Bella describes her book as being all about "secret women's business - raw, honest and comedic. Women deal with these issues all the time. Fear of failure, the complexities of love, sexual fears and triumphs, commitment phobia, career lust, stalking your dreams." Its a memoir - intimate self portrait.
A best seller in australia and new zealand, I love this book, it's a feel good read that big-ups women, I lend my copy to any girlfriends who feel down for a pick me up. Recommended!
My dear friend Halley brought this book around a couple months ago, saying "here, you'll like this". And indeed she was right. While 'Biting the Big Apple' is by no means profound, it was a highly enjoyable book written in a relaxed & comical writing style that suited my picky self. :-)) Vendramini's book was honest, raw and intimate - very much a memoir of a specific time in her life. And one that I found interesting to read because of my connections to the things about which she wrote (and additionally because of her being an Australian in America, whereas I am an American living in Australia).
Bella writes of her depression & trying to "find herself", trying to get over fears and follow her dreams. She writes of her acting - and her time at the famous Strasberg Institute in NYC. Being an actress myself who studied theatre as my Undergrad, I found her accounts of being a Performing Artist in New York fascinating. I especially loved hearing about her studies at Strasberg. I was reminded of my own time studying acting.
Even more eerie similarities was Bella's relationship with a man who she later discovered was an alcoholic. Reading the chapters about her troubled beau James, and how truly devastating it is to date someone with a substance abuse problem, was like looking into a mirror of my past. She writes with such vividness that my stomach was in knots - I felt nauseous from recognition. I wondered if my friend had lent me this book so that I could think about, and identify with, my own past relationship with an alcoholic. In a way it was more than just a bit hard to read for me, those parts, because it stirred up a lot of grief.
Anyhoooo, I digress. Bella's book is lovely, and I hope others can derive such pleasures from reading it as I did. Not sure it's the kind of novel for just anyone - although, she writes in such a way that you feel a familiarity with her, perhaps even if you don't, like myself, have oodles in common with the woman.
Loved it, I read the Cosmopolitan review and got interested, then couldn't put it down, laugh out loud moments but poignant too, brilliant book, thoroughly recommend.