Pedro and Daniel are Mexican American brothers growing up in 1970s Ohio. Their mother resents that Pedro is a spitting image of their darker-skinned father; that Daniel likes dolls; that neither boy plays sports. Both are gay and neurodivergent. They are alike, but they are dissimilar in their struggles, their dreams, their approach to life.
Pedro & Daniel is a sweeping and deeply personal novel that spans from childhood, through their teen years, and into adulthood. Theirs is a bond that won’t be broken. Together they endure an abusive home life, coming out, first loves, first jobs, and the AIDS pandemic, in a coming-of-age story unlike any other.
Despite everything, there is much joy in the stories in the book. Their resilience and special bond help the boys face one evil after another. While Pedro suffers more at home, Daniel is particularly susceptible to the malevolence of the outside world.
They are similar: gay, neurodivergent Latinos in love with all things Mexico.
Son tal para cual. They are cut from the same cloth.
They are different: Pedro is darker-skinned, oppressed, repressed, introverted, and agnostic. Daniel is precocious, carefree, mischievous, religious, and unguarded.
Mismo perro, distinto collar. Same dog, different collar.
CW/TW: References to domestic violence, child abuse, homophobia, colorism, racism, clergy abuse, suicidality, sex, and death.
Federico Erebia is a retired physician, artist, woodworker, author, and illustrator. He was born in Port Clinton, Ohio. He received a BA in chemistry from the College of Wooster, and an MD from Brown University.
Pedro & Daniel (Levine Querido, June 6, 2023) is his debut novel. His Pepito The Squirrel picture books were self-published in 2021.
He serves on the SCBWI Impact & Legacy Fund Steering Committee, is in the inaugural Poets & Writers publicity incubator, is a Grubbie Debut Author, and is an active member of several other writing groups.
He lives in Massachusetts with his husband, and their Westie & Whippet, in the house he designed and renovated.
This powerhouse of a book is written by Dr. Federico Erebia and is closely based on his relationship with his real-life brother Daniel. In the book, Federico is known as Pedro. Since Dr. Erebia is writing about the unbreakable bond between himself and his brother, it did not surprise me that this debut novel is amazingly realistic.
With strong, lyrical writing, the author addresses many topics, including colorism, childhood abuse, the seamy side of the Catholic church, homophobia, and the HIV pandemic. Reading this novel evoked many emotions. It was difficult to read about Pedro and Daniel’s tumultuous upbringing, yet I found it so inspirational how the brothers stuck together and protected each other and how they were able to use humor in the form of Mexican “dichos” (sayings) to cope.
Though both Pedro and Daniel are gay, there is no romance in this story. This is basically a story of survival and hope. I found it deeply moving and emotional. It is also heart wrenching yet uplifting. I recommend Pedro and Daniel to all looking for a power-packed look at the lives of two incredibly admirable men.
Thank you, Net Galley, Federico Erebia, and Levine Querido for the advanced copy. Opinions are mine alone and are not biased in any way.
Two Sentence Review: I've got to let you know this should be added to your TBR as it is one of the most beautiful and raw LGBTQIA+ books I have ever read. Cried multiple times in the best way because this will pull you apart and put you together again in one book--THANK YOU FOR THIS.
Wow. This book was powerful. Pedro and Daniel have an amazing bond forged by brotherhood and hardship and humor. Their stories deal with heartbreaking issues that will really make readers think. I especially loved the first section of the story, which is made up of short chapters detailing small incidents during their boyhoods that pack a large emotional - often physical - wallop. The writing is beautiful and lyrical and paints a vivid picture of their lives. As the boys grow up, they deal with their traumas in different ways but always maintain their relationship with each other. I highly recommend it.
Pedro & Daniel feels like a front row seat into the most personal and life changing moments of the main characters. As Mexican-born raised in the USA, I can say how authentic and truthful this story is to the experiences many of us have. Federico Erebia does not only guide us through the life of two brothers, he gives us lessons about colorism, racism, the HIV epidemic, and the unpleasant side of the Catholic Church.
Although I had trouble getting invested during the first couple of chapters, Pedro & Daniel ended up captivating me. It’s a story I will never forget.
