One of the better books I’ve read in the smallish-intro-to-something-queer-for-your-mom-who-doesn’t-get-it-but-wants-to genre.
The voice is warm and generous, not condescending, assumes the best in the reader. Some of the values and the genuineness of this tone make me wonder if the author is a Quaker or something close to it.
One of the things I really loved is that this book manages to touch on some issues and arguments trans people hear all the time, and respond to them in a simple, research-based way that values kindness and assumes the person asking does too.
I loved the section about gender/sex diversity in the animal world. Loved the lefthandedness analogy. Loved the myth-busting throughout, loved the invitation to all people to explore what feels right to them in terms of gender.
This book digs in deep, is simple and readable while managing not to sacrifice the important stuff. I wish some more queer and trans folks would read it - I think we could afford to be more compassionate and open-minded with each other too.