Lovely memoir, and I hardly ever use that word in any of my reviews: Lovely.
But it is. When actor Laura Dern learned her mother (actor Diane Ladd) had only months to live, that her mother's lungs were weakened from exposure to certain chemicals, and yet that exercise might lengthen her life - she took it on. As a challenge. Of love. And so...
They started with brief 15-minutes walks. (Wasn't easy; Diane griped and complained about the length of the walk constantly at the start.) But Laura persevered and when they walked, they talked. (Initially, as a diversion, to keep her mother going.) About their lives. Their childhoods. Boyfriends and husbands and eventually into the truly heavy issues which guide, influence and shape who they are. Their spirituality and religious beliefs. Their thoughts on life, death, children, marriage, and of course, acting!
I found the passages on Diane Ladd's upbringing and how she went into acting to be most interesting indeed. Of a generation just a bit younger than my own mother, (and my mom was a homemaker who left work as soon as she married my father cuz that was expected), many of the issues Diane faced were common for the time. These include: expectations of women in the 40's and 50's; opportunities available to women outside raising a family were mainly secretarial work, teaching and nursing. Then we have prejudices, assumptions, stereotypes. Diane had to work to overcome each and every one, including, sorrily, the expectations of her own family because they were solidly against what she wanted most to do - to act!
Laura, also, encountered problems in her career. So there's a lot of 'give and take' in this book. I came away with great respect for both of them. Strong women. Imaginative, creative, caring. What they had to give up to get what they wanted; what was given back to them in return. Two outstanding and highly talented women, IMO.
Five remarkable stars.