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The 3am Shattered Mums' Club
Meet Aisha, Sophy and Mel. Three new mums. All absolutely shattered. For her social media fans, influencer Sophy has the picture-perfect life. But why does she feel so lonely all the time? Older mum Mel wasn’t planning on being a mum later in life. What does this all mean for the career that she loved? Can she ever go back? And Aisha, whose much loved twin boys bring her so much joy, but have caused a rift in her own family that she isn’t sure she can ever fix. Navigating this new world of motherhood is hard. And the only sanity these three friends have is their 3am mums’ club, where they can chat and support each other in the dark of the night as their babies, finally, finally sleep. But in the still of the night, secrets are revealed that could turn all their lives upside down…. more than they already are!
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302 pages, Kindle Edition
Published October 26, 2022
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About the author
Nina Manning
30 books332 followersNina Manning began her career in the catering industry. She has worked as a private chef cooking for royalty and TV personalities.
She has a degree in Psychology and has three books published with Boldwood: The Daughter In Law, The Guilty Wife and The House Mate.
Her fourth Psychological thriller is published in Spring 2021.
Nina is a voracious reader of many genres, is the founding member of a long standing book club and the founder and co-host of a book podcast called Sniffing The Pages.
She is a mother to three young children so when she is not writing or reading she can usually be found scaling a soft play tower or romping in the woods with the family and her chocolate Labrador.
She has a degree in Psychology and has three books published with Boldwood: The Daughter In Law, The Guilty Wife and The House Mate.
Her fourth Psychological thriller is published in Spring 2021.
Nina is a voracious reader of many genres, is the founding member of a long standing book club and the founder and co-host of a book podcast called Sniffing The Pages.
She is a mother to three young children so when she is not writing or reading she can usually be found scaling a soft play tower or romping in the woods with the family and her chocolate Labrador.
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November 20, 2022
for her social media fans, influencer Sophy has the picture-perfect life. But why o=does she feel so lonley all of the time.
Older mum
And Aisha, whose much loved twin boys bring her so much joy but have caused a rift in her own family that she isn't sure she can ever fix.
Navigating this new world of motherhood is hard. And the only sanity these three friends have is their 3am mums' club, where they chat and support each other. But secrets are revealed that could turn their world upside down.
This can be an emotional book to read. The three women, Sophy, Mel and Aisha, enjoy being new mums but they are also struggling. They meet on their way to a mother and baby group and soon become firm friends. This story will be totally relatable to everyone who has been a first-time mum. It did take me a few chapters to get into the book. This is a story of three women who become friends and supported each other through difficult times.
I would like to thank #Netgalley #BoldwoodBiooks for my ARC of #The3amShatteredMunsClub in exchange for an honest review.
Older mum
And Aisha, whose much loved twin boys bring her so much joy but have caused a rift in her own family that she isn't sure she can ever fix.
Navigating this new world of motherhood is hard. And the only sanity these three friends have is their 3am mums' club, where they chat and support each other. But secrets are revealed that could turn their world upside down.
This can be an emotional book to read. The three women, Sophy, Mel and Aisha, enjoy being new mums but they are also struggling. They meet on their way to a mother and baby group and soon become firm friends. This story will be totally relatable to everyone who has been a first-time mum. It did take me a few chapters to get into the book. This is a story of three women who become friends and supported each other through difficult times.
I would like to thank #Netgalley #BoldwoodBiooks for my ARC of #The3amShatteredMunsClub in exchange for an honest review.
September 23, 2022
Thank you to Boldwood Books and NetGalley for providing this ARC.
The opening of this book jolted me awake during my own late night baby feed and then held my mind hostage for days until I finished it. If I didn't have the baby to take care of I think I'd have finished it in one sitting.
Amazing writing. From the cover and description I was expecting a more cutesy story about the 3 moms, their chance meeting and their lives, instead I was hit with the reality of new motherhood and I loved every second of it. It's not often that I'm able to read my own raw, hormone induced, judgy, desperate and angry thoughts in a book instead of the usual saccharine sentiments about birth and motherhood as these magical periods of a woman's life where you have no right to complain. The paragraphs are visually dense and long, but they flow so well, the thoughts and words connect and paint the inner worlds of these 3 women in such a rich and palpable way, I could see them and relate to them to tears.
I looked up the author at some point and realized she usually writes psychological thrillers and it made so much sense. It read like one at points, with my heart skipping beats. Motherhood is often intense like that and I thought the tone was absolutely fitting and refreshing to see.
My one gripe was the ending, I thought the story wrapped a bit earlier than the actual book ended but I wanted nothing more than to see these women win and so I must leave all the stars.
If you're a mom who needs reassurance that you're not going crazy, this is the book for you.
The opening of this book jolted me awake during my own late night baby feed and then held my mind hostage for days until I finished it. If I didn't have the baby to take care of I think I'd have finished it in one sitting.
Amazing writing. From the cover and description I was expecting a more cutesy story about the 3 moms, their chance meeting and their lives, instead I was hit with the reality of new motherhood and I loved every second of it. It's not often that I'm able to read my own raw, hormone induced, judgy, desperate and angry thoughts in a book instead of the usual saccharine sentiments about birth and motherhood as these magical periods of a woman's life where you have no right to complain. The paragraphs are visually dense and long, but they flow so well, the thoughts and words connect and paint the inner worlds of these 3 women in such a rich and palpable way, I could see them and relate to them to tears.
I looked up the author at some point and realized she usually writes psychological thrillers and it made so much sense. It read like one at points, with my heart skipping beats. Motherhood is often intense like that and I thought the tone was absolutely fitting and refreshing to see.
My one gripe was the ending, I thought the story wrapped a bit earlier than the actual book ended but I wanted nothing more than to see these women win and so I must leave all the stars.
If you're a mom who needs reassurance that you're not going crazy, this is the book for you.
October 26, 2022
I knew the second I saw the title of this book and glossed over the blurb it was the book for me. I just wish I had this book when I had given birth because it would have been perfect.
Everything in this book resonated with me, from the loneliness of the girls to the pain, to the depression. It was like I was reliving it all over again and my only regret is I wished I had a group chat like these women as I reckon it would have gotten me through so much.
I did well up a few times reading this and it did have me staying up until 3am to read it. I fell in love with the girls, their stories, and their lives. It is the kind of book to instill hope and warm fuzzy feelings that things will be ok.
Despite being well past the baby stage, a group like this is something I have now. Ok, we don’t text at 3am but we are a group of 3 and we are there for each other no matter what, and it has got me through some days, I think everyone needs a tribe like that.
I adored this book and it just reinforced that we have to be kinder to ourselves and trust our own instincts. It was just perfect and it is what I needed right now, so thank you, Nina.
I already miss these women and I feel even though I’ve experienced about 9 months of their lives, that we haven’t even scratched the surface, and would love to see them back again!! I would hands down read it straight away.
This book is for the everyday woman, mum or to be, it’s just girl power at its best.
Everything in this book resonated with me, from the loneliness of the girls to the pain, to the depression. It was like I was reliving it all over again and my only regret is I wished I had a group chat like these women as I reckon it would have gotten me through so much.
