they make their way toward the West Coast. Memories surface, opening old wounds.
Slowly, they begin to see that they maybe could find a way to connect as adults, in spite of their dad. The end of their quest brings more bitterness. But their newfound brotherhood may just survive one more dig from good old dad. At times hard to read, both man’s pain raw and festering, it gives a look into an eventual triumph over a dysfunctional start.”
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242 reviews5 followers
February 20, 2017
I absolutely enjoyed reading this story. A heartwarming read for sure about two brothers.The Author did a great job with the characters and deatials of this story. I could feel every emotion that they had. I could also image the road trip and the brothers. Just about everything you can imagine since the details were very well done. 

There were times that made me laugh and shed a tear during the brothers journey. A very well written book indeed and can't wait to read more of his books. A job well done. 

If you read fiction I highly recommend this book to you. You will be surprised. 

I received a ARC of this book to give a honest review.
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1,933 reviews253 followers
November 13, 2016
“He’s fat as a wood tick now, he thought, grinning, and he looks like he’s ready to pop. Jason looked straight at him, as if reading his mind. Tom immediately looked away, his rapid heartbeat starting to pound in his ears, intensifying his physical pain. Unbelievable, he thought. After all the years and all the distance, his elder brother- by only two years- still scared the hell out of him.”

Some stories are about siblings as thick as thieves, but not all siblings live in the world of picket fence sitcoms. Jason and Tom Prendergast are still recovering from a childhood with their abusive father and have spent the past years avoiding each-other. One is a prison guard, one an intellectual (a college professor) and both can reduce each other to a childlike state in seconds. What is it about families that as far as you go in life, as successful as you become once you see them the old you returns with a vengeance. It’s far worse with brothers and sisters, particularly ones you have a difficult relationship with. Tom and Jason become sniveling boys again on their cross country road trip to find out what good old dad has left them in the sealed envelope. How dare their father make a last demand upon his sons, forcing the estranged brothers to come together again? Each pick at each other, they may be middle aged but maturity is out the car window with these two.

Rotten memories of their now deceased father crawl into their head-space, and both have problems within their own families, love lives that are along for the journey. As the ‘boys’ travel, their mutual disgust for one another changes and there may just be a chance to move beyond past betrayals and a monster of a father into a semblance of brotherhood. I laughed at the biting insults the brothers give and take, it’s raw and genuine, somehow their age made it that much more realistic. Both Tom and Jason will learn as much about themselves and their place in their lives as they do about each other. There is change on the horizon and sometimes the distance between two brothers can be the father.

Publication Date: February 21, 2017

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421 reviews67 followers
February 28, 2017
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I’ve always been dubious about road trip books, mainly because I hadn’t read one I truly enjoyed. Ashes by Steven Manchester proved to be the exception.

Two estranged brothers must travel across America to spread their hated father’s ashes before they will learn if he left them anything. But Jason and Tom haven’t spoken for fifteen years – and neither has the desire to rekindle their relationship. Stuck in a car with each other, however, has an interesting effect and the two brothers start to reconnect.

To start with, I didn’t like Jason or Tom – one was too aggressive, the other too weak. But as their journey progressed and emotions began to be displayed (other than calling each other names), they grew on me. Behind the aggression, Jason is genuine in wanting to help people. Tom is slightly naïve, but has his heart in the right place and he cares about his brother. By the end, I wanted to give them both a hug!

Ashes touched me in a way I wasn’t expecting. Maybe I was in just the right mood to be receptive to it? Living for yourself and being happy is the most important thing in life – and the thing that often is overlooked. Ashes displays a powerful message about looking after yourself and striving for contentment.

It also focused on abuse and how fear, anger and hate can dictate our lives. It’s made clear that it didn’t have to be that way for everyone, that there is an escape and a chance to be happy.

The fact that Ashes got to me on an emotional level shows that Manchester is a strong writer. His characters were well-established and certainly three-dimensional – the two brothers discovered they had a lot of emotions to deal with.

There were a few too many meals being described but in general, the focus remained on the plot rather than the road-trip.

A short but enjoyable read that makes you think about your life choices. I would recommend it.
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