I've rarely encountered a work that merges practical wisdom with such profound philosophical depth as Janusz Korczak's "How to Love a Child" (איך לאהוב ילד). The Polish-Jewish pediatrician, educator, and children's author crafts not merely a manual on child-rearing but an impassioned manifesto advocating for children's rights and dignity in an era when they were routinely silenced. Korczak's prose vibrates with lived experience—drawn from his decades running Warsaw orphanages where he implemented his revolutionary child-centered approach. His perspective feels strikingly modern despite being written primarily between 1914-1918, as he challenges readers: "You say children are the future, but when do they live? Not tomorrow, but today."
The text moves gracefully between meticulous observation and soulful reflection, documenting children's behaviors with a scientist's precision while interpreting their inner worlds with a poet's sensitivity. Korczak presents striking case studies drawn from his orphanage: the child who steals bread not from hunger but from fear of tomorrow's uncertainty; the seemingly defiant boy whose rebellion masks his desperate need for affirmation; the quiet girl whose silence contains multitudes. He tackles moments of crisis—a midnight fever, an outbreak of theft, a violent argument—revealing how adults consistently misread children's motivations. "Children are not the people of tomorrow," he writes, "but people today. They have a right to be taken seriously, and to be treated with tenderness and respect." The revolutionary notion that children deserve autonomy permeates every page, exemplified by his orphanage's child court system where peers judge infractions according to their own understanding of justice.
Reading Korczak feels like conversing with someone who has truly seen children—not as incomplete adults or vessels for adult ambition, but as complex beings navigating an incomprehensible world constructed without their consent. The experience is bittersweet, tinged with the knowledge that the author's ultimate expression of his philosophy came when he accompanied his orphans to Treblinka in 1942, refusing offers of personal rescue. This educator who taught children to value human dignity demonstrated it until his final breath.
For contemporary readers grappling with questions of educational philosophy, child development, or simply seeking to understand the small humans in their care, Korczak's century-old insights sparkle with relevance. His words—simultaneously practical and transcendent—remind us that truly loving a child means respecting their personhood while acknowledging the asymmetry of power that inevitably exists between adult and child. It's this delicate balance, this pedagogical tightrope walk between protection and freedom, that Korczak illuminates with unmatched clarity and compassion.
המהדורה שקראתי יצאה ב1963 בהוצאת הקיבוץ המאוחד והיא רק בת 160 עמודים.