I did well up a few times reading this and it did have me staying up until 3am to read it. I fell in love with the girls, their stories, and their lives. It is the kind of book to instill hope and warm fuzzy feelings that things will be ok.
Despite being well past the baby stage, a group like this is something I have now. Ok, we don’t text at 3am but we are a group of 3 and we are there for each other no matter what, and it has got me through some days, I think everyone needs a tribe like that.
I adored this book and it just reinforced that we have to be kinder to ourselves and trust our own instincts. It was just perfect and it is what I needed right now, so thank you, Nina.
I already miss these women and I feel even though I’ve experienced about 9 months of their lives, that we haven’t even scratched the surface, and would love to see them back again!! I would hands down read it straight away.
This book is for the everyday woman, mum or to be, it’s just girl power at its best.
October 10, 2022
This book had such promise but, after halfway through I found it just a samey. It got boring reading about three families struggling with motherhood. We all know it’s hard looking after a new born but it has it rewards too. The book just seemed to focus on the downside of motherhood. My thanks to Netgalley and the publishers for giving me the opportunity to read this book in return for an honest review.
December 23, 2024
A really easy read, very easy to get into. Just my cup of tea. I Loved it. I found all the three main characters likeable, and relatable too at times. I would highly recommend this book to anyone looking for an easy read, that’s not too complicated.
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December 9, 2023Nina
Nina Manning's "3AM Shattered Mum's Club" is a delightful and relatable read for anyone who has ever navigated the rollercoaster ride of motherhood. The story follows three new mothers, Aisha, Sophy, and Mel, each facing their unique challenges and anxieties.
**What I loved:**
* **Real & relatable characters:** Manning creates characters that feel like real people, complete with their flaws, insecurities, and moments of humor. As a reader, I found myself easily connecting with their struggles and triumphs. Whether it was Aisha's exhaustion with twin babies, Sophy's battle with social media pressure, or Mel's doubts about returning to work, each character's journey felt authentic and believable.
* **Honest portrayal of motherhood:** The book doesn't shy away from the messy and often overwhelming reality of motherhood. It delves into the fatigue, the frustration, and the questioning of self-worth that many mothers experience. However, it also beautifully captures the love, joy, and profound bond that grows between mothers and their children.
* **Friendship as a lifeline:** The "3AM Shattered Mum's Club" is a testament to the importance of supportive friendships, especially during motherhood. The bond between Aisha, Sophy, and Mel is heartwarming and inspiring. Their shared experiences, humor, and encouragement provide them with a much-needed sense of solidarity and strength.
* **Engaging and humorous writing style:** Manning writes with wit and humor, making the book a light and enjoyable read despite the sometimes heavy subject matter. The dialogue feels natural, and the story moves at a good pace.
**Overall:**
"3AM Shattered Mum's Club" is a heartwarming and humorous read that celebrates the challenges and joys of motherhood. It's a book that will resonate with anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed, questioned their decisions, or longed for a supportive community. I highly recommend it to new mothers, seasoned mothers, and anyone who wants to understand the beautiful and complex world of motherhood.
**Rating:** 4 out of 5 stars.
Nina Manning's "3AM Shattered Mum's Club" is a delightful and relatable read for anyone who has ever navigated the rollercoaster ride of motherhood. The story follows three new mothers, Aisha, Sophy, and Mel, each facing their unique challenges and anxieties.
**What I loved:**
* **Real & relatable characters:** Manning creates characters that feel like real people, complete with their flaws, insecurities, and moments of humor. As a reader, I found myself easily connecting with their struggles and triumphs. Whether it was Aisha's exhaustion with twin babies, Sophy's battle with social media pressure, or Mel's doubts about returning to work, each character's journey felt authentic and believable.
* **Honest portrayal of motherhood:** The book doesn't shy away from the messy and often overwhelming reality of motherhood. It delves into the fatigue, the frustration, and the questioning of self-worth that many mothers experience. However, it also beautifully captures the love, joy, and profound bond that grows between mothers and their children.
* **Friendship as a lifeline:** The "3AM Shattered Mum's Club" is a testament to the importance of supportive friendships, especially during motherhood. The bond between Aisha, Sophy, and Mel is heartwarming and inspiring. Their shared experiences, humor, and encouragement provide them with a much-needed sense of solidarity and strength.
* **Engaging and humorous writing style:** Manning writes with wit and humor, making the book a light and enjoyable read despite the sometimes heavy subject matter. The dialogue feels natural, and the story moves at a good pace.
**Overall:**
"3AM Shattered Mum's Club" is a heartwarming and humorous read that celebrates the challenges and joys of motherhood. It's a book that will resonate with anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed, questioned their decisions, or longed for a supportive community. I highly recommend it to new mothers, seasoned mothers, and anyone who wants to understand the beautiful and complex world of motherhood.
**Rating:** 4 out of 5 stars.
November 6, 2022
This was an enjoyable read about three new mums, each outwardly appearing to have the perfect life, but each hiding their own struggles as we all do.
Sophy is living with her boyfriend, but he appears to be losing interest in her, as she is with him.
Mel has a traumatic secret from her past, which she has tried to bury, but which has raised its head.
Aisha has found hidden letters sent from her father to her mother, although her mother had always said she lost contact with him when he left 20 years ago. Also, who is the person who appears to be watching her house?
The mums meet at a new baby group which has been cancelled at the last minute and bond over a coffee, discussing how difficult and lonely that 3am feed is, and promise to be there for each other. The 3am Shattered Mums’ Club begins.
I really enjoyed getting to know the three mums and experiencing the bond between them deepen. They have only known each other a short time but by shared experiences they feel they have been friends forever. The support of other first time mums is priceless when you have just had a baby.
I am sure anyone who has given birth will find shared experiences in this book, and perhaps it just might help some new mums to reach out and set up their own support group.
Sophy is living with her boyfriend, but he appears to be losing interest in her, as she is with him.
Mel has a traumatic secret from her past, which she has tried to bury, but which has raised its head.
Aisha has found hidden letters sent from her father to her mother, although her mother had always said she lost contact with him when he left 20 years ago. Also, who is the person who appears to be watching her house?
The mums meet at a new baby group which has been cancelled at the last minute and bond over a coffee, discussing how difficult and lonely that 3am feed is, and promise to be there for each other. The 3am Shattered Mums’ Club begins.
I really enjoyed getting to know the three mums and experiencing the bond between them deepen. They have only known each other a short time but by shared experiences they feel they have been friends forever. The support of other first time mums is priceless when you have just had a baby.
I am sure anyone who has given birth will find shared experiences in this book, and perhaps it just might help some new mums to reach out and set up their own support group.
October 24, 2022
The 3am Shattered Mums Club by Nina Manning is a charming contemporary novel that had me captivated from the start.
An eclectic mix of new mums were very easy to empathise with. Although it is nearly thirty years since I had my youngest, I was immediately transported back to the early days of motherhood!
3am is definitely the loneliest hour when everyone else in the whole world seems to be sleeping. It is a brilliant idea to set up a WhatsApp group in order to connect with others who are awake at that time.
Being a new mum is not always a bed of roses. Bodies need time to recover but babies are high maintenance. I found the problems faced by the new mums were universal – tiredness, leaking milk, soreness etc. It always helps to talk with others who are in the same boat.
