This book was a journey of love and self-healing. This book was written over a five-year process of cognitive therapies coupled with group circling and individual enlightenment, growth, and self-acceptance. Through this book I hope the reader begins to recognize that it is never too late to forgive heal and start over. Each person on this earth has delt with some kind of trauma at some point in their lives. Whether it was in utero, and they are entirely unaware, or it was from war, a physical altercation or a sexual assault, emotional abuse or silent narcissistic abuse. We all struggle in this life, Dear me; is my story of my struggles early in life. Dear me; was my way of writing love letters to the little girl who was aching inside of me for healing, self-love, and acceptance.