I loved reading this powerful story about two brothers, Pedro and Daniel. At times, I was brought to tears by the gut-wrenching abuse and adversity they faced, but also admired the resilient bond between them. Being Mexican-American, I related to many cultural references, and the dichos (sayings) throughout convey the truths in their world. Moving and full of heart and emotion, one I couldn’t stop reading!
This is an incredibly touching coming-of-age tale of two brothers named Pedro and Daniel, told from alternating points of view, beginning with the boys' close knit childhood with their abusive mother and ending when the brothers are adults. The story centers on growing up Mexican American, Catholic, and gay in Ohio and all the conundrums, both funny and heart-breaking, that ensue as they navigate a confusing mix of homophobia, racism, colorism both within their own families and in the community at large while trying to pursue their dreams. The writing is relatable and compelling, and I especially found the dichos (i.e. parables or aphorisms) woven throughout the story a fascinating addition to the story!
(Review of Advanced Reader Copy received free from the author)
The stories shared by Pedro and Daniel are both heartbreaking as well as inspirational. Their bond is unbreakable not only have they gone through their own traumas as well as shared ones but they support and help each other through their healing journeys. Absolutely loved it!! Thank you Federico Erebia for sharing yours and your brothers stories and dichos in such an inspirational and wonderful book! ❤️
Lyrical and memorable, heart-wrenching but not hopeless, filled with so much love, a different kind of novel that I look forward to holding in my hands. Reading the e-ARC (thank you, NetGalley) wasn’t enough — this is one of the rare books that I will read again. The writing is just really simple and poignant. It would be a great novel for writing study as well, to look at capturing experience and emotion using simple language and short chapters that can stand on their own. This is a novel for adults as well as teens.
Pedro & Daniel broke my heart with its portrayal of an abusive mother, colorism, homophobia, and the cover-ups of the Catholic church. At the same time, Pedro & Daniel lifted my spirits with the brothers' distinct personalities, resilience, hope, and indomitable brotherly love. It's a stirring LGBTQIA+ novel for the ages.
This is a beautifully written and emotion evoking book. Erebia masterfully relays the tale of two brothers and their unbreakable bond through overwhelming hardship. Regardless of your background or experiences you will find yourself connecting with this deeply moving book.
‘Pedro and Daniel’ is a heart wrenching and joy-filled tale of two brothers anchoring each other through unfathomable hardship. The story is beautifully crafted. Erebia’s artful use of poetry, dichos (proverbs), and shifts in POV explores issues of domestic abuse, colorism, homophobia, and racism with captivating rawness and introspection. In so many ways, the story is tumultuous; but when I finished, I felt a soft breeze. For me, the gift of ‘Pedro and Daniel’ is its hopefulness. Thank you to Federico Erebia for sharing his story.
This story was the perfect mix of love and overcoming generational hardship. I often found myself relating to many topics of the book especially since the city I grew up in has such a large Hispanic and Mexican influenced culture. When I started to get into the book I became drawn to both Pedro and Daniel and seeing how their bond was shaped by their family and each other, it was an aspect of this book that I really appreciated. I closed out 2022 reading this book and I hope that everyone will pick up this book it was so good and if I could leave more then five stars I would. You won't be disappointed with this amazing read. P.s the cover is just sooo gorgeous!
Wow, it's hard to know what to say about this book. One of the most beautiful, moving, gentle, fierce, uplifting and heartbreaking books I've read for a long time. I won't try to make comparisons because I haven't read anything like this before. The narrative takes place over decades and charts the story of two brothers (one of whom represents the author - the book is part novel and part memoir, which makes it even more poignant) with the odds seemingly stacked so high against them they can't be overcome, from an abusive mother to a brutal disease. But through it all what comes shining across is the love they have for each other, which gives them the resistance and the resilience to battle on. Tender, funny, deep, and unforgettable, I would recommend this book to anyone.
Pedro & Daniel is a moving, raw, lyrical, and heartbreaking story based on real events about two Mexican neurodivergent gay brothers growing up into adulthood.
While reading, there were moments when tears shimmered in my eyes and angry flames burned themselves through my body, but most of the time I kept those boys at bay as much as possible. That was on me, not on the book. When I started reading this stomach-churning YA, I wasn’t in the right headspace. The structure of the story, a dual narrative, third and first-person writing, sometimes written in verse, poetic and simple at the same time, covering years and years, did something to me I can’t even describe in words. So I decided to pause reading after a quarter of the book and only picked it up three months later. I read on and on, but somehow I couldn’t get into the story anymore, so I decided to DNF at 42%. Like I said, this is me, definitely not the book. I might pick it up in the future again.