Nina Manning shows how relationships may change with a new baby. Some step up to the plate, others are selfish.
The 3am Shattered Mums Club was a delightful read. It was told from three different and alternating points of view. All the characters were warm and welcoming. They opened their hearts and bared their souls.
It takes a village to raise a child. It takes friendship and support to help new mums survive.
The 3am Shattered Mums Club is a wonderful read whatever your age. It is a book of friendship, support and love. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
I received a free copy from Rachel’s Random Resources for a blog tour. A favourable review was not required. All opinions were my own.
An eclectic mix of new mums were very easy to empathise with. Although it is nearly thirty years since I had my youngest, I was immediately transported back to the early days of motherhood!
3am is definitely the loneliest hour when everyone else in the whole world seems to be sleeping. It is a brilliant idea to set up a WhatsApp group in order to connect with others who are awake at that time.
Being a new mum is not always a bed of roses. Bodies need time to recover but babies are high maintenance. I found the problems faced by the new mums were universal – tiredness, leaking milk, soreness etc. It always helps to talk with others who are in the same boat.
Nina Manning shows how relationships may change with a new baby. Some step up to the plate, others are selfish.
The 3am Shattered Mums Club was a delightful read. It was told from three different and alternating points of view. All the characters were warm and welcoming. They opened their hearts and bared their souls.
It takes a village to raise a child. It takes friendship and support to help new mums survive.
The 3am Shattered Mums Club is a wonderful read whatever your age. It is a book of friendship, support and love. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
I received a free copy from Rachel’s Random Resources for a blog tour. A favourable review was not required. All opinions were my own.
October 25, 2022
It has been quite some time since my children were babies, but this book brought it all back to me! The highs and the lows. I really enjoyed it and even though I am now a grandmother, I still found it an excellent read and very relatable.
Sophy, Mel and Aisha are three new mums who meet by chance. Despite being very different women with different situations when it comes to partners etc, they click and then become each others "people". I really like that, a lot. There is no way that new mothers should be left to just get on with things. It takes a village, and all of that.
Of course, we hear all about how intense brand new motherhood is and the author has clearly been there, done that, herself. There is definitely something about 3am - there you are, alone with your baby and the whole world seems to be asleep, apart from the two of you. I remember those days like it was yesterday.
A great read, really enjoyed it.
4.5 stars from me.
Thank you to NetGalley and Boldwood Books.
Sophy, Mel and Aisha are three new mums who meet by chance. Despite being very different women with different situations when it comes to partners etc, they click and then become each others "people". I really like that, a lot. There is no way that new mothers should be left to just get on with things. It takes a village, and all of that.
Of course, we hear all about how intense brand new motherhood is and the author has clearly been there, done that, herself. There is definitely something about 3am - there you are, alone with your baby and the whole world seems to be asleep, apart from the two of you. I remember those days like it was yesterday.
A great read, really enjoyed it.
4.5 stars from me.
Thank you to NetGalley and Boldwood Books.
November 2, 2022
I've read several of Manning's other books, which have all been thrillers, so I was optimistic about this one with it being a lighthearted, fun read.
I had nothing to worry about, it was brilliant. I don't have children but was able to draw on things friends had told me about motherhood, lack of sleep etc.
It has a well crafted plot, some absolutely realistic characters in the shape of our shattered mum's and I'm sure many will find them relatable.
An entertaining quick, easy read that was highly enjoyable.
Many thanks to Rachel's Random Resources for my tour spot.
Rating ⭐⭐⭐⭐
I had nothing to worry about, it was brilliant. I don't have children but was able to draw on things friends had told me about motherhood, lack of sleep etc.
It has a well crafted plot, some absolutely realistic characters in the shape of our shattered mum's and I'm sure many will find them relatable.
An entertaining quick, easy read that was highly enjoyable.
Many thanks to Rachel's Random Resources for my tour spot.
Rating ⭐⭐⭐⭐
January 17, 2023
Aisha, Mel and Sophy are my heroes! It is amazing and awesome to see how these strong women forming a close friendship with each other due to their differing experiences in motherhood. Each of them has their own problems and situations to deal with and I like the way they call themselves the 3am shattered mum's club. It was refreshing to see how they lean on each other for support. By the way I really hated Jeff in this for obvious reasons. At one point during the story I got so pissed off with his attitude that I said "Bastard" out loud - to which my fiance asked me what's the matter lol.
November 5, 2022
The 3AM Shattered Mum's Club is the fourth novel by Nina Manning I've reviewed after Her Darkest Fear, The House Mate and The Bridesmaid, but it's the first women's fiction one.
I was curious to find out how Nina wrote in another genre as I enjoyed the thrillers of hers that I have.
I am not a mum yet, but I loved the individual personalities of the women and the babies were so cute.
I feel this is a good novel for mums and mums to be. I think that it has very good attention to detail and the pacing was excellent. I was hooked on the novel.
4 stars
I was curious to find out how Nina wrote in another genre as I enjoyed the thrillers of hers that I have.
I am not a mum yet, but I loved the individual personalities of the women and the babies were so cute.
I feel this is a good novel for mums and mums to be. I think that it has very good attention to detail and the pacing was excellent. I was hooked on the novel.
4 stars
November 28, 2022
Loved it
December 31, 2022
This story follows three new mum's that start to text each other when they're up in the middle of the night feeding their babies.
November 2, 2022
Ofcourse I had to read this one just off the title alone. As many of you will know I have a 6 month old myself so it was scary how much I could relate to parts of this story and understand it all as I’m living through it myself. I also have my own little 3am mums club when we all up feeding or with just wide awake babies.
A very relateable story for many readers especially mothers. Some part of this book is bound to remind you of yourself. Parts are funny some more serious but a perfect read which follows three new mothers who find comfort and friendship within each other including a same sex couple who did IVF. I enjoyed it all! The babies. The mums. The ups. The downs. A brilliant read. Highly recommend! A well deserved four stars from me. I would have devoured this book but alas I had my own baby stopping me from doing that. Oh the irony.
A very relateable story for many readers especially mothers. Some part of this book is bound to remind you of yourself. Parts are funny some more serious but a perfect read which follows three new mothers who find comfort and friendship within each other including a same sex couple who did IVF. I enjoyed it all! The babies. The mums. The ups. The downs. A brilliant read. Highly recommend! A well deserved four stars from me. I would have devoured this book but alas I had my own baby stopping me from doing that. Oh the irony.
October 8, 2022
I received this book for free in return for an honest review from Netgalley. I haven’t forgotten how awful that being awake in the middle of the night feeling is when you are alone with your newborn. This is the really lovely story of three brand new mums: Sophy, Mel and Aisha. All loving being mums but struggling in their own way. They meet by co-incidence on their way to a mum and baby group and end up becoming friends. This is a wonderful story of the friendship and support they give each other at difficult times - usually at 3am! I loved this story. I took my right back to when my older teens were babies and the emotions that goes with being a new mum.
March 14, 2025
4.5*
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November 16, 2023
It was ok… just okay. Wasn’t on the level of Sophie kinsella and was very predictable without any laugh out moments.
September 30, 2022
Three mums of newborns meet outside a community hall, when a baby group is cancelled at the last minute.
