I absolutely adored everything about this book. As someone who wishes she was a gamer, but super is not, I got drawn right in to the descriptions and excitement around all the games included in this book. Yong's knowledge of/passion for games is obvious, and she describes them with such a light but enthusiastic touch, that even total non-gamers like me will be sucked right in to the thrill of it all.
And that's just the gaming stuff! The core relationships in this story - Sam and her rival, Jay, Sam and her parents, Sam and her sister, and Sam and her best friend - are all written with such heart, and such empathy for everyone involved. It's SO rare to find a book that delivers realistic conflict between characters that doesn't rely on one of the characters actually just being a terrible person and/or unrealistic miscommunication. But Two Can Play That Game beautifully delivers genuine conflicts that exist through no real malice or negligence of any of the characters.
One of the absolute standout relationship dynamics was between Sam and her best friend, Aneeshka. Sam and Aneeshka are both young women of colour trying to break into the world of video game development. Their mutual support for each other is a joy, a joy which isn't negated by the undercurrents of envy that are so, so real.
Then there's the central romance, between Sam and Jay, which is a major focus of the book. While I tend to like romances with a fair bit of steaminess, the slow clashing of personalities-turned-meeting of hearts, driven by ambition and playfulness rather than lust, was refreshing and so very enjoyable! Their non-toxic rivalry was such good fun to witness, and it's impossible not to root for them to get together. Yong writes gorgeously about the sense of ease that comes from being with someone from a shared culture, which made for a particularly tender component of their budding relationship (even if things start to get a little claustrophobic, with the threat of the auntie network always hanging over them!).
Finally, there's Sam's relationship with her own ambitions and dreams for the future. She's got all the grand ambition of a teenager who's always been one of the best and brightest in the room, but who knows she's going to have to keep working harder than she ever has to prove herself. And if things maybe stop coming so easily to her... That's enough to shake her entire sense of self, and concept of the future. Sam's process of coming to terms with what she wants from life, and what she's willing to compromise on, was so relatable, and absolutely heartaching in the best way possible to read about.
Plus, on top of all that, this book is chock full of Malaysian-Australian rep, and features a demisexual main character, and an excellent autistic secondary character. You will want to eat all the food described in this book, and also play all the games (for which there's a handy guide in the back!!)
Truly, I could go on and on, but I'll stop with a piece of advice: read this book!