If you love gritty and touching stories, I’d definitely recommend reading this one!
I received an ARC from Levine Querido and Edelweiss in exchange for an honest review.
Readers, prepare for impact. This book will make a lasting home in your brain after both breaking and reinforcing your heart. It's a real roller coaster.
The titular Pedro and Daniel are brothers growing up in the 1970s, and while they are extremely different from each other in some critical ways, they are also both neurodivergent, queer, and the victims of their surroundings: particularly but not exclusively a very tough to read mother and a system of organized religion that simultaneously does not accept them and exposes them to all kinds of harm. Though both boys face countless and varied challenges throughout their young and then adult lives, the running thread is their commitment to each other. Readers need this relationship as much as the characters do to keep them going.
This is an intriguing piece of historical fiction focusing on queer experience in the '70s and '80s, especially. There are many TWs that come with this one, and a quick review of the book's description will provide the necessary info for readers to make informed decisions. Additionally, since readers go through the preteen and teen years with these boys, they should be prepared for some degree of introspection about bodies, sex, sexuality, and, well, mechanics. These characters are written authentically, so they really ponder a lot on the page when it comes to these subjects.
The narration of the audiobook is top notch and further enraptures readers in these characters' moving experiences. I recommend the audio version when and where accessible, and I'm grateful that this was not just an available read for me but also that it was my first of Pride Month. I'll be recommending this one to students for a long time.
*Special thanks to NetGalley and Recorded Books for this alc, which I received in exchange for an honest review. The opinions expressed here are my own.
In a time where this country seems to be moving backwards this book is of utmost importance. If you love someone that identifies as LGBTQIA+ and/or neurodivergent this book is a must to understand what we go through/think/feel growing up. If you plan to have a child, please remember they did not ask to be in this world so love them unconditionally for who they truly are. I loved these two boys so much and wanted so much to just take them and tell them they’re beautiful just the way they are. Federico, thank you for this gift. The wit, the love, the sass, the beauty, the tears. An absolute treasure.
A long, satisfying novel. I appreciated the depth of so many topics: gay brotherhood, colorism within a Mexican American family, a gay teen's sense of his own body, coming into adulthood, and the way proverbs can become refrains over the course of a life. It includes discussions of abuse and anticipating death, but it's an inviting read in other senses. I received a free advance copy on NetGalley. I posted a few comments on Medium (unpaywalled link).
2.5 stars. It was fine really. Nothing wildly exciting or life changing. I enjoyed reading the storyline and growing up with the characters. I didn’t dislike my experience, but I was never really looking forward to continue reading.
It was very very surface level and we never really got many details of the stuff we wanted. The ending was also very abrupt with no resolution or anything.
Probably would not recommend unless your reader fits the specific identities of the MCs.
A beautiful tribute to the author's brother. Pedro & Daniel is a moving portrait of enduring familial love. The novel carefully explores difficult themes of child abuse, sexual exploitation by the Catholic church, and the tragedy of the AIDS pandemic. Each beat hits hard but reflects thoughtfully on the lived experience that inspired these fictional accounts.
I was lucky enough to pick up a signed copy at East End Books in Boston. Honored to have read Erebia's story, and I'm looking forward to his graphic novel!
Told in an unusual and experimental mixture of forms, this is above all a story of brotherly love and a bond between two brothers, forged during a difficult childhood. The first chapter is touching and surprising and enough to hook the reader into following the siblings’ through the many pages that take us on through their life journey. I am always delighted to discover books with kind male leads and this is one of them. I also was delighted to see Spanish mixed in unapologetically with English. I’m rooting for this book to get a Stonewall honor.
Pedro and Daniel, two Mexican American brothers growing up in 1970s northern Ohio, are both out of step with the rest of their large family. Pedro, darker skinned like his father, grapples with a stutter and constant abuse from his mother, while gregarious Daniel enjoys playing with dolls and makeup -- and both are gay in a Catholic family. And while Pedro grows up to become a doctor and Daniel studies to be a priest, they both struggle to live authentically as gay men in a world rife with homophobia and the fear of HIV and AIDS.