They all have completely different family setups but form a friendship wholst navigating the tiring first days with a baby.
Sophy is a social media influencer, and lives in a trendy, luxurious house with her commitment-phobe estate agent boyfriend, Jeff. Baby Max is their first child.
Aisha has twins, Jude and Otis, with her wife Charley (via a sperm doner) However, Charley is less hands on than expected and concentrates on her work, so Aisha feels isolated and lonely as a new Mum.
Mel is slighty older and already has a 12 year old daughter with hubby Daz. Her baby, Skylar, is a fairly easy going baby to start off with, but when she starts waking through the night for extra feeds Mel struggles, so the Whatsapp group chat with her new friends at 3am is invaluable!
This was a fast but enjoyable light read and the characters' experiences reminded me of the challenges of the early days with my children as babies! I think this book would particularly appeal to first time Mums!
They all have completely different family setups but form a friendship wholst navigating the tiring first days with a baby.
Sophy is a social media influencer, and lives in a trendy, luxurious house with her commitment-phobe estate agent boyfriend, Jeff. Baby Max is their first child.
Aisha has twins, Jude and Otis, with her wife Charley (via a sperm doner) However, Charley is less hands on than expected and concentrates on her work, so Aisha feels isolated and lonely as a new Mum.
Mel is slighty older and already has a 12 year old daughter with hubby Daz. Her baby, Skylar, is a fairly easy going baby to start off with, but when she starts waking through the night for extra feeds Mel struggles, so the Whatsapp group chat with her new friends at 3am is invaluable!
This was a fast but enjoyable light read and the characters' experiences reminded me of the challenges of the early days with my children as babies! I think this book would particularly appeal to first time Mums!
March 29, 2024
An excellent read 5 stars plus.
What a brilliant true to life book, I absolutely loved it. We have our 3 main characters who have just given birth, Mel, Aisha and Sophy as well as their families. It is so well written that I felt as if I had gone back in time and was part of the story. Totally recommend it to everyone.
What a brilliant true to life book, I absolutely loved it. We have our 3 main characters who have just given birth, Mel, Aisha and Sophy as well as their families. It is so well written that I felt as if I had gone back in time and was part of the story. Totally recommend it to everyone.
November 2, 2022
I have been a fan of Nina's work for a while now. I haven't quite caught up with everything that she has written but that is something that I hope to rectify in the not too distant future. I have read and thoroughly enjoyed reading a few of her books. I read the synopsis of 'The 3am Shattered Mums Club' and it certainly sounded like an intriguing read. I couldn't wait to start reading and so without further ado, I grabbed a cup of tea, grabbed my Kindle and settled down for an interesting afternoon of reading. I thoroughly enjoyed reading 'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' but more about that in a bit.
I have to say that I loved all three of the main characters. All three are new mothers and are finding motherhood can be a struggle at times although for different reasons. The three mums (or mams as we say in the north east) meet up by chance and go for a coffee. I loved the way in which the characters interacted with each other. Each of the main characters have different strengths to their personalities and bring something new to the table so to speak. I loved the way that the three characters were so supportive of each other and not critical.
I was drawn into this story from the very start. To say that reading 'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' became addictive is a bit of an understatement. I initially picked the book up only intending to read a couple of chapters but I became so wrapped up in the story and in the lives of the main characters that I was still sat there reading several chapters and an hour or so later. I knew that there wasn't much point planning to do anything other than reading for the rest of the afternoon as I knew that I wouldn't be able to put the book down. My Kindle wasn't exactly glued to my hand but it might as well have been because it travelled everywhere with me. I couldn't bear to miss a single second of the story. I soon got to the end of 'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' and I had to say goodbye to characters who felt more like friends rather than characters in a book.
'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' is superbly written but then I have come to expect nothing less from Nina Manning. She has one of those easy going writing styles that is easy to get used to and easy to get along with. In fact reading one of her books feels more like a chat between friends rather than reading an actual book. I hope that makes sense. For me, the story hit the ground running and maintains a steady pace. I haven't got children myself so I can't comment on how accurate the story is but I did recognise certain traits - the worrying and not being able to sleep for worrying about your loved one (in my case I am the co-owner of two OAP Labradors and they are nearest thing I have to children and so I worry about them). This was one of those books that had its serious moments but at the same time there was a fair bit of humour to the story. I started chuckling fairly early on in the story and this continued throughout the book. I love the way in which the author makes the reader feel as though they are part of the story and at the heart of the action.
In short, I thoroughly enjoyed reading 'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' and I would definitely recommend this book to other readers. I will definitely be reading more of Nina's work in the future. The score on the ginger Book Geek board is a very well deserved 5* out of 5*.
I have to say that I loved all three of the main characters. All three are new mothers and are finding motherhood can be a struggle at times although for different reasons. The three mums (or mams as we say in the north east) meet up by chance and go for a coffee. I loved the way in which the characters interacted with each other. Each of the main characters have different strengths to their personalities and bring something new to the table so to speak. I loved the way that the three characters were so supportive of each other and not critical.
I was drawn into this story from the very start. To say that reading 'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' became addictive is a bit of an understatement. I initially picked the book up only intending to read a couple of chapters but I became so wrapped up in the story and in the lives of the main characters that I was still sat there reading several chapters and an hour or so later. I knew that there wasn't much point planning to do anything other than reading for the rest of the afternoon as I knew that I wouldn't be able to put the book down. My Kindle wasn't exactly glued to my hand but it might as well have been because it travelled everywhere with me. I couldn't bear to miss a single second of the story. I soon got to the end of 'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' and I had to say goodbye to characters who felt more like friends rather than characters in a book.
'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' is superbly written but then I have come to expect nothing less from Nina Manning. She has one of those easy going writing styles that is easy to get used to and easy to get along with. In fact reading one of her books feels more like a chat between friends rather than reading an actual book. I hope that makes sense. For me, the story hit the ground running and maintains a steady pace. I haven't got children myself so I can't comment on how accurate the story is but I did recognise certain traits - the worrying and not being able to sleep for worrying about your loved one (in my case I am the co-owner of two OAP Labradors and they are nearest thing I have to children and so I worry about them). This was one of those books that had its serious moments but at the same time there was a fair bit of humour to the story. I started chuckling fairly early on in the story and this continued throughout the book. I love the way in which the author makes the reader feel as though they are part of the story and at the heart of the action.
In short, I thoroughly enjoyed reading 'The 3am Shattered Mums' Club' and I would definitely recommend this book to other readers. I will definitely be reading more of Nina's work in the future. The score on the ginger Book Geek board is a very well deserved 5* out of 5*.
October 20, 2022
“The 3am Shattered Mums’ Club” is a fun read, but it doesn’t offer anything new. Many novels have covered this ground before – and no doubt many more will follow – and this one doesn’t bring anything particularly unique to the reader. It’s entertaining but ultimately quite forgettable.
Aisha, Mel and Sophy are all new mothers, although their personal circumstances are all very different. What they do have in common, however, is that they’re often up at 3am with their babies. It’s lonely. And they’re all tired.
When they meet by chance, the three hit it off almost immediately, and agree that they can text each other when they’re awake at that ungodly hour. They’re soon offering each other emotional and practical support, and have become good friends.
