3.5 stars. This book toggles between the author’s experiences as the Smart family’s publicist and his personal experiences growing up within his family and religion that helped teach and strengthen him. This is a different angle and perspective than Elizabeth’s Smart book, so if you want information on her story I recommend reading that. As someone who enjoys memoirs, I appreciated learning about his life. The part that was most touching was the ongoing story about their family’s volatile relationship with their drunk and angry neighbor. I was impressed by their charity and patience with him, and then appreciated the understanding, transformation, and love in the end. In the PR portion of the story, I really liked seeing the inspiration and community support that kept the Smart family moving forward with hope. I also liked hearing John Walsh’s encouraging role in the story. The author weaves together his faith with his work and life experiences, helping others understand more about the LDS religion.
-After praying together for their efforts to find Elizabeth and being overcome with emotion: “They’re not necessarily crying from what I’ve said, but rather from a collective feeling. Often when an effort is being led and guided by God and his hand is in it, a beautiful unification, love, and power are felt and shared by everyone involved.”
-Larry Miller giving his first interview about buying the Jazz to Chris as a teenager: “Chris, if you remember one thing about today, I hope it will be the power of asking. I granted you the first interview because you asked. Always be willing to ask, you never know where it will take you.”
-“While my culture, religion, history, and people, like most others, are not without their warts, idiosyncrasies, and sins, it always leaves me feeling a little wounded when we’re misrepresented, stereotyped, or written off. I recognize that we are not the only members of a religious group who feel this way, and I’m afraid this trend of mischaracterizing religions is not going to change anytime soon, especially given the tribalism in our country today. While that’s not an optimistic take on society, I’m encouraged and inspired by the resolve of countless people from various backgrounds, religions, and cultures who are genuinely good and who are working in their families, churches, and communities to be more understanding, kind, inclusive and loving of neighbors and associates who are different from themselves.”
-“Overall, I’ve come to realize that the most challenging experiences in life serve to teach us truths we can’t learn on the paths of least resistance. They prepare us to tackle future obstacles and opportunities…Through it all I have discovered that the people and things we often dismiss because they are different, difficult, or don’t perfectly align with our beliefs and perceptions, offer the most valuable lessons. It is part of the human experience for individuals, cultures, and adversity to be underappreciated, but if we shine a light long enough on them, we will see that there is beauty, texture, and purpose in every soul, situation, and struggle.”