This powerful book, occasionally laced with poetry, Spanish dichos (proverbs), and illustrations (by Julie Kwon), is based on the author's relationship with his brother Daniel who died in 1993 at the age of 30. It is utterly heartbreaking in the relentless depiction of abuse and colorism demonstrated by the boy's mother and the impact such physical and emotional violence had in their lives. While I would rather read stories that celebrate how far we've come in supporting our LGBTQ+ community, the increased pushes for anti-gay and anti-trans legislation right now make it necessary that we don't forget stories like these that show the pain, fear, and lack of acceptance that so many queer children and adults still face.
It may take the reader a little time to adjust to the shifting voices in the book -- the first part is all told in 3rd person, and after that the story alternates between Pedro's and Daniel's POVs, with the first few chapters reflecting their younger ages and less well-developed storytelling -- but I think it adds to the immediacy of the story and the lives of these two boys. Some passages may feel a little info-dumpish, especially the on-the-train conversation between the brothers about the then-state of medical understanding of HIV and potential treatments, but they do provide useful information for the narrative.
Achingly beautiful and melancholic. I wish we could go back to the 1970s and 1980s and do better by our LGBTQ+ brothers and sisters. Four stars.
TW: child abuse (physical and emotional), domestic violence, bullying, homophobia, colorism, racism, death (off page), depictions of illness
Thank you, Levine Querido/Chronicle Books and NetGalley, for providing an eARC of this book. Opinions expressed here are solely my own.
I'm honored to review PEDRO AND DANIEL by Federico Eberia. There is such an emotional rawness to Eberia's story. I love how Pedro and Daniel's personalities come alive throughout the text. It feels like you are there alongside them, experiencing each moment and emotion as they do. Their bond is so heartfelt and heartbreaking simultaneously. You can feel the differences as they explore their identities and navigate the emotional and physical abuse they felt within their own family.
The boys' journey within the text begins at age five, and the reader follows them into adulthood. Erebia does a beautiful job of creating an authentic voice for each that expands from childhood to adulthood.
PEDRO AND DANIEL is an important story that will resonate with many young readers! There are so many children this story will make an impact upon. I believe in the windows and mirrors mentality that not only should children see children with different upbringings to their own, but also stories that might reflect their own experiences. As a child of divorce with mixed heritage, I frequently felt out of place with little sense of belonging. I often felt shame about my past, and stories like PEDRO AND DANIEL inspire me to celebrate my roots and experiences with the world. Pedro and Daniel's tale echoed deeply with me and reminded me that every childhood experience is valid and deserving of a story that should be shared with the world.
First of all, I would like to thank NetGalley for providing me an e-ARC of Pedro and Daniel.
Pedro and Daniel centers on two gay Mexican-American brothers who were raised in a Catholic house set during the 1960s to the 1990s. Despite the fact that the two brothers have quite different personalities, they both battle with homophobia, colorism, and abuse from their mother since she continues to hold them both to unattainable standards.
While the other wants to be a doctor, one of the brothers wants to be a priest. They vary in that one has steadfast convictions and rarely questions much in life, while the other is enquiring. This has a significant impact on the plot because the HIV and AIDS epidemic will ultimately be the main source of conflict, and the way they looked on things will drastically change.
Character-driven stories are always hit or miss for me, but this one is clearly a hit. Reading the book was a lot like going through their thoughts. Despite the similarities between the brothers, it is clear which brother's perspective you are reading from. You watch them develop as two young brothers, drift away, and ultimately come together to battle the epidemic. Be aware that there is no romance in this book; yet, prepare to shed many tears because this is such a tearjerker.
Holy genre-defying heck! This book is incredibly tender. You will fall in love with these two boys and even more so with their profound love for one another. You will feel all the feels. I sure did.
For a debut novel, I was most impressed with Erebia’s ability to build and masterfully deploy two distinct voices - one of Pedro and one of Daniel. If I had missed a chapter heading, I would have been able to tell which POV we were in solely based on the writing style. I truly felt I was inside each of their minds. Well done!
A few other things I loved: - The inclusion and deployment of dichos. They were deeply special to the story.
- The clear intentionality behind what Spanish was followed by an English translation.
- Well-narrated audiobook. I opted to both listen and read along for the majority as I do think solely listening would have been more difficult to discern the translations as a non-bilingual reader.
- The full circle use of “my one true treasure”.