New motherhood is not an easy ride for any of them. They have different problems to overcome: post natal depression, an unsupportive (and uninvolved) partner, and past traumas, as well as the day to day challenges of life with a new baby.
Aisha’s twins were much wanted, and her partner Charlie is supportive. But she feels that some judge their same sex relationship, and she feels that Charlie still has so much more freedom than she has. She can’t recognise that she may have post natal depression, but she knows something is very wrong with her life.
Mel is an older mother, and she already has a teenage daughter. She’s a little daunted by the apparent changes to motherhood in recent years – what’s a fourth trimester, and where did it come from? – but is generally coping fine with her lovely helpful husband to help. But she needs to get back to work, and a traumatic experience in early pregnancy is making her apprehensive about that.
Sophy is probably in the most difficult position of the three. Her partner seems disengaged, she doesn’t feel secure in the relationship, and as a first time Mum she frequently feels that she has no idea what she’s doing.
This is a broadly universal experience, which is probably why it’s been written about so much. Plenty of women have experienced life with a new baby. And while it’s not dreadful for everyone, there’s no doubt that most people find some aspects of it hard, even if it’s just the sleep deprivation. Yes, I’m someone who’s experienced motherhood: Manning catches many of the experiences and feelings vividly and realistically.
Pretty much every plot point in this novel is familiar, and most are also telegraphed nice and early. That doesn’t really matter much. It’s a pleasant and engaging reading experience, with recognisable characters and solvable dilemmas.
This is a nice warm novel that captures the first few months of motherhood very well. It’s not particularly original or memorable, but it’s a diverting read which a lot of readers will find warm and comforting.
If you enjoyed this review, please visit www.otherdreamsotherlives.home.blog to read more.
Aisha, Mel and Sophy are all new mothers, although their personal circumstances are all very different. What they do have in common, however, is that they’re often up at 3am with their babies. It’s lonely. And they’re all tired.
When they meet by chance, the three hit it off almost immediately, and agree that they can text each other when they’re awake at that ungodly hour. They’re soon offering each other emotional and practical support, and have become good friends.
New motherhood is not an easy ride for any of them. They have different problems to overcome: post natal depression, an unsupportive (and uninvolved) partner, and past traumas, as well as the day to day challenges of life with a new baby.
Aisha’s twins were much wanted, and her partner Charlie is supportive. But she feels that some judge their same sex relationship, and she feels that Charlie still has so much more freedom than she has. She can’t recognise that she may have post natal depression, but she knows something is very wrong with her life.
Mel is an older mother, and she already has a teenage daughter. She’s a little daunted by the apparent changes to motherhood in recent years – what’s a fourth trimester, and where did it come from? – but is generally coping fine with her lovely helpful husband to help. But she needs to get back to work, and a traumatic experience in early pregnancy is making her apprehensive about that.
Sophy is probably in the most difficult position of the three. Her partner seems disengaged, she doesn’t feel secure in the relationship, and as a first time Mum she frequently feels that she has no idea what she’s doing.
This is a broadly universal experience, which is probably why it’s been written about so much. Plenty of women have experienced life with a new baby. And while it’s not dreadful for everyone, there’s no doubt that most people find some aspects of it hard, even if it’s just the sleep deprivation. Yes, I’m someone who’s experienced motherhood: Manning catches many of the experiences and feelings vividly and realistically.
Pretty much every plot point in this novel is familiar, and most are also telegraphed nice and early. That doesn’t really matter much. It’s a pleasant and engaging reading experience, with recognisable characters and solvable dilemmas.
This is a nice warm novel that captures the first few months of motherhood very well. It’s not particularly original or memorable, but it’s a diverting read which a lot of readers will find warm and comforting.
If you enjoyed this review, please visit www.otherdreamsotherlives.home.blog to read more.
October 31, 2022
I have had 4 babies, so I am very familiar with the themes in the book and was really interested to read it. I have had a range of experiences with my babies but definitely recognise the loneliness and isolation.
The chapters switch between the points of view of the three main characters, Sophy, Aisha and Mel. They all have different personalities and situations (same sex relationship, older mum, self employed, unfulfilled relationship) and throughout the book we learn more about their lives and see their friendships develop and solidify. Their stories are all interesting and I love the way they interweave as the book progresses. The story is well paced and there are moments of tension, humour and joy. The three form such a lovely bond which is threatened at times but stays strong.
I would have loved to have a 3am Shattered Mums Club of my own. When I had my first child I was incredibly isolated in a remote Welsh village. We had no TV, no Internet, no friends with babies and my little boy literally cried all the time (as did I)! Having someone to reach out to is so important in these times. My self esteem was shot to pieces and I had postnatal depression. I wonder how different my experience would have been if I had had someone to text in the middle of the night (or day). I really felt for Aisha who was clearly struggling with her mood following the birth of her twins. She’s the character I identity most with in some ways, mainly because of how she feels and her personality. She had the support of her mum and her new friends but it still took a while for her to admit to her struggles. She’s pretty much always up when the friends have their 3am text exchanges, and I’m not surprised with twins! Lack of sleep has such a huge impact on your mood and I feel sad that the mums didn’t get more support from their partners.
The book exceeded my expectations. There were some interesting themes and the story was rich with warmth and sensitivity. The style with the different povs worked really well and the characters were well formed, realistic, flawed and likeable. It kept me interested throughout and I found myself thinking about the characters when I wasn’t reading. The ending was really satisfying.
The 3am Shattered Mums Club is easy to read and keeps you turning the pages. It has depth and heart and I definitely recommend it whether you’re a mother or not. I am definitely keen to read more from the author.
The chapters switch between the points of view of the three main characters, Sophy, Aisha and Mel. They all have different personalities and situations (same sex relationship, older mum, self employed, unfulfilled relationship) and throughout the book we learn more about their lives and see their friendships develop and solidify. Their stories are all interesting and I love the way they interweave as the book progresses. The story is well paced and there are moments of tension, humour and joy. The three form such a lovely bond which is threatened at times but stays strong.
I would have loved to have a 3am Shattered Mums Club of my own. When I had my first child I was incredibly isolated in a remote Welsh village. We had no TV, no Internet, no friends with babies and my little boy literally cried all the time (as did I)! Having someone to reach out to is so important in these times. My self esteem was shot to pieces and I had postnatal depression. I wonder how different my experience would have been if I had had someone to text in the middle of the night (or day). I really felt for Aisha who was clearly struggling with her mood following the birth of her twins. She’s the character I identity most with in some ways, mainly because of how she feels and her personality. She had the support of her mum and her new friends but it still took a while for her to admit to her struggles. She’s pretty much always up when the friends have their 3am text exchanges, and I’m not surprised with twins! Lack of sleep has such a huge impact on your mood and I feel sad that the mums didn’t get more support from their partners.
The book exceeded my expectations. There were some interesting themes and the story was rich with warmth and sensitivity. The style with the different povs worked really well and the characters were well formed, realistic, flawed and likeable. It kept me interested throughout and I found myself thinking about the characters when I wasn’t reading. The ending was really satisfying.
The 3am Shattered Mums Club is easy to read and keeps you turning the pages. It has depth and heart and I definitely recommend it whether you’re a mother or not. I am definitely keen to read more from the author.
