Obviously with the Queen dying people are going to want to read books about her. I enjoyed the book Elizabeth and Margaret by this author so when I was able to get an ARC for this book I was excited. I have read several books, fiction and nonfiction, about the Queen's early life so I did not really learn anything new in the first half of this book. When I finally made it to the 1980s and beyond I could not put it down because I was actually alive for the stuff that happened then and I remember it. I did tear up while reading the last chapter just because I know she died and reading about her being a grandmother and great-grandmother just put a smile on my face. She was raised to not show any emotions but in her older age she seemed to loosen up a little with the young kids at least.
I loved that she called her grandfather Grandpa England when he was King. One of the heartbreaking stories was when Charles and Diana were getting divorced Diana had to lose the appellation HRH (Her Royal Highness). William told her not to worry that when he became king he would give it back to her. When Diana died William and Harry were with the Queen at Balmoral and reading this book I understood a little better why she did not immediately return to London. She was trying to protect William and Harry and keep them busy. Let them grieve privately. After 9/11 in the Queen's speech she said "grief is the price we pay for love."
"There she goes, Elizabeth, poor lonely girl, she will be lonely all her life."
"The Queen was cautious rather than progressive, cleaving to the past and precedent, just like her father. It was her husband who was the agent for change in their partnership."
"She had been trained since the cradle by her father that duty came before everything, including family. She reluctantly had to abandon her children and they virtually didn't see their parents for months on end."
"Over the years dogs and horses helped keep her sane. They responded to her for who she was, not who she is."
"As numerous courtiers have since observed, perhaps with the certainty of hindsight, if the queen had shown as much diligence about the choice of royal brides, particularly the future queen, as she did about the breeding of her horses, the House of Windsor may not have been in such a mess."
"The queen was so controlled that when she did, very occasionally, lose her temper, those present remembered the moment for the rest of their lives."
"The Queen is tight in her own financial affairs but she has been very extravagant with her children, she has indulged them terribly financially."
"A horse wouldn't know she was queen; a horse would just treat her like any other human. She would have to earn a horse's love and respect, not expect it as a given. That must have been such a release for her."
"...always thinking of others before herself."
About Princess Diana dying:
"Once she was convinced that inaction was harmful to the monarchy, everything changed."
"Brought up not to show emotion in public, Margaret, like the queen, found the wailing and keening hard to understand."
"It was quickly pointed out by several media pundits that they never shed a tear for the princess though they cried over a floating piece of metal." (their yacht being sold)
About the Queen and Prince Philip:
"They are very good friends and that is their secret."
"In short Prince Philip was the only man in the world to treat her like a normal human being."