- The impact-focused inclusion of major trigger warnings with appropriate resources printed inside the cover. Other authors: take note!!!
TLDR: Well-written, smart, and impactful novel. This book making it into the world is a thoughtful, beautiful tribute to Jesús Daniel and will be undoubtedly powerful in the hands of teens & adults who can see themselves in these pages.
Beautiful and heart-wrenching, PEDRO AND DANIEL shares the stories of brothers who live through abuse that no one should ever experience. PEDRO AND DANIEL is a story of spelling bees and schisms, and a childhood where laying low, keeping your hope hidden, and minimizing your true-self is an act of self-preservation. PEDRO AND DANIEL is also a tribute to love, resilience, joy, acceptance, hope, and the bond and legacy of brotherhood. The childhood of the brothers is detailed from a third-person point of view and allows us to quickly fall in love with Pedro and Daniel and invest in their lives and journey. As they grow into adults, the point of view becomes first-person alternating between the brothers, providing a more intense and intimate narrative that feels as if we’ve been given access to the diaries of each brother. The Spanish proverbs/dichos and glorious quilt of cover illustrations and art by Julie Kwon epitomize key moments and propel us though the story, allowing the reader to both grieve and rejoice with and for PEDRO AND DANIEL. PEDRO AND DANIEL is a book whose characters speak to and stay with me long after the final page. I am grateful for the opportunity to have read and then share my ARC.
Pedro and Daniel is a heartbreaking tale of two brothers facing emotional and physical abuse inflicted on them by their mother as well as societal discrimination. Pedro and Daniel are two gay Mexican-American brothers who are near opposites in personality yet have such a strong, beautiful bond. The book follows their lives as they grow from boyhood to adulthood and build a community of loving friends and found family. Be prepared to laugh and cry as you take this journey with Pedro and Daniel.
I thought that this book was just the perfect way to kick off my 2023 to be read list. I had so much joy reading this book it teleported me to a whole new world and I went on a rollercoaster of emotions from crying to laughing and smiling all the way. This book will stay with me for a while and I just can't stop thinking about both Pedro and Daniel. Do yourself a favor and pick up a copy of this book!
Oh my heart! Friends, do yourself a favor and grab a box of tissues when you’re reading the book. The rawness and vulnerability in these pages had me… I was a MESS!! I loved the Latinx and Queer representation in this book and I’m sure y’all will too! It’s out tomorrow June 6th, and I encourage you to check it out then🤗
Pedro & Daniel is a debut book which delves into the lives of brothers Pedro and Daniel. Theirs is a story of pain, hardship, hope and resiliency. There is homophobia, colorism, mentions of abuse by a parent, and other sensitive topics. So please take care of yourself as you walk with Pedro and Daniel in their story. Not to sound dramatic, but their bond as brothers is beautiful to behold🥹
I’m so grateful to @hearourvoicestours and @levinequerido for this copy and allowing me a spot on the tour!
𝔽𝕒𝕧𝕠𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕖 𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕖𝕤: ✨ I have confirmed mom’s kryptonite is a fear of abandonment, of left alone. There is a morose irony in her behavior that drives people away, beats people away, and culminate in her fears coming to reality ✨ We each should decide what kind of relationship we want to have with mom (BRUHHH😭) ✨ I have to wonder what still happens inside Pedro’s head. The controlled chaos of his thoughts, demons, fears, desires. He has a fortress of a protective shell around him that admits no one. Inside, there must be the scared and abused little kid. Just trying to survive at all. Still, after all these years. ✨ Sólo se sabe que nunca se sabe
“Pedro & Daniel”, a heartbreaking but inspiring story of two brothers coming-of-age in a cruel world in the 1970s. More touching yet, the author loosely based the story on his and his brother’s lives.
Both brothers realize early on that they’re gay and their mother torments and humiliates them about it, they endure all the cruelty inside their home and in the world because of their unbreakable bond.
Main themes of the novel are coming-of-age as an LGBTQ+ youth without zero support from family. Another major theme is Mexican culture which tbh is what drew me in at first before I knew what the novel was about.
Representation in literature has an immeasurable impact on our youth and it’s books like these, that for so long went unwritten, that will provide teens with a ray of hope that they are not alone.
Like Pedro, I too “secretly feel sorry for everyone in the whole wide world who hasn't been to Mexico.”
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