November 27, 2023
Sophy's baby is Max, and her boyfriend is Jeff. Sophy is in her early 30s and is an Instagram influencer. Sophy and Jeff aren't getting along, and Sophy thinks Jeff has been seeing other women while she is taking care of their son.
Aisha's twins are Jude and Otis, and her partner is Charley. Aisha is in her mid 30s and has quit her waitressing job to care for her babies. Aisha has anger issues towards Charley for not helping her with the twins, and she finds out that her mother has been keeping a familial secret from her.
Mel's baby is Skylar, her 11yo daughter is Leia, and her husband is Daz. Mel is in her early 40s and is on hiatus from her burlesque dancing/Adele tribute singing nightclub job. Mel has anxiety about going back to work because she was assaulted by a patron and didn't tell anyone what happened.
All three women were to meet at a mum's group, but the instructor didn't show up, so they all went for coffee instead and created what would later become the 3AM shattered mums' club via Whatsapp.
That is essentially all the information that is required to get into this book - however, Sophy's toxic relationship with Jeff is evident from the start and doesn't get better until roughly 90% into the story; Aisha's grudge towards Charley never really lets up, and her familial conflict comes to light in the most uncomfortable and unsafe of ways; and Mel's assault gets alluded to at 40% and fully divulged at roughly 80%, which was a chunk of the story with a huge question mark as to what had happened. Throughout all these conversations and revelations, personally, I didn't "feel" the connection these women had with each other or their respective partners. The writing portrayed a feeling of each character being emotionally removed from their respective situation and looking at it as if they weren't actually in it, which was very off putting to read. The cheating, the secrets, and the assault all should have been more emotionally charged, but I felt that the writing was surface level and didn't devote the emotion that the characters should have been reacting with.
Overall, the theme of this story was about new mums and how they cope with changes in their lives, relationships, bodies, and mental health. While there were some time jumps and various editing issues, this was an okay read for those who may have gone through these life changes as well.
Aisha's twins are Jude and Otis, and her partner is Charley. Aisha is in her mid 30s and has quit her waitressing job to care for her babies. Aisha has anger issues towards Charley for not helping her with the twins, and she finds out that her mother has been keeping a familial secret from her.
Mel's baby is Skylar, her 11yo daughter is Leia, and her husband is Daz. Mel is in her early 40s and is on hiatus from her burlesque dancing/Adele tribute singing nightclub job. Mel has anxiety about going back to work because she was assaulted by a patron and didn't tell anyone what happened.
All three women were to meet at a mum's group, but the instructor didn't show up, so they all went for coffee instead and created what would later become the 3AM shattered mums' club via Whatsapp.
That is essentially all the information that is required to get into this book - however, Sophy's toxic relationship with Jeff is evident from the start and doesn't get better until roughly 90% into the story; Aisha's grudge towards Charley never really lets up, and her familial conflict comes to light in the most uncomfortable and unsafe of ways; and Mel's assault gets alluded to at 40% and fully divulged at roughly 80%, which was a chunk of the story with a huge question mark as to what had happened. Throughout all these conversations and revelations, personally, I didn't "feel" the connection these women had with each other or their respective partners. The writing portrayed a feeling of each character being emotionally removed from their respective situation and looking at it as if they weren't actually in it, which was very off putting to read. The cheating, the secrets, and the assault all should have been more emotionally charged, but I felt that the writing was surface level and didn't devote the emotion that the characters should have been reacting with.
Overall, the theme of this story was about new mums and how they cope with changes in their lives, relationships, bodies, and mental health. While there were some time jumps and various editing issues, this was an okay read for those who may have gone through these life changes as well.
July 6, 2023
Thank you to NetGalley and Boldwood Books as well as the author for this ARC in exchange for my unbiased review.
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I never get tired of books like this. New motherhood is an insanely unique and difficult experience and the more it gets normalized, the more people can be helped. This book gives this storyline to us in the form of Sofy, Mel, and Aisha. Three new moms who just need to know that they’re not alone, especially during the middle of the night feedings. Some of the best friendships are formed under duress.
Books about motherhood are a dime a dozen. The joys of motherhood, the rewards of motherhood are often lauded and rightly so. Motherhood is not, however, all joys and rewards. Each stage comes with its own challenges. The newborn stage is unique, though, in that mom is also a newborn in the sense that she’s new to this role in her life. Even when it’s not her first baby, it’s still a new person with his/her own personality and individual needs. This is the time where I, as a new mother, found the most difficult, at least so far. It’s the time in which one gets no sleep, no break. Her own needs aren’t considered at all. All of this and more in addition to the most significant change that her life can experience. It’s a very lonely and difficult time. The new mom is also recovering from a traumatic physical event as well. Postpartum depression is very real and very isolating. Not to mention the guilt that kicks in immediately. She is positive that she’s screwing things up! All of these things and more are happening to these three characters. They find each other through a Mom and Baby group that they’re all forced to attend. When the first meeting gets canceled, Sofy, Aisha, and Mel decide to go get coffee and manage to forge an ironclad friendship that saves each woman from her own traumas. I felt that each woman is relatable and I grew to care deeply about. I’ve been there too.
There are no criticisms I can give here. I loved this book. I feel deeply grateful to Ms. Manning for writing this. It’s so important to keep these things normalized. Thank you so much for this book and these characters.
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I never get tired of books like this. New motherhood is an insanely unique and difficult experience and the more it gets normalized, the more people can be helped. This book gives this storyline to us in the form of Sofy, Mel, and Aisha. Three new moms who just need to know that they’re not alone, especially during the middle of the night feedings. Some of the best friendships are formed under duress.
Books about motherhood are a dime a dozen. The joys of motherhood, the rewards of motherhood are often lauded and rightly so. Motherhood is not, however, all joys and rewards. Each stage comes with its own challenges. The newborn stage is unique, though, in that mom is also a newborn in the sense that she’s new to this role in her life. Even when it’s not her first baby, it’s still a new person with his/her own personality and individual needs. This is the time where I, as a new mother, found the most difficult, at least so far. It’s the time in which one gets no sleep, no break. Her own needs aren’t considered at all. All of this and more in addition to the most significant change that her life can experience. It’s a very lonely and difficult time. The new mom is also recovering from a traumatic physical event as well. Postpartum depression is very real and very isolating. Not to mention the guilt that kicks in immediately. She is positive that she’s screwing things up! All of these things and more are happening to these three characters. They find each other through a Mom and Baby group that they’re all forced to attend. When the first meeting gets canceled, Sofy, Aisha, and Mel decide to go get coffee and manage to forge an ironclad friendship that saves each woman from her own traumas. I felt that each woman is relatable and I grew to care deeply about. I’ve been there too.
There are no criticisms I can give here. I loved this book. I feel deeply grateful to Ms. Manning for writing this. It’s so important to keep these things normalized. Thank you so much for this book and these characters.
November 11, 2022
The 3am Shattered Mums' Club is a fun novel featuring three women each with a newborn and struggling to adapt to the changes to their bodies, relationships, careers and social lives that come with a creating tiny humans. The book alternates between three perspectives. First is Sophy, an instagram influencer in her early 20s who is struggling in her relationship with her long term boyfriend, ongoing renovations to their house and a long, painful recovery from her birth with her newborn, Max. Next is Aisha, a woman in her early thirties who became pregnant through artificial insemination and a sperm donor, and recently gave birth to twins, Otis and Jude. Although her wife Charley works from home, Aisha is really struggling with mental illness and loneliness from trying to manage twins who fight for her attention all through the day and night. Finally, there is Mel, a second time mum in her 40s, who is recovering from a traumatic assault during her pregnancy and worried about returning to her work as a burlesque dancer and Adele cover singer. The three mums reluctantly agree to try out a Mum's club which is cancelled at the last minute and decide to start their own little group to help them get through the ups and downs of motherhood with infants.
This book is equal parts hilarious, sad, inspiring and candid. The storylines are completely realistic and don't try to tell a story of motherhood that is glamorous or easy. In fact, as a young, unmarried woman, it was at times a bit terrifying, but I do feel slightly more prepared to one day join these fictional women on the crazy, beautiful ride that is motherhood. I love Manning's down to earth and realistic descriptions of the ups and downs of motherhood. The characters are easy to connect with and I love the humour and the way the storylines contrast each other and also quickly became intertwined. I would highly recommend this book to mothers - seasoned and also brand new, or non-mothers who could benefit from a good laugh and a reminder to take their birth control pills. Jokes aside, it is a fabulous book that I loved and will definitely be recommending to my friends! Thanks so much to NetGalley, Boldwood Books (Book & Tonic) and Rachel from Rachel's Random Resources for giving me the chance to read and review this book!
This book is equal parts hilarious, sad, inspiring and candid. The storylines are completely realistic and don't try to tell a story of motherhood that is glamorous or easy. In fact, as a young, unmarried woman, it was at times a bit terrifying, but I do feel slightly more prepared to one day join these fictional women on the crazy, beautiful ride that is motherhood. I love Manning's down to earth and realistic descriptions of the ups and downs of motherhood. The characters are easy to connect with and I love the humour and the way the storylines contrast each other and also quickly became intertwined. I would highly recommend this book to mothers - seasoned and also brand new, or non-mothers who could benefit from a good laugh and a reminder to take their birth control pills. Jokes aside, it is a fabulous book that I loved and will definitely be recommending to my friends! Thanks so much to NetGalley, Boldwood Books (Book & Tonic) and Rachel from Rachel's Random Resources for giving me the chance to read and review this book!
September 29, 2023
Sophy, Aisha e Mel são três mães bem diferentes uma da outra, mas que se identificam muito por conta do momento que estão vivendo: o puerpério.
Sophy é mãe de primeira viagem de um garotinho. Ela é influencer no instagram e está tendo dificuldade em administrar sua imagem pública, que precisa ser sempre perfeita, em meio ao caos dos primeiros meses pós-nascimento. Ela não se sente compreendida por Jeff, o marido, e está muito em conflito com seus sentimentos.
Aisha é mãe de gêmeos, dois meninos. Ela fez inseminação artificial, realizando seu sonho de ter uma família com a Charley. No entanto, ela sente que está sobrecarregada, pois Charley não divide muito as tarefas domésticas com ela e não parece ter a maternidade como prioridade em sua vida.
Mel é a mãe mais experiente. Ela já tinha uma filha adolescente, e agora, aos 43 anos, teve um bebezinho. Mesmo já sendo a segunda vez, ela se vê questionando muitas coisas sobre maternidade. Se pergunta como mães mais novas podem saber de coisas que ela nunca ouviu falar, por exemplo, e também se preocupa com o tempo que ficará afastada do trabalho.
Suas famílias também são bem diferentes. Enquanto uma tem um bom relacionamento com a sogra, a outra tem que passar por cada situação chata que só por Deus… Haja paciência. Então, também vemos aqui a importância de uma rede de apoio de confiança.
O vínculo entre elas cresce através de um grupo de whatsapp onde conversam de madrugada quando acordam para amamentar, o que eu achei genial por parte da autora. Mães realmente passam por essa fase, resolvendo coisas de madrugada no celular, aproveitando o tempo enquanto o bebê mama.
Uma coisa que me incomodou um pouquinho é que a conversa do chat, pelo menos até onde a gente vê, quase não se desenvolve. Nós vemos ali apenas algumas frases trocadas entre elas no final dos capítulos. Eu senti falta de uma conversa mais longa, com mais desabafos.
O livro tem gatilhos de abuso, traição e abandono parental, então não se engane com a capa fofinha.
Eu gostei muito da leitura e pretendo ler o próximo volume em breve.
Sophy é mãe de primeira viagem de um garotinho. Ela é influencer no instagram e está tendo dificuldade em administrar sua imagem pública, que precisa ser sempre perfeita, em meio ao caos dos primeiros meses pós-nascimento. Ela não se sente compreendida por Jeff, o marido, e está muito em conflito com seus sentimentos.
Aisha é mãe de gêmeos, dois meninos. Ela fez inseminação artificial, realizando seu sonho de ter uma família com a Charley. No entanto, ela sente que está sobrecarregada, pois Charley não divide muito as tarefas domésticas com ela e não parece ter a maternidade como prioridade em sua vida.
Mel é a mãe mais experiente. Ela já tinha uma filha adolescente, e agora, aos 43 anos, teve um bebezinho. Mesmo já sendo a segunda vez, ela se vê questionando muitas coisas sobre maternidade. Se pergunta como mães mais novas podem saber de coisas que ela nunca ouviu falar, por exemplo, e também se preocupa com o tempo que ficará afastada do trabalho.
Suas famílias também são bem diferentes. Enquanto uma tem um bom relacionamento com a sogra, a outra tem que passar por cada situação chata que só por Deus… Haja paciência. Então, também vemos aqui a importância de uma rede de apoio de confiança.
O vínculo entre elas cresce através de um grupo de whatsapp onde conversam de madrugada quando acordam para amamentar, o que eu achei genial por parte da autora. Mães realmente passam por essa fase, resolvendo coisas de madrugada no celular, aproveitando o tempo enquanto o bebê mama.
Uma coisa que me incomodou um pouquinho é que a conversa do chat, pelo menos até onde a gente vê, quase não se desenvolve. Nós vemos ali apenas algumas frases trocadas entre elas no final dos capítulos. Eu senti falta de uma conversa mais longa, com mais desabafos.
O livro tem gatilhos de abuso, traição e abandono parental, então não se engane com a capa fofinha.
Eu gostei muito da leitura e pretendo ler o próximo volume em breve.
November 6, 2022
I am excited to have the opportunity to read and review The 3am Shattered Mums' Club. This book intrigued me from the moment I read the blurb. Three women, from different backgrounds and situations, but each struggling in their own ways during the months following their babies' births finding friendship and support in each other.
Sophy, a 33 year old health and lifestyle blogger, misses her identity apart from motherhood, feels like she is faking it on her vlog, yet has an unexplainable need to build her brand and become financially independent. Her boyfriend seems to be always working, she has no help from family, and with exclusive breastfeeding, she is exhausted trying to do it all.
Aisha, 37, is anxious, lonely, feeling the strain of being the primary caregiver to her six week old twins, and is feeling distant from her partner, Charley. While Aisha has daily visits from her mother, Aisha worries that her family hasn't accepted that Charley is the twins' mother too. She is dealing with guilt over not breastfeeding.
Mel is the experienced mother in the group with 10-year-old and an 11 week old daughters, Mel is worried about going back to work as a singer/dancer after having a frightening experience at her last gig before her daughter was born. Mel also is experiencing flares of emotion and angry outburst that are uncharacteristic for her. Where are they coming from?
As a mother of seven children, I have had my share of experiences of life with a newborn; the myriad of emotions, insecurities, doubts, and relationship issues that come with it. I connected each of the women in different ways; it brought back so many memories and emotions of a time, that no matter how joyful, is also difficult.. I loved how each of the women supported each other, it wasn't always Mel as the experienced mom handing out supportive advice. This book is a celebration of female friendship, women supporting women, and finding your tribe.
Thank you to NetGalley and Boldwood Books for gifting me an ebook; I am happy to provide my honest review.
Sophy, a 33 year old health and lifestyle blogger, misses her identity apart from motherhood, feels like she is faking it on her vlog, yet has an unexplainable need to build her brand and become financially independent. Her boyfriend seems to be always working, she has no help from family, and with exclusive breastfeeding, she is exhausted trying to do it all.
Aisha, 37, is anxious, lonely, feeling the strain of being the primary caregiver to her six week old twins, and is feeling distant from her partner, Charley. While Aisha has daily visits from her mother, Aisha worries that her family hasn't accepted that Charley is the twins' mother too. She is dealing with guilt over not breastfeeding.
Mel is the experienced mother in the group with 10-year-old and an 11 week old daughters, Mel is worried about going back to work as a singer/dancer after having a frightening experience at her last gig before her daughter was born. Mel also is experiencing flares of emotion and angry outburst that are uncharacteristic for her. Where are they coming from?
As a mother of seven children, I have had my share of experiences of life with a newborn; the myriad of emotions, insecurities, doubts, and relationship issues that come with it. I connected each of the women in different ways; it brought back so many memories and emotions of a time, that no matter how joyful, is also difficult.. I loved how each of the women supported each other, it wasn't always Mel as the experienced mom handing out supportive advice. This book is a celebration of female friendship, women supporting women, and finding your tribe.
Thank you to NetGalley and Boldwood Books for gifting me an ebook; I am happy to provide my honest review.
November 20, 2022
A raw account of new motherhood filled with heart and humor!
I wish I had access to this book five years ago when my sister was having my niece. This is the most honest account of motherhood I have ever read. It has given me a profound understanding of what she experienced during and after birth. If I had had this knowledge then, I feel I could have been a better source of support.
We don’t talk enough about the trauma a mother’s body endures when delivering a baby. Every woman is unique, and therefore, their recovery is unique too. It was refreshing to read that some mom’s bodies bounced back, some took the six weeks to recover, and some had further complications that required more extensive medical attention.
In the same way, I loved how mental health was addressed. Having three different women in various stages of their lives, allowed for a diverse representation of their mental states. Manning beautifully showed how hard adding a child or children is for the primary caregiver. The journey all three women took throughout the book to find a healthy balance and true happiness was raw and honest!
While this book was about new mothers, at the heart it was about finding your community. It is essential that everyone have a person or people who they can be open and honest with. Ideally, we would all love for it to be our partners or close family. However, sometimes a new friend is just what we need. The lack of intimacy eliminates the fear of being judged. Therefore, the idea of having a group to text when you are tired, overwhelmed, and at your most vulnerable is something everyone can benefit from.
The 3am Shattered Mom’s Club by Nia Manning is a book everyone should read! While I am not a mother myself, this book helped me understand the struggles that accompany giving birth and entering into motherhood. If you or someone one you know is pregnant or plans on having children, read this book!
Special thanks to NetGalley and Boldwood Books for allowing me to read this book in exchange for my honest feedback.
I wish I had access to this book five years ago when my sister was having my niece. This is the most honest account of motherhood I have ever read. It has given me a profound understanding of what she experienced during and after birth. If I had had this knowledge then, I feel I could have been a better source of support.
We don’t talk enough about the trauma a mother’s body endures when delivering a baby. Every woman is unique, and therefore, their recovery is unique too. It was refreshing to read that some mom’s bodies bounced back, some took the six weeks to recover, and some had further complications that required more extensive medical attention.
In the same way, I loved how mental health was addressed. Having three different women in various stages of their lives, allowed for a diverse representation of their mental states. Manning beautifully showed how hard adding a child or children is for the primary caregiver. The journey all three women took throughout the book to find a healthy balance and true happiness was raw and honest!
While this book was about new mothers, at the heart it was about finding your community. It is essential that everyone have a person or people who they can be open and honest with. Ideally, we would all love for it to be our partners or close family. However, sometimes a new friend is just what we need. The lack of intimacy eliminates the fear of being judged. Therefore, the idea of having a group to text when you are tired, overwhelmed, and at your most vulnerable is something everyone can benefit from.
The 3am Shattered Mom’s Club by Nia Manning is a book everyone should read! While I am not a mother myself, this book helped me understand the struggles that accompany giving birth and entering into motherhood. If you or someone one you know is pregnant or plans on having children, read this book!
Special thanks to NetGalley and Boldwood Books for allowing me to read this book in exchange for my honest feedback.
October 23, 2022
This book was such a great read, I loved the concept and the plot. I was intrigued by this book before picking it up to read but I wasn’t sure what I was expecting to read. I really enjoyed the story and I loved the characters. I felt like I really knew them as I was reading it.
We get to follow three main characters, Sophy, Mel and Aisha, throughout this book. All of them are mums with newborn babies and we get to read about their bond that they make. I feel like I discovered a lot about parenthood while reading this, the feeling of loneliness was so sad to read about. We also got to read about their personal and family lives. They all had a different story to share which was intriguing. These stories and characters felt so real to me, this book was truly brought to life by the author.
The chapters alternated between the three main characters as they embarked on their parenthood journey. There were many struggles in this book but the main thing that brought them all together was having each other. Within the main passage of the story, we get snippets of the group chat the friendship group has which is nice to read. This gave the reader a break from the main text.
I thought this book was easy to read. The author brought out a lot of emotion from the characters, I really didn’t want this story to end. I also enjoyed reading from the perspective of the different characters, the author gave them all such a unique voice. I would definitely recommend this book, anyone can enjoy a story like this.
We get to follow three main characters, Sophy, Mel and Aisha, throughout this book. All of them are mums with newborn babies and we get to read about their bond that they make. I feel like I discovered a lot about parenthood while reading this, the feeling of loneliness was so sad to read about. We also got to read about their personal and family lives. They all had a different story to share which was intriguing. These stories and characters felt so real to me, this book was truly brought to life by the author.
The chapters alternated between the three main characters as they embarked on their parenthood journey. There were many struggles in this book but the main thing that brought them all together was having each other. Within the main passage of the story, we get snippets of the group chat the friendship group has which is nice to read. This gave the reader a break from the main text.
I thought this book was easy to read. The author brought out a lot of emotion from the characters, I really didn’t want this story to end. I also enjoyed reading from the perspective of the different characters, the author gave them all such a unique voice. I would definitely recommend this book, anyone can enjoy a story like this.
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